Long Distance Relationships Forum: Tips, Advice, and Support for Couples Apart

1. My lady friend with whom I am dating for 5 years is a widow had gone for a trip some days ago with her other lady friends. There was one lady who also took her boyfriend with her and he was also known to my lady friend. 2. My lady friend had one said that the man somehow or the other tried in earlier occasion to express his love for her and tried to convince her for dating. However she denie...

I'm at the end of my tether, foreign partner 'M40' hasn't been in contact with me 'F46' has he left me or playing mind games? Foreign partner 'M40' and myself 'F46' had had a beautiful relationship of 7 years together, until his children moved in with us last year, I tried to do my best but it was never enough for the kids. Now his kids wanted t...

Hello! I am here after my friend told me about this forum. I want to share my story and ask for genuine opinion. I am almost 29 and was looking for a guy on online marriage app (Just like my friend). So I found an amazing guy. We are from the same ethnic background. He is well-settled, has a great job, is in middle east. His father died 10 years ago. Has 1 brother who has been married for 8 ye...

How do i get my ex back? Hes married to someone else now and the girl he married was bullying me. Do i just give up and get over it? i feel like leaving this town because i dont want to be the butt end of the world anymore to people....

Hi all, im going to provide some context before actually delving into the issue. I met this guy last summer on a dating app we really hit it off but he was only in my city for the summer and ended up going back home. Since then we have texted everyday, we call, ive spoken to his family members, essentially our communication is really good. We arent “boyfriend girlfriend” but im so happy with w...

I've been in ldr for yrs now. It's not easy, there are times I don't know where to stand. I've been arguing with myself. When I first met him, he's a cool guy but mean and don't trust people easily. I didn't have much expectations about him and I just wanted to have new friends. After some times, we grew closer and decided to date. Honestly, it wasn't the ki...

What would a divorced mom, 43 years old be looking in me, a 66 year old divorced emergency medicine specialist. She is Ukrainian living in Sweden and I am in Kuwait. She is authentic, has a Facebook and instagram pages. Facebook page does not show friends or allows me to send a friend request. The pictures she posts on Facebook are the same that she sends to me. She declines to give her contact in...

I'm having real struggles with my relationship. I've been with my partner for a year now, and we've been long-distance the whole time. He lives in France and I in the United States. He's visited here twice, for a total of about a month and a half, and I've visited him twice, for a total of a month, with plans to visit him again for a month this April. Since the beginning, ...

I haven't dated much at all..In fact I've seen a counselor who diagnosed this as an actual phobia. I also have a diagnosed anxiety disorder and doing pretty well with therapy and meds except for the dating part. I'm older to have these fears, in my 30s, and as a result haven't moved on past kissing, not even so much as making out. I did have a relationship earlier this year whe...

It’s been almost a whole year now since my partner and I entered into a relationship, even though months prior to that we were already talking and considered each other really good friends. Long story short, I was single for about 8 months before my current partner and I made things official, and I knew going into this relationship that I still wasn’t 100% ready to commit to anything serious (...

Hi all Really hoping for some advice here, as I’m emotionally exhausted. I met someone online 6 years ago, but I wasn’t ready for a relationship, nevertheless, he has always stayed in contact, and, not in a pushy way, made his feelings very clear, that he would like a relationship, etc. 3 months ago, I got back in touch with him, and we started chatting again. Very quickly, old pat...

My partner and I have been together for about 8 months and things have been truly amazing. I can see myself spending the rest of my life with them. Lately, though, its not really been amazing. She developed an issue we're still trying to get figured out but it puts her in a lot of pain day to day. Sometimes its super mild and other times she can't get out of bed. The problem is sometimes...

Hello almost 5 years ago i met a 23 year old woman online playing video games. I soo. Learned she had a emotionally and physically abusive bf. And had 3 young kids. I was 33 years old when we met and became good friends. Over the course of that year we started to grow feelings for each other. And talked and played every day. And was witness to a lot of the emotional abuse. And heard the thre...

okay so . i'm fifteen and my boyfriend is seventeen, we met on twitter and have never met in person before. we started to sext a few days ago and it is consensual and i dont feel uncomfortable at all. and the age gap has never been a problem for us. but my friends keep warning me against talking to him because of said age gap, and though i am being careful, i do trust him. just wondering if s...

Me and my partner are in a long distance relationship. I want to preface this by saying she is sweet and loving most of the time. However, we both have mental health issues, she has bipolar, I have clinical depression and depersonalization disorder, we both have anxiety issues as well, for extra measure. When we got together we spent everyday together for about 4 months, some days were me and h...

(for some context, I'm 16 and can't tell anyone i'm muslim. my boyfriend only knows as we've been dating for 2 years now <3) I recently just converted to Islam. My previous life as a Christian was empty and had no meaning. I feel so happy with my new found relationship with Allah alhamdulilah <3 BUT. I feel as if my boyfriend isn't supportive. I told him a fe...

So i am in a long distance relationship since 9 months so few days ago late at night 12 we said good night to each other on text and i closed my texting application and just was going through other apps for any notifications or messages like insta and discord so their is this discord sver ver of mu friend its big me and my gf we both are in it so yeah that day i was checking the server before goin...

I met someone (a 39yo man) online through discord and we got to know eachother, he is a discord mod, and he seemed decent. We were in an LDR but it broke down, LDR isn't for me. We had spats and the period between the relationship ending and just getting back to normal lasted about ten days. Everyone in my server (not for age regressors) apart from me is a tween or early teen and they se...

Hey! I just started a new and exciting relationship with a man that is not my general type. We met through my coworker as it is her brother. She over heard me saying that I was single. So then she was eager for me to meet him. He does not live in Canada so we have been doing all the video chats and messaging thing. After about 10 days of talking, he asked me to be his girlfriend. ...

Hello everyone, I´m here because I don´t have anyone to talk this without telling me "You should break up!, you will know better girls!" . So first thing first, I don´t want to break-up. However, sometime i´ve got the sensation that it would be better... but I still don´t want to. This is a long story, so grab yourselfs! (There are somethings that I don´t remember, but still I...

my boyfriend has a close female best friend that lives near to him. I have been jealous of for a long time because they are close and I told him I didnt want them talking anymore because I didn't like that she was loading her personal problems onto him as if he doesn't have enough on his plate and I didnt like that he was telling her his problems and not coming to me with them instead. H...

my boyfriend and i have been dating for five months through discord. he lives about 3h away by plane. recently we've been having a lot of ups and downs in our relationship but we manage to talk them out. last night, he said he didn't want to look something up for me because he couldn't trust me. i know when he's being sarcastic or if he's joking but he sounded really s...

Hi everyone, I wanted at first to address this in the live chat, but there is too much background information so a post here was more appropriate, I hope you like a long story :) So, myself I'm a 31 years old engineer who found himself CEO of his own tech company after inventing something crazy 3 years ago. Before that I was someone who's fun to be around, I travelled a lot, very s...

My girlfriend used to say that to me before I dumped her for being an immature spoiled brat. I know she regrets it and knows I'm worth waiting for. ...

My partner and I have been in a relationship for a year and a half with the last year being long distance because he had moved to be closer to his 2 children whom he has since gotten custody of. 9 months ago we decided to move in together but were waiting for my children to finish school for the year so their education wasn't disrupted. We took turns traveling to see each other every mont...

Hi I’m in relationship with over 3 years with a lady. And she lives abroad so different cultures etc. She always says things to hurt me and I keep telling her to stop. It’s like she don’t care. Now I do everything for this lady Financial support Holidays etc. If I say to her your words are hurting me she always says I’m not hurting you. Now we had o huge argument the other night and I hung...

So a little bit of background information - I met someone online through a mutual friend in March, we started out just chatting every now and then but as timed passed it became all day every day. At the start of September we admitted we had developed feelings for each other and then a week or so later made it official and became 'boyfriend and girlfriend'. Now he lives in the States and ...

Hello, so I know it is weird, but I have never met my boyfriend in real life. We met in a game and been friends for a year and after he asked me to be his girlfriend. So before Corona I had a trip to his country, but it got canceled. When I ask him if hes going to come he cant say any specifit time like in how many years we will see eachother because hes 18 and doesnt have his own money yet to fly...

Hi my husband has been working away now for 6 years it was only suppose to be short term but 6 years has passed and he is still working away. We have two kids and I work a full time job. I have ask him a year ago to please try and get something closer to home as I am struggling to do it all. With the kids getting older and they are wanting to do a lot more activities I feel like I’m forever on t...

Please I need advice: I have been 6 years with X. The last 3 years we were long distance. X discarded me several times the last couple of years, then would come back, discard me again and the pattern would repeat. About 10 days ago X hoovered again and claimed to have realized that I am the one etc. So I agreed to renew our relationship . We currently live in different countries. On Friday we tal...

Hello everyone So I am currently in a long distance relationship with the most amazing woman but I am in dilemma. I used to masterbate to porn a lot but she has expressed her dislike towards me doing it by stating once “that it feels like cheating”. Ever since then I have stopped watching porn because it made me feel guilty. However I have found myself recently looking for some sort of visu...

so I met this guy online approx. 2008, he was really into me and very keen, but we live about 100 miles apart and I got nervous and put things on hold. we have always remained friends and I've spoke to him about problems in relationships that I've had and he has also confided in me. I was on holiday with my children in 2014 and actually bumped into him and his children we all spe...

I am 22 and my boyfriend is 24. I am applying to law school, and this has been clear in my relationship since the beginning. My boyfriend has had a stable job for two years. We have been dating for three, all of which have been long distance (summers and school breaks have been spent together) My boyfriend recently pitched that he didn't want to do long distance anymore once I graduated. ...

I'm 43 and my new boyfriend is 28. I'm really looking for help and none judgemental advice. I've never been in a long distance relationship before nor have I ever dated anyone younger than myself. I'm in scary territory. What are the chances of us making this work. Three months in and we are in love already. We can't meet in person yet though. I'm also getting anx...

I’ve been talking to this girl for a few months and things have been going really well. We’ve met a few times and things are starting to get serious. In September I will be moving to Bristol to do my masters whilst she will be moving to Exeter to do a placement year. The distance thing isn’t bothering me all that much as it’s only an hour drive, she has a car and I’m happy to take pu...

Hi. I'm looking for nonejudgemental help and advice from people around my age. I'm 42 and my partner is 28. We've been in an LDR for two months. He's Indian studying to be a Doctor. I'm in the U.K. Yesterday I had a problem arise. I found him ' liking' and putting a Wow emoji on a female friend's photos. He knows this upsets me, as we have had a ta...

I’ve known R for about a year we met on a dating site (cringe I know but hasn’t everyone done this?) We got on so well we had an instant connection. We spoke about everything nothing was off limits it would even get sexual some night. Here’s the thing he lived about 250 mile away from me, he would always say come down and see me but I had been hurt in the past and felt like traveling 250 mil...

So, recently my ldr boyfriend has started talking to a girl again who he used to talk to but it’s making me really jealous and feel like I’m being replaced. They’ve talked about hanging out and stuff they’re going to do together once quarantine has ended but some things to me seem more like flirting than just being friends but he doesn’t agree. Some things for example are her askin...

I don't remember the exact moment nor date when I met him. But since then, he's been such a constant in my life and such a beautiful thing that I couldn't possibly live without him around. I've known him, however, since I was in kindergarten. Five years old, one and the same. He'd moved from Kentucky, away from a terrible mother and home life. I chased him around the pl...

Hi Everyone, I've just been in a car accident that could have been fatal, on Saturday March 7 recently. My car is still in the workshop because the crash was pretty bad. I told my boyfriend about it, but he didn't even call me to check on me. He just wrote a couple of emails to express his shock over learning about the accident. I feel hurt and let down, that he didn't ma...

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. I am extremely happy with him and can see myself building a life with him. We have always been very open and honest with each other. From the beginning I expressed my views on having relations with people outside of our relationship. I feel that if we are honest and communicate our feelings with each other, we should be able to interact with...

Will try to keep this as short as possible to save time. I'm almost 40 years old, the girl I love is in her 30's. I fell in love with a girl who lives in a poor country. We started off as friends, and as I'm a bit of a loser I never expected more. After knowing this girl a few years and experiencing a certain life event I decided to tell her how I felt about her. It turned out s...

Hi, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend since two years. It is mostly a long distance thing. Previously, like every relationship it used to be very romantic, but now it seems the spark is gone. He is no longer romantic, he no longer sings to me like he used to previously (as music is one of his hobbies) , he does not take interest in my likings or those things which make me happy, ...

I want to know if my guy loves me back or not? We met when we were in the same class .. Unfortunately one have to come to another city .. We learnt about each other perfectly when we are apart . I expressed to him that I love him but he is not moved on from his past relationship.. I know him past from almost two years If I describe my (now) relation with him ...it's on a smooth w...

Well, it's been suggested to me in other threads on this forum that my ex girlfriend may have had narcissistic personality disorder. I finally realised it for myself now xD. All along I knew she had an inflated and fragile ego. But I initially didn't recognise there being a 'love bombing' phase, as it was only just beginning to fade out when things went wrong for u...

I have unknowingly been acting cold and distant towards someone that means very much to me. He has been talking to me less because of this and I noticed. Instead of taking myself into account I got upset with him and completely blew up, saying that he didn't like me anymore and that I was going to leave. I instantly regretted it. He, justly so, is very upset with me. I accept that it is my fa...

Hi there, I'm looking for some advice on my relationship.we are in a long distance one,he's America and I'm UK we are in the middle of applying for a visa so I can be with him. I am also 11 years older than him,this has never been an issue. until his last visit when I felt something was different. I stupidly went through his phone ...

I got to know my girlfriend in a club. I was in another country and those were 3 amazing weeks. After 5 month she came at my home, and we went on summer vacation. After 6 months I went at her home and we started to live together. After 2 weeks of living with her she got sms at 2 at night. I got up and couldn't understand all, only lovely words (Cyrillic letters as she is from east Europe) b...

Hello Everyone. I will continue telling you about this "adventure of mine". I have taken your advice: I have been working more in myself rather than on the "dead" relationship with girl H. My relationship with her hasn't died yet. We still talk everyday. And sometimes, we can even have cute and funny moments. Sometimes, I have done little images for her with a cute message...

My boyfriend and I are coming from different countries but we both live in England. We have been together for a year and we are in our mid thirties. I’d like to settle down and have kids and he knew this from the beginning. A few months ago he found a great job in his home country and he decided to move after 10 years of living in England and he will be moving within a month. Initially I was ...

Dear all, I would greatly appreciate you oppinion on my situation. Not sure if I am totally in the wrong here or my girls’ reaction is unjust. Apologies for the long rant. I hope some of you want to lend you honest opinion.. I live in Europe and 2 years ago moved to another country fairly close by. Shortly after I started dating this nice and sweet girl who live in my home country. After a...

I'm (25f) in a Long Distance relationship and my bf (26) started to work at a company where he met this girl. After a week the girl moved to another company but they went out twice as coworkers(technically ex-coworkers) in two weeks. When I asked him, he said they had been texting every day, and the girl suggested to go to his house to cook dinner together. I said "I'm not comfortab...

In my first post, I exposed that I had a complex long distance relationship that was falling apart. Nonetheless, I was given one last chance to win her heart back. There are some lessons I learned during that period. I must state that the No-Contact rule doesn't apply for all relationships. In my situation, the break-up happened because I wasn't giving her enough attention. Sometimes, I ...

Hello. My name is Fer. I need your advice. I really need advice. Background story: Two years ago, Maria rejected me. She was a friend of a friend. I was genuinely in love with her. What attracted me the most was that we had deep political and philosophical conversations. We would share very poetic experiences and I genuinely liked her. However, after confessing, she rejected me and blocked...

Hello! I have some problems in my relationship, and I would love some advice! Me and my boyfriend have been together for more than a year, and we’ve been talking for 2 years now. We live in different cities but we still see eachother every weekend as we both make an effort for this. This summer I will be going to Spain for 6 months for an internship and he will be leaving for his internship ...

So ive had an interesting relationship with this girl over the 5 years or so and mind you her and i were our firsts for each other we had a very intimate relationship for about 6-7 months but before that we were great friends for a year and have been still be day. This was during high school and after that amazing 6 months she left and went off to college we probably saw each other 2 maybe 3 time...

So, its been more than a year since me and my gf ended up having a Long Distance Relationship, as she had to move to a different state for a college. Coming to the point, She made this guy friend, of whom i became extremely jealous, but kept it in untill yesterday. I was jealous as, she spent all her time with him, not that she had choice, he was her only friend in the whole damn university. I kne...

I am currently a student. I really really really like a friend of mine. We are good friends right now. We haven known each other for only 6 months or so but we have become really close. This girl looks like the perfect fit for me. We have so many similarities and everyone (mutual friends) thinks we would be a good couple. I am not sure if she has feelings for me but there is a really high chance t...

Hi everyone, this is my first post here because i really needed some help. Okay so I started talking to a random guy, he was the one to text me first on social media. I never usually reply to random people but I did to him even though he didn't had a single picture of him there. We talked a lot, almost all the time and here is what happened He said to me he has fallen in love with me and ...

Hi everyone,I need some opinions here. So my bf is off to grad school but,our relationship has been rocky this couple of months cause of distance. There is no effort on his part because he is super stress and I understand but on the hand I want this relationship to be equal. So when I told him that he said I will give it to you after I am done with finals but I told him he can do that but he can a...

We are best friends, and have known each other online for over two years. We have quite a large age gap, but it hasn't been a problem as I haven't had much life experience compared to my peers and he is wise for his age, so it feels like we are much closer in age than we are. We are very close, and we text everyday for anywhere from two to five hours altogether. It has always been like t...

Greetings... Im in a long distance relationship right now for a month. Im a filipina, he is german. We are both on our early 50's. This guy is very kind. Very calm, patient, honest, starightforward, responsible. I can say 70% of what im looking for a guy is with him. I know he is serious about marriage and i know he loves me. The problem is with me. As the days goes by i already find it bo...

hey everyone. i wanna talk about long distance relationship can it be possible and how it can be im talking about relationship different countries i really need help and wanna talk about it cause i read from forums lot of people been used for that especially girls ..... i wanna hear from people they success and people they didnt ...

Hello everyone, Greetings. I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for more than 3 years. We are happy till now. I already know that she suffers from OCD. Recently she confessed that she shared her bed with more or less 5-6 guys including my friends in the last 2 years. She is also in a serious relationship with one guy. But she is in dilemma whom to choose. I understand that...

Hello, So I don't really know where to start with all of this but I thought I'd give this forum a try and see what your thoughts are on this situation that I'm in currently. So let me start at the beginning. On holiday, I developed a crush on this boy during my last week or so there. Initially I didn't think anything of him as he was wearing an under 18 wrist band, and I do...

Hello, I need advice for my long distance relationship. I live in Europe and he lives in America. We've been dating for 4 months and he visited me for 17 days about 3 months into the relationship. I care about him so much. My problem is that I dont know if I'm in love, and that thought is almost killing me. I can't stop thinking about how much I love him, but I'm not in l...

So I recently started talking to my ex again 2 months ago. Everything was going fine. She would flirt and just be her old self. Recently, something has changed. She stopped showing lots of attention and doesn’t speak to me as often. Is she leading me on? ...

So I've been dating this guy for over a year now and I really think I love him, but he had to go overseas for work and I have been unable to contact him. This however is not the problem as I knew I would not be able to talk to him during this trip. My problem is that I am worried about the long term affects this will have on our relationship. The work trip is 6 weeks long, and he has ...

So, to not make the back story way too long and boring, there's a guy I met online around 2 years ago and texted with A LOT since we met. We have not met since we live in different countries really far away from each other, but still we became really close really fast. In the beginning we were sort of dating, or at least I'm pretty sure we both had feelings for each other. Anyway, obviou...

There's this guy who is kind of a play boy and he's really far from me so we only text and talk from apps right now. I really like him bit I don't know if he feels the same. We sleep in voice calls sometimes and he teases me and says things like "<my name> is very beautiful" (we have seen each other) and I would laugh and say "no I'm a potato" then he ...

I and my bf of 4 yrs (in a serious relation-heading towards marriage and from last 2 years we are in LDR ) had a fight about two months back.I used v bad abusive words for his family in texts to him. He said ...

Hello, I'm new here and just looking for advice in my relationship. I have a long-distance relationship with a young man my age. He's turkey, currently living there, and I'm swedish. We sometimes clash over values that are very different in our different cultures, seeing as my culture is very "western", independent and open. His culture can sometimes lean more to the ea...

I started chatting to this boy a lot online, for the past 5 or so months. I’ve never met him, have no idea what he looks like, he lives in America (I live in the UK), and he’s 23 years old (I’m only 16). I know I’ve been dumb by doing this and continuing to do this, because I am just setting myself up to be hurt. I don’t understand why I seem to like him so much, but I do and it’s ...

Let’s start off with me telling y’all how we met. I’m 21 and he’s 18 and we met on a app over winter break. We live in two different states he lives on the East and I live in the Midwest. I never did a long distance relationship before so this was all new to me. We talked everyday for the first couple months then it slowly became less and less to where we would go 4...

Hello, I'll try to explain all the best I can. I'm in a distance relationship for more than 4 years now, she is a beautiful girl and, the most important, she is honest. We've had no problems because of that: we both tell everything. No matter if it's good or bad, if it's going to hurt the other person, we say everything. We see each other sometimes, in holidays I go ...

I've fallen in love with a British girl since about 2 months ago. I made friendship with her and now we are best friends. But about 2 weeks ago I knew that she has a boyfriend. I got very upset about it. But she doesn't believe in love and has never loved anybody in relationship way. There's a long distance between us as we are in 2 different continents. We are BFFs and we don'...

Before I get into anything here’s a little background. My ex broke up with me I spiralled and decided I wanted a no string relationship. I started fucking this new guy from work I had no feelings for, but then ended up hooking up with a long time friend from work (I know terrible) on a Vegas trip. As soon as we hooked up I ended things with the other guy. Well I told him maybe when this guy ...

Hello people, I signed up because I wanted to hear what people had to say about by little problem, which is making me very nervous right now. The setting is gonna be a bit long but please keep reading, it's necessary to understand it all. I am a man from Spain (mid 20s), and the girl I want to talk to you about is about the same age, but lives in one of our islands (the Canary Islands). Th...

So basically my sister was dating this guy, he hooked me and his brother up who so happen to be my age. We talked DAILY since the first day we talked. Well they live about 2 hours away so my sisters boyfriend would travel to take her on dates. 4 months into me and his brother talking they decided to double date us with them. It was soooo bad like he was very shy and quiet & I had to hug him fi...

My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year now. A few weeks ago she told me she was depressed, and all I want is to help her get better. The only problem here is our relationship. Indeed, I love her more than everything in this world, but she’s constantly telling me that she is feeling overwhelmed because of any kind of relationship and I honestly get it. But we are in a long dist...

Hi, I recently had a break up with my boyfriend of more than 3 years. We met in college during his last semester, spent 4 months together in the same place. After that he went to US for his higher studies while I stayed back to complete mine. We were going good with occasional fights like every relationship. We were very seriously looking at a future since I too want to move to US for PhD. Our fam...

Once upon a time, I was in a long distance relationship for 8 months with a girl living in America. Before me, she had been in a long string of abusive and manipulative relationships, one leading in sexual abuse, that had left her filled with a lot of fears, insecurities and anxieties. She couldn't trust anyone's high opinions or love for her and was filled with self hate. I had promised...

I've been dating a guy for almost 2 years, we met in uni so we saw each other almost everyday. When I went back home in the summer he didn't bother texting much or even calling. When I text it takes him over a week to reply and the excuse is he's busy. He does have a job but no one is THAT busy. He also got caught cheating in an exam so he got a year's deferral which means I...

So I have this guy (I'm not so sure if we're still together), he is 18 and I'm 21. However, that doesn't bother. We had an argument about a girl that I feel uncomfortable with. She says I miss you and I love you. Yes, she has a boyfriend. But how she talks with my boyfriend is just really so uncomfortable. My boyfriend finds it wrong at some point. I am not a jealous type. I ju...

I have been dating a 30 year old lady and am a 31 year old male. We started off as friends as we met online on a dating zone and she said she was single then i later found out she had someone. That made me take caution and decided to be friends. After 6 years as friends and after she told me she ended thing with her ex we decided to go out only to find out she was still with the guy. The guy found...

I'm not really sure where to start because we have such history but I don't want this to be extremely long... I met a guy in late 2011 on dating app. Things seemed great but our relationship ended up turning into a giant disaster and after it ended I didn't hear from him again until I got a message on Facebook in April/May of this year. We started talking again and honestly i...

I have known this gal for 7 years now. We met via online site and met face to face. My gut said to me don't go for it. Only to find out later when she told me she had someone in her life she went out with me cause she looking for someone new. She used to be a heavy partying person. The lifestyle i never liked. So i decided best we just be friends. Through the 6 years of friendship she had mul...

Me and my wife have been married for 2 years. We do not have any kids together but I have 2 kids with a past gf. There is a whole story in itself on this situation but long story short I don't pay child support and I don't see them. They aren't involved in me and my wife's life. Me and my wife are extremely happy obviously the occasional argument but nothing serious. She ha...

I am a senior person dating a 70 year old man. We are both widowed and knew each other before spouses died. Have been dating for a year off and on. Relationship was platonic until two weeks ago when he came to visit me. For six months of the year we live in different states I am now falling in love and he dates two other woman but is not intimate with them. He is very open and honest with me We...

Hello I am 30, I met a boy on Tinder in September, he is 27, we started texting immediately on Facebook and after two weeks we met. I live in a big city and he lives in a village 80 km away so he came to my city. We liked each other a lot, talked for six hours, we had a really strong connection from the very beginning. The next three months up until Christmas he came to my city nearly every week a...

Dear Sir, I am Female, 26 years, We both are in 5 years distance relationship & we meet each other once before 4 years. Now we are going to marry soon. But He is asking for virginity test before that ( me & he also will give the test). Will u tell me pls, is it correct to give this type of test??...

So this all starts back about two years ago when I met this girl while we were both on a vacation, and we saw an interest in each other. That's when I first learned about how strict her mom is with other boys. Nothing happened during that week and we both went back to where we lived with nothing but a fun week, which was nice to have at that point. Over the next two years until maybe two mont...

I am unable to let go of the fact that the girl am with (for a year) decided to cheat on her boyfriend to be with me. She told me the relationship was over between them only to find out she was still together with him. She only dumped him after we have been together for 3 months she says. To complicate matters more, more ex boyfriends are appearing. I feel like am always in a position to be the ...

This is my first time reaching out for help, simply because I don't know what to do. Here's the situation: I have a grilfriend since 6 months now, we met online and it didn't take long at all for us to fall in love with each other. We have always been very open about our problems and can talk about anything. We love us so incredibly much, we spend hours every day writing, video...

Well, im 28 and my girlfriend is 22. We have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and started to live together after 2 months meeting. Everything was great till 2 weeks ago, when we had a horrible fight. I know i haven't been a perfect guy but we always have had a jelousy problem. She doesn't trust me most likely at all. But for her, i even stoped talking to other females long time ...

I know this is a very old stuff,but I just wanted to tell my story because Iam so depressed and alone by keeping it inside and I want someone to hear this and sort this out..Am just saying in short .It was before 5 years .now Iam 20.My 1st cousin.She is three younger than me.. Something happened then. we came very close to each other.We started doing things which I don't want to talk about.I...

I had a thread last month about thinking my boyfriend was cheating on me: https://www.peoplesproblems.org/showtopic/9461/i-think-my-online-boyfriend-is-cheating-on-me About two weeks after I posted that, he left me. His reasons were that we didn't know how we would feel about each other without meeting in person, and that unless we met, we couldn't move forward. He said he didn't...

My husband and I have been living in different states for about 9 months now. I am finishing up in grad school so I am not capable of move to be with him now, and he move because it was a really good job opportunity for him and will give him much needed experience. Recently, the stresses of school and living apart are really coming down on me. I'm often really lonely and just really missing m...

I am right now on verge of a break up, we had been together for more than 2 years. This is an long distance relationship, She is 42 yrs and has 2 kids who I regard as my own. She has been doing sexual role-plays, flirting with others online. I told her that is hurting be that she is doing all this. She tells me that they are just for fun and that she only wants me in real life. There has been tim...

I was in a relationship for last more than 2 years we were together in college . First we became friends in first year of btech and then this friendship grew stronger day by day .We fight alot but fights were normal to us and we came on track easily . Then after two years of btech we decided to be together forever . That was the most beautiful day of my life i don know when and how i started loved...