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Gf out of rehab and now she wants a break

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My gf of 7 months just went to rehab for 1 month. She was using drugs our entire relationship and i had no clue. Now that she is clean and sober and out of rehab. She is now questioning wheter she can be in a relationship right now. I ve looked past the drug use, the lies and have stuck by her side because 100% i am in love with her and truely care about her.Now she decided she wants to take a break. she wont walk away completely beacuse she feels the same way about me that i do her. I dont know how to deal with the stress and axiety of all this. It is literally beginiing to break me..... any advice. i appreciate any and all input to help me sort through this tough time! Thanks

Gf out of rehab and now she wants a break

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calm down... she feel the same way about you. getting rid of a drug addiction is really hard and stressful, it makes sense she would need a break. deep inside, youre always with her and you should know that. im sure shes telling the truth, and the break will eventually be over and you will be together and happy again. make sure she knows youre always there for her. you know what i think? you dont need to be in a relationship, just because youre in love. you can be friends and love each other just as much. actually, friendships usually last longer. you dont get tired of the same thing over and over again; kiss, hug, cuddle, talk, movies, etc. no gossiping, play fighting, always something sexual. that gets boring. dont worry about it. she loves you, you love her. its all thats important this is what i tell myself when somebody dumps or rejects me. my 2 ex bfs and 1 rejected friend are still my best friends, and i love them like i did before it became more of a sexual love. be possitive.

Gf out of rehab and now she wants a break

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thanks i appreciate your feedback. that def was what i needed to hear. I constantly think what you wrote, but the human mind is a tricky thing and sometimes it races and lets us get away from what the truth really is. The funny thing is you said about the friends thing. we are best friends and i think ultimately thats what i am afraid of losing. You def got me thinking the right way again though. Thank you KOKO

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