Threads created: Aug 19 2016 to Aug 25 2016

My husband and I have been together 17 years, married 13. We have two kids. He's a wonderful guy and great father. The problem is he started his own business a few years ago. It's in construction, so it can be stressful. The company has grown and he now has five employees. The problem is none of them drive (DUIs, no vehicle, etc.) so he does a lot of hauling them around. Lately, whil...

I'm not really sure where to begin and I apologize for the length of this, but I need to tell the whole story and there's a lot of background to my problem. I hope someone will read it through even though it's long. I've got a major problem. I'm 20 years old and my world was turned upside-down last November when I lost my best friend and soulmate. I'm not over it and ...

I have never been in an actual relationship even I'm almost 26. I'm not sure what wrong with me. Of course, I like guys. I like a guy who is mature, funny and caring. As I get older by time, I don't need a good looking guy, just ok is enough. I like to start up a relationship where I know the guy enough to accept his personality of who he is, but as the same time, I'm afraid th...

So I have a situation i would like some comments on. I have a gf (5months) a dog 8 yrs. he sleeps on my bed, but on the foot of the bed and on my side. ( causing no distribution to anyone) 3 months in after knowing this my gf flips out into rages, of uncontrollable anger, saying one time when the dog was laying next to me that thags her space he shouldn't be there. She's had horrible tho...

I was with my sons father for over five years. Our son is 2 and we broke up six months ago. When I was pregnant I told him I did not want the pregnancy to be the reason we would get married but I would want us to get married so we could be a real family and he agreed that we would get married but not right away. Well that never happened and he made it clear many times that he had not intention ...

First of all, dorry for my bad english its not my first language. Ok, i do not have a single friend that give a damn about my problems, and my family got biggers problems. So, i was deeply in love with that girl, we were in relationship for a years and the love was fadding. I got some attention from an other girl that was really sweet to me and then i fall i fake love with her (for attention th...

I'm going off to a big public college in a few months and my studies are my main focus but I'd like begin a relationship if possible. I have some but quite minimal relationship experience. I suffer from pretty bad anxiety so I'm not the best at opening up to people. Also, although I'm pretty and friendly, I'm not necessarily the type of girl who stands out. I fear that ...

Hey guys. Hope you all good. Got a bit of a problem here and i could really use your help. I'll try to get straight to it. To start i met my ex in 2012, first relationship for both of us we were in college. we got together and had a really great relationship for about 3 years. We loved each other very much and became the closest you could imagine 2 people getting, we shared and talked abo...

What are some hacks to eliminate romantic feelings in general? How can I live a life without wanting to be with a woman romantically? At 31, I've come to the conclusion that, that aspect of my life is not for me. The media doesn't help, social media definitely doesn't help, and just overall society doesn't help. I am constantly reminded everyday that I am not good enough. The u...

My boyfriend is wanting to go into the military, and I support him very much. I would support him no matter what, because it is his life and "his choice." Now, I am afraid he isn't going to support me... I want to move from the East to the West to go to school, and that's thousands of miles away from here. How should I tell him? He gets upset easily and might even try and sto...

My current boyfriend gets very upset or mad when I say no to him. Whether it'd be to sex, or hanging out with him (I do almost every single day), he gets mad. He's also very big on guilt-tripping me. What can I do or say to stop this?...

Hi I'm looking for advice on how to get someone off my mind...I'm married have been for 10+ years and have never strayed or even thought about it. But lately I can't seem to get a friend off my mind. He's always in my thoughts in my dreams I just can't seem to let it go. He and I work in the same establishment we don't work together often but always seem to be in e...

So, I am finally willing to I except that I am still in love with my ex and that I want her back. After dating for 3 months it has become clear that I am not over her yet. I started texting her 2 weeks ago. She called me back to see if she could get her stuff from my house. We met and talked for about 15 minutes by her car. We hugged and she left. I sent her a few texts since but her reply mostly ...

I've been feeling really useless lately. Mostly I've been just feeling like I'm there. I have no luck in finding a job, I feel like people are either too nervous to approach me or maybe I give off a vibe of "don't talk to me." and I haven't really had anyone knowly flirt with me. I've just been a mental wreck lately and it has me feeling ugly on that inside....

Background story: There is a girl I met from tinder that I had been in steady pleasant occasionally romantic contact with for a month prior to us meeting ((we couldn't meet sooner because I was out of town for 3.5 weeks)). Anyways, just prior to us meeting she had mentioned that she had had multiple breakdowns at work because of her boss. So when she flaked the first meeting, I didn't ta...

Been living with my now fiancé for three years we have a beautiful 10-month-old baby boy together also we have her two boys ages six and four living with us full-time they call me dad. Which I excepted open arms from the day I met them. I got to say I wouldn't change anything in the world they are awesome I love kids and I make me happy. This last 10 months is been a really long and hard...

Hello, I'm a 25 year old who has had a relationship for almost three years with the most wonderful guy. He's kind, smart, supportive, loving, caring and a very good person and we mostly share the same values. Three years in, I don't know what I feel anymore. The "honeymoon", the 'in love' stage ended, for me, six months into the relationship. I shortl...

Hi, First post ever here and new to website entirely. I just am feeling so lost and confused that I am looking for new eyes/ears to hear me out and hopefully give me new insight as I feel that my family/friends are probably tired of me going back and forth with my thoughts/problems. To summarize: I have been having recurring doubts about my marriage, and it's bugging the crap out...

Hello, I'm a 25 year old who has had a relationship for almost three years with the most wonderful guy. He's kind, smart, supportive, loving, caring and a very good person and we mostly share the same values. Three years in, I don't know what I feel anymore, the "honeymoon", the 'in love' stage ended, for me, six months into the relationship. I shortly after b...

So, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. We met over Facebook (although we went to the same high school together). I remember seeing him once before we actually started talking, and he was in another relationship with this girl in my physics class. It was graduation day, and I was looking for my parents. My eyes scanned the crowd, and then I met his eyes. He ...

Hy there I came across this page yesterday when I was feeling really down. My mum has been having some problems in her speech and in one leg and the neurologist wanted a head tomography. We already know something is wrong, because they saw smth on it, but not sure what it is exactly since they did use contrast this time. They'll have to repeat it. I feel very lonely, even though I have 2...

Still marriage but I fear not for long. My wife and I been together for 9years married for 4years. Everything was going fine until couple nights ago I did not respect her decision to stay home and went out to watch football. Long story short she felt disrespected which I can understand and have now excuse. No cheating or abuse or anything like that, I just ignored her feeling about going out in th...

in a relationship whereby he doesn't appreciate me,been dating more than a year now but yet he hasn't bought a single thing for me,he keeps promising and failing,his attention has drastically reduced,sometimes when I call he says he is busy ,sometimes he doesn't call me at all,am d kind of person that wants to feel love even when am going through a lot(I av sickle cell anaemia) and ...

Two years ago I’ve had incredible, earthshaking sex with a married man. The very next thing he did was to disappear. The problem is, he is a big part of my life since he is my very first lover, we’ve known each other for 20 years now. When we were young we split up but never stopped seeing each other, although we had relationships with different people. He once told me that all the other...

I've been talking to this girl for over a year now, we established a relationship only for it to crumble away slowly..It's tearing me apart, she said we are just friends now..then she asked me if it's okay for her to go on dates with other guys and I lost it, I just couldn't look at her or think about her without crying..I just don't know what to do anymore....

For the last month and a half, I had been in steady contact with a girl from tinder that had similar interests to me and was beautiful. We effortlessly chatted for a day before I asked and received her phone number. I was vacationing in Las Vegas when I initially we initially started talking, but we are both from the same city elsewhere. After vacationing in Vegas for a week, I went to Maui for 2 ...

I met this girl a few weeks back and since I can not get her of my mind. She just looks like the perfect one and it's making me go nuts because I know that a relationship would be very hard since she lives far away, I have only spoken with her once and she speaks another language. Even though I like her im not sure if I will be able to make anything happen from this. I try and forget her but ...

Ive been married 27 years ,had 4 children now grown , my husband became possesive,aggressive,controlling ,abusive,voilent to me as soon as we had our own house.He has made my life hell,i covered most of to everyone ,avoided having friends and became isolated.We have no relationship,looking at him makes me feel sick ,we dont have sex we just basically live in the same house.He wouldnt ever leave a...

Me and this boy have been talking for a few weeks now and we just clicked instantly, when we're together time seems to fly past and i feel like ive known him my whole life. Committment scares me and the thought of someone bringing so much happiness into my life scares me too. Ive told him that im starting to gain feelings for him and he says that he feels the same. Last night i found out that...

So, I've been dating my very first boyfriend for nearly half a year. We've been long distance for nearly three months, and I would like to say our relationship in that regard is pretty good: We have no worries about the other person cheating. And in person, our relationship is excellent! We're polar opposite people, but for some reason it just works. However, the thing is, along ...

My bf loves me to core- he has done extra ordinary things for me-but recently i m Disturbed by his behavior. He was the one who asked me not to work after graduation he was paying my all expenses then i was stuck between decision to study or do job (study was my love and even for job i had discussed or asked pernission several times but he never agreed-personally i didnt want to do it as well s...

I have been married for 10 years and have 2 beautiful daughters. My marriage has been filled with many ups and downs (infidelity, intimacy issues, money troubles). Nonetheless,and with the help of a lot of prayer and counseling, I have chosen to stay with him despite these things. I have no doubt that he really loves me.I would venture to say that he loves me more than I love him. Throughout mo...

This is some story so ill try and keep it brief, Back to the start. My ex and father to my 3 children ages 12,11 and 8 i had been with him since i was 17 and for 12 years, id say we grew apart but there was things that happened within our relationship that added to the breakdown, he kissed my sister pretty early on and nothing was ever the same again, although we went on to have my current younges...

Hi guys so I got a question. Nothing as serious as you would normally find just the usual romance type stuff. Anyway I have been talking to this girl on Tinder (I know). Now usually I don’t expect much from tinder but for the last week we have been talking quite a bit. She is a foreign girl who hasn’t made many friends here so is quite lonely. Anyway we start talking and after a while sh...