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Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy is it always my fault?
[5 POSTS] CREATED: May 29 2015 at 17:49 by Brokeninside RESPONDENTS: sillyme / Soulmate / JayLove LAST POST: May 29 2015 at 20:34

My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years this October. We have two wonderful children together. I love him, and he says he loves me. I took a job this last month and have been working odd hours after being a stay at home mom for our children the last 3 years. Since then, my husband and I haven't been getting along. We fight all the time, but whenever we do, its my fault. I'm...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryStressed
[14 POSTS] CREATED: May 29 2015 at 16:19 by sabby007 RESPONDENTS: sillyme / Soulmate / JayLove / SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 30 2015 at 02:41

So I've been fighting tears all week, from the minute I wake up to the minute I fall asleep. I need advice on how to be happy. I've been in a 15 yr relationship and love him but I just am not happy. Our relationship is not perfect but it could be worse. The issue is everything about ME, I'm 30 I just got my associates degree (should be happy) but I feel like a loser, I don't ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI am good for nothing
[10 POSTS] CREATED: May 29 2015 at 14:15 by karishma59 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / SmilesUpsideDown / deody LAST POST: Jun 5 2015 at 18:38

Hi...im 17 years old...i live my parents and i got no siblings....about 3 months back i found that my dad is having an affair with a married woman that lives in my native country...he goes there every year saying he wants to meet his parents but i know he ends up having sex with her cause i have seen some photos in his phone.. i know he loves me a lot but i cant love him back the way i used to and...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I watch my boyfriend?
[5 POSTS] CREATED: May 29 2015 at 05:15 by SoniaP RESPONDENTS: PlasmaStar / SmilesUpsideDown / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 2 2015 at 18:58

Hi, I have some doubt about the fidelity of my boyfriend ... we see each other less and less, I feel he distances himself ... and with my ex, it was the same thing just before he deceived and dumped me ... Anyway, so I searched and I found a software called Mobipast... it is written that it is for parental control but I wanted to know if we could also use it just to check that my boyfriend is r...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat am I supposed to do?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 29 2015 at 02:45 by watermelon RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 30 2015 at 00:12

My problem is, 4 years ago I've met a girl online and we started to talk alot, we've became a really good friends more like best friends. anyway we used to talk alot but last year everything changed I had some personal issues I failed 3 classes in college, I was in a distance relationship but me and my gf start to grow apart my gf used to have my facebook password ( I gave it to her) I&...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryControlling
[1 POST] CREATED: May 28 2015 at 21:09 by Crispin RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 29 2015 at 00:44

I'm a calm, laid back sort of guy who prefers to let minor things ride rather than make a fuss but over the last couple of years my wife has taken advantage of this and is controlling me. As an example - if the restaurant serves me mashed potatoes when I ordered boiled I will mention it to the waiter but accept it anyway : but my wife will loudly complain on my behalf and send it back. If she...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryBreak up
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 28 2015 at 12:56 by Moa RESPONDENTS: SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 30 2015 at 01:17

Hi everyone, I just wanted to share my story as I am desperate. I will start from beginning. I was in relationship for a six years , in a last year I meat a guy and I didn't know that I will really love him. As I already have been in a long relationship with other guy. The story beggin last year in February. We was working together and that is how I meat him. We start an a relationship and I ...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to effectively quit my job without burning bridges or feeling guilty?
[5 POSTS] CREATED: May 27 2015 at 20:11 by JonasD RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 3 2015 at 03:01

I entered my first job nearly a year ago in a small company; unfortunately, after 4 months there I realized I don't like it at all. 2 months after I began working there, the owner of the company told me to sign up for a postgraduate diploma, without telling me any conditions or giving me a choice (the company was paying for it). Midway through the 1-year course, the owner told me that I had t...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryThings will never change
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 27 2015 at 06:52 by Staind76 RESPONDENTS: moody_one / Soulmate LAST POST: May 29 2015 at 16:08

My wife absolutely doesn't love me, and could care less if I was killed. Maybe I should then? Maybe I will soon? I know for a fact my family would care less. Like I said before my wife would be in bed with another man in 6 to 8 weeks after I was put in the ground. And I bet my soul to the devil she would move herself and my kids in with another man no less than 6 to 12 months after I was b...

Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryTrying to convince her to try a long distance relationship
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 27 2015 at 04:39 by jk15027 RESPONDENTS: SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 27 2015 at 19:26

This girl and I started talking and hanging out a lot about 5 months ago. She told me back then that she wanted to be in a relationship but I wasn't sure about it at the time. I really liked her but I wasn't sure that a relationship was what I wanted. Time moved on and we continued hanging out. About a month later, she started saying she had stuff to do so we couldn't hang out, and ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryLove, marriage and sex
[6 POSTS] CREATED: May 26 2015 at 22:09 by mchelsea RESPONDENTS: SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 28 2015 at 02:14

Wife and I married for over 30 years college sweethearts. Due to complications from chronic disease over the past several years I have been unable to provide for her the physical intimacy she desires. She's a beautiful woman and much younger than her chronological years so I felt it unfair for her to not enjoy that aspect of her life. A couple of years ago I sat her down and suggested brin...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHanapin ang sarili CREATED: May 26 2015 at 05:41 by rhaine LAST POST: May 27 2015 at 14:32

one of my problem ay nagtanong lang naman ako kay ex ko n ngayon ng three questions dahil lgi ku xa kaaway. And i always told him n nasaan n yung dteng ikw.. N pg glit naayus..nten.. Itu yung ttlong questions.1.if mahal niya p aq 2. Bkit minsan ok xa minsan hindi.3. May iba n ga sya at kailngan ku n ga xa hayaan sa knya. And sinagot nmn nia yun hanggang sa sinbi..niya hanapin ku muna dw sarili ko...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryCan, but don't want to? - now its up to you 18yrs marriage going
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 25 2015 at 19:08 by x1705 RESPONDENTS: Ms.lady / SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 27 2015 at 02:45

ugh. i'm new here. i've been searching for some way for support/understanding. here goes. (short version). Been married 18yrs. love of my Life. (not High School "sweethearts") we met in College. she "use to, but now, "doesn't want to.", but alas, "says she does." sex. is a wonderful way to communicate passion between 2 people. i'l...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryIs my decision right or wrong?
[1 POST] CREATED: May 25 2015 at 12:14 by Ebby RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 25 2015 at 15:25

I am a doctor, recently finished my house job and got engaged to an army doctor. He has strictly forbidden me from joining army... And wants me to go to teaching side and choose physiology as my specialty ... The problem that worries me a lot is that by being in teaching side and in civil setup how will i be able to live with him,as he will be posted to different cities and its not necess...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNot sure if I should get out of this marriage
[1 POST] CREATED: May 25 2015 at 11:11 by Palm1 RESPONDENTS: Qwerty LAST POST: May 25 2015 at 12:05

I was adopted as a child. When my parent divorce my adopted mum went sour and resentful over me. She never communicated to me what was happenning. However , because I had a close relationship with adopted father. I did chose his side. So from the age of 15, she started setting me up with people through people I new . Making me think I met them by myself, she continue to ruin my life with no guida...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I leave or should I go?!?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 25 2015 at 06:04 by Anotherchanceplz RESPONDENTS: Ebby / SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 27 2015 at 02:27

To start this off my husband and I have been together for on and off 3 years. When we got married we didn't have anything except eachother. We both come from rough pasts and didn't have contact with our children from previous relationships. As our marriage progressed we got off the street and got our children back and built a beautiful home. Shortly after my daughter came back into the ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryManipulative girlfriend's ultimatum!!! Help!
[8 POSTS] CREATED: May 25 2015 at 02:22 by MOTMII RESPONDENTS: SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 26 2015 at 01:54

I am in a relationship with a girl that I am truly in love with. Our relationship (like all relationships) is fairly complicated. There was 1 instance 5 or so months into dating, she broke up with me for a week or so. In that week, I slept with my ex in which I genuinely regret and it's a mistake I'd never make again. I ended up telling her what I did and she asked for details. I told he...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryRough break up
[5 POSTS] CREATED: May 25 2015 at 01:12 by Emersongonzal19 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 27 2015 at 17:45

I was dating my ex girlfriend for 2 years and 1 month, we are both 16, now that we broke up she's with a boy 2 years younger than us! He's 13 years old I believe, he's a druggie and now my ex started doing drugs too, she's doing drugs with him. It hrs me seeing her mess up her life, she even ditches school just for him now. I haven't talked to her for almost 2 months alrea...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI slept with my friends ex's twice
[7 POSTS] CREATED: May 25 2015 at 01:05 by needsomeadvice123 RESPONDENTS: SmilesUpsideDown / ghosthacker / flower0131 LAST POST: Jul 3 2015 at 12:25

Hello, I am a 21 year old girl. About half a year ago I got really drunk and slept with my friends ex. At that time they were broken up for about 2 years, but they always kept in contact and even slept together sometimes. First of all, the guy was a dick to my friend but she was always too blind to see it. He would manipulate her and sleep with other girls while they were still texting (not ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed some good advice
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 24 2015 at 16:06 by Palm1 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 25 2015 at 15:58

I have an adopted mother, I find it very difficult to talk to . We have never had a normal relationship growing up as a teen. Any time I talk to her it's like she's would always be so extra and add things just to see my reaction or response I can never be myself, especially when I know she's not been her true self. I know she doesn't accept me as her daughter it's all a ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryIs this normal behaviour between 2 women / coworkers or more?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 24 2015 at 09:56 by Sgreene2015 RESPONDENTS: SmilesUpsideDown / Soulmate LAST POST: May 24 2015 at 11:59

Is she attracted to me or is it all innocent? For some months I have been wondering if a woman at work innocently likes to joke with me or if there is more to it. She is married, older than me and a senior manager. Im a lesbian who is out at work. At a work party some time ago, before she was promoted into senior management, my appearance was brought up and that I don't look gay. She sai...

Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryUnknown direction
[1 POST] CREATED: May 23 2015 at 19:09 by Rivera98 RESPONDENTS: bekka LAST POST: May 24 2015 at 00:48

My girlfriend is going away for college. I can't go with her since I wasn't accepted there but I want to keep our relationship going. I can visit her since it's only an hour and a half drive but she wants to end it. I told her it does have to end like this and that if she does go I'll wait for her but she doesn't want me to change my plans for her. Yet I still tell her I d...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryNot sure if I should get out of this marriage
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 23 2015 at 17:13 by Palm1 RESPONDENTS: bekka / SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 24 2015 at 04:15

I was adopted as a child. When my parent divorce my adopted mum went sour and resentful over me. She never communicated to me what was happenning. However , because I had a close relationship with adopted father. I did chose his side. So from the age of 15, she started setting me up with people through people I new . Making me think I met them by myself, she continue to ruin my life with no guida...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI need advice about a guy I want to talk to. Help please CREATED: May 23 2015 at 08:49 by ShyBeauty LAST POST: May 23 2015 at 13:14

Everytime I work up the courage to text him 'hey' I chicken out because I see the last message he sent me and I feel like I might be annoying and bothering him. I haven't text him in months but I wish I could. He didn't even give us a chance to be friends because he thought I was interested in him romantically but I was only interested in being friends. This is exactly what...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryFight with my friend
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 23 2015 at 01:08 by bekka RESPONDENTS: xGuardian_Angelx LAST POST: May 24 2015 at 00:51

Hey...I'm very depressed because i had a fight with my best guy friend over a issue and he is not talking to me i'm veryyy worried i care about him he is my only friend who understands me so well.We were having fellings for each other but we had to end it up because of some problem.We had a fight because i was talking about what we had for each other and he did'nt wanted to talk to ...