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HealthAcupuncture for digestive harmony, natural relief for better gut health
CREATED: Jul 20 2026 at 04:20 by drleeacusuccess

Support your digestive health naturally with acupuncture designed to promote balance and long term wellness. Acupuncture for Digestive Harmony may help relieve bloating, indigestion, acid reflux, constipation, IBS, and other digestive concerns by addressing the root cause instead of only the symptoms. A personalized, holistic approach encourages healthy digestion, reduces stress related digestive ...

ChildrenFunny story. What should I do about little brother
CREATED: Jul 17 2026 at 01:35 by Steph17

So, I'm Stephanie and I'm 17. Last weekend we went to this lake near my aunt's place, and there were all my cousins (all girls), my sisters (one is nine and the other fourteen), and my brother who's twelve. The afternoon was actually hilarious. I mostly just swam and hung out talking with the cousins that are near my age, since the lake was empty we could swim a bunch. But befo...

OtherThe Christmas Day Muck-Around Thread! :)
[116 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 25 2025 at 03:01 by Soulmate RESPONDENTS: Aydan / manalone / CreativeNick / lily31 / Stormy / Balance LAST POST: Jul 21 2026 at 13:10

Good evening (er - morning), Everybodypeeps! If, whether as a regular or newbie, you find yourself alone and bored tomorrow (er - today) - feel free to dive in here to have a chin-wag, share jokes and life-hacks, anecdotes, interesting facts, music, muses and theories, sat comfortably in your Fluffy-Bunny slippers with a glass of whatever tipple. I'm home alone by (grateful) choice tom...

RelationshipsFeels like ever dating is impossible for me
[17 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 22 2026 at 22:22 by norty RESPONDENTS: BigMarsha / Soulmate / shaylaaa LAST POST: Jul 21 2026 at 04:38

So my story is very sad. I'm 34 male and never dated or even went on a date in my life. This damages my mental health a lot and causes lots of sadness and depression. I'm 6ft tall, born in England and very muscular from lifting weights all my life for the last 17 years. So I'm above average attractiveness according to AI around 8/10 in terms of physical attractiveness. I...

OtherParents split up
[1476 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 15:33 by lily31 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Soulmate / Fugnuk / seriouslyme / Steven Bradford / Altreal / Richard B / Hooo! / Tiredoflife / manalone / Caroline Kjeldgard / chatthegreenmile / docPpineapple / rickyw / Balance / missguided79 LAST POST: Jul 19 2026 at 15:20

Hi My parents split up just over 2 months ago which came as a total shock to me, I didn't see it come at all, as far as I knew they were fine. There were no obvious signs no arguments, no distance or issues that could of put strain on there relationship and they've always supported each other through everything. the night before they broke up they were snuggled on the sofa together wa...

SexHusband finds other women more attractive...like his cousin
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 16 2026 at 16:40 by flowers4u RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jul 17 2026 at 09:49

My first time here.. so my husband told me he is attracted to his second cousin. he said he used to love her and that he wishes our relationship could be like how they were (Playful and fun- ya know like how cousins are) we had twin boys about 6 months ago and he told me this when I was 3 months postpartum and also said that he wasn't as attracted to me as he is to her. He did have her on Fac...

Long Distance RelationshipsOne year anniversary, haven't met yet
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 20 2026 at 01:28 by Jade2926 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 16 2026 at 16:52

How do I politely ask when we can meet in person. Daily chats, video calls every week, I know he is a real person, I have been with him one year. Early on our relationship, we talked about meeting in person but I live in the USA and he lives in Europe, so we both know it will take some time to save money to travel. But now it's been a year and I wonder how's the best approach to ask when...

SexIs it normal to be aroused by women even though Im straight?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 25 2026 at 10:33 by BigMarsha RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 16 2026 at 16:52

In the past three weeks i I’ve questioned my sexuality multiple times but I’ve always ended up saying I’m straight because I could never picture myself marrying or seeing a woman in a romantic context in general. However I’m extremely aroused by these small women. I consider myself straight, but my nipples go hard while thinking of these women's hands at me lol. It's very confus...

EmotionalI sent an anonymous letter to a family member, I was found out....
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 6 2026 at 18:38 by Sandpit RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 16 2026 at 16:49

I became annoyed with one of my aunties last year. There was a few different reasons. I felt like there was some distance between her and my mother for some reason. My aunt never announced the birth of her granddaughter. She was going into the restaurant/bar where my partner works and she was chatting to him and requiring about me and my mother and even asking that we visit her. However she...

RelationshipsHiding me from friends and family and now ghosting me
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 3 2026 at 09:51 by Foolforlove82 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate / Icanlisten LAST POST: Jul 16 2026 at 14:41

I've been dating this woman for over a year and a half. Overall has been a great relationship and we've had a lot of fun. She recently got her own place after living with a roommate for years and we discussed me moving in, but both decided the time was not right both financially and logistically. Well, she recently lost her job and was going through a bit of a rough patch, so I spent a l...

Relationships10 years later I'll be in the same town as my ex. Should I message her
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 15 2026 at 13:47 by ramblingman RESPONDENTS: Icanlisten / Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 16 2026 at 14:09

Let me preface this by saying, this isn't about moving on. This breakup was messy and painful, and I know when I was not healed and when I finally felt healed, and it was a very gradual process. So, 10 years ago, I was in a bit of a situationship with a girl. She was 18 at the time, I was 20 at the time. We had been friends for 5 years. We never dated, but we talked almost every day. Of no...

RelationshipsMy fiancé doesn’t want to be around my friend who hangs out with my ex
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 11 2026 at 03:31 by Bug RESPONDENTS: Balance / manalone / Icanlisten LAST POST: Jul 15 2026 at 20:53

My fiancé (M31) gets weird around my (F27) friend when she’s around. After she leaves there are often conversations or arguments about things she mentioned or said. All related to an ex I no longer associate with. The ex is a guy I dated for about 3 months. For context, this guy sucked pretty bad. He was friends with a guy I dated previously (not smart on my part, I know. But he gave the cl...

RelationshipsMy boyfriend might still love his ex
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 4 2026 at 05:11 by drake RESPONDENTS: manalone / Icanlisten LAST POST: Jul 15 2026 at 20:48

My boyfriend has only had one other ex-girlfriend. This was around 2023–2024. She cheated on him a lot, so they eventually broke up. We met in April 2025, became close instantly, and started dating on June 10. Everything was going great until January. We were spending way too much time together, which caused a lot of small fights, and I was often mad at him. I was not being the best girlfrien...

OtherAITP?
[107 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 29 2025 at 18:33 by Aydan RESPONDENTS: Balance / Soulmate / missguided79 LAST POST: Jul 8 2026 at 07:26

I'm Aydan, 27 years old. I have been noticing something weird for years now, that I deliberately push to the back of my mind everytime. I have 2 younger siblings, and we're all 2 years apart from each other. I love them of course! However, recently the weird behaviours have been more frequent and it seems like it's been done on purpose. My siblings tend to ignore me on purpose and/o...

RelationshipsWidowed friend obsessed with daughter's life
[88 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 22 2025 at 15:29 by Philameena RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate / missguided79 LAST POST: Jul 8 2026 at 04:22

I know this behavior is not normal, but I cannot talk to my friend about it because it will destroy our friendship. Here is the story: She was widowed in her early 50's several years ago after husband lost his battle with cancer. She has one adult daughter who is married with a toddler and another baby on the way. In the years since her husband passed, she has grown more and more attach...

Long Distance RelationshipsNavigating real cultural differences with real relationship concerns
[10 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 20 2026 at 17:25 by ManyQuestions RESPONDENTS: Jade2926 / manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 2 2026 at 21:46

Any feedback, opinions, and thoughts on this question will be greatly appreciated … I have been involved with Japanese woman (on and off) for a few years. We are both in our 50’s (not kids anymore). I am American and she lives in Japan. We have met and spent time with each other many times, so she is totally “real” … However, it has been a real “learning experience” for me t...

RelationshipsShould I go on vacation with my in-laws?
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 18 2026 at 19:56 by bergamot RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 22:35

I have been married for 13 years, and during that time I've had many years of conflict* with my in-laws (parents and siblings). For the past few years, we have (for the most part) been polite and see each other during Christmas (we live in different states). During our entire relationship, though, none of my in-laws have ever tried to get to know me. No one in the family has ever even texted ...

EmotionalHow do I stop punishing myself for past actions?
[14 POSTS] CREATED: May 4 2026 at 01:34 by Lemon_Anchello RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate / missguided79 LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 22:35

TW: Sex, Cheating I do believe i deserve some amount of flame for my actions. However, i am tired of running around in circles and pretending I'm okay when I'm not.. i do think that even though I was wrong I should forgive myself and move on but i have not been able to get anywhere near coming to terms with it. I 21F cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years 29M. He ended it (rightfull...

RelationshipsBad relationship with husband
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 6 2026 at 08:45 by Rachna RESPONDENTS: missguided79 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 22:31

My husband does not talk to me properly since 2 years of marriage. Forget about physical relationship, He avoids sex and has never given me an orgasm. he does not even want to have an emotional relationship. We also have a son. My husband does not even perform his duties as a father properly. He is also in debt. My mother-in-law always fights with me. My sister-in-law is jealous of my beauty and w...

WorkMemory blanks
[11 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 8 2026 at 01:09 by TheKrackensloose RESPONDENTS: missguided79 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 3 2026 at 04:27

There has been a tremendous amount of stress at work. Poor managament in a nut shell. Experienceing PTSD and anxiety not sleeping this is killing me and I am not sure how long I can last. Lots of job duties being shuffeled around. Never knowing what is what, being put intentionally in very difficult surroundings. Malicious gossip landed me in the radar of powerful people and well ya know what it...

Long Distance RelationshipsWrote a song for my LDR girlfriend using AI, she's got it on repeat no
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 13 2026 at 11:20 by GRAYFIELD RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 18:21

6 months in. She's in Abu Dhabi, I'm in Germany. Still haven't met irl 😭 that's happening later this year in october and I think about it way too much. kinda nervous about it I can't make music so I just wrote the lyrics and let Suno do the sound. Words mine, sound is AI 🤷‍♂️ before anyone asks The distance part is rough but you all already know that. She...

RelationshipsAm I being unreasonable if I ask this of my boyfriend?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 9 2026 at 05:40 by Suzie-Q RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 22:34

My boyfriend and I met on a dating app and have been together a little over 3 years, living together a little over 2 years now. He still texts a woman he met on the dating app before me. They went on a couple of dates and had sex, but ultimately decided the 2 hour driving distance between them was too much. However, when he texts her, it is often flirting or even what would be considered sexting. ...

RelationshipsHusband is keeping me a secret frim his kids and family
[6 POSTS] CREATED: May 18 2026 at 06:42 by Lazyday RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate / missguided79 LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 18:24

I met my husband 8 years ago online in a Facebook group. I was in the middle if a divorce and so was he. He was in india and me un the usa. We talked as friends and helped each ither through our divorces. We remained friends and became closer and fell in love and after 3 years I decided to travel to India to meet him and see if this could actually become more. He proposed and we started k1 visa p...

WorkMy dad is unable to find a job
[10 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 23 2026 at 08:29 by Nitnit33 RESPONDENTS: Balance / missguided79 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 17:19

My dad is going to turn 62 this year. He was retired from job 2 years ago. Sadly, he is not getting back his backlog money of $24,000 (i am from different country) from his company. The company is in legal trouble and has taken the matter of paying retired employees to the court. Court is not giving any date. My dad's money is hanging for a long time. He is making lots of efforts to find ...

RelationshipsI need help with my situationship (wlw)
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 22 2026 at 22:27 by bluecookiw RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / missguided79 LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 15:28

So I met this girl last year and got close to her really quick (we are both freshman right now) tbh I was very openly homophobic (I didn't want people to know I liked girls) and she was bi but I didn't know until this year and I used to vent about my boy problems and all my trauma to her I mean I regret it so much but I think I was just desperate for any type of attention back then T...

AlcoholNeed to vent...life with an alcoholic
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 26 2026 at 18:57 by Guest713 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 17:09

Hello, I'm a newbie here. Realizing I need to vent frustrations, I found this site. Well, I am in a relationship with a short tempered, alcoholic man with some bad addictive type habits. I told him on our 1st conversation, the kind of person I hoped to find... someone with my own lifestyle, choices & hopefully at least some shared interests in common. So, I made it plain, I did not want s...

RelationshipsDoes he care or not
[12 POSTS] CREATED: May 20 2026 at 16:33 by Kemma RESPONDENTS: missguided79 / Soulmate / AmitP LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 15:12

Husband had a night away with work during the week. Told me the night before but he knew at least 2 weeks before he had to stay away. He has stayed away for 1 night each year for 12 years to do with work. I believe him when he tells me this. It’s to take his customers out for the evening for a meal and drinks. I knew the night away was coming up and I was wondering when he was going to tell me...

RelationshipsCommunication issue with my Husband
[10 POSTS] CREATED: May 1 2026 at 05:14 by Boston RESPONDENTS: tulipsinapril / Soulmate / missguided79 LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 18:32

Need help with how to deal with my husband’s communication. We have been married for 26 years. As long as everything stays surface level he is fine. The second it gets deeper he gets defensive even if it’s the first time talking about it. He decides when, how long and if it can be revisited. He tells me”say what you have to say”. If I want to revisit the topic, he will tell me “we’ve a...

RelationshipsAm i wrong for ending it with her and thinking she is at fault?
[5 POSTS] CREATED: May 11 2026 at 02:45 by IAmAnonymous RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / missguided79 LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 17:06

Was with a girl for 2 years. I was her first relationship, she was my 4th.First year was perfect, second year we ended the distance. We lived 50-60 minutes away by subway. I lived with my parents and she lived alone. I told her I will visit her every other weekend, weekdays I work 2-8 so no and i want one weekend to be at home. She said seeing each other for 2 days every 10 days is little. Some we...

RelationshipsAm I selfish for wanting to confess to someone?
[15 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 7 2026 at 23:53 by Secretromantic67 RESPONDENTS: manalone / Balance / playingthru / Soulmate / SECRETROMANTIC67_ / missguided79 LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 13:18

I've (30m) been friends with this girl (25f) for around 10 months now. We met at a cosplay event,kept in touch online and would meet up at conventions whenever they happened. Around October last year she had kinda had a bit of a personal crisis after breaking up with her ex, so I comforted her and I feel like we ended up becoming really close.  At some point during this time I began devel...

EducationSpiraling
[10 POSTS] CREATED: May 14 2026 at 21:12 by Herfemme27 RESPONDENTS: missguided79 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 3 2026 at 04:27

Right now everything is a lot and I just need positive words or someone to talk to......

SexShould I offer it more
[7 POSTS] CREATED: May 11 2026 at 14:41 by Ninmy RESPONDENTS: missguided79 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 18:31

So I want to ask about oral sex. I’m 55, husband is 59. We have sex a couple of times a week but with the oral it’s about twice a month. I cannot orgasm when we have sex so I will use my hand after he as finished to make myself come. He hardly says he wants to give me oral. I suggest it more than him and I think he does not like to do it to me. I get it that not everyone likes it but why...

RelationshipsBoyfriend is obsessed with farts….Help
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 18 2026 at 04:21 by Younghippie_cat RESPONDENTS: missguided79 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 14:22

I learned accidentally a couple months ago that my (F23) boyfriend (M22) has a fart/burp fetish. He doesn’t care for the smell, only the “sound and vibration” from them. He says it started with the live action Scooby Doo film. I feel uncomfortable to fart around him and try to leave the room when I can. Whenever I do fart a “good fart” as he says, he gets aroused and he let...

RelationshipsI've made someone I love cheat on his partner
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 17 2026 at 01:35 by ZenRS817 RESPONDENTS: missguided79 LAST POST: Jun 28 2026 at 18:25

I met this man 9 years ago. And I've loved him ever since. He was my former boss. Like literally my boss, I was his assistant. I know he has been in relationship since we met for the first time. Time flies and my love for him grows deeper. He didnt care of me at first, but since 1,5 years ago we've gone differently. He told me he's attracted to me. He told me I've changed to be...