In love... no hope but can't give up

hiee.. i joined this new office some 6 months back and a guy was assigned to help me get acquainted with d job profile for10 days approx. Have no clue wen and how it cropped up, i started liking this guy and being a straightforward person i told him about this. His reaction was normal but he said sorry as he already had sm1 in his lyf. I felt terribly bad but hid my feelings and cried whole night long. i thought i shud respect his relationship and decided not to try any further and thought i shall get over him in another 3-4 months. To mie own surprise, though i tried every possible way to maintain distance from this guy so that i dont get hurt, i kept getting more and more inclined in this one sided love thing & i feel i can't look back now. Jst in between, he shared once that he had some issues going in his love life as his girlfriendz (who is with him from last 7 years) familyz not accepting their relationship. Had a clue, that she broke up with him but not very sure. i want to pursue him bt with no hope from his end itz painful. he is heck of an introvert, nt available on any of the socialising sites, phones , messages for even his oldest friends so communication with him is limited to official chores. as its tearing me apart, my work performance is getting terrible day day to an extent of losing the job. he shall also be resigning from this job in a month or 2 so m even more depressed about losing even single connect that exists. he seemz distant and cold to mie feelings, though is too nice helpful but i am still into him. never thot for me a one sided thing could last for 6 months still rendering me wanting to pursue it.d only help i hv got frm a fren on this so far is counselling to get him out of my mind bt...as i said i have decided to pursue it evn if means waiting frever. I love him dats mie only problem ... P.S. please dont suggest me to try get over him,

If you love him so much, show that you care for him. Get into his inner feelings. Show that you cannot live without him. He'll realise that the person whom he truly likes is you. Good luck. Don't give up no matter what. :)

i owe so much to u fr bein d only one so far to giv a positv nod to mie feelings instead of ridiculin \'em. atleast sm1 out dere undrstud.. He is not at ol into me though; nd i wont evr be clingy to suffocate him ... but i crtainly wont try to push him outta mie mind..he ll stay :) my quest fr that sm1 ended up at him

hey hie Anonymous.. atyaa and Star are d same

Well you could start by gaining a grasp on the english language when it comes to posting a problem. Because if that's the way you would normally verbalise yourself in day to day conversation, then no wonder he doesn't want a bar of you.