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Getting bored?

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Okay ive been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years, we are both young i know but in my opinion that doesn't add to my problem... we've defiantly had more exciting and more boring times in the relationship, its changed a lot and i know that's normal! We have had several phases of coming back into the 'honeymoon period' etc. But now something is different, i recently came out of quite a severe depression and a lot of anxiety in which i withdrew from every part of my life including my boyfriend.. i am still not completely 'better' oi feel rather numb to the world at times and have became somewhat of an introvert, i prefer my own company to my friends, boyfriends etc. i enjoy spending time with my boyfriend now but i seem to get rather bored and crave my own time after a while.. i get excited to see him if i haven't in a few days but as i said after a couple of days with him i crave my own time. i love him a lot and still see a future with him, i just don't understand why i can't tolerate too much time with any more, is this normal? might it be because i am still healing mentally? Another thing i have noticed is that its not just my boyfriend i cant tolerate after too long, i also get bored with my friends after a couple of consecutive days... i guess i'm just more scared about my boyfriend as i spend more time with him and value our relationship alot... another thing to add.. we havnt been getting out much lately and a lot of our days are spent in front of the telly, something i also get bored of quickly. Is this a normal phase of a relationship? how do i work through this?

Getting bored?

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I think you don't know "Who you are?" Try to be yourself dealing with other's. Dont ever try to act to impress or feel someone special. Just be yourself. Keep 1 thing always in mind "if you are happy then and only then you can make others happy!!!"

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