Ex girlfriend contacting me after a year apart

Me and my ex girlfriend of 5 years has contacted me on two seperate occasions after a year apart. In November she sent me her self pics and text me that she was thinkng of me, then keptntexting me everyday. At first I kept things brief but then she began telling me that she can't forget about me and she still loved me. So then I opened uo to wanting to work it out. Once I told her that I didn't have a girlfriend she started to change to blamimg me and when I said lets meet up she replied that she felt it wasnt a good idea. Then ended after 2 weeks to telling me that I need to move on and that was it. Then about 5 days ago on a monday she text me self pics of her agin and asked how I was doing. Again, I kept it brief but iafter 2 days she said she would be in my area visitng friends and now wanted to meet up casually for lunch. I told her that after last time why now and not looking to be friends. Then she said she wanted to see me to see how she feels when she sees me....I said sure but then didnt hear from her friday (valentines day) or saturday. Only when I pushed away did she respond by asking me if I would move to be with her 3 states away, but I don't really know her intentions and because we had a very passsionate relationship I never felt we could just be friends. It was either together or not. Is she playing games and nhas no real intentions of being together?

Sounds like high-school drama to me. She should know after the time you have spent together whether she wants to be with you or not. You have to decide if you are willing to let her play you like she is...I suggest you tell her to quit playing games and decide what she wants, as you are NOT going to sit around and play the fool. Good luck!

This not about her, it's about you. If you can see that your relationship with her is well and truly over in your mind, then ignore her. By reacting to her texts etc, you're giving her the satisfaction. If you know you can't be friends, and you don't want to reconcile with her, then wipe her out of your life. In any event, her actions should tell you that she really doesn't care about working it out because if she did, she would have met up with you face to face immediately to discuss it without any hesitation.