Jealously an past memories

I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years now we where engaged at one point but i was jealous of her talking to other men as this brought a memory of an ex back to me because she used to talk to other men an in the end she was sleeping with him behind my back an ended going out with him whilst she was with me and my current girlfriend an i have an 8 month old daughter together but i'm scared of losing my oartner because of my past an need advice we want to be a family as she also has another 2 little girls which would be my step children an i want her to be able to know i'll be there no matter what an put a stop to my memeories and jealousy.

its always important to be cautious of what you partner is doing but dont jump to conclusions explain tht uv had problems in the past and im sure she will assure you that she isnt doing anything wrong.... im bet your mrs wud feel jelous if you spoke to other women thats just wat u get wen your in love. maybe u cud meet this man find out more about him and tht would settle your jelousy. hope iv been a help. good luck

Hello Lee/ Take it from me.. cos am going thru the same situation.. and wen i solved that one it was another one.. etc.. but kelly has a good point.. once u meet the man u will be at ease.. make sure wen u raise ur issue u dont make it seem as if ur assuming shes upto mischief... let her know how u feeel... and what u want.. communication between partners is the best thing u can have ... so use it to both ur advantages... dont let it wonder offf and become a problem tooo big too handle.. if ur not there to offer comfort and a resonable ear.. she mite find it in the other man... so deal with it today and dont delay ur self or things cud get worse... good luck Mr A x