My husband doesnt trust me

my husband is very insecure and doesnt trust me because of it and our marriage is going down hill fast. we fight 24/7 and have no form of communication and cant even have fun together. I'm afraid its going to start affecting our little kids because all we do is fight. I dont know what else to do

I'm sorry, but it is already affecting your little kids if you are fighting 24/7. You don't seem very optimistic for your marriage, so it's best to take your children to better environment asap if that's possible...family, relatives, friends? Have you any idea why your husband is insecure? There should be professional help and counseling available for you, him and your young family.

Its hard to be optimistic when someone hasnt trusted u in years for no reason at all. I have no clue why he is so insecure. I have never cheated on him or anything. He has cheated on me once before long time ago before we got married and yet i found a waybto forgive and forget so i dont know what his deal is. Theres plenty of other issues as well but this bugs me the most. How can i be happy when my own husband doesnt trust me and questions me all the time

You're right Tgirl, you can't be happy. And it's easy to see your frustration is coming to the fore....hence your fighting 24/7. If he won't/can't communicate with you and there's plenty of other issues then relationship counseling may be the go but your husband will need to be prepared to bare his soul and lay everything out for any good to come out of it. He needs to think of your young family...just as you are.

You are completely right and i hope he can do all of that. I appreciate all of your advice. thank u so much