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LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI need advice
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 28 2021 at 04:52 by Nightmare's Pain RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / 786 LAST POST: Jul 12 2021 at 01:25

So, I posted on here a while ago that I’m closeted, and I still am. Still very much am. The thing is, though, is that my sexuality keeps changing, and it’s not like every year or so. It’s like every week or two. I can’t help it. I’m starting to confuse the people I feel comfortable telling, let alone myself. I can’t trust anything I say to myself anymore because I don’t know if it’...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMy crossdressing kinda sorta boyfriend
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 19 2021 at 14:24 by esiotrot RESPONDENTS: 2021Mona LAST POST: Apr 20 2021 at 03:25

Hello, 21 yr old girl here, she/her pronouns. So. I've been in this pickle for a little over a year. I am asexual, I usually say celibate for convenience- and although I feel romantic attraction I've never had interest in having a relationship. So this guy comes along, at first I thought he was a girl because he dresses as one and doesn't mind people using she/her pronouns but he prefers he/h...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMy bff and crush is moving
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 30 2021 at 03:51 by crazycalicocat RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / tarantula LAST POST: Apr 2 2021 at 11:28

i’m a 16yo girl, my best friend of 4 years told me on friday that she's going to be moving away in two months (florida to colorado). it didn't really hit me that hard until now. i've always crushed on her on and off but never really thought of us getting together officially because her parents are super homophobic and have even taken her older sister to conversion therapy when she came out. we'r...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I come out?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 24 2021 at 20:07 by Nightmare's Pain RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 25 2021 at 15:04

I need some help on how to come out. I am bisexual and asexual, but my parents are always talking about how “Oh, I can’t wait for grandchildren!” and “The man you’ll marry will be very lucky.” They aren’t homophobic, but they assume that I want children and that I’m straight. It’s hard because they bring it up in every conversation and I have to suppress myself from shouting at t...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryDoes he like me? I like him but he's an interesting character
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 21 2021 at 04:49 by trishlikejojofish RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Nightmare's Pain LAST POST: Mar 24 2021 at 20:15

Hola Ladies! trishlikejojofish (he/him) here, there is an entity/man that I have recently meet and sorta developed a crush on. I've known him for 8 months and I have reason to believe that he has/still likes me. We met through school, I'm a sophomore in college and he is a junior at my school. We were in an elective class together and he had added me into a group chat with his sophomore friends...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryJust a Fetish? or something deeper...
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 10 2021 at 15:56 by st8nger-in-my-hous RESPONDENTS: SilviaGirl / manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 11 2021 at 21:50

I hate myself for getting the urge to, but if their is an opportunity for me to look through my bf stuff, I’ll take it! Went through his computer and found some shit I was not ready for. Transgender porn and transgender escort sites. **This post is not meant to be offensive nor transphobic. My intentions are not to be transphobic or offensive in anyway. When I found the content I was mainly...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp!!!!!! My boyfriend likes transgender
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 13 2021 at 14:26 by Bronw RESPONDENTS: Aka / manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 14 2021 at 12:37

I recently caught my boyfriend cheating with transgender escorts I Don’t know what to do or how to see I’m feel empty. He does not know That I know. I fear he may try to Harm me if I told him I knew. I love him but everyday my mind just can’t get over it and pretending like everything is ok is taking a toll on me mentally....

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I come out
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 7 2020 at 11:49 by Blue RESPONDENTS: MISSSY2 / susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 9 2020 at 20:53

I finally managed to move out my parents house about a year ago I am gay I’m still in the closet I felt this would give me a chance to come out having my own space however my mum recently had mental health problems and my parents need to move in with me but I still haven’t came out and I need them to know that I do have life plans but should I tell them just now when mums struggling with her...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryLesbian Relationship advice (LGBTQ+ friendly please)
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 21 2020 at 12:11 by AmethystBlack RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 25 2020 at 16:11

So, I am in need of a little (or a lot) of advice. If anyone would be so inclined. Me and my girlfriend have been in a serious relationship over seven months now, and are going to be moving in together within the next few months. There are a few different problems that I am having and don't quite know what to do as I havent experienced these issues in any of my past relationships. Firstly,...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI wish I was a boy, but I don't think that I'm trans
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 15 2020 at 23:26 by idkwhattoputhere RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / renabee LAST POST: Apr 20 2020 at 14:01

I’ve never felt comfortable in my body. It’s not that I think I’m ugly (although I’m not attractive either), It’s just that I never feel like I’m looking at me. I especially hate my chest, along with the other curves of my body. No matter how much weight I lose, they’re still there. I’m not overweight, and I don’t feel the need to lose weight, I just don’t want curves. I got so...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryIn love with my best friend??
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 23 2019 at 23:52 by beth1012 RESPONDENTS: IcarusWings / HannaM LAST POST: Sep 27 2019 at 12:37

Hi I'm really confused about my feelings towards my friend and need an outside opinion. I can't tell if I actually like her or just wish she liked me. I mainly get confused about it when I'm drunk so i assumed it was a drunk and lonely thing, but now im feeling it when sober too. i dont know if its just because shes one of my few gay friends, but its starting to become a problem. she definitely do...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryJust found out my husband is bisexual after 20 years of marriage
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 18 2019 at 04:28 by LucyW44 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 18 2019 at 22:14

I very recently found out that my husband is bisexual after 20 years of marriage and 3 beautiful children together. Needless to say we are both devastated but at this point determined to work out a stronger relationship as a result. He has confessed to exploring these feelings in the last couple of years with minor encounters with men which while they provided instant gratification, have left hi...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI have no interest in relationships?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 25 2019 at 13:23 by Tredientcall RESPONDENTS: Hooo! / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 23 2019 at 12:33

People keep asking me if I'm gay or straight but I never had a crush on anyone. I never dated any one. I never even kissed any one. I simply have no interest in any thing involving a romantic or sexual relationship. Is it weird..Is it normal? Should I experiment even though it makes me feel really uncomfortable? I'm only 17 and I'm not sure if this is something other people feel?...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling of being pushed away from a friend
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 22 2019 at 20:07 by Stitch07 RESPONDENTS: Hooo! / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 23 2019 at 12:33

Ok, I'm new here so I will try to keep this short and to the point. A few months ago an old friend from 20 years ago had contacted me on FB and we started talking. And out of the blue he told me that he was Bisexual and I don't know why he told me that just randomly since we hadn't talked in over 20 years. He told me that he just likes his close friends to know so there is no secrets. Well, I had ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryHow can I get over my twin flame?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 14 2019 at 21:26 by sunnyhenny RESPONDENTS: Hooo! / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 17 2019 at 03:00

This may seem like some sort of cliche story, but im truly lost. I met the love of my life while i was in grade 9, she was grade 11. we met at our high school soccer try outs and i had no intention of anything. we clicked instantly as if we have known each other for many many years and she was one of my dearest friends throughout high school. I was currently talking to a boy who i was on the verge...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryIn a straight relationship but starting to realize sexuality
[1 POST] CREATED: May 29 2019 at 03:56 by Jayce RESPONDENTS: Hooo! LAST POST: May 29 2019 at 05:29

I have this boyfriend and we've been dating for a while, and I think that I love him. At least, that's what I say to him, but I'm starting to realize that I can't picture a future with him or even anything sexual with him. I don't even like kissing him, to be completely honest. This has been one of the best relationships that I've had in a while, and I don't want to just throw it away, however I c...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMy bisexual identity and social life are making me feel separated from my parents
[1 POST] CREATED: May 16 2019 at 07:24 by Egg girl RESPONDENTS: Nikola LAST POST: May 16 2019 at 14:31

I have struggled with same sex attraction for my whole life but especially for the past few years now. I have recently for the first time in my life become a part of a friend group at my church who I feel very comfortable with and am able to share things with. Today I was making casual conversation with two other girls and One of them asked if I’m gay and I responded by, for the first time e...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categorySecret bisexual ex
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 16 2019 at 11:20 by cloud_83_ RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 3 2019 at 13:40

Hi, I split up with a guy 4 years ago now. I found out he was sleeping with other women and men and was confused over his bisexuality. I decided to leave the relationship, which ended me up in years of therapy as I was so in love with him. He often brought up marriage as we had basically planned our whole future plans together and he begged me back non stop for 2 years straight saying I was the...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryNo one takes me seriously
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 9 2019 at 17:57 by Citydweller87 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 10 2019 at 17:19

The last thing my girlfriend said to me this morning after I got dressed and ready for work was “You’re so adorable!” Mind you, I’m a 31 year old woman who works as a paralegal in a law firm. I’m wearing black slacks, a fitted white dress shirt, wingtip dress shoes and a gray flat cap. I am only 5 feet tall, so that doesn’t help trying to achieve “sexy” versus “adorable,” but t...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categorySame sex marriage with 3 month old daughter
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 9 2019 at 18:18 by Ohmygayness RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 9 2019 at 18:32

I met my wife 3 years ago and we got married after 18 months of being together. We broke up kind of frequently during our dating period and we even stopped talking for like 2 months. I was scared to have a child because everyone needs attention from their spouse but she puts extra attention to the baby. Like I could come home, eat, shower and go to sleep without talking to her. We have def...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryHe's home for Christmas, but I'm not allowed to visit...
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 28 2018 at 00:57 by StrugglingGay RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 31 2018 at 19:51

So I love my boyfriend. As far as I know he loves me too and we've nearly been together a year... We started off as long distance and still going relatively strong, but I've struggled with feeling distant from him. He's home at the moment and he's visited me twice, though he hates public transport and it takes an hour on the train... I'd be more than happy to visit him but he always gets anno...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryGay work colleague outing me to everyone else
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 6 2018 at 15:41 by DomJollie RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 14:16

As a discreet gay guy at work (I am not discreet outside of work) I recently chatted briefly on Grindr with a guy at my workplace. Now, it was just chat, not "chatting up" or anything, but seeing as I don't usually speak to him anyway (it's a large workplace) it could be seen as a bit weird I guess. Anyway, the chat was pretty cordial, and he was surprised that I was gay. He even said things li...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryGf vs Gf of 8 months she wants a break
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 8 2018 at 04:42 by TaraBull RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 10 2018 at 13:44

So a little about us. I'm 31 and a lesbian. She's 33 and also a lesbian. We met online and she pursued me hard. She asked me to be exclusive right away. I'm talking a couple of days here and then the 3 words ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI like my friend, but if I ask her out, our friendship and my grade are at stake
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 1 2018 at 03:42 by StraightAsARainbow RESPONDENTS: NewLife12345 / Arrow123 / ryan_voltorb LAST POST: May 4 2018 at 10:46

I am in high school and I like this girl in my History class and we are friends. Here is a current overview of our current situation: -I'm gay and she's gay -I think she likes me too -She is my partner on all of our history assignments and helps me with my work -She is best friends with my sort-of-ex-girlfriend (we are friends again) -She SO cute -I think about her and being with her all th...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship hardships
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 31 2018 at 01:11 by silentword2.0 RESPONDENTS: NewLife12345 / bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 2 2018 at 03:10

hello I'm in a gay relationship with my man c we been together for an year and half we met and immediately starting dating and I basically moved in with him the first week my lease in my apartment ended and I was going to my sister place till I could find a place but he offered me to move in and I did at first it was sweet and easy until all the stuff happened to summarize it I lied to him a lot I...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryA broken friendship
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 27 2018 at 18:55 by Neal RESPONDENTS: TeleAnon_ / NewLife12345 / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 9 2018 at 17:03

So it started with college.. Everything was new and you dont know people around you.. time passed and there was this one person that i spent most of the time with.. Time passed and we both became best friends.. I used to tell him everything about my life and things were going fine just when i started having feelings for him. I fugured out he was straight and it was not gonna work so i kept my feel...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryIn love with my best friend
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 2 2017 at 08:00 by Shy Sheep RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 4 2017 at 23:02

I’m a female bisexual and coincidentally, so is my female best friend. We’ve known each other since before our elementary days, and have been super close ever since. Naturally, being best friends, we goof off a lot, but somewhere down the line, our jokes got kinda ambiguous (ex. joking about marrying/kissing each other, etc.) It was all fun and games then, but since a few years ago, I realized...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryChristian background + my best friend kissed me. Struggling
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 24 2017 at 20:35 by 45percentofit RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 26 2017 at 05:33

I have been great friends with this girl for about a year. We get on so well, seeing each other pretty much every day at uni, plus many hours of late night chats and catchups, or talking on the phone for hours. We were pretty cuddly and would just chill in bed and hold hands and talk - I didn't reaaally think a lot of it, or at least I convinced myself it was nothing...but this felt natural and I ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryWas she going to kiss me?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 30 2017 at 09:38 by MelE RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Silvarion LAST POST: Nov 2 2017 at 12:39

The other day a friend of mine invited me over. She snuck me in her room and took me to lay with her in her bed. We laid talking and then she kissed my forehead and wrapped me in her arms, with my forehead touching her jaw. We stayed like this for 30 minutes. Then I had to leave so I woke her up slightly. She pulled my face towards her and kissed my forehead. "What was that for?" I asked. ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I offer my neighbor oral sex?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 19 2017 at 12:00 by whatevegh RESPONDENTS: Altreal / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 1 2017 at 01:28

I'm gay (26/m) and I'm attracted to my supposedly straight neighbor. We don't usually talk or anything. I know for a fact that he's not getting laid and can't afford to get a hooker either, should I offer him a blowjob with NSA and explain that I don't expect anything in return? I'm moving out from the country in a few months, too, if that can help....

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryPlease advise me regarding my relationship issue!
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 30 2017 at 02:23 by Rinku RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / n.martin / Soulmate / TRULUV LAST POST: Oct 2 2017 at 15:27

I am a male and I am in love with my straight male friend. We know each other since last 6 years. I had confessed my feelings to him long time ago. He did not reacted much at that time. I felt like it was okay with him and I was accepted. I was doing lots of things for him as you know being in love always make us curious to do anything. Even though I had a chance to have some kind of physical...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI think I'm a lesbian
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 10 2017 at 12:59 by EvaFleetwood RESPONDENTS: Lexxii / TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 11 2017 at 20:37

Hi. I have been in straight long term relationships one after the other since I've been about 16. I have loved these men definitely, and genuinely thought they were beautiful, but I have never been really interested in sex with them, I have never had a passionate attraction to them. I have a different attraction to women. When I am having sex with my boyfriend I close my eyes and try to imagine it...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryTeen depression / anxiety / sexuality and friendship break-down
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 30 2017 at 17:58 by BubbleRose321 RESPONDENTS: 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jul 3 2017 at 23:22

I'm 17 and I suffer from depression and anxiety; I see a counselput about it and I am receiving support. I have this friend who is openly gay, she helped me through a really confusing time when I wasn't sure if I was also attracted to girls as well; to cut a long story short, I did develop feelings for her but I know I would have never acted upon them because I'm not comfortable with the idea a...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryBroken dream of asian gay, education, failure, depressed
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 16 2017 at 15:41 by EricBlueSea RESPONDENTS: BLCKBUTRFLY / susiedqq LAST POST: May 22 2017 at 02:30

so hello everyone. i don't even know where should I start from. I am from Asia, and from one on the developing country, Nepal. from my childhood I always had one dream. going abroad and enjoying my life to the fullest. i am gay. and it is nearly impossible to live a life as a homosexual in here. so all my life i dreamed of going to America and get a degree from a nice university and settling there...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryIs she gay?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 22 2017 at 22:23 by Brennie RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / broost / january thinker / alsosusan2 LAST POST: Feb 13 2017 at 08:15

The guy I used to date a long time ago has a grown daughter now. I've known her since she was a teen, she's now 36. She's neither masculine or feminine, she's been wearing a pony tail for years, no makeup, and very tall. I ran into her a few years back and she introduced me to a girlfriend. Now the girl lives with her and her infirmed mother. They take trips together, sometimes work at her dad's j...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I gay?
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 26 2016 at 08:00 by Nevergoodenough RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 26 2016 at 14:04

I've been friends with a guy for awhile and I don't necessarily feel a attraction besides a friend besides always wanting to be with him. He is gay but he has expressed that he has no feelings towards me but I'm not sure if that's true or simply just cause he assumes I may flip out if he says otherwise. I have wanted him to do oral to me but I don't see anything besides that. I'm pretty sure th...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryA guy from my class seems to like me - and I am not into that
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 15 2016 at 19:51 by Tall_guy RESPONDENTS: Seen-thru. LAST POST: Sep 16 2016 at 04:50

First of all, do not get me wrong. I am a supporter of homo sexual relationships.. As long as it doesn't include me. I've had some episodes which have rendered me somewhat of a homophobe when it comes to guys being interested in me. Some background story could be in order. I'm 18 and attend to something called a gymnasium in my country (3 years prior to university), which is a science and te...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryHaving feelings for who you work for
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 16 2016 at 19:31 by AluAroma RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 17 2016 at 15:42

Hello, beforehand I don't want to specific location, age or name to avoid issues. Currently I am a cook who works a few hours a day for this residential place for catholic girls who study in the univeristy near it. What is this place about? mostly roomates, who follow the words of the bible and they live there to be closer their education area, plus the place holds meetings and stuff for these g...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to be more open? Should I come out to my best friend?
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 8 2016 at 04:08 by hopeless94 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 8 2016 at 23:12

I'm 22 years old and it takes me forever to finally tell girls that I like them. I waited so long to tell the girl I currently like how I felt, that's now she's in a relationship with someone else. and I feel so stupid because I always do it. she told me that if I would be more open about my sexuality(only select people know I'm a lesbian) and if I don't look for love I'll find it. it's so hard fo...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I fight for her
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 3 2016 at 05:20 by hopeless94 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 3 2016 at 13:50

This girl Shelby, I really like her. I've known her since 3rd grade; however after 4th grade we lost touch and didn't see her again until high school. however after sophomore year she moved but we kept in touch. Monday she posted this on Facebook "I hate the fact that I feel so ugly when I don't have any makeup on. It's pathetic. All [B]these beauty standards slapping females (AND males) in the...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI need an advice pls help me
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 16 2016 at 04:07 by monica21 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jun 18 2016 at 12:15

Need advice.. ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryGirl help?!
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 7 2016 at 03:01 by boud1994 RESPONDENTS: JinxGasai LAST POST: Jun 7 2016 at 12:59

I have recently started talking with a girl in my college program and we have really hit it off. The other day, she kept telling me she was home alone, and that she didn't want to eat alone and she wanted me to come over though she then told me she was on her period. I told her to come out with me and my friends or to come get me, and she said she was too tired so I let it go. This girl is apparen...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I tell her how I feel? Or should I just give up?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 2 2016 at 04:33 by hopeless94 RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl / trytoguess LAST POST: Jun 8 2016 at 07:03

i've like this girl since (let's call her tiff) my sophomore of high school. I always used to hug tiff (long hugs). I used to bring snacks to class, and one day tiff asked me where is her snack? So every since then I brought an extra snack or juice to school. My junior year of high school, tiff best friend was talking in class and I over heard her say that tiff liked her. Even though I had informa...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryQuestioning myself
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 18 2016 at 03:07 by Sealgirl19 RESPONDENTS: Problemsproblemspr / Soulmate LAST POST: May 23 2016 at 16:33

Growing up I was a tomboy who kept to myself. I was never really one to gawk at guys and my favorite colour wasn't pink. I haven't had a relationship until I was 19. I only had two relationships and they were hetero.I felt uncomfortable when having sex with the guys I had sex with.I feel uncomfortable because I'm not sure if I could claim myself as Lesbian. I haven't been in a relationship with a ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryThought I was bi, now I am not sure
[1 POST] CREATED: May 6 2016 at 13:57 by nnyguy RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: May 8 2016 at 11:06

I came out as bi-sexual when I was 17. I have dated both women and men, more men though than women. I have loved both and been hurt by both. I am currently dating a guy (been together for a year now) and I have zero interest in having sex with him. I think about having sex with a women, yet I still enjoy all kinds of porn (gay and straight.) I work in a very stressful career and have a lot of othe...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm afraid of losing him
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 19 2016 at 04:35 by Caspra RESPONDENTS: gent01 / erlzval LAST POST: Apr 19 2016 at 18:51

I've read that there should be no reason to weep in a case such as mine, and as much as I weep, it there is. Truly and wholeheartedly. There are a few things that I should probably state before saying what I really came here for. What I really want answers, and/or advice to. I am a sixteen year old male, first of all, a Sophomore in High School. And being male, I am scrawny. The things that ar...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryComing out
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 24 2016 at 06:06 by dream1200 RESPONDENTS: Basil / Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 24 2016 at 19:52

bisexual or gay...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categorySexuality issue, so confused??
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 8 2016 at 17:48 by Bball32 RESPONDENTS: bri / MavisBeacon LAST POST: Feb 10 2016 at 06:18

Hello, I am a twenty year old guy, and guess I would consider myself bisexual? I'm not sure. When I first started puberty (and well into it), I only found women sexually attractive and would be disgusted by the thought of male on male sex. Now, it seems like I can't be turned on by girls at all. I've gone soft a couple of times with them recently - I just lose interest I guess. The thought o...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categorySuffering in silence and could sure use a friend!
[16 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 30 2016 at 06:47 by salvator here RESPONDENTS: Anika / !!! / Richard B / Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 8 2016 at 15:29

Hello; and thank you in advance for reading :) I found my way to this forum in hopes to connect with people anywhere in the world for honest friendship. I am 42 years old and a gay man. I am having trouble fining open minded people in real life which is why I'm look towards the internet now. I'm very lonely and really hope to meet guys that I could possibly become good friends with and enjoy/share...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryEarly twenties, plagued with anxiety and depression
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 25 2016 at 16:31 by KM RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 27 2016 at 01:46

I am a 22 y/o male. I grew up on a ranch in a small, rural Texas town. My parents, just like most of the community, are very devout Christians. They also hold very strong conservative values. I went away for college, started smoking marijuana and became very open. I ended up finding myself, and came out as a gay man. I also do not hold the religious or political views that my family does any long...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryAnnulment or divorce?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 11 2016 at 20:05 by aerohead RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 11 2016 at 20:28

I am a 36 year old man who married a man from Bangladesh and I married him in the UK where I live and am a citizen of the UK too. I suffer from diabetes type one and paranoid schizophrenia which was diagnosed in 2010. I feel as if my marriage to this guy has broken down. I only got married at the end of July 2015 and feel as if my marriage to this guy wasn't right for me and that I feel now t...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I write her
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 1 2016 at 14:15 by hopeless94 RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: Jan 1 2016 at 21:18

I'm thinking about telling this girl I had a crush on her since the 10th grade ( I'm 21 and she's about 20-21). But here's a couple problems I don't know if she's gay (I've heard she had crush on her best friend in 11th grade..this information came from the best friend...who's a girl) she has joined the navy, and she's currently stationed in Japan ( I think on aircraft carrier) so the only way, I ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I write her
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 1 2016 at 07:16 by hopeless94 RESPONDENTS: abc! (alias modified to protect identity) LAST POST: Jan 2 2016 at 15:12

I'm thinking about telling this girl I had a crush on her since the 10th grade ( I'm 21 and she's about 20-21). But here's a couple problems I don't know if she's gay (I've heard she had crush on her best friend in 11th grade..this information came from the best friend...who's a girl) she has joined the navy, and she's currently stationed in Japan ( I think on aircraft carrier) so the only way, I ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryThe thoughts just won't go!
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 30 2015 at 02:12 by XSniderXD RESPONDENTS: Johncoop / PJVL9 LAST POST: Oct 31 2015 at 02:08

For the past several months, maybe even a few years now that I think about it, I have been having these thoughts running rampage in my mind, and they are staring to wear me down to pieces. No matter how hard i try to get rid of them, they just won't oblige, and keep reappearing all the time. They won't leave me alone, and it's gettin frustrating. (Before I dwelve any fur...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryHow can you tell if you are gay?
[11 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 3 2015 at 22:52 by jamiehall RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 25 2015 at 17:03

Hi, recently I have been thinking thoughts that most would consider to make me a homosexual. I have started seeing some of my male friends as more attractive for example. Also I feel like I could be developing 'feelings' for my best friend. But that's for another post. How can you tell when you are gay? Because I have heard about how people experiment when they go through puberty (I am 14 btw) b...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI think I'm transgender
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 30 2015 at 01:13 by Anonyty_Girl RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 30 2015 at 12:34

I have been thinking for a long time, I first off, don't know who I am. I am Methodist but I don't know if I belive in anything anymore. I don't like girls, so I'm not Lesbian or Bi, but I like boys. I seem just like a confused teen right? I just feel like I have no place. Boys seem to... Idk, be accepted. I wear plaid and beanies, and I already have a low voice. But I don't know, I just feel con...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMy partner's sleepovers at her ex is killing me
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 2 2015 at 10:06 by rankin2102 RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 7 2015 at 19:59

Hi, I am writing about my relationship problem here because i have no one to turn to. To give you some background about my relationship, I am a closet lesbian in a long relationship of 10 years. My mother and sister have turned a blind eye and treat my life partner as a roommate/flatmate. Her parents are friendlier with me but don't acknowledge the relationship either. I am 34 yrs old and my part...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI can't find myself
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 18 2015 at 17:50 by dragon RESPONDENTS: Redruby2015 / ebonyrockchic / Soulmate / Knot2loud LAST POST: Jul 22 2015 at 14:52

Hey guys! I have a little problem. I had unsafe sex with somebody I don't know and even though he showed me his STD's results being negative from a test he took in April, I'm worried and not ok with what I've done and I start to realise this is not me... Recently I've been starting dating guys and I'm also not ok with this. My head is being a mess right now... I just hope it will all end well...an...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed help on sexual identity crisis
[12 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 7 2015 at 02:06 by dbrad927 RESPONDENTS: AnonymousTrey / Soulmate / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 17 2016 at 15:09

I'm a 26 year old male. I have just recently (the past couple of months) experienced with guys. I started after breaking up with my ex girlfriend like 8 months that I started looking at gay porn. I was always nervous and very scared if my hometown knew that I was curious of the same sex. I finally said to myself a few months ago while talking with this one guy for a month, that I was not going to ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMixed orientation marriage - lost and confused
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 19 2015 at 01:01 by scottydoesntknow RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedqq / Alisha_16 LAST POST: Jun 23 2015 at 12:54

My name is Scott and I am am 26 years old and I have been married for 4 years to my wife who is 25 years old. We have an almost 5 year old and almost 3 year old. Before we married she was aware of my entire past, the fact that I had been sexually abused, that I knew I was gay, and all the stuff I have done including that this first time I had sex I was 7 with a friend spending the night. So there ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryIs he or isn't he? That's the question...
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 17 2015 at 14:06 by Quixotism RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / !!! LAST POST: Mar 17 2015 at 22:24

First time posting here and just wanted some views on a current problem that I have at the moment with this guy. I'm a 22 year old gay guy, have been out since I was 15. I still have some unresolved issues surrounding my sexuality but I’ve dealt with them as best as one could, considering the circumstances. Recently, I met this boy at a friends’ party and for the sake of this conversation,...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMagic, Madness, Sin: The Tale of My Relationship (Advice Needed)
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 25 2015 at 08:32 by Onlyexception RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 26 2015 at 16:34

I'm sorry if you decided to read this. I realize my problems are not the end of the world. However, my friends told me that if I worry about them then they are important to me and I should talk about them. Especially with people who might understand. For the past 3 years I dated a man who I didn't love. I knew it from the start but I settled. I wasn't miserable, he treated me well and we had f...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused about feelings for friend
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 15 2014 at 20:21 by UniGirl78 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 15 2014 at 21:39

Firstly I would like to provide some background. I am a 19yo female and have only ever had 1 boyfriend. We broke up a year ago but are still very close friends. This year I met a girl and we get along great. She and him are the two people closest to me in my life. About a month ago my female friend came over to keep me company while my parents were away for the weekend. We had a bit too ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryTeen guy Strugling with sexuality
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 5 2014 at 21:44 by A-Guest-You-Know RESPONDENTS: Shivangi / very_frustrated / chajadan LAST POST: Dec 7 2014 at 16:09

Huhhh hmmm.. How Do i start it off? I have never had problem with my sexuality before. I am not even sure if I have them now. I have always been straight an grew up in a society where gay people did not really exist. I am only 18, but I have had a couple sexual partners. Every consented time was with a girl. ( I had a tough upbringing) I don't find guys attractive, but this girl I was mes...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryChristian with a gay crush
[10 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 22 2014 at 06:46 by elijahg527 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedqq / Cathy / Buddy LAST POST: Dec 28 2014 at 04:43

I'm a guy and have a huge crush on another guy I met here in college. He is so smart, funny, athletic, and not to mention beautiful. Every time I am with him, I feel so happy. Every time my phone rings, I hope its him. I know I really like him and it all started about a month ago when we met playing volleyball with friends. I thought he was really attractive but didn't think anything of it, since...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryThis situation is bugging me more and more
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 13 2014 at 06:40 by iwannalive RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 14 2014 at 00:46

So lets start with my story. I was kid who passed hard stuff in life,both parents are war vetereans and have PTSD.I was bad in school and i somehow ended up in engineering school.I was always a kid who didnt fit in that type of society,never smoked,drinked,drugged myself or anything like that.I had no friends at all there.There were also no girls at all,only boys.I had low self confidence and low...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused!
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 16 2014 at 06:04 by Cinderella86 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 16 2014 at 12:58

Hi! Im a girl, and i have always kinda has suspicions since i was like 10 about being bi. I have Liked many boys & have never really liked girls. I always thought they were pretty & i would fantasize about them from time to time but i never clued in that i might be bi. Ive been talking to this girl for months on kik & snapchat & we send nudes and stuff. I would really like today date her i think ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMy husband is gay
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 11 2014 at 02:22 by BetrayedMrs RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Master D / Shivangi / sutty LAST POST: Sep 20 2014 at 14:30

I've recently discovered or re-discovered that the man I married is actively searching for, interacting with & cruising for Tranny's. If this were any other person, I wouldn't care. I'm a big supporter of the Gay community & transgender people as well. People are born the way they're born, not a big shock. However, this is not a friend or relative. This is my HUSBAND. The person I share my li...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMy ex-friend admitted to having feelings for me... Where to go from here?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 26 2014 at 01:45 by PokeableThunder RESPONDENTS: ColdSnowBunny / Dominic Wild / manalone LAST POST: Jul 26 2014 at 04:43

To keep a long story short, I was best friends with this girl when I was 13-14 (I am also a girl). We were inseparable; she was the sister I never had. For 2 years we were BFF's; I'd sleep over at her house, she'd sleep over at mine, etc. I loved her like a sister. At the end of the 2 years, she suddenly pulled away from me. She got into a circle of new friends, ignored me, and just... Left. I ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I gay?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 13 2014 at 21:52 by AngelTehla RESPONDENTS: ColdSnowBunny / Bobbi12 / susiedqq / SanguineOne / jessica LAST POST: Jul 14 2014 at 06:08

I have been in a relationship with my fiancee for 3 years now and it's a very loving relationship. However my fiancee recently questioned my sexuality due to a number of things: I enjoy foreplay but do not enjoy sex, women in porn turn me on but men don't. On the other hand I have never felt sexually attracted to another woman nor have I ever wanted to be in a relationship with one. He says ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryThe guy who help me alot turn out to be gay
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 12 2014 at 14:43 by poosikin RESPONDENTS: Dominic Wild / susiedqq / SanguineOne LAST POST: Jul 14 2014 at 05:38

I'm a girl and this guy is my business partner. Many people who doesn't know he is gay but he admitted himself to me long ago before I stated liking him. I wish I didn't like him and just treat him as a business partner or he wouldn't have helped me so much in the 1st place but now I can't stop seeing him as we have started the business but its painful to see him with his boyfriend. I really hop...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend had a past of sex with men
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 30 2014 at 05:31 by confusedgf RESPONDENTS: Aba / susiedqq LAST POST: May 30 2014 at 15:26

My boyfriend of 17 months has a past of sex with men. He had been having sex with men for at least 2 and half years. And during that time he also dated women. When I found out about this and not from him telling me he claimed it was somehthing he was very ashamed of and was part of his drug induced past. Well that was all he would say to me. I myself need more answers so after spending some t...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI am in a relationship with a guy but I feel like I need a girl
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 27 2014 at 14:39 by anonymous.A RESPONDENTS: Dominic Wild / susiedqq LAST POST: May 28 2014 at 01:27

I am in a happy 5 month old relationship, we talk non-stop, we share stuff in common and we understand eachother (well most of the time) but sometimes I feel too empty. I feel like no matter how much we talk or share, he's still a guy and he wont really understand me like a girl would. Certain characteristics are hard to find in men, I can't really explain why I am drawn to women, I don't know if ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryIn love with someone a bit older than me
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 20 2014 at 18:28 by AcCePtEdX RESPONDENTS: Pars11 LAST POST: Apr 21 2014 at 14:02

I'm falling in love with this girl who is a few years older than me. (24) But the problem is I do not know if she is even bisexual at all let alone the fact that my feelings are completely inappropriate as she was my manager for a little while but now we are friends so it's a bit better. Basically I don't know what to do, I've tried hinting im attracted to her but I thinkshe tthinks im just joking...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categorySecret relationship
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 26 2014 at 12:22 by luke_11 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 26 2014 at 14:16

Hello, I'm a male gay guy, I'm 19 years old. I have a boyfriend and we love each other more than we've ever loved anyone before. However, my family doesn't know I'm gay and neither does his. I don't wanna be in a relationship that doesn't have a solid future and I'm willing to risk it all for him. He is so afraid of what all he is gonna lose by letting people know about him and he has brought up ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryIs he avoiding me?
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 19 2014 at 09:36 by LoneLover RESPONDENTS: Mountain LAST POST: Mar 19 2014 at 14:46

After being single for a while and knowing for years that I was ready to find someone to get to know and settle down, I start talking to a great guy a week ago. The conversations were fantastic. We would talk on the phone for 2-4 hours and text throughout the day and into the early morning hours. We have not met in person yet because we both agreed that we want to take it slow and be sure that we ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryIs there a slight chance?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 25 2014 at 19:39 by stayinganonymous RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / newtochat LAST POST: Jan 26 2014 at 01:12

So I'm a 15 year old, bisexual girl. I am completely head over heels in love with one of my closest female friends. I genuinely think it's impossible to feel stronger emotion than I do for her. She says she is straight, but I know a lot about non-verbal communion and body language, and so far, the signals she give off say that she's attracted to me physically and emotionally. She often says things...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryLost my love life
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 12 2013 at 19:06 by Rola RESPONDENTS: Peace LAST POST: Dec 13 2013 at 07:33

I am a girl who fell in love with another girl for the first time,I love her so much & never felt this way toward anyone before, I love everything about her, we became so close, we both make each other happy, happiness that I've never experienced before, but two weeks ago after making love she knew that am not thinking to spend my whole life with a girl..I ruined everything, although that day she ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryComing out
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 28 2013 at 21:32 by 1234 RESPONDENTS: stance LAST POST: Nov 30 2013 at 06:44

I'd just like to say thankyou to those who posted on my problem earlier. So thankyou :-) but if i am to come out, do you think it would be OK to just send a text to everyone after i move out, or to tell them in person? Because i get really nervous in situations like this and i am scared of how they might react. Thanks again to those who helped....

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryCan't get out of denial
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 27 2013 at 18:04 by 1234 RESPONDENTS: Bananna96 / Discovery / Bobby5138 / KAGO LAST POST: Dec 1 2013 at 20:35

Im a 15 year old boy and have always 'fantasized' about men. I still find some girls attractive but i couldn't "be intimate" with any woman, but would love to go out with them, as where i could never date a man but like i said, i prefer men. I dont know if its because id be ashamed of being with a man or what, but i just cant get a boyfriend, but i am gay! Also, i have a very homophobic family...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryStruggling with my idenity... I can't even see 'me'
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 22 2013 at 10:34 by LilMizCMF RESPONDENTS: Peace LAST POST: Nov 25 2013 at 02:59

My name is Chloe Ferne I was born on the 8th June 1996. I am at this moment in time studying Business BTEC and Photography at a Sixth Form in Crowthorne Beriskhire in England. I have medium cut hair, I dye it… It is dark purple but to me it looks brown. I have blue eyes, people have complemented me on saying there beautiful. I don’t see that, not really… Days come and go where I get up a...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't know how to touch her
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 13 2013 at 09:01 by ToniB RESPONDENTS: Sharelle / Bobby5138 / jael LAST POST: Nov 21 2013 at 16:41

I am now entering my second serious lesbian relationship. I know everyone is going to think this is hot or something, but I am really nervous. See, I've been with girls before, but I stopped dating them because women are crazy. Well, I know how crazy this one is and I want to see her anyway. I really like this girl. The problem really is...she is more masculine than I am use to, and I just don't k...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat went wrong?? :(
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 21 2013 at 03:46 by latonia94 RESPONDENTS: Sharelle / TinaW / Pippy LAST POST: Oct 21 2013 at 12:45

I'll keep this short and simple because I really just want someone else's opinion someone else's insight on what I should do or maybe where I went wrong. so here's the thing. I've been friends with this girl for about 5 months. We've met at work because we were in training together. Now keep in mind me and her both are lesbians. So through conversation I've learned that she had a girlfriend and I...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryToo complicated to continue? Need friendship advice, please!
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 26 2013 at 06:58 by keiko926 RESPONDENTS: Peace / jael LAST POST: Sep 27 2013 at 14:07

So, to anyone who's reading this, please bear with me. A lot of this is complicated and probably seems a bit juvenile, but I could really use someone's advice. Around a year ago one of my really good friends came out to me. I am fully supportive of the gay community and was really very happy that she had the courage to come out and tell me. I even had doubts about my sexuality and still believe to...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryNot sure how stable my relationship is with my gf
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 20 2013 at 03:01 by mel0504 RESPONDENTS: jael LAST POST: Sep 20 2013 at 13:48

Its become apparent recently that given the opportunity my gf would cheat on me in a heartbeat if she met the right person or someone that peaked her interest. But she says she loves me wholeheartedly. Just really not sure how to take it and if she is actually happy with our relationship and where we are heading. I guess if she wanted to cheat she would have done it already but also says she doesn...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMy fella the bisexual transvestite
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 17 2013 at 11:36 by km14 RESPONDENTS: bluefish LAST POST: Aug 17 2013 at 19:31

My partner aged 50 confessed he likes to wear womens clothes. That came as a bit of a shock as weve been together 15 years!!The even bigger shock is that when he was supposedly going to the gym, he was going to transvestite venues. I kind of accepted it after all whats a few clothes and if it made him happy.It now transpires that he goes to gay saunas/venues as a tv looking for sex with men who li...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed help immediately
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 5 2013 at 17:58 by ronnie RESPONDENTS: lozz LAST POST: Aug 5 2013 at 22:12

hello...I don't know where to begin but I need advice from anyone....I will start backwards....my partner is giving me an ultimatum....I have one daughter she has three sons....I am to not allow my daughter to invite friends over or our marriage is over....yet her 19 yr old has invited friends over since he was 13....grant it other issues have arisen between us for the last 7 months....but to move...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryTwo at once and never before!
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 27 2013 at 00:55 by needhelp RESPONDENTS: KAGO LAST POST: Jul 31 2013 at 20:00

For the past year I have been trying to understand my feelings towards the same gender and I have come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual, however most of my family (all but one) are homophobic so I am scared to even admit this to myself and terrified that they would find out. I have friends who are homosexual but I do not know them well enough to feel comfortable talking to them about it -...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryIs my husband gay?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 17 2013 at 21:12 by virginia RESPONDENTS: Fluffy bunny LAST POST: Jul 18 2013 at 03:27

My husband and I have been married 25 years. We've had a pretty good relationship over the years. Sex has not always been very satisfying and sometimes not very often. We have 4 children, born fairly close so I've always just thought it normal because of how tired and busy we were. Well 2 years ago, he took on a building project for a remote piece of our property. He hired a young man who was the ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryPlease help asap
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 30 2013 at 05:55 by Livelife RESPONDENTS: Pink 20 / candycane904 LAST POST: Jul 1 2013 at 04:37

Hello my name jazmine and im having a problem in my relationship with my girlfriend we been together for 2 years and i have two twin girls . My problem in my relationship is my girlfriend has a problem with me having a babyfather and that he has to be in my life because of the kids. How could we work this situation out? ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryNaive GF
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 25 2013 at 22:12 by loveisblindnot RESPONDENTS: Me LAST POST: Jun 26 2013 at 03:18

I know i am naive but after finding emails on my boyfriend of 10 yrs phone. I confronted him he said it never happened. And that it is not an issue. When exchanging with other males on craigs list. B.S. It is something that is , has been, and going to continue, regardless of what he say's . dugh...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryIs he gay, move on?
[1 POST] CREATED: May 23 2013 at 22:26 by kxqmate RESPONDENTS: shannont13 LAST POST: May 25 2013 at 03:52

•About 4 1/2 years ago I had started dating this man 17 yrs older than I. He seemed mature, funny, and calm. We met on line and dated for about 3 months gleefully. I told him I would not Marry unless I lived with the person first since my marriage had been bad and I felt you don't know the person till you live with them. So, he agreed to if we did things right..( Go to church, no sexual , yada, ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm so confused!!
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 13 2013 at 00:43 by Greekprincess90245 RESPONDENTS: GemGem LAST POST: Mar 14 2013 at 13:15

I am a 44 year old woman. I have been in relationships with men my whole life. Until recently, I have found myself watching lesbian porn. I also started working with 2 gay women. One of the women, I can't stop thinking about her. I text her all the time and always want to see her. I have never felt this way about another woman before in my life and I don't know what to do about this. A big part of...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMy girlfriend well ex girlfriend
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 8 2013 at 06:31 by RaineTempest RESPONDENTS: Asia45 LAST POST: Mar 18 2013 at 03:20

I still love her and it seems as tho she still loves me for the simple fact that she is finding it hard to live with me yes we still live together even after the break up i have come to terms with the break up it happend and it was for the best we were both in bad spots in our lives but I still want her back she has been the first and only person I have let in and we have alot of "our stuff" so i ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryGender issues
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 7 2013 at 22:08 by saintee1000 RESPONDENTS: ConfuzedLover LAST POST: Mar 12 2013 at 03:59

I'm a 26 year old male with quite significant gender confusion. My family do not consider me to be anything other than a heterosexual male and because I have studied and lived both abroad and in different parts of the country, they are not aware that all my previous relationships have been with men. Unfortunately, even being with men, I still feel completely alien in my body and wish more than a...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy can't I just be happy?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 17 2013 at 20:39 by Dollymix RESPONDENTS: Abrowneyedgirl / Skywalker LAST POST: Feb 18 2013 at 10:36

Before meeting my partner I was married to a man for 9 years. I was always open that I was bisexual and I was always faithful! We had 2 kids together and the relationship started going stale. We were both unhappy and I ended up falling in love with my best friend (a lady and my current partner). We have been together five years and I love her very much but I feel something is missing in our relati...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMy boyfriend cannot acknowledge his mistakes mentally
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 18 2013 at 01:59 by rm5045203 RESPONDENTS: austin.jackson30213 / JeanG451 LAST POST: Jan 23 2013 at 18:44

I love my boyfriend to death and always will. We have been together for 6 months and we have so much fun and enjoy life together, but there is one recurring problem that he cant solve and that is him being able to admit to his problems when confronted instead of changing the subject or blaming me for his fault. i tell him over and over again and we talk and talk. for example: we go shopping at a s...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryNewly wed
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 9 2013 at 14:34 by Confusedla RESPONDENTS: Pennyjar LAST POST: Jan 9 2013 at 15:55

I had been dating this man for the past 2 years and we finally decided to tie the knot. Sex life was normal during dating days. It started to decrease as time passed. We had sex only like twice a month before marriage. We had sex only once during our short Honeymoon of 4D3N. After which we did not had any sex at all. I found out that I was pregnant after 1 month. Now my girl is Turing 18 months an...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryKatniss Everdeen
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 31 2012 at 17:50 by Katniss Everdeen RESPONDENTS: WolfGirl / Moral Code App in itunes LAST POST: Jan 5 2013 at 05:52

I think I'm in love with my best friend. I thought i was straight and she is confused about what she is. and its against my religion to be gay. But everytime i see her I want to grab her and kiss her. What do I do??...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryBroken trust
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 30 2012 at 04:37 by TideChamps15 RESPONDENTS: kristensutherland (alias modified to protect identity) / lostinconfusion27 LAST POST: Jan 8 2013 at 17:15

I have been in a relationship with this woman for almost 7 years. 6 months ago she met a straight woman and they began a relationship behind my back. I found out about it and confronted her. She swore she would end it with this woman and that she could not live without me. Well....it happened twice more and kept being promised that it was over between them. She swore it was over; that the othe...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryIn love with my best friend CREATED: Sep 14 2012 at 20:48 by rohit

I think I am in love with my best male friend..but he is not like me..and offlate he has starting avoiding me...this thing is killing me like anything..always now and then I am thinking about him and I cant share my feelings with any one :(..I dont know what to do??...Please some body suggest me how to overcome this..I have tried every possible solutions..from gifting him costly gifts to working f...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused and in denial CREATED: Sep 9 2012 at 07:18 by Jenay

I'm been going over this problem in my head for nearly 3 months now. I recently lost a relationship over this so I'm free to figure this out. I don't want to be bi-sexual everything would be so much easier if I could just still believe I'm straight. I can't figure out what I am anymore it use to be so clear but its not anymore. I wish I didn't care or just ignore the problem but I can't. I've alwa...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI need help
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 18 2012 at 23:30 by mollymoo123 RESPONDENTS: CamperVanChick / Pj LAST POST: Aug 24 2012 at 03:06

I need help with a problem. Well, it's not really a PROBLEM, but I'm just really confused. And as you can probably see from the topic, you'll know what I'm talking about. If someone could please message me and help me out, I'll be totally grateful....

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryNo trust what so ever
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 12 2012 at 23:21 by rashmelt (alias modified to protect identity) RESPONDENTS: hello LAST POST: Aug 15 2012 at 20:30

Ma bf is very sexy as well as ma self but the way he carries his self makes me feel like he is still playin tha single game now me i go out not lookin at anybody just stay to my self cuz i know i goy something gud he has cheated on me so many times and i w anna leave but ma heard wont let go wat should i do...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryAnnual awkward moment CREATED: Nov 21 2011 at 04:30 by Thatoneguy

Ok well, I don't classify myself as "gay" but I am attracted to guys... anyway. Here's the problem, last school year my freshman year of high school there was this boy who was the most popular, and beautifulist boys ever. He always seemed like he was gay, I would always look at him and he would look back at me and smile, he did seem a bit confused or deep in thought. But one day on Facebook during...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryI found my partner on a gay dating site
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 9 2011 at 16:20 by tara RESPONDENTS: ilovemary321 / Jess LAST POST: Feb 22 2012 at 01:27

I found that my partner of 8 years had been active, and had posted a profile on a gay dating site, he had logged onto the site at least three times a day for the past week. I had no idea about this previously until looking into his history on the computer. The relationship had been rocky for a few years. He made all kinds of excuses, but said he was not gay ...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 20 2010 at 19:50 by MattAndMello RESPONDENTS: maricel LAST POST: Mar 1 2010 at 02:27

Okay... I've considered myself bi for a while now, even though I've never actually liked any guys. Mainly because when i tried to come out to my mom the word bisexual sounded better than lesbian. But that's not the issue! My problem is that my best guy friend asked me out a few months ago and i told him yes- why not give it a shot right? And i thought i was startin to like him until on Christmas E...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryMarried but gay CREATED: Feb 14 2009 at 16:34 by Pebbles37

Hi, I'm 36 year old woman, have been married for 7years and have young children. My problem is I believe I'm Gay. I've questioned my sexuality since I was 15 or 16 but just brushed it aside. I have absolutely no sexual attraction to men whatsoever (even though i pretend to infront of family and friends) and fantasise about women all the time. I feel i've missed out on so much and am living a l...

LGBT advice forum category advice forum categoryBeing gay
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 13 2007 at 17:46 by ash RESPONDENTS: Andyman LAST POST: May 15 2007 at 20:15

Well I am a gay guy, recently copme out to my friends etc. Not particluaryly thrilled about the thought of being gay but have come round to the idea over the last few months. My next big step is to sit my parents down and tel them, I really don't no what to say to them so any advise would be very much appreciated! Thx, Ash...