Hurting

Between a hystercomy and body insecurities I have lost my sex drive. I try and show my boyfriend I love him other ways to makeup for not being as sexual as he would like me to be but then I find he has been watching porn on his phone which hurts me very much and he knows it hurts me but think there is nothing wrong with it. How do we resolve this

Hey I just registered here and this was the first thread I saw so I thought I would respond. I don't know how serious this relationship is but I would say this is an easy way to find out if he truly loves you if he sticks around and the porn thing well you're going to here every guy say this and that's bc it's true... Every guy watches it, trust me he is not trying to hurt you it's just him being a guy, I know it's hard but I wouldn't worry about that too much. I hope I helped I really do good luck.