Relationship / sex issue

A year and a half ago I met Mr. Wonderful. Only problem is he has erectile dysfunction due to medication he had been taking. He told me that the doctor told him if he lost weight the issue should go away. I paid $150 for viagra and he won't take it. I understand that is doesn't work all the time for him, but he won't even try. for awhile he was helping me out manually with an organism but lately won't even do that for me. It makes me sad to know that he would rather watch porn and victoria secret commercials than look at me. I do love him with all my heart but I don't know what to do. He father died when he was 8 and his mother passed when he was 18, he has explained that he is not a very physical attention type person and doesn't really know how to show his feelings... I am sad, frustrated and needing advice please.

Hey Ellie Mae, Hope all is well. I read your post and wanted to reach out to you. Here are some suggestions that you can take into consideration. 1. He has an erectile dysfunction due to medication he has been taking. I am not a doctor but am a life coach, but I will suggest him to look up some naturopathic doctors to see if there are other options for his medical issues that can help him. I know from experience that medicine have side effects that can affect your health in a negative way. 2. Seek a relationship therapist together. It seems that he has some emotional issues that he hasn't dealt with with his parents passing away when he was at a young age. It can really begin to help him open up. Please be patient with him if you really love him and you think he is "the one." Good Luck!