Ex bf! ex bf! ex bf!!!?? ASAP (preferably men's point of view)

Hello, Hope you will help me to understand and advice me what to do next. Me and my ex were together for 3 years & lived together for 2 years, split up last december but still lived together until last month. It was his decision to split up, because he said he wasn't in love with me anymore. In the last few months living together without being an item were difficult at the begining but it was ok with time, we were having dinner together, cinema al his ideas.. but just like housemate. 2 days before i move out, he was very emotional, very thoughtfull.... On the actual day of the move, he sad down with me to have a chat, he started crying... saying that he was always be tere for me if i need anything, he didn't realise that he still has strong feelings me, how great our relationship was, how he thinks he made that decision in december under stress... he even tried to tell me to cancel the moving van.... I said, we will keep in touch, but we just need to live in separate plcs for now. After the move we kept in touch, texting, he even text once that he wishes i was there... 2 weeks ago, (3 weeks after i moved out) he text me: I have sort of met someone, but i still want us to be cool. I am devasteded, hurt... very upset. Men, what is this? I need your help!! Of course I still want him back, specially after the open chat we had. Is this girl just a company/rebund? Can they get serious? shall i contact him yet and ask for is going on? shall i leave him enjoy the new company for now? Thank you for all your replies.

From a male point of view you have to be open & honest with your feelings for him. Perhaps he felt rejection when you moved out??? I know from my point of view I would respect someone who explained their feelings for me. If there is something there he will respond...if he doesn't then you can move on with the knowledge that you tried & end your torment. Hope this helps