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Analysis of intentions

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i have met a guy through common friends in february this year.since then we have been fb friends.though he lives in another country we chat regularly and he updates me about himself.he always replies to all my questions but seldom asks me any.he constantly refuses to be in relationship with anyone.i told him that i seem to like him to which he replied that he was unable to say anything..when i asked him to refuse he refused to say even no.after that also we kept on chatting.sometimes when he doesnt reply me i get mad at him,then he always calms me down.theres a particular friend of his on fb whose almost all pics are liked by him,he likess my pics seldom.as he is interested in photography,he puts up many pics and tagged that girl with few more fiends in one of them.though he didnt tag me he told me on chat to look at the pics..i am unable to understand whats in his mind.please help

Analysis of intentions

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Hey, these social media tools help us feel very close very quickly to someone, but remember it is all very superficial. My guess is this guy actually REALLY likes you, as a person, and therefore always calms you down, responds to your questions... but he is just not into you in that way. You clearly like him a lot more, so it's understandable you want more closeness. But try taking a step back ad breathing deep: the relationship may develop if you meet again in the future, but despite the apparent closeness of your facebook friendship, he seems to just be very polite and nice to you, but not willing to encourage you to feel too close to him, perhaps because he likes you, as a person, rather than dismissing you harshly. Just a guess x.

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