I want him back

I was seeing this guy for about 2 months then all of a sudden i found out he went up 2 Manchester to be eith one of my close friends for the weekend. He never told me any of this and neither did she.. i found out that he'd been telling people hes calling it a day with me.. he could have let me know about it though. Now, when ever i see him i just want things to be how they used 2 be more than any thing, i feel like he looks at my m8 more and he texts her 24/7 like he used 2 do with me telling her shes gorgeous, fit, sexy and he wishes he could stay at her house!!!! I couldnt believe it. I am so gutted, ive thought of suicide thats how bad i feel!! i really want him back. The thing that makes it worse is that we all dgo to the same college and see eachother all the time all week. They live very close 2 each other and i live an hour away from him. He tld me he was goin 2 his real home 4 the weekend (last night) and she told me she was goin back to Manchester 4 the weekend yet i find out from one of my best friends about half an hour ago that they went out last night, he went back to her house, stayed the night, got drunk etc!!!! what the hell am i supposed to do?!?! i hate him so much for what he did tome yet i love him so much because i remember him and how he used 2 be with me, which was amazing. i want him back. could any one help me??!! xxxx

I've just read your problem, and I think that you need to speak to him about this one to one. It is difficult to say how you should approach him, because you haven't made it clear from what you said whether you were both serious about each other or not, as in boyfriend - girlfriend, or whether it was more of a casual setup. However, you should probably be really clear about your feelings when you speak to him, hold no grudges against him or your mate, otherwise your emotions will work against you, and you could push them both away. If he is texting your mate all the time, then it is clear where his attention lies... you need to think about ways of attracting him to you. I would also suggest observing the signals your mate is putting out to this guy, because if she isn't that interested in her, then you probably have a good chance of winning him back. If she is returning texts and flirting with him, then, unfortunately I think there may be little you can do to win him back... At the end of the day, if things don't work out between you, there are plenty of other guys out there - trust me on this one! The main issue is the fact that if you decide you can get over him, you are still going to have to deal with the fact that you will see him at college, and maybe even hanging around with your friend which will be tough. Best of luck babe xxx

Question: Why is this girl your friend?? If you was any kid of friend, she wouldn't have done that to you.