Need help with my relationship

I have been dating my boyfriend for the last 5years.recently I learnt that he had cheated on me for a short period of time with some chic and he had stopped seeing her. about the same time he found out that I was ommiting on telling him that his best friend had being making moves on me which was about 5years ago but he didnt achieve what he wanted. His best friend also was trying for the last 5years to break us up.we (my boyfriend and I) decided no matter what both of us did or didnt do we were going to stay and deal with our issues...4months down the line,he say that now he doesnt care,believes half of what I am telling him.and he doesnt know where we stand....but the confusing thing is he is still talking to me,still spending time with me but he doesnt want to talk about our relationship.I completely love this guy and I would want to mend things with him...what should I do?

ei GGG05.. somehow i been in a situation similar to the one you have. i have been chatting with a girl i was previously courting (but now we are purely friends) but it was for academic purposes when my girlfriend read the conversation in my facebook account, she then told me that a guy has been making moves on her but she does not entertain him at all. so what i did was i met up with her and told her that the way i see it, trust is a core factor in all relationships. if ever you will talk to him, just be honest to one another. peace!!