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Long term relationship split

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My Girlfriend finished with me on Sat because she has been feeling that she wants to be alone, she says she still has feelings for me it just the feeling to alone is stonger. Just last week we had some good times and we made love to each other and it felt special and I know she felt it to as you can just tell by the kissing. She told me she loves me loads. And now this has happened its hard to take. We have been together for over 5 and a half years so its really hard to now have nothing! I asked her if she hopes she will miss me so much that she will want me back and the wanting to be on her own feeling will go and she said yes but only time will tell. Obviously she doesn't want to have to do this really she just thinks its for the best. I need advice on what I can do now as im finding it hard to cope with, she is constantly on my mind! I have text her telling her how i feel etc and she has text me back now and then which helps me feel that little bit better. In the last messages she said she cant handle all the messages at the moment and its not fair on either of us to be analysing everything, she just needs to be alone. I don't know what to do!

Long term relationship split

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she obviously wants to be alone luv, so leave her alone and move on with your life. Live your own life, not hers...

Long term relationship split

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Yeh cj's right. But you don't have to completly leave her alone. A "hi how are you?" every so often doesn't hurt anybody. Just try to keep your emotional feelings away from her just now. You have a career? You could use it as a distraction and your ex could be someone you want to impress (turning negatives into motives). Am sure one day she will come back to you. Just keep cool. You havnt lost everything yet until you've lost yourself.

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