Help! Am I doing the right thing???

I was in an 8 year relationship with a guy. I was also very close with his mother. We broke up three years ago. He married someone two years ago and he has a kid now. I would like to meet him and his mother. Is this okay. I would like to meet his mother as I got along with her. I would like to meet him for sake of closure. Am I doing the right thing ? Lost in U.S.

I do not think that to meet him it is a good idea. And if you suddenly reappear feelings for him? It is better for you to move on alone with him and his mother. And if these thoughts constantly revolve in your head, then distract and chat with other guys. For example here http://kovla.com/datings/us/new-york-city/. I think it will help you at least distract