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Confused and lonely

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I am currently in a relationship with a man that is a few years older then I am with a two year old daughter. He has several issues in regards to money, a roof over his head, and his family. I have tried to be there for him each step of the way keeping him positive that things will turn out in the end. I offered him to stay at my place and thats where things took a turn for the worse. We started to continuesly argue and one evening it got really bad that I was against a wall being screamed at and threatened that he wanted to slap me. The police were called that evening and now he is renting a bedroom in a friends place. Lately, we have no sex life, and no communication. If I am lucky we speak twice a day. When we do see one another I tend to be continuesly put down. Honestly, I am scared to be alone because I haven't grown up with a father in my life. I know that I am unhappy but I hope for change. I'm confused and feel so lonely.

Confused and lonely

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There is not room for violence in any relationship. It is something that seldom ever gets better unless they get help with their issues. Sounds like you were being nice by offering him a place to stay and he didn't appreciate it. I think he is the one who needs to rethink things. There are other nice men out there that will love you, it's just a matter of time. Tell yourself, YOU DESERVE BETTER!! Don't settle for anyone who doesn't treat you like a queen, and someone that will respect you. Best of luck to you.

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