I'm confused between which boy to choose

I'm a teenage girl. I have a boyfriend who lives near me. I do really like him. I've known him For not even a month. Then there's this other guy. He lives 11 hours away from me. He said he's done with online dating. I really like him too. I've known him for about four months. We both have feelings for each other. The guy that lives 11 hrs away talked to ANOTHER GIRL, for advice. He asked her what he should do. If he should ask me out or not. I've been waiting for him to do this but he knows I have a boyfriend. I'm soo confused. It's literally tearing me apart from the inside out. I don't know who I should chose or what I should do? Anyone please answer this. It would mean SO much to me to have some others opinions, even if I have no idea who it is. Thank you.