Am I being selfish or unreasonable?

I am a 20 year old female. I believe I really try in bed wear different little outfits and make sure he is pleased every time even have sex just for him what ever he wants to do. But is it so wrong that I would like to have sex once be all about me I would still please him cause I enjoy that that myself. But what I mean about me is that I would like for him to please me and make me cum in bed and not myself like I do every time if am able to sometimes am not turned on enough to. I have never came with a guy but they never really mattered but since am dating this one for sometime. I just see him cum and that look of satisfaction and pleasure cross his face and body I want to feel this for myself and fall asleep after sex because it was so good is that wrong? Most of the time when he is done its done I have to ask if I can make myself come cause I need is help too but I feel weird asking. I have no idea what to do of even how to talk to him about this but I feel selfish and unreasonable for this.

Dear Eva - YOU are NOt being selfish!!! But someone is! How many lovers have you had? Never an orgasm during foreplay or sex? How long have you been with this young man? Is he important enough to you to be honest with him OR to be brutally honest with him and tell him he is a lousy lover, thoughtless and he has a little d-ck! (And dump him!) I believe you should move on Eva - no woman needs a lover who is so inept or selfish! I personally do not care if you have to bed 50 males to find one who is concerned enough about his partner to be sure she orgasms! I have had many lovers - but the first time was enough to be able to tell if he was considerate enough for a second time! DO NOT feel guilty! I never would ask, I feel if I need to ask then I need to move on! Good luck! "Move along, move along - nothing to see here." Keep looking! Don't give up - hes out there.

I have talked to him and he says he wants to make me cum but he also says it could be just the fact am not sexually matured yet most women don't reach till there 30. I have been with a total of 10 men including him and I want to try and work this out. I just feel so selfish telling him I need more attention and more in bed to get me there. But something he puts me so close to the edge but he ends and I usually and unable to complete cause he done and that means sex is over. I just don't know how to talk to him about this. But I feel selfish too which makes it hard for me to say.

Thank You WHATSUP for your input.

Dear eva the fact that you think women dont reach sexual maturity till 30 is dead wrong. You reched that when you reached puberty. I am a man and i make sure my woman reaches climax at least three times before i even try. The great thing about women is they seem to have an endless supply of orgasms. This guy is just a selfish person. If you care about him talk to him otherwise there are alot of caring men out there. Good luck