Threads created: Mar 21 2015 to Mar 27 2015

I have been friends with this guy for a while. I am divorced and he is a married swinger in an open relationship. We hooked up for a while last year which ended unexpectedly and he was out of the 'lifestyle'. We have continued being close friends and he was helping me with a project last weekend. We always flirt so I didn't read anything into his flirting. Then, he texted me this we...

I had been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder when I was 17. I have been in and out of rehabs since. I got into drugs and life was getting worse till I was 23 and got into a rehab for 6 months. And it was there that I started getting a hold over my emotions and an idea of what I should do to keep myself happy and essentially where I was wrong. After that I started college from scrat...

Hello all. I am a 24 yr old girl working. I have a guy ( say X ) in my life, who is 26 also working, and stays in another country. I know him from school, but actually started talking wuth each other regularly, after my college,about 4 yrs back. At that time we used to chat regularly. He was getting serious about me, but at that time i was coping with my break up with first bf and was busy s...

Hello all. I am a 24 yr old girl working. I have a guy ( say X ) in my life, who is 26 also working, and stays in another country. I know him from school, but actually started talking wuth each other regularly, after my college,about 4 yrs back. At that time we used to chat regularly. He was getting serious about me, but at that time i was coping with my break up with first bf and was busy set...

I met this American citizen through a matrimonial website. I liked talking to him and we had good mental connection but I came to know he was divorced 5 yrs ago with two kids whose custody is with his ex. Reason he mention is his ex wife's greed for his money and property. As per my experience he is caring responsible loving caring but when he is angry he looses his mind. His anger is really...

I met this American citizen through a matrimonial website. I liked talking to him and we had good mental connection but I came to know he was divorced 5 yrs ago with two kids whose custody is with his ex. Reason he mention is his ex wife's greed for his money and property. As per my experience he is caring responsible loving caring but when he is angry he looses his mind. His anger is really...

Hello, I am R* from India. I just wanted to ask, is there any Indian student who is from Science stream (PCM with computer science) and gave his/her CBSE board exams recently. Please reply someone, I am very tensed about my results.........

I recently posted about this but thought it worth starting a new discussion now that I know the truth and my feelings have progressed. Not in a good way though. A confused and hurt way I'd say. After an argument, the ex (then gf) stayed at a guys house. We made up the next night, but as she was sleeping I checked her phone and found messages that she'd wanked the guy off. She initially...

I am suspicious of my wife masturbating, multiple signs lead to it being fact or am I overthinking. Just last night she went to bed before me (about a hour) when I went to bed I could tell she wasn't asleep so I rolled to face away to give her her privacy and see if I could finally confirm my suspicions which have been active for the past few months. After 15 minutes I started to heavil...

Please ... Advice needed. Been in a relationship for almost 7 years. Not married to him. I'm divorced. Had rough patches with my boyfriend. He broke up with me. I dated another man. Slept with him. 3 months later we got back together. At first sex was normal. Then it stopped. A year later he broke up with me again. This time he slept with two women THAT I know of. We got back together 3 month...

Hi all, I am 31 year old married girl but separated about 2 years ago. I have two children. Both of them are under 5 years old. I am looking forward to a marry a guy who can take care about me and my children. But I don’t know how to find the perfect husband for me as a single mom. I am afraid to try dating websites. Is there any legitimate services where I can attend dating programs for marrie...

Hi everyone! Thank you very much for helping me out! Here's my problem as summarized as possible: A couple of years ago, I was living abroad and I fell in love with my best friend there (who was also living abroad), but I never acted on it. I came back home and then she came to visit last year (as a friend only). Again, I didn't act on it until the last moment, when I decided to tell ...

I have been married for a very long time and last year discovered my husband was cheating on me. We agreed to try to work it out and move past it. That didn't last long. I was doing all the trying. Needless to say his affair continued and I became a wreck. We have 2 kids so I have kept everything together for their sake. For my own sanity I have been online chatting with other men and I actu...

So I've been dating this man for 4 years . Our relationship has been mainly based on emotional and physical support, #cuddle buddies but has time went on love developed. So basically he cheats on me constantly with his children's mother leaving me insecure and emotional drained. So yes I.cry all the damn time. I've been fighting for years to have this man too myself , now we're...

I have liked this guy for nearly a year now, and even though ive tried, it's not going away. I had got with him at a party once, and it carried on until morning when we wasn't drunk. However ever since then, not much has occurred other than he slept with somebody else because we had a fall out and didn't speak for a while. Anyway recently he's come back into contact with me and...

Hi All, I have recently been having a great deal of anxiety about something and I wanted to get others opinions. I am currently in a relationship with my girlfriend who I love, and I would never in a million years cheat on her. Recently while masturbating, I actually fantasized about another woman while watching porn. This is somebody who I had past sexual experiences with, but do not (an...

A while back i found out my boyfriend of two years at the time had a stash of over 300gigabites of pictures and porn of women with big breasts. We argued about it because 1) I am a B-cup and all the women were D cup plus and 2) He was spending more time combing the web for this stuff and masturbating than with me. As a means of supposedly showing me how much he loved me he erased it all in front o...

I would love to make this long story short but doing so wouldn't give you the whole picture. Before I get started I would like to say Hello and introduce myself. I am 26 years old married to a 31 year old I have a one year old and two week old. Ok...Lets get started. December 2010 I became mentally ill, my family background is from the Island area and it was deemed that I was possessed. A...

I met my ex boyfriend at a friend's house approximetly 7 months ago. We didn't really talk in person but we were constantly texting and chatting through Facebook. He didn't do anything wrong, on the contrary, he was an amazing guy. I'm in my second year of college and he's still in high school... I don't know why I made the decision but I broke up with him on Sunday. ...

hi, i am 21 year old, since last 5 years i have started dating, till now i have been with 5 guys, but something or the other happens and our relationships end in not more than 4/5 months, among the 5 i have dated, 3 of them cheated me, i am so much emotional in nature that i keep on commiting the same mistake of giving one of those guy a chance again and again, this guy 2 years back i was in relat...

So my wife and I have been married now for about 8 months but been together for almost 2 years. We had a rough start due to her illness. I broke it off 3 times and then she lied about being pregnant but then actually got pregnant. I have really stepped up to be here for her and at first it was fine. Then our baby was born and to her I have been a horrible husband. I try to do everything I can but ...

I'm planning on transferring in fall of 2016 as an undergraduate for psychology, specifically for behavioral neuroscience. There are 13 schools I'm planning to apply to, all of which are on the east or west coast, or very far north. I am an excellent student and with no intentions of sounding pompous, I am a prospect at schools including Johns Hopkins, Harvard, MIT, and Berkeley. I, h...

I have been married for 30 yrs and for about the last 5 my husband and I have been living in the same house but not really living together. I have a problem with sex as I don't like sex. I don't know what the problem is but I don't like being held and I don't seem to be able to get close to my husband. I don't love him any more but I do care. What do u think I shoul...

Basically, I have issues with anxiety and ive never been in a relationship- I am 17 and female. When I think I like somebody I have to be sure and get a bit scared when I come close to anybody because it's quite new. But anyway me and my guy friend got with eachother at a party and went to 2nd base... My friends then had an argument with him about something after this a few days later and he ...

Hello I need some advice please I have been with boyfriend for almost 4 years and were not engaged we live together both have been married before have kids between us have a great life except not married. I am wondering if it will ever happen..2 years ago he took me out and we looked at rings and even had bride magazine ....and a pretty dress that now hangs in the back of closet. Last year I boug...

I think I am in the same boat.I met my boyfriend over 1 year ago he asked me to marry him we due to get married in Nov.but the past 6 month have been bad I lost my sister my mum had brain injury I lost my dad in Jan and I have major surgery 2 month ago I have been very down and my boyfriend been my rock but latley I have have mixed feelings about him.sometimes I can't stand him being near me...

Im 20 and my girlfriend (also 20) cant seem to ever be completely wrong..... Everything she says has to be a little bit right.... to the point that I have to get someone else to prove otherwise she will shout and scream that she is right. I have gotten to the point that I lie an excessive amount because of it..... I lie and say that I dont know or I dont remember. But from time to time that eve...

I'm a 33 year old physically disabled woman who needs help with most things. I live at home with my parents who are very over protective of me. I have no brothers and sisters, and not many friends. The thing is I met this wonderful guy online 5 years ago and we get on like a house on fire. Mum and dad don't approve of him, I try and tell them how I feel about this guy and they just get a...

Hi, Im a usual teenager who struggles to find my purpose in life. I dont know what to do, I often think of ending my life, but I can't but I really want to. If theres an easy way on killing myself I think I would do that. I can't see the meaning of life. It's just a waste of time, energy. Im tired of thinking feeling and living. I cry most of the time because Im so empty, Im not goo...

First let me tell you all that my english is not very good so please cooperate.Thankyou. Let me start by telling you guys something about myself.I am a very happy go lucky person and I my age is 17.But from the past few days I am very much tensed about my result.I had completed my 12th board exams recently.I don't what will happen.My exams had not gone well.Because of this I had stopped talk...

First let me tell you all that my english is not very good so please cooperate.Thankyou. Let me start by telling you guys something about myself.I am a very happy go lucky person and I my age is 17.But from the past few days I am very much tensed about my result.I had completed my 12th board exams recently.I don't what will happen.My exams had not gone well.Because of this I had stopped talk...

Not a new stry - we met online. long distance for a few months, and then he broke up with me - well on my birthday. when we were together he was the best bf in the world, he sent me handmade gifts and we talked about life and future. it was moving too fast, but we were happy. anyways, now i am lonely and very very depressed. I feel like taking my own life and its scary when i am in the subway ...

I've had severe emetophobia (fear of vomiting) for the last 22 years of my life. It gets to the point where if I'm around sometime who is sick, I literally will NOT eat for several days. If I end up sick with a stomach virus, I tend to become anorexic which has nothing to do with my self image just the fear of being sick. The last time I was sick in 2007, I ended up losing 90 lbs. F...

Hello everyone, my problem is my life I suppose. You see I was led to believe that while I was in college and studying hard to "make something of myself" that it would happen within a reasonable amount of time, and to some degree it has. However it feels like my carefully crafted walls are falling around me and suddenly I feel more vulnerable then I have ever felt in my life. See I want ...

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years next month. It has not been an easy road to travel and that's putting it lightly. I have two children from previous relationships. I also have a child with him. It was never in my plans to have any more children but our son is his first. He told me he wants to be with me for the rest of his life (I'm a sucker, obviously) and isn...

Hi, I have been married for 5 yrs with 3 yrs old daughter. We both are working professionals. My problem is : My parents have no property (in terms of cash, house) in India. Though I am earning pretty good amount and sharing all the expenses . But seems like my husband is not happy with me. He is always dragging the fact that, my parents are poor. Sometimes he said, he would have married to a w...

I helped hire an employee just under 2 years ago. She is 29 and I am 39. From the beginning I knew I was very attracted to her personality and demeanor(she was my type). We interacted a lot. We got on well, we had a bit of a teasing relationship, and spent significant time in the car together on calls. She sometimes would say we should do this or that in a real friendly way, but I always kept my d...

I am 7 months pregnant with my husbands only child. since becoming pregnant I have become depressed. my dr prescribed my anti depressants which my husband wont allow me to take. two nights ago he took a female friend out to dinner they were gone 5 hours! when they got back I was sitting outside she couldn't even come say good bye to me. (she is a single woman.) of course the entire situation ...

Dear All, I have been married for 7+years now. I have known my husband for 19years in total. 10 of those years we were really good friends. We went through various relationships while being friends. We had a friends with benefits kinda relationship, till I felt it was wrong to continue that since he was seriously seeing other people. He had always been depended on me, even when he was in relati...

Okay so I suffer from this problem since I was a kid and still have the same issue of being too shy and nervous in front of people. I feel that I have tried too much but still can't overcome my fear of dealing with people; its not with my parents or my sister, but sometimes it is with my uncle, aunt and cousins. whether in dealing with people nearly the same age of mine or older (i am 23) , I...

Hi About 8 years ago i was advised by my parents to get married from pakistan. I was and still an living in the UK. At the time i didn't really understand life, i was 25 and just started working so I agreed. Since time went on I realised I have made a mistake since My wife missed her famile and we really didnt have much in common. However if we were to split up my wife and kids would hav...

I had a great marriage. I met my wife on a christian dating site five years ago. She was from Illinois and I was from Boston. So I left my job in Boston and move in with her. We got married the following year and things were fine for the first four years and we realized that this was not something we should have done but I hung on until she asked me to leave. I have no family back in Boston and I ...

Ill make this as short and sweet as possible. Me and my gf have been on and off for almost 4 years. We met in 2012 at my work, shes 3 years younger and were in our 20s. We hit it off right away and started a relationship. Things were great, but I will note that I had a drug problem that I never said anything about and we also came from 2 different walks of life. Shes never done drugs, and shes alw...

Okay so I have a relationship issue that has been eating my up inside for a while now, and I just really need some advice from some different perspectives. I will do my best to describe my issue in as much detail as possible and hopefully I can get some good feedback. So basically, my girlfriend has a friendship with a certain guy that I feel very uncomfortable with and I do not know how to...

Hey, I got a very useful reply last time I posted, so I thought I'd ask for more advice, thank you. This one I will keep brief. There's four girls.. I'll explain this as best I can, no idea what I am doing tbh lol. Girl A - I mentioned in a previous post, I think I like her more than I let myself believe and I find it difficult to stop interacting with her, even though I ...

i'm 20 years old now.i'm in love with my bf since 5 years.last year i was diagnosed with malignant tumour in my right ovary.Doctor told me that my case was normal and its completely curable.. so they removed my right ovary and I undergone chemotherapy immediately.as of now i've no problem. But i'm having fear whether cancer will come back again.My bf is huge supportive for me a...

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