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Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryTexting but not planning dates: why do men do this?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 10 2021 at 15:47 by Menara RESPONDENTS: Jennifer01 / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 12 2021 at 12:51

I'm a single mom officially divorced and separated since two years. Dating has been quite frustrating. I was with someone for a year who ended up not liking my children. We broke up seven months ago, and I've struggled through online dating the past months. I am noticing that some guys have a tendency of texting frequently (if not all day long), but rarely planning dates. Back in September I me...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy is it different with him and not the others
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 1 2021 at 23:30 by Teff01 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Aka LAST POST: Jan 5 2021 at 22:40

this might be in the wrong group but here goes nothing. Okay so no judgement here please. I am young and 100% single and living life through covid like most people. As covid has restricted alot of dating and getting to meet up with people for dates i decided that i would put that on hold and have some fun. I met the first guy in August this Last year. We both knew it was going to be a casual thing...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed some advice
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 9 2020 at 14:44 by QueenBeeDitto RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq / Aka / luvbirdsoldier LAST POST: Dec 13 2020 at 15:20

I'm a girl whos never been in a relationship before, getting to know another girl I met online. We don't have a relationship, but we're on the process of knowing each other before defining what we have. She's told me she had some drawbacks with past distance relationships and didn't seem sure to try at first, but thought I seemed like a good person and asked me to let things flow and go slow. We t...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryLet's be friends first
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 29 2020 at 08:42 by Fkramsey32 RESPONDENTS: Aka / MamaBear / luvbirdsoldier LAST POST: Dec 7 2020 at 20:00

So I met this guy online(he started the conversation first) and it almost three weeks since we started talking. Two days ago I asked him what exactly is he looking for, and he told me: “ Honestly I’m just looking to make new friends and see where that goes.. i dont believe in just jumping into a relationship and expecting it to be something serious. I feel like every couple needs to be friends...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryAdvice on being honest about being homeschooled?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 23 2020 at 08:45 by sendhelp RESPONDENTS: Aka / luvbirdsoldier LAST POST: Dec 10 2020 at 18:15

I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. Over the last few months I've started making some online friends (was getting desperate with quarantine). I (16F) have gotten really close with this one guy (17M) and we both like each other. We're not dating (I wasn't comfortable with the idea of an online relationship), but we text for hours every day, gm/gn texts, and voice call weekly. ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship advice for losers
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 9 2020 at 01:26 by Sunnyinglasgow RESPONDENTS: Bluebird11 LAST POST: Nov 14 2020 at 15:15

Sorry if this is too daft, but I had to get it out there. Im a single male in my early 30s and haven't really had a proper long term relationship. Ive tried to meet people, but never quite hit it off with anyone. So I tried online dating. You do come across interesting people, but for some reason it never goes beyond the first date. I try to be the gentleman, be polite, attentive and make her laug...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to get over unrequited feelings
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 25 2020 at 09:36 by imabitconfused RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / luvbirdsoldier LAST POST: Oct 25 2020 at 14:01

i've liked this girl i met online for over a year now. we are friends, and one night, a couple months ago, we had "a moment" and she told me i'm her ideal type and a lot of other stuff, i was the happiest person ever. she disappeared for one month, then we talked for a couple days but she was completely different. we stopped talking again, and time skip to now, about a month later, she's in love w...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryManipulative ex
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 28 2020 at 20:42 by Enie RESPONDENTS: AngelPaige LAST POST: Aug 18 2020 at 12:48

I'm here again to look for forums where I can share my insides. I feel really bad about starting last month. I've done bad deeds like flirting even having a guy for a reason that my partner is busy and entertaining other stuff. He wanted me to tell him what's wrong and if I do he will say that all I do is make him mad. We're both are LDR meaning if I'm in Asia he's on the US. So my problem is ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryCan anyone enlighten me about European guys? CREATED: Jul 10 2020 at 08:41 by Shanamie

Just wondering if maybe I could get some answers here and advice as well. I met 2 European guys from dating sites. 1 is Swedish and the other was Finnish. They told me they were introverts and I actually myself was an introvert so not a big issue to me. I've been talking to the Swedish guy for 2 weeks now and just some days to the Finnish guy. Swedish guy highly expressed that he wanted to be m...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryGuy giving so many mixed signals
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 29 2020 at 00:02 by anarthiedt RESPONDENTS: Bluebird11 / manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: May 3 2020 at 13:13

Hi. So I started talking to this guy well over a year ago. He initially was more interested than I was and kept emphasizing how he wanted to meet me. We finally met and went on a date and I thought it went really well. Life got the better of us and finding a time to hangout again got difficult. He insisted on talking to me all day every day though. It started getting to the point though where he s...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryI feel like my relationship is one-sided. Help?
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 14 2020 at 06:26 by night.stxrms RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 15 2020 at 13:46

I got into a relationship with someone almost 3 months ago. I’ve been into them for about 3 years, but it was only a few months ago that we got together. They originally said that we could give a relationship a try, and we agreed on that. Over these three months though, they haven’t really said much about it. Part of it might be because we live so far away, but I have other doubts. See, the...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDating advice. Stay or move on?
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 28 2020 at 23:41 by Tomf1864 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Feb 29 2020 at 11:00

I need some dating advice and would appreciate it so much. I’ve been going out with this lad for a few weeks, we hit it off and went on fun dates. We got to know each other and started to like each other. Then one day he was telling me how he felt life and work was getting on top of him and the next day he told me he needed some time for himself. I respected that and told him that if he n...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryGrindr mishap
[1 POST] CREATED: May 1 2019 at 16:14 by oh my RESPONDENTS: Nikola LAST POST: May 16 2019 at 14:23

so i joined grindr kind of as a joke, cause im straight. but like now im kind of questioning. am i a fake gay if i found out through grindr? also like i dont really know how to flirt with men. any tips? also blowjob tips?...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHow long is too long
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 23 2018 at 23:29 by lonely girl RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 26 2018 at 02:50

Hi I’m sorry I’ve never done this before so I apologise if I ramble but I really need some advice. I’m single and have been for about 6 months now, well anyway on Saturday I joined an internet dating site and after a few days chatting to this one guy we arranged to meet up in town for coffee this afternoon. I turned up at the agreed time and waited and waited I waited for an hour and the guy...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy would he delete me for something so petty?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 15 2018 at 01:18 by Chez200 RESPONDENTS: IcarusWings / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 02:47

He deleted me off Snapchat after i pressed to call him rather than send him a chat. I hung up as soon as I realised what I'd done but when I typed a quick sorry into chat it said the message was pending until I was added as a friend. We had spoke almost everyday for a few weeks but this dwindled as it was almost impossible to see each other. We did know each other but we didn't meet up since t...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryFriends with benefits guy says he really likes me and now I am confused
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 22 2018 at 08:34 by menaresoconfusing RESPONDENTS: Teddybearlover7 / Scopes / bunnyhabit / Crazylove7 LAST POST: Jul 29 2018 at 12:42

I apologise in advance for the length but I feel it's relevant. I met a local guy online whilst I was still living with my husband. I had checked out of my marriage beforehand but was staying because of our children. The guy I was talking to was supposed to just be a bit of fun but quickly through talking he showed me that my husband was abusive. We spoke for 2 weeks and then met up, talked ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryGoodbye dating
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 18 2018 at 18:40 by borolad1979 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / Hextall LAST POST: Mar 20 2018 at 01:07

What I am saying is not about advice, it's just the following: The reason why i am apprehensive about going on dating sites is because i cannot strike a conversation whatsoever. I am 39 yr old male from the UK. I know that i have been on Tinder and POF but to be honest i can't do it. It's something that has really affected and bothered me for so long now, i know that i will be single for a long ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryOnline dating late 40’s
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 1 2018 at 02:36 by Topcat1538 RESPONDENTS: MamaBear LAST POST: Mar 2 2018 at 19:38

I have been divorced for over a year but was in a loveless marriage for much longer. I have dated several women over the last year and have had many different experiences. Both good and bad. I decided to take some time away from dating until about a month ago. I started chatting with 3 women online. I am very old school which doesn’t help with online dating. I have a difficult time investing in ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDating a younger guy
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 9 2017 at 17:24 by Amatae RESPONDENTS: TRULUV / susiedqq / manalone LAST POST: Sep 10 2017 at 17:01

Hello, I need some advice.... I'm really in uncharted waters... I met my guy on an online art site and we were friends and I didn't know his age. Then, when I realized my attraction I did find out he was 18. A few months later we became an online couple and made it official when he was 19. I'm 32 right now and he's 21. While he is immature and I understand his age is a lot of figurin...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHeart broken
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 4 2017 at 23:00 by son61 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 6 2017 at 22:12

at 55 i fell head over heels in love met him on line and i found him on other dateing sites...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHusband threatening marriage fraud
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 1 2017 at 22:40 by exscaped RESPONDENTS: slowjoe83 / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 4 2017 at 15:28

I met my husband online and we got married when i flew to the US to meet him as we had often discussed..we talked for almost a year before and this was something he wanted as much as i did cos we were in love. When i was there alone with him, he often was verbally abusive and even strangled me , threatened me with guns etc.. i also found out he had a prior record for molesting an underage girl. On...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryOnline dating
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 1 2016 at 07:23 by Sadd RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / catlady LAST POST: Nov 6 2016 at 19:51

So I have been messaging a guy for over a month now and all going well we were due to meet soon. We arranged a date that is the coming week. He messaged most days and we exchanged photos etc. We messaged as normal last Thursday and. Now nothing. Just dead silence. I've never met the guy so should I just forget it? Should I message one last time around our 'date' and tell him it would have been pol...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categorySo confusion with mixed signals?
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 19 2016 at 00:05 by Thisguyhelpneeded RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 19 2016 at 16:50

Hi guys so I got a question. Nothing as serious as you would normally find just the usual romance type stuff. Anyway I have been talking to this girl on Tinder (I know). Now usually I don’t expect much from tinder but for the last week we have been talking quite a bit. She is a foreign girl who hasn’t made many friends here so is quite lonely. Anyway we start talking and after a while sh...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryTimewasters
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 18 2016 at 14:17 by nbjordan RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 19 2016 at 14:26

I've been on dating site for awhile now talking to guys. You find a guy that you like and you attempt to meet him, 1 little thing doesn't sit right with them and they hit you with the "sorry I don't think this is going to work". It's happened to me many times now and I'm getting sick of my feelings being hurt and being let down. A guy turned me down because he didn't feel comfortable with me makin...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryOnline dating-commitment
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 15 2016 at 22:06 by anita4589 RESPONDENTS: KrissyRhae / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 19 2016 at 15:52

Hello there who can help me with my situation? I am 41 years old and three years ago I met a nice guy online (now 51 years old). I was just playing around but it turned out he's such a wonderful person. We dated a while and later got intimate. I fell for him and him for me so he claimed. He was in a bitter divorce involving custody and money issues. After getting sexually involved he claimed...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryOnline dating infatuation
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 9 2016 at 20:23 by Sunnydaiye RESPONDENTS: moth247 / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 13 2016 at 12:17

So, I started online dating a few months ago to see what was out there. After about a month of unsuccessful interactions, I got a response from a guy I was interested in who had just subscribed. We exchanged numbers pretty quickly and, although he said he wanted to talk and meet pretty quickly, we mainly just texted, which resulted in me ending communication out of frustration. About a week la...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to move on if you're still waiting for him
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 9 2016 at 16:16 by Ninel RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 9 2016 at 16:40

I have been in a long distance relationship for 2 months ( I know that isn't a serious period, but is still hurts). We met some 4 years ago and I immediately liked him. During this 2 months he said he felt the same way, and we decided to start a relationship. Everything was excellent for us (at least I thought so). We were talking/ chatting all day long and having plans for the future. We were to ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryGive him a chance
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 28 2016 at 16:04 by Peb123 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 29 2016 at 06:49

Ive got the chance to meet a bloke from a dating site. Says hes still living with his wife and two kids but they only stay together because of the kids. Told him why is he cheating if he is genuine as he says he is, told me he would rather meet tell me then instead of in text or he would call me and tell me if i wanted to know. I asked him if he wanted a relationship with someone then how could th...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryMy story - should I try to talk with him again?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 12 2016 at 15:06 by Grimsy RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 13 2016 at 04:30

Hello. I know this might sound strange, but I need an advice. I've met someone in internet (not in dating site) and I fell hopelessly in love. That person lives in another continent but I feel like he is the right one for me. I want to give him everything, I'm ready do change my plans in order to be with him and I believe I can make everything work between us... but only if he wants it too. He ha...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHe is married-dating site
[1 POST] CREATED: May 30 2016 at 21:21 by mystique89 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 31 2016 at 18:08

I got talking to this guy on a dating site a few months back. I found it a little weird after 2 weeks he hadn't given his phone number or asked for mine. One particular day I gave mine and said he could text me as I had to go for the day. I never got a text and when I came back he just said he had run into some crazy girls on the site before so didn't want to give out his number right away, and...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryI am betrayed.. he lied and cheated but I still love him
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 16 2016 at 22:17 by Redgirl RESPONDENTS: SilviaGirl / Soulmate / skinnygirl / susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 20 2016 at 15:34

I have an online boyfriend..we talked for six months seems that his serious bout our relationship,his very kind and his planning to come here and meet me in person just saving money for the travel,but then recently I foundout he has a gf in real life,the girl visited him to his place together with the family..i feel so bad and down when I knew it but his super denying it he never said its me on th...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categorySecrets in a relationship
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 4 2016 at 02:12 by Tex RESPONDENTS: TILES LAST POST: Feb 13 2016 at 20:48

I will begin by telling the story from the beginning to give some insight on the history of the relationship. You can skip to the star (*) to see the actual problem. My relationship with him began after I broke up with my ex, who is now my best friend. I usually know right away if people have feelings for me, but this time I didn't know. He sent terribly mixed signals and the fact that we lived...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryMoving in together after online / long distance
[253 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 27 2016 at 10:48 by nana RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / luvbird / Scopes / Annigirl23 LAST POST: Oct 6 2016 at 18:02

first of all hello and thx for having me here..i kinda feel bad for not getting more info and looking through other articles before my bf moved to my country..so my questions is, what if we fucked it all up? i dont even know where to start.. 1.for me it was waaay to quick with the physical part so i felt extremly overwhelmed for not setting boudaries which made me very mad because i didnt tell ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryOnline girlfriend
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 19 2016 at 17:03 by AnthonyS RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul / PJVL9 LAST POST: Jan 23 2016 at 00:46

Hello, my name is Anthony and I'm a 16 year old Male. I have recently met this girl, we started talking on Facebook. (I'll call her "C" because I don't want to give out her personal details). I started talking to this girl on Facebook, she's everything I've ever wanted: Smart, Beautiful, Friendly, Nice, and alot more. I have been to the point where I wanted to stop living before, however, I dec...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDid something I really regret on webcam - but I like him
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 19 2015 at 20:50 by Wolfandraven RESPONDENTS: manalone / TILES LAST POST: Dec 20 2015 at 04:25

I have this FaceBook friend who is a guy from Japan. I met him on a pen-pal site but I've never met him in person. He's 21 and I'm 18. Well, A couple months ago, we were chatting and eventually it progressed to dirty talk, and he sent me a picture of his, you-know-what. I have to admit, I really like him. Also, as I only attracted to East Asian guys and there are none in my area, he was like my es...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm sex addicted
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 24 2015 at 20:16 by jen RESPONDENTS: PJVL9 LAST POST: Sep 24 2015 at 22:33

M a girl and n sex addicted plz help me. M scared very scared...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryUnable to talk to ladies well
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 31 2015 at 04:38 by riley1975 RESPONDENTS: Knot2loud LAST POST: Jul 31 2015 at 13:12

I am pretty bad at talking to ladies. I want to get in a relationship and get married some day, but this social awkwardness always prevent me from it. I rarely talk to women in office or at parties. My friends try their best to help me, and once they even tried to set me up for a date with a lady through a matchmaking service named Premier introductions,http://www.premierintroductions.ca/ . That l...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp!
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 11 2015 at 08:17 by icantthinkofaname RESPONDENTS: AnAnonymousGuy LAST POST: Jun 11 2015 at 09:36

I've been in an online relationship with this guy for about a year and a half. We met thru Facebook (November 2013) and started messaging each other everyday. We fell in love.. We then met for the first time a year later. (February 2015). We've only seen each other 4 times ever since. I live in Puerto Rico and so did he, but he recently moved to Pennsylvania. I am 18 he is 20. He wants me to move ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryRomeo and Juliet situation?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 19 2015 at 04:46 by Shy1229 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / rasperrr / SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 24 2015 at 20:14

Me and my close friend are in a sort of Romeo and Juliet situation. To get a little back story of what we are exactly I'll explain. A bit over 2 years ago me and my friend met online, everything was going smoothly we'd talk on the phone, video chat, text every day and everything. We learned a lot about each other and about our families as well. I began having feelings for him and I soon found out ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryPlease suggest me how to get this guy back in my life
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 28 2015 at 06:23 by Diva17 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 5 2015 at 04:58

Hello all. I am a 24 yr old girl working. I have a guy ( say X ) in my life, who is 26 also working, and stays in another country. I know him from school, but actually started talking wuth each other regularly, after my college,about 4 yrs back. At that time we used to chat regularly. He was getting serious about me, but at that time i was coping with my break up with first bf and was busy s...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryMatrimonial advertisement with fake info turned serious
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 27 2015 at 16:36 by Angel.sugar RESPONDENTS: Diva17 LAST POST: Mar 27 2015 at 17:19

I met this American citizen through a matrimonial website. I liked talking to him and we had good mental connection but I came to know he was divorced 5 yrs ago with two kids whose custody is with his ex. Reason he mention is his ex wife's greed for his money and property. As per my experience he is caring responsible loving caring but when he is angry he looses his mind. His anger is really bad ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryAny good mobile app to socialize with strangers?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 5 2015 at 05:18 by RitikaAiken RESPONDENTS: Katie Milano / JessyAdams LAST POST: Mar 5 2015 at 13:29

Hi guys, Can you suggest any good mobile/iPhone app to make new friends and chat with them?...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHow can I show my girlfriend I care?
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 19 2015 at 02:14 by harramo RESPONDENTS: Shivangi LAST POST: Feb 20 2015 at 05:10

I just posted a few minutes ago. But I want to know how can I show my online girlfriend I care and love her? I tell her everyday I love her and that I want her to be happy. But I don't think that's enough and I want to know what else I can do to have her feel that. If you read my last one you know we are not happy all the time and now that I think about it, it might be because I don't show it enou...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category#ItsHisProblemButIWannaKnowWhy
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 29 2015 at 12:28 by EveLynGates RESPONDENTS: cslhitman LAST POST: Jan 29 2015 at 19:19

Hi,call me Eve. Just so U know, this is my first time writing a problem online.To be more specific, it's not my problem but I have a feeling it will be soon... :( I'm still a highschooler and relationships are one of the biggest issue. A guy in my class always goes hitting on girls right after a break-up with his girlfriend.One of them were me and believe it or not, he was my first love....

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum category7 years..
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 26 2015 at 06:18 by Hithereinternet RESPONDENTS: Heythere LAST POST: Jan 26 2015 at 13:22

I met this guy on a website called moco space 7 years ago... He was nice and everything at first. We talked through the site and eventually started texting and calling each other. We also video chatted and he was real, but what I didn't understand is why he never came. He's in the military rn &' he says that he's been in the same town as me several times, but that I don't see him because he's on...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryMixed signals
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 24 2015 at 23:08 by pookyduke RESPONDENTS: unnamed / susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 19 2015 at 16:10

About 6 mos. ago I met a guy on-line in SL (Second Life). A chance meeting but we connected immediatedly. We surprised each other by really opening up to each other about our pasts and the emotional toil it's taken on us both. Lots of shared pain and secrets. A connection was formed - a deep one. I've never been married/no kids and I've led a sheltered life, but with lots of emotional abuse. He's ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryToo shallow?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 13 2015 at 01:32 by katey RESPONDENTS: TheHelper2015 LAST POST: Jan 13 2015 at 02:11

I was happily married for 17 years. We started having trouble.He finally moved out around the 23 year mark. We have been divorced for about 3 years now. He is remarried I still have not dated . i have been on line on dating websights on and off. In the years I have spent looking online I have only been on 3 dates, and have been stood up twice. I am very picky about who I chat with on those sites....

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm 22 and have never been in a relationship.
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 9 2015 at 05:34 by Rach28 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / ThomasFoolery LAST POST: Jan 10 2015 at 16:37

I'm 22. I've been on a few dates, but have never been in a relationship or even been kissed. The last time there were any romantic feelings between myself and a guy was like 6 years ago, and even that never turned into anything due to the timing of it. In high school there were maybe 1 or 2 other guys that I liked, but I never pursued them for circumstantial reasons. Since then, nothing. I'm so...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDying for her
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 8 2015 at 08:23 by bluesea RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / unnamed LAST POST: Jan 9 2015 at 20:11

hello all, i m single 28 year old male. Four months back i met a women (married) trough social networking, after some days chatting and talking on phone we get close to each other, i fall in love with her after knowing all the things that shes not happy with her marriage and husband. we start doing video chats and i decided to meet her,i went her city to meet her as we lives another cities, we...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryOnline dating a guy but discovering he has a long term gf
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 1 2015 at 11:23 by Lucy RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 1 2015 at 15:55

About 6 months ago I decided to bite the bullet and try and meet THE ONE. So I joined a niche dating website (paid) to meet someone who had likeminded interests and who wanted to settle down in later life. I got chatting to a guy (ill call him David on here) who seemed really genuine, interesting, polite (quite well to do) from a nice family etc and more importantly he was keen on me, we exhan...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryCommunication Breakdown
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 27 2014 at 12:16 by mixedsignals RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 28 2014 at 14:24

Ran into a girl I'd dated a couple times, at a party held by a mutual friend. The last time I'd contacted her was to ask her out to a movie and she never got back. We'd exchanged occasional "likes" and mild flirtations on Facebook, our only real means of connection.Then I just gave up on her. About 6 months later, early in Dec, I received an invitation from a mutual friend, for a party. I'd seen s...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryLove or lust
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 22 2014 at 15:31 by moonandstars RESPONDENTS: Sunshine1976 / Violette LAST POST: Dec 24 2014 at 11:10

Three months ago i met a man from a on line dating site. I was attracted to him straight away. We have met every week or every 10 days for sex but also to meet just for a coffee. I dont know if i love him or it is just lust. I have stayed all night with him 3 times now but on the second and third time he never hugs me or turns my way in bed and it hurts me, i love affection and i do feel that on...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to start a conversation
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 5 2014 at 20:07 by H2S04 RESPONDENTS: A-Guest-You-Know LAST POST: Dec 5 2014 at 21:24

So i did meet someone on this dating app thing that i have never used before as we both liked each other (i think partly because we had 7 interests in common) and now i do not know how to start a conversation since i have never dated 1 person in my life. Kind of nervous if i'm honest. So how would i start a conversation as i know something like "Hey" or "How are you doing" would sound boring and w...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryMy parents don't like my boyfriend
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 2 2014 at 22:12 by Ssecret RESPONDENTS: pink_bunny / susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 3 2014 at 16:34

I met my boyfriend two years ago in an online game. And for many reasons, we didn't get a chance to meet each other personally. Recently, we are planning for our first time face to face date. Though we have being on skype everyday for over 4 hours. My parents really hate this idea. They think he is just play me. Even though he is serious, his family is not as good as my family. He is living in a s...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryNot texting after month of talking.
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 1 2014 at 01:38 by buddy76 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Tommmylover LAST POST: Dec 2 2014 at 00:25

Hello, everyone. I met a really nice girl online. We texted, called, and skyped for a month. We both live in two different states, but she came down with a bunch of her family for vacation about an hour from where I lived. She was there for 4 days, and said she was too busy with family to see me. Once she got back home, she did not want to talk as much. I text about what was going on, and she, out...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryFriendzoned through the internet?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 19 2014 at 09:32 by lemonchamp RESPONDENTS: Regrowth / susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 20 2014 at 15:29

Now, I don't really like the term, but there's no better way of putting it. 22 yo. Male. Pretty much a shut-in, and of course no experience whatsoever in the romantic department, be it online or face to face. But then this girl happened. We got to know each other via social networks, and hit it off immediately. I instantly felt that it was a "made for each other" sort of thing, and she let me k...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryCan anyone help?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 15 2014 at 08:54 by randomusername2014 RESPONDENTS: Supergoodadvice / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 15 2014 at 14:10

Sorry for the wall of text. I have known this girl for at least four years now we always liked each other but we never found the right time in the past, I have always been there for her even when she'd push me away because of a boyfriend or people teasing her for liking me, always making her feel better when her boyfriends would not be treating her right which was often. We finally dated a m...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat should I do with the guy I met online?
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 14 2014 at 04:45 by Lonelygirl25 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 14 2014 at 18:04

Advice I need an advice on my situation right now please don't judge, I can accept opinions. Well, here we go, I met a guy on Craigslist. But before I tell you how this happen, let me tell you that I'm not the type of girl looking for guys online. My main purpose to go on Craigslist was because I wanted to check out cheap cars for me to buy and after a long time of searching I got tired and ou...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryLost catfish
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 5 2014 at 15:02 by JD81 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 11 2014 at 14:39

Hello ;:) well starting from the beginning I joined a dating site under a false alias to try to see if my partner was cheating on me this was about 8 months back. In my search to catch my bf out I started talking to this very charming lovely man and we got on really well I began talking to him everyday and we swapped numbers and talked all the time the only thing was I had a bf and I wasn't the sa...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I be optimistic?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 26 2014 at 07:42 by female_ace RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 26 2014 at 22:24

I was celibate for 4 years, I had given up on ever being in a relationship, but couldn't continue ignoring my urges. So, I posted an ad on one of those chat sites for an "intimate encounter" and after cyphering through all the perverts and nudes pics I came across this one guy who stood out and after engaging in an actual conversation and exchanging pictures, I built up the courage to meet him. Wh...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryUsing me?
[27 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 7 2014 at 08:29 by Betsyxx RESPONDENTS: manalone / Soulmate / susiedqq / Super Sarah / Bettyxxx LAST POST: Nov 1 2014 at 15:21

I met a guy from a on line dating site. It was instant attraction for me. I see he still visits the site. Ive met him six times now, we have slepted together. Should he still used the site because he told me he likes me and saying he misses me. I dont think he should be on it if what he says is true. I was with him yesterday I checked the site and he had been on it that night. Am I getting used? I...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it just insecurity?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 30 2014 at 22:15 by Gill.i.am RESPONDENTS: manalone / Hopingfor LAST POST: Oct 1 2014 at 01:14

I've always agreed that it is important to look towards the future but the guy who I am currently in a relationship with appears to be taking this to the extreme. Let me give you a little background information: 1. We met online almost 3 week's ago. 2. There's a considerable age gap between us (15 years). 3. He's Turkish (a cultural difference perhaps?) 4. I'm quite inexperienced when i...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDoes this " about me " text have the desired effect?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 24 2014 at 15:30 by adelphos RESPONDENTS: Super Sarah / John Alex Clark LAST POST: Sep 25 2014 at 02:43

Hey, you probably know this "about me" section on online dating sites. I would like to know, which impression a person, who does not know me, has after having read my text. Especially it is important, that it sounds on the one hand self-confident, but by no means arrogant, because I am not arrogant at all. Would you like to get to know a person, who has written this text and why? The text is a...

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[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 17 2014 at 19:37 by nickname RESPONDENTS: Lingling28 / susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 25 2014 at 19:50

Hi there, I am posting here to get some advice and some other people’s opinions. To start off I want to say I really haven’t dated to many girls, so I don’t have much experience with dating. I met this girl on an online dating site about 6 months ago. We really hit it off, we had almost every little thing in common we would even text each other at the same time saying hi for the day. We eith...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryPlease help!!! I really miss him but should I text or call him or wait for him??
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 16 2014 at 07:55 by Twill0612 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 16 2014 at 20:07

So I met this boy about 11 months ago on instagram and he asked me for my kik and I gave it to and we talked since. He lives in Oklahoma and I live in Texas so we've never met cause our parents wont let us, we're both 16 at the moment. He's really the sweetest guy ever, he's caring, we have a lot in common and I have a lot of feelings for him.. like I can really say im in love with him. Well he fe...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryI made a mistake I regret everyday
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 24 2014 at 22:49 by SapphireDragon RESPONDENTS: unnamed / susiedqq / Shivangi / K LAST POST: Aug 25 2014 at 21:48

I met a guy online that I liked a lot, and we spent this summer together like everyday, on skype video calls, playing different games together, and spending our nights watching movies on netflix while on call. Whenever we weren't working, we were together. Around 2 months later, we both had to return to college and we both wouldn't have quite as much time to spend together anymore. But before scho...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryBother or not
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 22 2014 at 12:43 by pibb RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / !!! LAST POST: Aug 24 2014 at 09:24

I met a man through on line dating only once so far. We had a hour talking then he went away sent me a texted an hour later to say it was nuce meeting and if I want to meet again to let him know. I said I did and did he and he said yes then the next day he sent a message asking how I was and I said when did he want to meet and he said yes he did then the next day he sent a message saying did I wa...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categorySpark lost?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 18 2014 at 00:30 by TexasCoder RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 18 2014 at 14:17

Hi. So, I've been dating a girl I met online for a little over a year now. We used to talk late into the night every night last summer. We're both in university. During the semester, I didn't hear from her much, and she didn't respond often to my skype messages. I've heard from her family, though, that she would skip classes and many other things to be around for when I got back from class and wai...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryGiving up someone who seems to be my soulmate
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 6 2014 at 21:27 by Soraia RESPONDENTS: joedon LAST POST: Aug 6 2014 at 21:46

Hi! I met a 34 year-old-men in a dating site. Both looking for a serious relationship in our profile. Our talk was so fluid that we met in person the next day. We found a lot of affinities, as we had never seen with other people. Intellectual similarities, same life values, taste for art, same way to see the world. After that, we found we were very sexually compatible, too. It´s been 2 months...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryGiving up someone who seens to be my soulmate
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 6 2014 at 21:06 by Soraia RESPONDENTS: ColdSnowBunny LAST POST: Aug 6 2014 at 21:31

Hi! I met a 34 year-old-men in a dating site. Both looking for a serious relationship in our profile. Our talk was so fluid that we met in person the next day. We found a lot of affinities, as we had never seen with other people. Intellectual similarities, same life values, taste for art, same way to see the world. After that, we found we were very sexually compatible, too. It´s been 2 months...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryOnline dating
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 29 2014 at 05:14 by adamkevinlee RESPONDENTS: Belskin LAST POST: Jul 29 2014 at 19:54

I heard,Online dating is important for people who prefer this technology to find their soul mate. Getting the right person will depend highly on the best way to construct your profile. Is it true or not?...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDo you think I should tell a guy, before meeting, that I'm overweight?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 23 2014 at 09:52 by jscot RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / ColdSnowBunny LAST POST: Jul 23 2014 at 17:31

We first started speaking about a month ago on Twitter. He's in a small band who are just starting out. I know he is who he says he is as he initially contacted me privately through his bands account, after i complimented their new single. After that, he contacted me on his personal account. Ever since then, we've spoke every day. Usually for at least 5 hours a day. Apart from a close friend, ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryWhen they say let's take a break
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 7 2014 at 10:05 by Kazu RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / LifeIsNow2014 / ColdSnowBunny LAST POST: Jul 8 2014 at 13:41

So, I have been dating this guy online for 5 years now. We see each other as much as possible with plane fare rates and all, and used to talk with each other every night. We have had some issues over the years, what relationship hasn't? However we always seemed to work through them. I have literally given him everything, my time and patience- my encouragement and support. He has severe depressi...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryGoing to an out of town party with someone I just started dating?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 3 2014 at 00:14 by june8 RESPONDENTS: unnamed / Shivangi / Qwerty LAST POST: Jul 4 2014 at 03:33

I just started dating this guy a couple weeks ago and he's asked me to a party thrown by his friend on the 4th. It's out of town, and I'm still kind of new to the area I'm living in, and I would not know anybody except him. I am also shy and not the most sociable person with strangers. Sometimes I do fine at parties where I don't know anyone, but sometimes I don't do well at all and end up seeming...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryA weird situation
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 10 2014 at 17:08 by graffiti_bridge RESPONDENTS: ColdSnowBunny / unnamed / susiedqq / Shivangi LAST POST: Jun 11 2014 at 19:35

Ok so a couple of years ago I encountered a girl -and I'll be frank here, ok- on a porn site. She is what is known as a 'cam model'. I befriended her. We talked on skype and the like regularly for two years. Recently she flew from America to the UK to stay with me for a month. We became even closer as a result of this (sexual relations and such). Over this time I've come to have pretty strong feel...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I be dating other men
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 5 2014 at 04:02 by Timbo RESPONDENTS: Mountain / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 5 2014 at 13:11

I met this man through an online dating site several months ago, we started dating in January but it quickly turned into casual sex only. I think the biggest mistake is that neither of us discussed what either of us wants in a relationship and I want to eventually be in an exclusive relationship with someone. I have not dated anyone else since I've started seeing this guy because I don't believe...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat does all this mean and why is this??
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 26 2014 at 18:00 by LadyLoveBug RESPONDENTS: Dominic Wild / susiedqq LAST POST: May 26 2014 at 22:11

Say u met a woman from off of a site. You met in the flesh like what each other sees and you keep telling her you want to date her, she is feeling you so much though. All of a sudden, YOU get informed that you have to work odd hours due to a schedule change in your shift. But according to you, you had a feeling this was going to happen because you dealing with construction as a foreman. You just ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryFirst date
[14 POSTS] CREATED: May 10 2014 at 03:01 by Superla RESPONDENTS: bittersweet / Mountain / fiona2505 / susiedqq LAST POST: May 16 2014 at 15:39

I asked this guy online if he wanted to come to the lacrosse game so he decided he wanted to and bought a ticket. I met him there with my friend with us as well. He showed up super late. Anyway at the end of the game I wanted to get to know him more and it probably was not the best idea but I brought him back to my place and we went for a hot tub and then watched a movie. We kissed and cuddled...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryI am disgusted with myself; I lied about my age!
[5 POSTS] CREATED: May 7 2014 at 22:53 by Loser101 RESPONDENTS: Mountain LAST POST: May 8 2014 at 02:50

Hi. First of all, I don't want any judgments, I'm judging myself all the time. I am so upset because this is so unlike me. I value honesty in relationships, and I wouldn't want anyone to lie to me. What happened is I met this wonderful man online. It was on a forum where I didn't need to post my age, so it's not like I lied to everyone on the site. We really clicked, and I really like him. ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryConfusion & adoration
[1 POST] CREATED: May 5 2014 at 12:07 by Skye RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: May 5 2014 at 23:06

I had been using a dating app for a while and over a month ago a guy started to talk to me (for privacy sake, let's call him Jack). After Jack and I became more comfortable with one another, we shared connections on Facebook and Skype. We were constantly in contact, whether we were out or at home, text or video. After about two weeks, he asked if he could come see me, but seeing as I'm a college s...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHe is staying all day long in the chat room
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 16 2014 at 13:53 by losty RESPONDENTS: Mountain / susiedqq / Shivangi / persa90 LAST POST: Apr 17 2014 at 15:53

Hi everyone, I am so damn confused that I will appreciate every idea how to change things. I met a guy online, maybe a month ago or a little bit more, we got emotionally close very soon, we talked every evening after work...he is even planning to travel very long distance to see me very soon, talking about marriage and children... And then the surprise, he has almost no time to talk with me for d...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryMet this guy through matrimonial site
[10 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 12 2014 at 07:00 by Anu0001 RESPONDENTS: Shivangi / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 14 2014 at 13:30

Hi, I am 28 and met a guy through a matrimonial site after talking to him over the phone since 3-4 months. He came from US to India to meet me but insisted to go to goa with him to make it memorable for both of us. We went there spent some time together then he came to delhi to see me off. Earlier he said he will meet my parents but when i asked him he wasn't completely ready i guess. We were qu...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryOnline relationship problem
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 2 2014 at 22:13 by danjo RESPONDENTS: manalone / Classy LAST POST: Apr 3 2014 at 05:04

I asked the girl I'm dating to spend a bit more time with me because we haven't spent much time together recently her reply was "She wants to focus on her life". A bit more which is ok because I know that life is important and so is education. She agreed to try and spend more time with me. Asoon as I mentioned I have to go to college tomorrow so goes mad at me and starts to ignore me. It's almos...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I or shouldn't I? CREATED: Mar 26 2014 at 00:05 by john65

I arranged a date with a woman from an on line dating site. Two weeks ago we met at a restaurant and had a great time. We had a great connection also. She even extended the date by asking me to go to another place for a couple of drinks. I asked her if she would want to go out again and she said definitely. When we walked outside by my surprise she gave me a kiss and said she had a great time. The...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryUtterly confused
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 20 2014 at 15:00 by grayrider RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / manalone LAST POST: Mar 21 2014 at 11:27

I am seeking some advice. I am a 48 year old single father of one (divorced). In November 2012 I met a 23 (at the time she is now 25) young woman on an online Ukrainian dating site (I know all the stores). We talked for a couple of weeks and moved over to a social networking site used by most people. From that point on we talked daily. We do have several common interest. She is smart well educat...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryIs he or isn't he?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 17 2014 at 12:35 by heartonsleeve RESPONDENTS: Mountain / susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 17 2014 at 13:58

I've met a guy via an online dating portal (we are both in our 40's). I am totally smitten and dare I say it, in love with this guy. I believe he too likes me a lot - but therein lies the problem. He never actually tells me his feelings for me. He has always said that he wants to take things slowly as he has come out of a 3 year relationship and this is the first time he's been "single" in years a...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryGuys who keep distant
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 25 2014 at 23:10 by NagSki RESPONDENTS: Shivangi LAST POST: Feb 26 2014 at 17:16

I have a group of online artist friends. I met their mutual online friend, a curator at a festival over a year ago. We had chemistry. I added him on fb he had a girlfriend. Disappointed. He flirted online & our mutual online friend (a guy he's worked with) shared private info about me which exasperated me. Almost a year past, he breaks up, and adds all (including a vampy girl on-top of him) on soc...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryFor better or worse, richer or poorer
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 21 2014 at 15:48 by annwyl RESPONDENTS: manalone / girlygirl LAST POST: Feb 22 2014 at 03:49

I've been friends , best friends with a man in Australia . We've spoken almost everyday via the net or phone in all this time with the exception of his taking a few walk-abouts . He has promised and worked out coming to America to be with me in all this time many times . Something always comes up though . He gives himself a 6 month time window and the first 3 months of this window everything is pe...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryEx wished me??? What should I do? Help!!
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 2 2014 at 14:40 by libertyme RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / ventura23 LAST POST: Feb 3 2014 at 19:30

Hi. I was dumped in a LDR 5 months ago. We went NC immediately. I never contacted him and vice versa. Last Saturday, he texted me, wishing me Happy New Year and hope i'm doing just fine. Should I be a sport and reply him thanks? but deep down it's eating me up. I try not to think and associate anything... I'm still healing... What do you think I should do? I know it's nothing specia...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryIn desperate need of advice
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 29 2014 at 23:14 by ScarlettSE RESPONDENTS: Basil / susiedqq / newtochat LAST POST: Jan 30 2014 at 01:20

My name is Scarlett and im 12. Ive been dating a 16 year old guy online for about 7 months. I follow him on instagram and his kik on instagram is different then the kik i text him on. Also he will text me "love you night" to me then i wont hear from him for days. Then out of the blue he will start texting me again and just acts all normal. His best friend is a guy and is bisexual and has a crush ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryOverzealous wannabe
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 29 2014 at 04:03 by whitefeather RESPONDENTS: Headache LAST POST: Jan 29 2014 at 08:03

I met this guy online and the way he described himself was as out of shape. After we talked for a while he showed me a picture and he was completely not my style and it didn´t click with me. So i told him that and that i most likely would never develop any feelings fo him but i wouldn't mind if we kept talking. Soon after he started asking all these questions and i don't really know what to do an...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat the hell does he think?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 20 2014 at 17:44 by Symphony RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 20 2014 at 18:13

There's this guy who is driving me crazy though he's not talking to me now.I'm unable to concentrate on studies and my exams are fast approaching. I met him online about 5months ago on a friendship site and I was strictly looking for friendship. This guy messaged me that he can be a nice friend and wants to do sincere exchange of views. But he on his first mails,said that he likes Angelina Jolie a...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryTo choose
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 15 2014 at 10:35 by nimo.dmc RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 15 2014 at 20:42

im a 19 years old guy,i`ve been dating a girl for almost a year, i never believed in true love, i have no problems with getting girls but i was never interested, well, thats until i met this girl and i fell for her to my nose, her dream is to leave her country(a hell as she calls it), i cannot give her that and as fairy as our relationship and how suitable we are for each other, its as impossible ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHave I ruined everything? For good?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 11 2014 at 00:56 by Poopyhead RESPONDENTS: thecounsellor LAST POST: Jan 11 2014 at 21:30

I guess I should tell you everything as it would help. I met a girl online In September at a dark time as the day I met her I was going to kill myself but I said I'll go online and play a game one last time and I did and I happened to meet her we talked and she stopped me from killing myself without her knowing. So we kept talking every day and feelings started to develop and we showed that we lik...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryWorried, need help asap!
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 9 2014 at 22:41 by Vi RESPONDENTS: oldman1960 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 9 2014 at 23:26

I was dating a guy my age for a month on the internet before he broke up with me (we've skyped, so he's not some kind of pedo). But, the reason why he broke up with me was because he wanted to go out with a girl he knew in real life... I wanted to stop talking to him, but i couldn't help myself. He said that it might not be the end for us, and that he would probably come back to me. His ex (She me...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryI need a little opinion
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 31 2013 at 12:34 by Pastalover RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / sunny LAST POST: Mar 13 2016 at 07:04

So i usually don't like long distance relationships but there's this girl i just met that lives in germany and we've established an amazing connection, have so much in common and an amazing time talking to one another and she's shown interest in me several times and wants me to visit her as soon as possible, she can't spend the day without talking to me (and i'm not being needy, i don't even initi...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryI messed up with someone scared of being hurt again CREATED: Dec 10 2013 at 03:23 by Valkyrie

Okay so, there's this guy I've been friends with for two months, we knew each other before that, but we never really talked. And about a month ago we both told each other we liked one another, but he got burned pretty badly from a past relationship, so he was extremely hesitant to enter a new one. He's TERRIFIED of being hurt again. So, we just kinda went with the flow, to see if we would work out...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I being catfished?
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 9 2013 at 12:37 by CatRen RESPONDENTS: mary30 LAST POST: Dec 15 2013 at 02:22

Ive been in a relationship for about a year with a guy I met online. We've never actually met in person, which I know sounds weird but we chat every day by text, email and calls. He lives in Scotland and Im in London. Neither of us can drive or earn a lot of money so sadly we've not been able to visit one another. I have grown a bit suspicious recently though, as he wont skype me and has been maki...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryIt's complicated ...
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 6 2013 at 11:18 by Narcius09 RESPONDENTS: Debs2014 LAST POST: Dec 6 2013 at 13:11

Hi. I'm a 19 year old guy . And she is a twenty year old girl. She lives in New York while i live in New Delhi... We have been chatting for months and after approximately two months she said she loved. Initially I wasn't attracted to her but with time i fell for her too. We kinda had cyber sex ( no idea if it counts). She always said we could never get together but she says she still loves me. She...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryCancelled date
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 3 2013 at 16:45 by FJS RESPONDENTS: Love Hurts LAST POST: Dec 4 2013 at 16:32

Hi there, this is a simple question but I am curious as to what people (men specifically) think is appropriate: I was texting with a guy I met online and he asked if I wanted to go for a drink so we planned for a date the following week. He texted me that afternoon and said he was sick and would need to reschedule for the week or week after. He pursued me first and asked me out so I figured he wou...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDo I or don't I?
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 17 2013 at 19:00 by chloelou1019 RESPONDENTS: Hannah Green LAST POST: Nov 21 2013 at 04:29

Hi guys, so I met this guy online, and for the past couple of months, we've been talking on and off. He's been lovely at times, and at other times I just want to give up on him. He comes across as really sexual, and when I go to his hometown next year to see the Uni there, he says he's going to, you know. Sometimes, he's the sweetest guy ever, but at others he's just too overwhelming and I can't b...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryPuzzled
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 1 2013 at 21:09 by puzzledone RESPONDENTS: Izzy 343 / melrose218 LAST POST: Nov 3 2013 at 05:01

I've been single a and celibate for 10 yrs I met a woman on linel. We text every nite and quick hellos during the day as we both work. She lives with her ex supposedly for the children but is planning a move @ the right time..tells me the just exist. No sex no kind of relationship hardly speak to each other. Am I stupid and should I back off? ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDon't know the rules of dating anymore
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 30 2013 at 17:50 by ldr2233 RESPONDENTS: golfnut LAST POST: Oct 31 2013 at 02:56

I'm a 39 year old man out of the dating scene for a long time. The last time that I was dating texting had not even been invented. So I was at a meditation meetup and met a woman there. I asked her out to coffee after the meetup and we went that night. Everything seemed to go great. I got her number after I walked her to her car. It used to be a minimum 3 day wait period before you should ca...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryTrying too understand why
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 18 2013 at 17:16 by hopefulbutsad RESPONDENTS: Ryry LAST POST: Oct 18 2013 at 19:46

I married my teenage love. It only took 37 years to do it. My husband and I have only been married15 months. Both married before. We found each other again.Now not sure such a good idea. I have found on dating sites found his emails to other woman. We fight constantly over it. He says he loves me that it doesn't mean anything. If it doesn't mean anything why does he do it? ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDam Men
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 3 2013 at 21:49 by bigmoney RESPONDENTS: Izzy 343 / Sissie LAST POST: Sep 10 2013 at 00:57

I have had nothing but troubles since I decided to find a mate online, since I have been in the south. Not all of them were at fault some of the problems were mind. Now you take for instant this last man I will call him Kenny we got alone great had many things in common had talked for maybe also most a year, then something happen that made me get upset it was really a miss understanding, I did not...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryI lied, please help!
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 24 2013 at 06:40 by One&Only RESPONDENTS: Kaamini / musiclover LAST POST: Aug 24 2013 at 11:14

Ok, so I'm 16. In the 11th grade. I've been talking to this guy on facebook for some months now. (Btw, it was an accident with how we started talking) but anyways, he's 20, about to be 21 soon. We also been calling each other and saying we love each other but he's thinking about driving down to where I live. We never met before but he thinks I'm pretty in my pics. But I actually look different in ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryBeen in a relationship w/a guy I met online for 3 yrs. But why I am still feeling this way again?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 19 2013 at 06:20 by jtrish RESPONDENTS: Kaamini LAST POST: Aug 27 2013 at 05:07

I met this guy online 3 yrs. ago. We met twice already, got engaged & planned to get married. But why I am still feeling this way again now? I still confused what he really wants for our future, if he really want to marry me or just wanted to have a gf... Im really hoping to settle down, the reason that I joined an online dating site few yrs.ago till I met this guy. But after all, it's all frustra...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryGoing to meet her soon, and she is so afraid
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 12 2013 at 12:37 by t992 RESPONDENTS: WhispersInTheWind LAST POST: Aug 12 2013 at 22:33

Hi everyone. In a week's time I will meet my online girlfriend of one year, i'm flying to her country! wish me luck! the problem is she is so nervous now! a few weeks ago she said how she was afraid and worried it wouldn't be the same, that i wouldn't like her. She always worries about everything and told me she always worries about silly things and always returns to the same fears. she also has a...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryTotally confused...
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 7 2013 at 07:44 by Kai3li4 RESPONDENTS: Magzzz / Kaili LAST POST: Aug 26 2013 at 08:17

OK, (this might be a long one) so just over 2 years ago I joined this language exchange site as I am a linguistics major wanting to learn more about Chinese outside of class. Around 5 months later I got this chat request from a 24 year old Chinese guy (I had just turned 20) who need some help checking over his English, which is pretty good, on his applications for universities aboard and would in ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDangerous dating
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 7 2013 at 05:39 by Matrota RESPONDENTS: angel cake / Kaili LAST POST: Aug 26 2013 at 10:12

I'm in a dangerous dating situation. I was asked out recently by a former cutter. She has almost no one to talk to about her problems and is often depressed. Previous dating situations have caused her great grief. When she asked me out I wasn't sure what to do. We know each other but live in different states. I know online relationships rarely last but she wanted to make it work. She was close to ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryI have no idea what is going on
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 29 2013 at 17:01 by amazingness RESPONDENTS: chocolateworld LAST POST: Jun 29 2013 at 17:32

So, this is a pretty long story (warning you now). I started talking to this guy online about 2 years ago, a year after we met online...we met in real life. And now we've seen each other 4 times (very long distance). My problem is that I just don't know what is going on and what he wants. I don't even know if we are "together". I just came back from visiting him and it feels like I'm lost. I want ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryCaught in my past
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 6 2013 at 06:28 by best RESPONDENTS: snapp LAST POST: Jun 6 2013 at 11:05

Well, like long time ago, i was 17 when i met this guy. We never really actually ''meet'' since he lived in a country far away from me. But if i say i love him, better to trust me because i really do. He's 9 years my senior. He said that he would never disappear but well, 3 years ago he left me. I never heard of him anymore. He's just disappear. Now, i've found a new guy. He's really kind but he's...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categorySoulmate!
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 18 2013 at 20:47 by Xyrus RESPONDENTS: Dan fox LAST POST: Apr 18 2013 at 21:29

Hello Everyone! So I have just entered the professional life that I have worked very hard to achieve. I joined an online dating website to find myself a potential match before I begin my work. I will start my job in a different country, very far from my country of origin hence I really want to start a happy family so I adjust well with everything. I was approached by a guy, almost 14 years older b...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat's the deal with this guy? Online CREATED: Apr 10 2013 at 15:35 by kaly1988

I met this guy through a dating site. I thought his posts were funny. Right off the bat he started talking to me, we exchanged numbers etc We've been speaking for nearly a month and he seems pretty nice. He asked me if I speak to any other guys and stuff and started asking about my personal life He lives about 45 mins away on the tube which isn't that far at all. But he said he is never comi...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDistant, selfish "girlfriend"
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 14 2013 at 01:54 by alexmoran1185 RESPONDENTS: Kaili LAST POST: Aug 27 2013 at 23:46

Hi! Some years ago I met a girl online (at that time I was 17 years old, and she 15). I guess we both were somewhat lonely to try find some comfort on the web. But we did, en we actually found what we were looking for. Many months passed and we decided to start Skyping. From then we really start bonding: we talked about each others problems, deepest thoughts, experiences and feelings. I was fa...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryIdk what to do CREATED: Feb 11 2013 at 09:37 by that1guy1818

I haven't been in a legit relationships in over a year, maybe a year and a half, I haven'y even thought about dating. I am only 18 and that's young, but that doesn't stop my from wanting a serious long lasting, hopefully a life long relationship.(my longest was 2 yrs.) Okay I'll start with the problem now. I met this girl about 4 weeks ago online, and we have only been on 2 dates since. the first ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryHead or heart?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 28 2013 at 07:43 by Jacqui RESPONDENTS: Skywalker LAST POST: Jan 28 2013 at 16:00

I have juSt recently started dating a man I met from a dating site. I met him the week of New Years.He is 33 years old and when he initially met me he told me that he was in a ten year relationship. After a few days of dating he confessed that he was married for ten years and divorced her three years ago because of her cheating. I was understanding of that and the fact that his wife had two abo...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryBeing used?
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 27 2012 at 01:41 by Pandora RESPONDENTS: Xyyo LAST POST: Nov 30 2012 at 17:56

So I'm in a long distance relationship right now, We've been together for about 5 or 6 months but I've known him for a little over a year. I'm 19, hes 21, I have a job, hes currently unemployed. It seems like everything that I try to buy him isn't good enough. At first, he would just ask me for 10 dollars here and there, then I got him an early Christmas gift he asked for, which came up to 65 doll...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryGirlfriend issues CREATED: Nov 18 2012 at 02:03 by whitey

hi, i got to know a girl 3 years ago while on a vacation. so we started to game together and chat alot by phone and computer, also visiting her whenever i can and things are all happy and fine...we laugh we joke around and talk about mainly everything. recently she did say she got bored of me since she knows everything about me...and wants me to do something new...but how do i do that? since we ma...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryVery confused, please help me !!
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 25 2012 at 21:08 by CAP RESPONDENTS: right_love LAST POST: Nov 6 2012 at 09:08

i started talking to this guy online in Aug. i gave him my number and so we started texting for about a month every day and he finally asked me out to dinner at the end of Aug. we hit it off pretty quick, i am normally a shy girl but someone he got to me fast so it was new to me. we stayed out all night just talking, talking about anything really. it was like we were best friends for years. since ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryVery confused about the next or final step!?
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 11 2012 at 14:35 by speeders RESPONDENTS: Yimmie LAST POST: Nov 1 2012 at 06:17

I met a guy online & we decided to meet. It was OK, then we met again and I brought a girlfriend with me. It wasn't ofcourse a date because we didn't decide that yet, however, I had to leave early, and he stayed with her, took her number and talked ..... I was surprised but I didn't want to confront, so I watched them, and seems they didn't continue talking, so I relaxed. We kept in contact throug...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryLost in lalalalala world
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 23 2012 at 21:26 by unknown12 RESPONDENTS: pearl LAST POST: Sep 24 2012 at 06:38

I need advice I want my name unknown. Ok So I am in kinda rough situation I met a guy online which aint to bad I guess. We been talking for a lil over a month we live in the same city but because I dont have my own everything we havnet been able to see each other the other day he said he wants to be in a relationship with me which is fine because I really like him a lot I think he like me just as ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryDating
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 28 2012 at 03:15 by armykid1501 RESPONDENTS: Teenage Advisor / bindi1328 / Norky LAST POST: Aug 3 2012 at 12:12

me and my gf have been together for 9 months now and every now and again she tells me that she has second thoughts and then a lil while later she is back to normal i am getting to the point of calling it off with her. we planned to meet eathother in sept and maby move in togher but idk what to do i am getting tired of this and i dont want to leave her cuz i love her but what should i do...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryBrits rate stamina in the sack as the most important factor when it comes to sex CREATED: Dec 16 2011 at 13:17 by AndyAu

In a survey carried out by nearly 40,000 people from 17 countries around the world including the UK, BeNaughty.com discovered that Brits are all about length and repetition, with 38% of us rating ‘lovemaking stamina’ and ‘regular sex’ (20%) as the most important things to us when we’re between the sheets. British women also like to be on top when it comes to being adventurous, with 61% f...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categorySo confused! o.O
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 24 2011 at 17:08 by unknownlady RESPONDENTS: Jess LAST POST: Feb 22 2012 at 10:54

I have been living with my fiancee for over four years now, and about six months ago I found out he had decided to start a relationship online with someone in another state. He --of course-- said it meant nothing, but what's done is done and now we have decided to go our own ways once all of our ducks are in a row. Here is the issue though... 2 months ago, I also found someone online. *smh* ...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryThoughts on virtual relationships
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 7 2011 at 00:44 by marich2010 RESPONDENTS: bigmike / Jess LAST POST: Mar 6 2012 at 03:21

I've been in a virtual relationship since August 2008. The first one didn't work. This one I am in right now, is frighteningly very close to ending - that is if I don't really know what I'm waiting for at the other end. I met Richard in September of 2010, online. I had not even ended the first one because Tom and I had not been in touch for more than a couple of months in spite of my numero...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryIt's not dating, it's important friend met online
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 22 2011 at 13:20 by broken RESPONDENTS: heartsablaze LAST POST: Feb 25 2011 at 07:31

Sorry if it's not the right category but I think it's close since I like him so much. Sorry it's going to be long. I have some online friends from different countries to talk with. I know this one guy for nearly a year now (but this is not the one I have problem with) and we've been good friends. A little bit before New Year, he introduced me to his roommate. We started to talk from that day s...

Online Dating advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I phone him or just leave it?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 15 2011 at 17:10 by brokengirl RESPONDENTS: tracy / Lynn Johnson Show / TILES / joan LAST POST: May 21 2013 at 22:44

I am suffering from terrible depression, due to a guy I met on a dating site just dropping me suddenly like a brick! He wined and dined me for 2 months, invested a lot of time, he made it clear he was looking for a relationship and he had a good feeling about us. So did I...It's not often I am bothered when a date 'dumps' me, but I knew from the minute I met him this guy would be in my life for a ...