I'm happily dating a man 5 years older than me, and he's the sweetest, most handsome man I've ever met. We've been together for roughly 5 months now, although most of that time has been long distance since his college is 4 hours away. The only downside is that he smokes a LOT of weed, which I don't really have a problem with, but I get so uncomfortable around him when he smokes.
Before this relationship, I had been secretly dating my teacher, who is also 5 years older than me for about 2 months. Again, he was just as sweet and caring as my boyfriend now, but we slowly broke off the relationship for obvious reasons, he didnt want to lose his job, and we couldn't be public.
Lately the teacher and I have been texting, really about anything. I find myself texting him at night when the Boyfriend is smoking or hanging out with friends. I talk to the Teacher about it and says I should do what makes me happy, since I'm leaving for college in a few months. It also doesn't help that the Teacher's told me that if I became single again, he'd give it another go since he quit teaching once my class graduates. I love them both, and really have no idea what to do.
Hi god You must be confused.....
You need a clear mind to be able to make a rational choice.
Maybe you should go to college as a single girl and see how things are then.....