Being a fool for love (which is not there)

I have been seeing a 47 yr old man for 4mos now, since the 2nd wk of knowing one another we have been together basically on a daily basis. Last earlier this month it hit me, I found out he had a 7mo old baby, with baby mother issues. To keep this story short, Im still seeing the guy. When we make love it's very intense, the time we spend is very tantalizing, intoxicating, and you would think that WE were in love. I'm starting to see that it's only ME that has fallen in love. Anyhow what he has dome this weekend has really hurt my feelings(once again)! I haven't heard from him in two days, the only reason why he texted me is because I forgot very important information at his house that I needed today. He's not answering my calls and I don't know why. We didn't have a dispute or anything. Im jus tired of being the fool for his love, I really ready to walk away, but my heart won't let me.

When you get a chance to talk to him, talk to him about how you feel. He probably does want a hot/cold relationship, and you should break up with him since you don't. Because your heart will be even more broken if you stay in a relationship where you both want different things.