Partner phoning sex lines

I found out through a larger than normal bill that my partner has been phoning sky sex lines for about a year. i run the account and it has cost me about £305. (I had no reason to check this before) as i have online bills and just never bothered...i feel like ive been 2 timed and ive paid for it. He denied it was him lol as if its a billing error. I am really hurt and the thought of him talking to these women telling them stuff about us even maby while i was in the house is so upsetting. then he tried to put his arm around me and i said get off of me (as i hardly felt like cuddly) and he said "see thats why you always push me away".....dont know what to do.....apart from dump him

Well i can understand why you feel like you do. I would ask him why he feels he needs to go on the sex lines. If you love him then, give him an ultimatum, stop using these sex lines, or you will leave him. A quick cuddle doesnt make what he did alright.

thanks manclad. he saying he doesnt go on them its a mistake in the bill and "oh i guess im getting the blame for this" lol what a big child i said "will i call the police then because i must be getting defrauded but i think even the police will want to interview you???" he said "yeh"i even said why cant you just admit it? I knew it was him but when he tried to say it was my fault i was like no! thats just ridiculous! lol im the one that always says " you coming up to bed?" i thought he was up watching films..as you do.....not talking to "Tonisami" and "suckimeme"

A mistake, thats the worse excuse he could use. I could understand if he came out and admitted that he had a problem, but to still lie after all the opportunities you have given him is unbelievable.