Relationship problems

Where do I start I have been together with my partner for seven years and I love him very much and we have one child together and I have two children from a previous relationship .My partner has had a bad childhood and been brought up in a violent relationship.My partner is on depression tablets because he suffers from aggressive outbursts.I want to be there for him but he doesnt talk to me about how his feeling and he does'nt kiss me he finds it hard to be emotional in that way.I try to talk to him about things and he thinks I am moaning.We have had some arugements that have been very bad and he has been seeing a cousellor which has improve things.I want our relationship to work maybe we should see a cousellor together

sounds like this guy has found him self a cracking loving women that also needs most to say this email to him, the most commen fault in a 2k relationship is.... talking, without verbal contact love will never blosom