Husband's on holiday

Hi there, My husband and I have been narried for 15 years but for the last year have been living sometimes together / sometimes apart. I desperately want my husband back and have tried everything but he is more interested in living the single life in the city, womanising and drinking. We have a young son. I try to keep away from texting or ringing him as we always end up fighting and I can tell I come across as desperate and needy which is not attractive. My problem is that I would like some advice on keeping calm. My husband has gone on holiday and I am quite sure it is with another woman. This really hurts me because although we are 'separated' I still feel a lot for him. I feel irrationally angry although this has nothing to do with me. He didn't tell me he was going and it is hurting me because he was always too tight to take me on holiday and also the fact that he has gone with someone else. I know he is away because of the ring tone. Can anyone give me advice on how to calm down over this and not get so wound up. All I can think about is them having funand it's driving me bonkers.

hi. maybe you dont want to hear this but i think it is perfectly natural for you to feel angry about this situation, so i suggest that you dont bottle it up and find someone or some people that you can vent your frustration with!! also, perhaps it is your turn to have some fun either with your friends or with another man! GOOD LUCK X