Don't know what to do!

I have been with my boyfriend 3yrs.we dont live together.but he stays the weekends at my house.lately he dissapears on weekends ,he says his at a barbecue with his coworkers.I dont believe his stories.my gutt feeling tells me different.when his with his friends he ignores my calls or turns his phone off I feel disrespected by his doing speciaaly when he doesnt consider my feelingsam I over reacting if I tell him that there isnt going to be a velentines day for us to celebrate unless he tells me the truth or should I just move on? Please help ty .

LOVE IS LIKE A BIRD.. THE MORE TIGHT U HOLD IT.. THE MORE IT TRIES TO RUN AWAY.. LET HIM FLY.. IF HE COMES BACK THN HE IS URS..

If you have been together this long and he isn't answering the phone or inviting you along for at least ONE get-together, something is wrong. You are not over-reacting, your partner is playing games with you and/or hiding something from you. Communicate with him, talk to him seriously and tell him that you are worried that he is lying or is seeing someone else. If things improve give him a chance, but if he goes straight back to this behavior it's time to move on. Good luck!

If he is going to a BBQ each weekend and ur his gf of 3yrs why on earth wudnt u be invited to go along with him? at least once or twice if not always. Sounds totally strange to me your a couple right? Whatever is up doesnt sounds like u two have a very strong good bond at all. I suggest a good long talk about EVERYTHING and then decide if it's worth sticking together anymore or ur better to part ways n move on