My boyfriend tells me how much he hates my best friends

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and at first he was really really close with my 2 best friends and we all got on really well. Lately things haven't gone so great, we had a fight and i turned to my 2 friends for help and they spoke to him. Last night he told me how in his opinion they are 'absolute c****', he hates them, they're trying to ruin the relationship, he wants nothing to do with them and he will make it 'very known to them' about how he feels. He also made some very offensive and personal attacks on them. This has hurt me so much, yes he is entitled to feel what he wants about people, but the way he told me and told me how bad they were hurt me so much I haven't been able to stop crying all night. I love them all so very very much but I don't want to hear all this horrible stuff he says about them. How can I tell him this without causing an argument or how do I begin to deal with this? thanks x

First, it's okay to talk with your friends about your feelings. But, when it comes to talking to your boyfriend, you should be the one talking, not your friends. He resents them now. Next, he sounds extremely immature about how he is handling this situation...will this be a happy future? I know you love him but, you must think of the long run...will this be a happy future? Now, you are worried about talking with him because it could cause an argument...will this be a happy future? Don't be afraid to talk. If he can't handle it, than it obviously is something you should think long and hard about continuing...will this be a happy future? By now, I am sure you get the picture and know what question you should be asking yourself. Best of luck to you.

Well to be honest it depends on what type of problems they are causing. Dont play stupid you know girls love to get together and talk shit and if your feeding them only negative thats what your going to get back from them about him. Wether you want to admit it or not eventually it will change your opinion and if he can see this he needs to leave you before he gets to attached and experiences some extremely messed up things. So you need to tell them you dont want to hear bad things about him if you love him and if you cant do that tell them aout the good things he does and try to stay away from the bad things unless its serious and remeber girls are like sharks and they love gossip