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I need some advice. And fast. Recently my fiance and I had a fight, it was (and always is) about something so small. I thought we had figured it out... but the next day, something snapped... He moved his stuff (computer and things) into a spare bedroom in our 3 bed house... We haven't be the same... I'm so sick with stress and worry... We haven't really spoken at all since then... just the occasional ask if he would like some coffee or dinner... I recently brought a new couch and he ask if they sold beds too... I'm really thinking it's over... But i love him with everything i am and dont want to lose him, but i really don't know how i can make any of this better. We fight nearly every week... Is it just suppose to end? Should i walk away or try to mend it. We've been together a year and 5 months.... This man is my all, my everything... But im unsure the feeling is mutual anymore...... please I need some advice... Pm me... [e-mail address removed].... It would mean a lot.... <3 sick of tears

Relationship crashing down

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Just relax and speak to him about the issue...it may look small but its eating into your relationship!

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The small stuff can always lead to big problems and it could have just been the thing you could see and not what the problem really was. I think giving him his space and time is a good idea. I also think you need to talk but do it on his terms so if you think it would be easier to do it in a note or text then do that.Tell him you would like to talk to him and when he is ready let you know so you can. You said you fight about something small every week so something is hidden and it is time for it to come to the light. I say it is still worth trying to you and he didn't completely leave so he is there for a reason and you should mend it. Good luck.

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