Break up and getting back together

hi. me and my girlfriend split up last month. we are wanting to get back together but there are people in the way. these people are family and people we hardly know. we went through a bad patch which caused us to split up. we arearguing day in day out at the moment because of these people. all we wanted was to be together, be happy, and have our first child. we lost our first one and it broke our hearts. there is alot of jealousy from these people, but we don't know why. i am trying everything possible to get back with her but she says yes one day and no the next. all thanks to these people. how do we get around this problem?

i think that you should have a talk with your girlfriend to find out what she really wants -you need to move on with your life and you cant keep putting it on hold waiting for a yes or no from her - fair enough ppl might be in the way but you need to find out if your gfriend is with you or not - if she is then you can face these ppl together and sort out what to do for the best - but you cant sort anything out until you make a commitment to be together