Stressed and tired

My boyfriend and I are have financial troubles. We have been living together for 3 years and we both have children from previous relationships. We are on the verge of loosing our home because we got behind in the mortgage. In addition to that, i recently found out that I am going to need surgery while my boyfiend is in a nasty battle with his exwife. We both love each other but lately all we seem to do is argue and the arguing turns into days of us not speaking. Again, we are in another argument and have barely spoken since tues. He tells me that he loves me but that it seems like everything we do, nothing works. I know that if not for the financial problems we would be ok. Because before this we communitcated well. We talked about everything but now it just seems are hard thing to do. I don't know if we just need some space while we are trying to sort things out in our heads or if this is the end. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Try to communicate in a manner where it leads to **discussion**, rather than arguing. While it seems like so much is going on, just take each task **one step at a time** and work your way through it *together*. Do not point fingers, do not make one or the other feel at fault for any of the issues. It can all be worked out! You can still build whatever you feel is at a loss, as long as your partner is willing to work it out with you. Take care, good luck!