PeoplesProblems Logo

Potential relationship dilemma

Default profile image
hey guys. a few months ago I met this girl at a gathering outside a university and we started texting and got in really well. the more we text the more I started getting feelings for her, the common interests between us is unreal as we haven't found anything yet that different from each other. even right down to us banging our knee in the exact same place and nearly the exact same time with exactly the same size bruise. the only problem is she lives about an hours drive from me. due to me recently being made redundant I don't have the funds to carry on with my driving lessons and I cant get a train down to see her Saturday and Sunday as its £30 a ticket each day (£60 a week) I really want the chance to possibly become more than friends but it cant happen because we live so far away from each other and im afraid if I cant get a job again soon and find the funds to pass my test she might forget about me and move on to someone else. has anyone got any ideas on how to overcome this as its starting to mess with me mentally.

Potential relationship dilemma

Default profile image
Dusty, quite frankly, if this girl thinks the same of you as you think of her, then your relationship will develop, regardless of the circumstances. She'll wait for you or she will find a way to meet you.

Potential relationship dilemma

Default profile image
that's the only problem. she might not feel the same yet as we've only met in person about 4 times. if I met with her more often I wouldn't be as worried but there's still a high potential im going to get feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way

This thread has expired - why not start your own?

B-0