Open marriages.....

I would like some info/rules for an open marriage. How to start one...my husband and I are interested...hoping to save our marriage.

This is just my opinion, so don't get too mad at me. The thing about an open marriage is that you are inviting more people into your relationship that, in all honesty, don't need to be there. I mean, if you are not on solid ground with your husband now...then adding more people to the issue isn't going to resolve what is going on between the two of you. You might drift apart even further, especially if one of you is more into the idea than the other. I mean, if you really are considering open marriage...then do it because you two have solved all of your problems in your marriage and think you can handle other people in your life. The rules would be between you and your husband...But are you sure you two can handle knowing that you are with other people? I am not here to tell you what decision to make because there are people who are involved in open marriages and it works for them. There are others who have tried it, and it doesn't work. I just think that if you consider it, then it should not be a last resort type of thing.

Just make sure you and your husband are really on the same page. Do you really want this or do you just want a safe way to end it all? I don't think getting started is hard. Just look up swingers clubs in your area. Ask them what the rules are.