A love beyond anything

I've been in a relationship for the past 2 years with a lady who's 20yrs elder to me and is married with a kid, we both love each other a lot, at times both our responsibilities and commitments come in the way that we don't know what to do whether to just let thing go or do something about it. It's just that no matter how many times we fight we just can't leave each other. We don't know what to do, societial challenges her prior commitments I just get so lost and depressed at times with the whole thing please suggest me something...something that would either give me hope it strength.

maybe you should just stop and soul search. you might be sop used to stressing and feeling so negative about everything, the ugly attitudes can blind me so bad sometimes that if anything really positive came my way, I couldn't even see or appreciate it.if by some miracle I did see positive and I started to feel good, I would automatically rip that good feeling right up, and guilt about feeling good was like my pair of scissors. relax, you too like everyone else deserves happiness and good feelings, enjoy them, and cherish the fact that you also have someone in your lifeto share this with. it's real hard for me to do what I just told you do, but if I look at all the b.s. like a comeidian, "jimmy kimmel", would, then honestly, I make myself laugh so hard. true, I have taken a problem so hard, that when I look back, I crack myself up. and I do know that when a person learns how to just let go as little, you can acquire this talent to make another person with sadness in their eyes,feel as good as you do

Kash, can you be more specific than, responsibilities, commitments, prior commitments and societal challenges, and provide prime exammples against each, please? Also, who told you arguments alone are a sign you should leave one another?