I dunno how to make it better

ive been with my guy for nearly 3 years hes 20 and im 21. life was going grate untill one day he just seemed to decide to change. somtimes its briliant but most of the time insted of treating me nice or seeming like he cares, its all shouting at me telling me he hates me, im usless and he dosnt know why he bothers with me. weve got a gougious dauughter who was born in may, but he cant be botherd to do anythin with her apart from play. its left to me to feed, change and bathe her. i wouldnt mind but as i look after her all day when he's at collage. it upsets me when he comes home and shouts at me for not doing house work. he tells me i shouldnt be tired some days when i want to go for a lie down because i never do anything and im lazy. i love my boyfriend very much and hes grate sometimes but i can never predict his moods. what can i do??

Personally i think you should sit him down and talk to him, tell him exactly how you feel. He has to understand that being in a relationship is about excepting the others values and opinions. You got to take the good with the bad. He really shouldn't shout or call you inapropriate names like that. But it seems like something might be bothering him if he changed all of a sudden. Make sure he knows that, if there's anything bothering him your there for him. But if he keeps it up, you might want to really think about if he's worth keeping around or not, because if that's all he does your going to get hurt everyday and feel horrible. He's got to know that it's probably hard for you having to take care of your child and he expects you to take care of the house to. You've got alot on your hands.