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3 Days ago my partner of 12 months said that she didnt want to carry on our relationship. However on Tuesday night she texted me to say that she loved me and wanted a future with me. I have texted her a couple of times since but she hasnt replied. She recently got her divorce papers finallised on Tuesday last week, maybe this has effected her i dont know. Can anyone help me with this, do i leave her alone and contact her in a few days or weeks. I love her very much and up until Tuesday she said she loved me, to the point where she called me wonderful a week ago. Iam very confused at the moment

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texting is not a way to build a relatinship. If you love her and want to be with her go and see her personally. She is probably all over the place because of the divorce. Just because shes down about it doesnt mean that shes not happy its probably just a reminder of the way it went wrong that might be why shes suddenly scared?

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I want to see her but i feel that might make things worse so soon after she wanted to finish the relationship. If feel if i go round without telling her she might get more distant. We were suppose to be going to concert next week, what if i write a letter explaining my feelings and saying i still want to go the concert with her.

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dont write a letter no its just irretreivable i know i did that years ago and i still cringe at the thought of it promise me you cant get it back once its in the post cos the slats too small for your hand. In this sort of situation i always think what would i do if it was my pal? and try to forget about them being the opposite sex.you say that you dont want to make it worse for who? you want her back? you have to telephone her (it works us girls cave eventually) you could call and say chirpily how are you? are you dealing with the divorce? then let her talk and say look about the concert if your not feeling like going out just now il understand i know it must be hard for you.il take a mate mention a guys name here so she doesnt feel shes being quickly replaced. girls dont like that. then you could say look im here for you if you want to talk we could meet up? you could even do that in min i version on an answering machine? of course if it is a machine call back again

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