Going out

We have been going out for over a year now. Started in school and now both in uni. Different universities but same city. My problem is that she likes to go out clubbing and I don't. I don't see the point in it because mainly I don't enjoy it but also because I'm not single. I just hate the thought of drunk guys who just come up to girls and start 'grinding', 'thrusting' or whatever you call it. And this really angries me. I obviously can't tell her not to go out. I trust her, but there is always alcohol and it can mess people up. We've been out together few times not just us 2 but some of her friends and some of my friends ( that's when I realised I don't enjoy it) and she wouldn't spend time with me, she would be with her friends and try get away from me so that I can't see her. For example in one of the clubs she went to a different dance floor and then when we ( my friends and I) went up there, she came down to the first dance floor which I found a bit odd and suspicious. She said that she didn't want to leave her friends. What should I do? How can I stop myself from the anger I get when she goes out?

The easy way is to find someone who shares your values and standards...it's that simple. Find someone who enjoys spending time with you and someone who is on your page. Your anger is not a good thing and it will eventually overload if you continue to be in a situation or a relationship where there is little or no respect. You are wise enough to have identified the reason why you get angry because some people never learn until it's too late. All you need to do now is take the next step and remove the cause of your anger.

If you don't like clubs, then that's it. You don't. You could try to make yourself like them but that may not be necessary. It's just easier to find someone who likes the things you do. Because if she wants to make you go to the club then by the same train of thought you could tell her not to and just do other things. In short, don't budge on that if you don't like the club scene. Find ways to resolve the issue. If you guys can't work it out past that small issue, you probably shouldn't be together anyway. ------------------------------------------------------- http://everythingcouples.com/couples-bucket-list/