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Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryMy gf beat me up
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 18 2017 at 15:53 by lisa93 RESPONDENTS: Silvarion / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 20 2017 at 22:32

So my gf and I are a lesbian couple who’ve been together almost 3 years. We have always had a great, loving relationship up until this incident. We don’t live together but we’re always together. About a week ago when this incident occurred, she was over my place. We got into a stupid, petty argument over some girl commenting on her Instagram pics. Anyways the argument escalated and I said â€...

Money advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling financially betrayed CREATED: Aug 18 2017 at 01:00 by Hannahvxx LAST POST: Aug 19 2017 at 05:06

My fiance has been hiding purchases he makes at the store he works for (I have a store credit card, which he uses). In the last 3 months or so, he's been handling the payments in store. I thought we owed $330 (checked balance in June). I know he's taken money out of the account to make payments ($400 or so). I recently found out that we actually owe $850 and this is after a $200 ...

Long Distance Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryBad long distance relationship
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 17 2017 at 16:32 by Lostpoet RESPONDENTS: Silvarion / manalone / Helena24 LAST POST: Aug 18 2017 at 07:20

I have been dating a 30 year old lady and am a 31 year old male. We started off as friends as we met online on a dating zone and she said she was single then i later found out she had someone. That made me take caution and decided to be friends. After 6 years as friends and after she told me she ended thing with her ex we decided to go out only to find out she was still with the guy. The guy found...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHe broke up with me and I'm cutting myself because I'm afraid
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 17 2017 at 08:13 by Helena24 RESPONDENTS: Kaori / Merci LAST POST: Aug 18 2017 at 23:34

We were in the long distance relationship for 3 years, he worked in another country and I was studying in our country. He is from a village next to my town and thats how we met. He is my first boyfriend, the first love. I told him my greatest secrets and trauma from my past (I was almost raped twice in life). And because of this trauma, I always feared male contact, but I believed him. Everything ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryWhen you are suddenly being ignored by a guy
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 15 2017 at 18:48 by sunshine787 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / Altreal / Silvarion / seriouslyme LAST POST: Aug 31 2017 at 21:48

First I admit I entered into a relationship with someone I shouldn't have. He's been separated from his wife for two and half years but at the end of the day still married. After about two months of very flirty friendship, we never crossed "the line", he is ignoring me. There is a specific moment where things really changed. He had a car accident, his wife and kids met him ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I wasting my time or should I stay?
[10 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 15 2017 at 15:47 by Beauty 808 RESPONDENTS: Linneyfye / CROSSroads / Silvarion LAST POST: Aug 25 2017 at 22:56

Me & my bf have been together almost 10 years. I took him from his ex gf bc i just knew i had to have him. We have two kids together one of which I haven't told him wasn't his, but he thinks she is. I often talk to him about marriage but he always says I'm not married or I'm never getting married. But he brought me a ring and told me ut was just a ring and nothing more. He ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryTough situation
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 15 2017 at 07:37 by Linneyfye RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Merci / Mingliao LAST POST: Aug 18 2017 at 23:24

It's hard to know where to start with this. Last Monday night my husband of 7 years received a call that a best friend of his, with whom he hadn't talked to in a few months, had commited suicide. My heart broke and after he got off the phone I held him and tried to talk to him. He just seemed stunned, sad. After getting up with him and trying to talk to him for a bit it seemed like he mi...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I stay or should I go?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 15 2017 at 03:13 by Beauty 808 RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Aug 15 2017 at 09:04

Me & my bf have been together almost 10 years. I took him from his ex gf bc i just knew i had to have him. We have two kids together one of which I haven't told him wasn't his, but he thinks she is. I often talk to him about marriage but he always says I'm not married or I'm never getting married. But he brought me a ring and told me ut was just a ring and nithing more. H...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryUnbiased relationship advice
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 15 2017 at 02:01 by tattgirl RESPONDENTS: manalone / sunshine787 LAST POST: Aug 15 2017 at 18:53

I've been in a relationship for 7 years, we have lived together the last 4 1/2, we are both in our 40's so not kids. I have one adult child from an previous marriage who lives out of state. He has never been married or had kids. Basically a very "nice guy" I care about him but I'm not sure I'm in love with him anymore. We haven't been intimate in over 4 years, ...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't have people to turn to - help me with partner vs. family
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 14 2017 at 16:22 by Jo RESPONDENTS: Silvarion LAST POST: Aug 17 2017 at 03:48

We (me and my girlfriend) live in an apartment that the owner kind of split one apartment in two, where we share the same entrance with the neighbor below and there is a stair in the section of the neighbors to go to our section above them. Our neighbor happens to be my brother which is one of my biggest regrets to have invited him to live below me and my partner. The house is old, made mainly out...

Health advice forum category advice forum categoryFamily has a tough relationship with grandfather - worried about him
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 14 2017 at 15:48 by Sarah RESPONDENTS: Silvarion LAST POST: Sep 3 2017 at 14:46

Recently over the past years my family has developed a tough relationship with my grandad. His health has worsened and it is worrying. His relationship specifically with my grandmother is appalling to see. The medication he is taking has caused his to go into a state where he is not himself anymore, everyone knows that this isn't the real him. To be honest he has always been a bit of a s...

Missing People advice forum category advice forum categoryBrother in law stopped talking to me
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 14 2017 at 10:39 by Lima_loser1 RESPONDENTS: Silvarion / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Aug 14 2017 at 21:01

So for the longest time now I've grown close to my brother in law. He always invites me everywhere he goes with my sister..well did however, until recently he suddenly stopped talking to me. At first I thought he was just having a bad day but this is the second time I see him and he doesn't say hi or bye. I honestly don't know what I did wrong. The only conclusion I could come up wi...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship in trouble
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 14 2017 at 07:14 by JasonJasonJason RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Aug 14 2017 at 11:44

I got laid of from work recently and I didn't known how to tell my girlfriend. We're saving money to move in 2 weeks so money is tight to say the least. Anyway, its getting close to time to go to work and I do night shifts. She says it's about time to get ready for work and I didn't know how to say it. So I "went to work" and came back in an hour saying I got sent hom...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAdvice about a friend CREATED: Aug 14 2017 at 02:01 by mykl85 LAST POST: Aug 14 2017 at 16:47

I have a great friend who is like one of my best friends- who I've known nearly 2 years now, we always go out to visit places (about once a week) have been away together places a few times- got on great, but every now and again he gets difficult to deal with. He throws little tantrums, the latest I got told via text that he told me not to text him at work, and now I'm blocked until he�...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryPost-breakup
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 13 2017 at 22:05 by Betty1212 RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Aug 14 2017 at 19:37

I have posted about my breakup on this site before - basically, I was dating someone for almost two and a half years and he dumped me sort of out of the blue. At this point, I have gone to therapy and I understand why we were so wrong for each other and I'm glad that it happened. I think it would've had to end eventually no matter what happened just because of who we are as people as cer...

Relationships advice forum category advice forum categoryHaving trouble with relationships CREATED: Aug 13 2017 at 04:27 by Bluebird95 LAST POST: Aug 13 2017 at 18:09

I am a 22 year old woman who graduated college and am starting my adult life by serving my country for a couple years once I get into prestine shape. I have always had trouble finding a long-term relationship. Friends and family would either say: ...

Work advice forum category advice forum categoryI think my boss is a psychopath narcissist
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 13 2017 at 01:00 by Clementine1289 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Aug 13 2017 at 22:55

I'm a 37 yo professional female and have been at my current career 5 years. I think I am proficient to pretty good at my job. Based On my performance reviews this would be accurate. I recently left a really bad job situation where I was constantly given a terrible schedule only after I signed on. So I'm now 3 months into a new place. When I signed on I was told I'd work mostly at o...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryStill confused about my ex and our physical relationship
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 12 2017 at 14:56 by magpie_eyes RESPONDENTS: lily31 / champagne LAST POST: Aug 14 2017 at 23:28

At the beginning of this year I got into my first serious relationship and I wanted to take things slowly because I was nervous but excited too. I was 17 and I hadn't really even kissed many boys at this stage let alone anything else. I didn't know him very well before we started dating and we met through mutual friends but I felt pretty safe with him since he was about 20 months younger...

Other advice forum category advice forum categoryI would like some opinions...
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 12 2017 at 06:29 by Anon_salon RESPONDENTS: london LAST POST: Aug 12 2017 at 20:42

I'm a first time home buyer. I became friendly with a neighbor who likes to smoke pot. I don't care too much for it. We started to become regular buddies after work. He'd smoke and I'd have some wine. I thought of us only as friends, but I started to get the impression he had a crush on me so I tried to subtly get more involved in other things, in other words spend less evening...