Husbands lies and cruel remarks

my husband as said some things to me which haven't been nice like, have i thought about becoming a mail order bride and once when he made me a omelete and he asked if it was ok and i said yes its ok he said, no its better than sex and once when i was on depression tablets and he said, have you talked to the wall yet. he also tells me lies and keeps things from me. he said, why do i make it hard for him to tell me things. he doesn't like to tell me when we have no money in the bank and he will lie by saying he went to get some out but the machines were not working instead of just telling me theres none left or if he gets a email off someone he knows he will say he hasn't heard from them and he hasn't been intouch with them but when i check i see that he as. we have been married 13 years, together 17. why does he do this and what do you think of the remarks he as come out with.? which have upset me.

It sounds like your relationship has gone somewhat stale, and he doesn't really appreciate being around you. Now, this isn't what you really want to hear, but mocking you and keeping information secret, when in fact it is important to you as a couple is pretty serious. I don't know what the reason is for him doing this, but it sounds to me as though he resents being with you. Try not to retaliate with the same type of childish remarks, and make it clear that you're not happy being spoken to like that. Maybe, this way will spark up a conversation which gets to the bottom of the real problem.

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thankyou for your reply adrain. he says that he loves me and the things he as said to me have just been a joke. he said about the money that he doesn't tell me because if theres nothing he can do to solve it while worry over it. i do feel taken for granted and i have said about taking me out now and then but it never comes of. i have thought if i would be better of without him after the way he as been and still is.

adrian my husband as read my post and saw what you put and said you are a dick. i don't think he liked what you said and thinks your wrong, can you explain to him your answer.

Oi Slinky...the convo between you and Adrian was based on you asking Adrian for advice, which he willingly gave you cos he obviously cared enough to....so what the hell are you doing coming back to him telling him that your husband has called him a dick??? THAT IS SO BLOODY RUDE! I'M PERSONALLY OFFENDED BY YOUR REPLY TO ADRIAN, AND I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD BE ON HERE ASKING PEOPLE FOR HELP AND ADVICE IF THAT IS HOW YOU TREAT THEM...YOU DON'T DESERVE HELP - SORT OUT YOUR OWN PROBLEMS FROM NOW ON, YOU BITCH!

And who are you C? it was my husband that said to say he was a dick not me. if it bothers you that much dont read other peoples posts bitch or if yr a male you prick.

Infact your just as bad yourself calling me a bitch how there you. you are the pot calling the kettle black aren't you!