Why is life so confusing?

why is it that we alwz keep searching for betr options? ignoring the ones we hv at present running behind ppl whom we just cant catch...who r out of our reach...hurting the ones who wan to connect wit us...y does it have to b like " i lv u...u lv rita..rita lvs sam...sam lvs julie...julie lvs tom...n so on..." its just like we r all ovr surrounded by ppl but cudnt even find 1 to live our life wit...each time wen we like sum1, hv a crush on sum1 that person has to have a likin for sum othr person...round n round it goes on... why it has to b ths complicated...why not it is as simple as "i love u ...u love me...lets get married n happily evr aftr.."

When you search out people less complicated with a whole lot less drama, your life becomes less tricky and confusing. Your life sounds like a series of encounters with people who are not grown or emotionally developed to they are less likely to be happy with one person.