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Hi, please guide me what to do.My boyfriend is sending messages to one of my friends that he wants to be friends with her and that he is attracted to her etc. My friend showed me his messages that he sent in her facebook inbox.(she sent me a jpg image of those messages) Here I would mention few things. Me and my friend recently had a quarrel and we are not on talking terms with each other, still she says she has warned me against my BF. Secondly, my boyfriend met her only once when I introduced them 3 months ago. Thirdly, me and my boyfrind are planning to get married in November. Fourthly,This friend of mine is twice divorced and has a six years old son too. Now what I feel is it may be true that he has sent her messages and it may not be true. I am in a fix. I don't know what to do. Shall I talk to him? shall I break up? what should I do? P.S.He is abroad and coming back in 20 days. (we are muslim by faith) Please guide me how to behave in such a situation. Thanks.

my boyfriend attracted to my friend

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Hi Meena. I personally think you should talk to your boyfriend first. So that he can give his version of why and if he sent her the messages. Give him a change to explain. If you guys are planning to get married you should now him in side out. So you would know if he is lying. But don't let him fool you. Marriage is for ever so make sure before hand so that its not to late on a later stage. And remember other girls can be jealous of you and tell you things that is not true. But if your friend is right you have to act on it.

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