He thinks I am not doing anything for our relationship

Well my boyfriend just pointed me that he thinks am not doing anything for him. Both of us are in a very critic financial status now, and he said this relationship will not work like this. I am a college student, so I have only 4 days free on a week including weekends. In my country student jobs are useless cuz the payment is very little. I am a pilates instructor too but I just passed the exams, and it takes time to get a job as an instructor, but he just doesn't understand that. He is working in a fast food restaurent and his dream is to be a football player, but the team he is playing in, is a division 3 team and they doesn't pay anything for the players. I don't know what to do now, shall I quit from this relationship, or try more? We are together for more than 3 years and it was ok, but now... The problem is that I love him and it is very difficult to end it... and I have my plans too I can't give them up for him, but I just don't wanna loose him. I am thinking about what he just said that he would end it becuz I can't help him financially at the moment, so it doesn't sounds like he loves me like I love him... Or is he right? I remember he payed my exam fees and he helped me as he could... I just don't know... help!

The main aspect of a relationship is making one another happy. If his reason for getting out of the relationship is that he doesn't think you support him well financially and giving up that easily, implies he is not very dedicated to your relationship. But with that said, it seems like you have broken up yet, now I don't know how easily he actually will give up, but considering you're still in the relationship he considers it, so it's not a very easy decision for him it seems at any rate. "Shall I quit from this relationship, or try more" That all depends on how much you truly love him. Strive for what makes you happy, but just be prepared for if it just doesn't work out. If you think you won't be able to cope if your relationship ends, I'd say end it sooner rather than later if you think that. The world if full of endless possibilities, you could miraculously get a job the very next day, though that is wishful thinking, but if that gets you through it why not? The best you can really do at this point in staying in this relationship is focus your efforts on finding a job, asking your boyfriend for assistance where needed, if he isn't putting nearly any effort in I'd say he doesn't love you to a great extent that or he has other things more important on his mind. It's never good to jump to conclusions within a relationship, if you do talk it over. "I have my plans too I can't give them up for him" This shows you value your career more than him, but you also value him very close to how much you value your future. With this said if your career will make you happier go down that route. It all comes down to what is important to you? Is he the world to you? Is your future of a significant importance? I wish you the best of luck with this dilemma, and hope this helped or at least made you think about something you otherwise wouldn't have. Good luck! And good day!