Suspicion

Hi i got married nearly 13 years back. It was an arranged marriage. Before getting married i asked her if she was involved with anyone.she denied and she was crying very badly as i made allegations . i consoled her that it was very normal now a days. Before one week of our marriage a person 10 years older than me and my wife came to me and introduced himself that he knew my wife and told me that she was not worth for me. Earlier she was involved with him and betrayed him. And added that he was married person and nothing to do with her and gave me a letter written by my wife which was addressed to him. I went through that letter and found that only advice was given to that person that he should get marry soon and as she finished her studies she must now think about her career. But that person admitted that they togather had everything in the hotel, and she was expert in sucking.this made me suspicious. And coincided with one incident happened before meeting this man.once we had visited my friends house and we got chance to stay togather. After kissing her i unzipped my pant but she never hesitated to suck it . still i am confused .she sworned that nothing happened between them. Now we are happily married and she always remain busy taking care of me and my children. She said that it is her hard luck that nobody believe her blame goes upon her. Now a days one of my friend who lived in different place came to meet me. I introduced to my wife and children. My friend is a bachelor and well built up. He happened to stay with us. My friends show good hospitality. As my house is small i allowed my friend to sleep in our double bed with my son i and my wife had to sleep in a single bed bit difficult to adjust. My friend is well mannered and taking great care to my son.my wife also liked him very much. Gradually he liked to come to our place and we started going to mall and watch movies.when he stay with us the environment of my home changes. Sometimes my friend asked me my my neighbors said anything against him. I said him no as i am somewhat reserved type.most of the leisure time i discussed about him with my wife she also viewed him positively my wife is now frank with me ( i believe). One day my friend met an accident. My wife pleaded to visit him and accordingly we visited him as his relatives are staying in different state and he didnot inform them. My wife feeded him barley which she prepared for him at that time my friend stared at me if i was angry. She also powdered in his back . i did not find anything wrong as he was a patient and admitted in hospital. But while coming back from there i said she is lucky for getting a husband like me. She also thanked me a lot for allowing her .she said that she behaved with him like this because she is taking him as her brother. They were having conversation in mobile. But she told me everything what they had talked. One friend was transferred to different place so we again planned to visit him in his new place.but aone moth he called my wife in her mobile that again he was transferred to his earlier post and also said not to disclose to me as he would come to our place and surprised me . my wife told me all this and told me to pretend as if i did not know anything about it, after that when he visited our place in the noon time i was showing photos to him from my laptop he was sitting right very close to me. My wife was standing behund us . he was swinging his left hand and touched her body, twice or thrice.she moved back away from us .later at first she denied but when i said reflection was coming in the laptop i clearly saw this then she admitted. When my friend and my son was sleeping during day time she asked me if she could sleep beside our son i said her to sleep as she was tired . after 15 mnts, she hurriedly came to my room when i asked her she said nothing . in order to test her i asked her if she could sleep during night time she said that how she could ask such questions to him he would feel bad and would never come to our place. But at night time before going to sleep she said that he had agreed her to sleep with them . i inquired when she had asked her after taking dinner my friend said if your hubby allowed then he did not have any objection. I told her i could sleep well tonight as it is difficult to sleep for both of us. I could not sleep the the entire night. Thrice i went to toilet to see the position how they were sleeping. But found it ok. In order to test her i said that while going to toilet i had to pass that room and found them hugged keeping our son in the middle. But denied everything. I again said that she was not wrong as she was fast asleep. Still she found difficult to believe that my friend did intentionally. But this was not true .i only wanted to find the ground reality. One thing is for sure she enjoyed discussing about him. And liked everything whatever he likes . now please advice what type of relationship is this . sometimes my wife is alone with him while my son is at school and i am in the office. What do u think of it .

speak clearly to your wife and ask her this,its no use suspecting,ask the guy to leave and take marriage counseilling together for a good marriage