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S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp me to stop wanting to seduce my coworker
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 20 2021 at 19:45 by Ramblinrose RESPONDENTS: Aka / susiedqq / Bluebird11 LAST POST: Jan 23 2021 at 12:01

Ok. I have a coworker who is in a sense my boss and I am extremely attracted to him. Many girls are, he is gorgeous and muscular, and somehow he doesn’t seem to realize the power he holds over women bc he is shy and raised in a religious home. I’ve tried the trick of imagining him doing disgusting human things to get over his sex appeal, like him pooping/smelly farts/stinky feet or somethi...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWould this be classed as rape/ sexual assault?
[10 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 17 2021 at 01:46 by Shay789 RESPONDENTS: Aka / Bluebird11 / susiedqq / Sunbeams LAST POST: Jan 19 2021 at 20:29

A few months back, I went to a small party with a few of my 'friends' and their friends. I got really drunk and I ended up taking drugs, which was the first time I'd ever taken drugs. I was ruined, I cant remember any of the night, I slightly remember because put to bed by my friend but barely. In the morning my friend woke me up and said she can't believe that she can't believe that I had had ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySexual relationship with best friend
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 9 2021 at 22:59 by beeshilbass RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Jan 10 2021 at 06:04

So I’ve been friends with my best friend since 2015. We met in Australia and became close over a short period of time. I have since moved back to my home town (in a different country) and we still keep in regular contact. He and I never had anything more than platonic friendship. When I lived in Australia it was brought to my attention that he had fallen in love with me. I was the first girl he ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryA man used to hire hooker, after marriage, will he change?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 15 2020 at 18:58 by Confuse RESPONDENTS: Aka / MamaBear LAST POST: Dec 16 2020 at 15:42

I wasn't sure how many man in here, I want to know if a man used to hire hooker monthly, after marriage will he change? He promised he will, but I thinking after 10 years down the road in marriage, he may do it again and then the girl will be too old to date another one. However, my girlfriends said most guys don't tell you but most of them did call hooker in their life or calling hooker during th...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I tell my husband triggers me sometimes while having sex?
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 2 2020 at 19:33 by Janedoe68754 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 3 2020 at 05:11

I somewhat recently had to confess to my husband that I have been sexually assaulted in the past. We’ve been together for more than 5 years. Honestly, I never really planned on telling him. I had never told anyone. It doesn’t affect me anymore on a regular basis and if it does somehow pop into my mind I can usually get over it quickly. However, one night we were being intimate and he cover...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMarriage and masturbation
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 26 2020 at 12:19 by jack220 RESPONDENTS: Aka / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 29 2020 at 00:41

I have been married for 6 six years and together for 10 years. My wife simply refuses to make love to me, she consummated the marriage on the first night but ha simply refused to have intimate relations since. I am 62 she is 58. I masturbate to relieve the sexual feelings but she says that I am betraying her. I simply do not know what to do. Plaese help....

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category30, married 10 years, love him but unsatisfied. Help?
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 17 2020 at 19:25 by JustTrynnaLive RESPONDENTS: SilviaGirl LAST POST: Nov 19 2020 at 21:06

We’ve been married 10 years, friends long before that and nothing we rushed into. No wedding, just togetherness, and it was enough knowing we could have a wedding /some day/. There was a lot of passion and excitement for several years, but it’s been a struggle financially and emotionally. We both have emotional issues we are in therapy and taking medications for, mine manifesting in anxiety an...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryDid we lose the “spark”?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 12 2020 at 20:49 by Latinainlove RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / luvbirdsoldier LAST POST: Dec 12 2020 at 18:31

I’ve been together with my fiancé for over 2 years now. We felt deeply in love right away after the first date and the first couple of months together were paradise.... and the sex was absolutely awesome! After about 5-6 months of relationship I kinda stopped feeling aroused (not only by him... just in general) I was like dead down there. However I loved him more every day. He would try to ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't want to cheat, but i've fancied this other guy since I was 10
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 6 2020 at 16:30 by thinkingofsim RESPONDENTS: champagne / susiedqq / luvbirdsoldier / Aka / Faye LAST POST: Dec 14 2020 at 23:25

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have lived together for the last 2 years. We met when we were 16 and he's the only person I've ever been with. He's my best friend in every way and I love the relationship we have. We are both happy (we've obviously had our ups and downs over the years) and we have a good sex life. I reckon he will be the guy I marry and have a family with. Howeve...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryUpset by boyfriend's birthday gift
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 22 2020 at 13:02 by Kakolir RESPONDENTS: MISSSY2 / luvbirdsoldier / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 27 2020 at 17:33

Me and my partner have been together for 6 years, we don't live together and are isolating because of coronavirus. For my birthday this year boyfriend asked me what I would like. I advised that I wasn't sure, but suggested for him to make plans to take me out for a nice meal once we can meet again, or for him to buy me a gift voucher for a shop that I like. Boyfriend had jokingly suggested that...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I fix this?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 17 2020 at 12:54 by Riz RESPONDENTS: luvbirdsoldier / susiedqq / Christy LAST POST: Oct 20 2020 at 15:22

This is the most ridiculous situation I’ve ever been in but I need advice or any kind of input will be appreciated. Yesterday a used condom was in the bush out the front of my apartment, a lady pointed it out to me on her way out of the carpark as I was coming in so I figured I would dispose of it no worries. I went inside got a glove and paper towel and put it in the bin and tied the ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy significant other won’t brush his teeth and I’m at wits end
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 14 2020 at 17:38 by Bad Breath Blues RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 18 2020 at 22:20

Not sure if this belongs in the Sex category, but I talk a lot about sex and that’s what the issue has the worst affect on for me. He’s 29 and I’m 23. We’ve been together for 3 years and overall we have a pretty damn good relationship. He’s my best friend and we have a great chemistry together, and have always had great sex as well. We’re expecting a baby girl in January and I could...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs always a single round of 3min
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 3 2020 at 01:58 by Thecurious23 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Oct 4 2020 at 23:29

I love my boyfriend. We have been together for three months now. So far, he has been my healthiest relationship. The only problem is that I’m super sexually frustrate. Every time we are having sex, he finishes in 3min literally, and also cannot have a second round. Sometimes we put music on just in case we get too “loud”, and he finished before the first song is over. Now, I feel doomed. I...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI’m so confused over a hook up with me and my ex’s friend
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 25 2020 at 06:13 by Gangster Girl RESPONDENTS: MISSSY2 LAST POST: Sep 27 2020 at 04:52

So my ex and I broke up ages ago and I matched with his friend on tinder. Then I readied back on Snapchat and he never really spoke to me on it so I didn’t think much of it. But one night I was at a party and he was swiping up on my story and the next day I seen we had a conversation and I didn’t think anything of it lol. But then one night he text me asking did I want to go for a drive with h...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend disregards my sexual trauma and PTSD
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 22 2020 at 00:11 by Lucy.123 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / MISSSY2 / January LAST POST: Oct 1 2020 at 21:22

I’ve been with my boyfriend since we were 12, it sounds stupid I know. Almost six years later we’re still together. Long story short, I have PTSD regarded an incident that happened four years ago with my mum’s ex-partner, an incident when he “sleptwalked” into my room, knelt down beside my bed and started to run his fingers up and down my leg and over my body when I was asleep. I believe...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNeighbor girl
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 14 2020 at 04:42 by robb_t RESPONDENTS: Chompas / luvbirdsoldier LAST POST: Oct 13 2020 at 15:15

I am 39 years old, single and live alone. A couple of months ago, new neighbors moved in on my street, a few houses down, and I became friendly with them. It's a couple around my age and their 14 year old daughter. For whatever reason, their daughter has taken quite the liking to me. It started with her being giggly and making eyes at me when we mt on the street or at the mailbox, for example. ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs he cheating?
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 11 2020 at 09:04 by Riz RESPONDENTS: MISSSY2 / manalone / weareacouple / susiedqq / robb_t LAST POST: Sep 16 2020 at 06:15

My boyfriend is 43- I am 28.. we have been dating for about 3years. Awhile ago now all of a sudden he lost all sexual attraction toward me.. Well what I feel has happened, even though he assumes me he has not. So we had a very active sex life to begin with.. Now it is a rare act.. when we do it is crapy morning sex and very vanilla.. nothing exciting. I have tried everything to figure ou...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHe's too traditional in the bedroom for me
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 4 2020 at 23:30 by PenguinFingers RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 6 2020 at 03:18

There's 14 years between myself and my partner of 3 years we have a beautiful 2 year old boy together and don't get me wrong our sex life is passionate and amazing but he is very traditional make love. I have always been adventurous and up for anything new and exciting. I changed and calmed myself down for him but I'm starting to get frustrated as everytime I try to try somthing new he won't consi...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySelf-harm, but sexual. TW I guess.
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 29 2020 at 05:44 by svviix RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 30 2020 at 12:21

Oh god. I can't believe I'm posting this. I don't even know what to say. First and foremost I'm being entirely truthful here and I'm not trolling or anything. I cut myself last month (on the wrists) for sexual pleasure. My brain is really weird and that's actually something I enjoy. I'm not going to pretend to understand the psychology behind it because I don't; I've just wanted to for years (and ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBeing seen without being seen
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 25 2020 at 15:48 by Renee RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Dost / MISSSY2 LAST POST: Sep 6 2020 at 04:21

r/AskReddit Wonderful-Tomato-1811h Been seen but not being seen I posted this in another forum also to get feedback. I don't know that it is harming my life but can sometimes can consume my mind but here goes. First off, I don't know what to call this. Maybe it has a name, I don't know, but it is sort of specific but hard to describe but I will try because it has sort of frustrated me...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat do I get to do that I was caught dressed up as a sissy girl
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 9 2020 at 19:14 by Friendskoksukr RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 21 2020 at 22:11

I'm not ashamed to admit that I love to be dressed up as a sexy girl. I was at my house and having fun in my sexiest outfit and my outfits are on the slutty side. I'm in a tight skirt, size small thongs, black thigh high stockings garter belt and 6 inch stilleto heels. I had a real hair wig and I had my Mom's friend to come over for my make up. I have to be honest, I was born for this and I could ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy wife has a crush
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 5 2020 at 16:39 by Tabooga RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate / Desiarability LAST POST: Aug 11 2020 at 03:07

Actually, I think she has had a crush for longer than she admits. My wife and I have been married 4.5 years now and she recently told me that she thinks about this guy sometimes when we have sex or she plays with a toy. My wife is a few years younger than I am. We have a active and I think good sex life aside from the recent admission that she thinks of this guy. I'm sorry if this is rambling and ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySexual healing
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 9 2020 at 21:47 by LonelyndBeautiful RESPONDENTS: Hopelessly Lost LAST POST: Jul 15 2020 at 14:45

So me and my guy have been in a serious relationship for 5 going on 6 years. At first our sex life was great but now its boring and dead. I would consider him a "lazy lover" I mean he gives me oral but for the most part our sex is basic, no passion, and I never get to orgasm because he always cums first and NEVER lets me get me. I cant tell you the last time he made me cum. Sometimes after sex I m...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHappily married but different sex drives CREATED: Jul 5 2020 at 09:17 by Openforadvice

Happily married and have good sex 6 to 10 times a month. I have always been a very sexual person and my wife goes in spurts. There is no kinky exploration on her part besides sex. I am appreciative of that but always keep wanting to push our boundaries. I have been wondering if I keep trying or find some other woman in the same married sexual situation that would like to explore together. Love...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs she into me or not
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 30 2020 at 12:17 by George1981 RESPONDENTS: Yoshi / susiedqq / RedHen LAST POST: Jul 2 2020 at 20:42

Hi everyone, I need some help with this girl as to if she is into me or not. For starter I grew up with this girl, our mothers were best friends, so we grew up together. I am 8 years her senior. It wasn't till 10 years ago that our roads split up, although we did kept in touch, it was sometimes once a week, sometimes once every month, but not everyday as it used to be. However I always was her ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I fulfill my needs while my gf recovers from sexual trauma?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 29 2020 at 21:57 by shotecho RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 2 2020 at 04:25

This is something I've been thinking about talking about for years but never took the steps to, but here goes. Long post time. My girlfriend was molested as a child. She blocked it from her memory and was a fully sexual person when we first got together at 19, and we had a healthy sex life for the first year and change of our relationship. We started having sex less when she started remembering...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI have some "unnatural" desires towards my own mother
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 8 2020 at 08:42 by AGuyWithMommyIssue RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 9 2020 at 01:21

About my "Unnatural desires", since i was a kid, i've always fantasized about...making love to my mom. There, i said it. It's really weird for me to talk about, i've never told a soul. Since i was a kid, i've loved being hugged by my mom, she's always just felt so warm. She's the most important person in my life, my rock. I accidentally saw my first pornographic film by 6 and didn't really know wh...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryLong-term boyfriend suddenly avoiding sex
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 26 2020 at 13:10 by AMME RESPONDENTS: manalone / January / laflamme LAST POST: Jun 2 2020 at 11:24

Iv been with by boyfriend for 10 years now and we are still great, we are each others best friends and as corny as it sounds we really are. We used to have a great sex life and he used to be trying every second for something but lately.. Past couple of months he hasnt been trying. I'm not used to initiating sex as I usually don't need to and I enjoy knowing he wants me but I got fed up with him no...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs relationship with daughter in law moral?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: May 9 2020 at 11:15 by Rambo RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: May 16 2020 at 13:31

Hi, I am a 70 year old white man, recently lost my wife of 45 years. My son has been diagnosed infertile. They have tried doner IVF but were unsuccessful twice. They always wanted children. My son suggested I make love to his wife to get her pregnant. I was shocked but also flattered to be asked. She is only 22, Iranian origin and very beautiful. Not been with a woman since my wife passed, I...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIntimacy with someone who thinks it should be spontaneous
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 25 2020 at 22:37 by Lana Scott RESPONDENTS: Bluebird11 / susiedqq / Rambo LAST POST: May 9 2020 at 17:37

My partner and I have always struggled with intimacy, being intimate in ways other than sex and sexually. I am much younger than my partner and that is usually what he attributes this problem to. That is if he actually acknowledges that it is a problem. In the eyes of my husband intimacy is to be spontaneous, he is to take me when he feels the need to. Regardless of what I’m wearing or where we ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryThe lack of sex in my marriage even while trying for a baby
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 25 2020 at 20:52 by Rainyria RESPONDENTS: Bluebird11 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 7 2020 at 05:58

Hello, I’ve been married for five months now and have known my husband for two years. He’s a great person but I’m beginning to have doubts and I can’t share this with anyone around as there’ll only be judging. So I need your help in order to rationalize things. I’m from Nigeria and my husband is French. We started trying for a baby last year but haven’t yet succeeded. Tests showed th...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling rejected and disrespected
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 9 2020 at 18:11 by thatashleetho RESPONDENTS: Lana Scott / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 20 2020 at 13:55

When he looks at her naked and says do you want this,and gestures with no movement to his penis and she said duh. grab the lubricant and get him saturated and go to move closer and he gives her this weird look. how would you feel if your partner looks at you and said what are you doing when you're climbing on top of him to have sex?...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryOur threesomes CREATED: Feb 28 2020 at 23:04 by weysal

my husband and I have enjoyed threesomes now for quite some time, has anyone else done the same, if so some questions 1/ how did you first talk to each other about doing this or any other sexual thing involving other couples/single people 2/ did you have rules about with whom you should get in with 3/ being a wife, I have enjoyed the attention and the sax tremendously, have or did y...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed help telling my best friend I slept with one of her best friends
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 29 2020 at 08:32 by lissa:) RESPONDENTS: PolyPocket LAST POST: Feb 1 2020 at 21:28

so about 9 months ago my best friend was telling me about some people she went on a camp with. I thought one of the guys was pretty cute so I added his Snapchat. My best friend sees this boy as a brother figure (even though they aren’t blood related). I ended up talking with this boy a lot, which my best friend was aware of. However me and the boy decided to meet up behind my best friends back, ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySex life
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 30 2019 at 06:37 by Happy couple RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 5 2019 at 14:24

Hi We are a couple and i have a fantasy about my girlfriend being with another man she once talk to about while having sex and now i can't stop thinking about why am i so turned on about this fantasy ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIntamacy. Affection. Sex. What do I do?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 7 2019 at 17:03 by TJX0514 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 9 2019 at 13:57

My partner and I have been together for 5 years now. From the beginning I really thought sex and affection was what held a relationship together. Well at least for me that's what keeps me close to my partners. He may be different and I respect that but as the years went I've learned many things to focus on all together instead of just sex and affection but he's changed so much too. Sex and affecti...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy longtime bf doesn't touch me anymore?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 18 2019 at 09:20 by Usernameusername11 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / HannaM LAST POST: Sep 20 2019 at 10:45

So we have been together for a while. The past few months we haven't had sex. He's saying its stress and what not but he used to say this before and it never affected him. He says he can't even get it up but i think he is lying to me. I few weeks ago he got hard and lied about it saying it was a morning wood or whatever. I found clothing this white stuff on it and he swore he didn't know what...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy problemo or situation
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 10 2019 at 06:21 by Bbbeee RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / HannaM LAST POST: Sep 19 2019 at 12:17

Okay so this is the situation. I fucked a escort (which was ugly as fuck but still went with it) with a condom about two months ago... and now I saw and recognized her while I was working (fast food restaurant)I'm not sure if she recognized me but i think she might of because I'm kind of good looking (not to brag) and well i'm kind of paranoid now so this is what I think. 1. She tracked my phone ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIntimacy
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 26 2019 at 23:53 by Shante42 RESPONDENTS: Tiredoflife / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 23 2019 at 11:55

My and my partner have intercourse about 1 or 2 times a week but days aparts. This week we had sex on Monday and it went great. Last night he mentioned how aroused he was and we planned our intercourse today after work. After him giving me oral sex i proceed to give him some as well. I knew i was doing an excellent job but he kept getting hard then back on soft. I have no idea , i have a feeling h...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it because it's not an affair?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 9 2019 at 15:07 by Love2live RESPONDENTS: Silvarion / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 4 2019 at 22:18

I'm mid 30s hes mid 40s. We started out as an affair. For reasons that I'm not going to go into. Now we are official and happy. Except... he rarely wants to have sex anymore. We o ly do it when he wants to. I try so hard constantly coming onto him in hope that maybe this time I will get him in the mood. We live with out parents so dont get much alone time together for now. So when we do I'm very k...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it me?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 9 2019 at 15:01 by Love2live RESPONDENTS: Silvarion LAST POST: Jun 14 2019 at 15:58

Me and my boyfriend have been together officially for a few months. Hes mid 40s I'm mid 30s. We dont live together yet and dont get time to ourselves. I'm constantly being pied. My self esteem is taking a battering. Help!...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused about my boyfriends out of character behaviour
[1 POST] CREATED: May 16 2019 at 15:01 by katrin RESPONDENTS: DENISE LAST POST: May 19 2019 at 15:31

I am very confused about something that happened recently in my relationship. I would appreciate any advice that any of you can give me. Thanks. So, I have been in a relationship on and off with my boyfriend for 4 years. Recently we had an argument as there have been issues for a while as we don’t spend a lot of time together (he works nights and we don’t live together) which doesn’t help....

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryAsexual girlfriend
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 29 2019 at 16:30 by oh my RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Apr 30 2019 at 08:48

so im in a relationship with a girl that im really into. weve been dating for six months or so. except last week she told me that she identifies as asexual. specifically, she is grossed out by the very idea of engaging in any kind of sexual activity. i thought we were just taking it really slow, but it seems like were never gonna reach the next step of our relationship. i asked her if i could slee...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWet dream
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 22 2019 at 12:09 by Neal RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 29 2019 at 17:03

I used to be a porn and masturbation addict. I am gay as well. I earlier had a streak of 16 days but then had a relapse. I am now on my longest streak of 25 days. I had a nightfall (or a wet dream) last night. I remember, I had the dream abt my friend and in the dream i was getting intimate with him. I am confused that does this count as a relapse? Do i need to reset my counter? ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryRhapsody
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 12 2019 at 19:22 by HmmmmmM RESPONDENTS: Supersarah LAST POST: Apr 28 2019 at 19:19

i just watched the film about queen i thought it was very good, i was wondering who is more talanted, Freddie mercury or chris martin, Coldplay or which one would i do th most? ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI don’t know what to do?
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 29 2019 at 22:23 by SCGirl RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Mar 30 2019 at 18:38

I’ve been with my fiancé for 2 1/2 years and we’ve lived together for a year. We’re both in our early 50s. When we first started seeing each other, we had sex 2-3 times a week and we enjoyed experimenting. About a year after getting together, he told me I was his first. Since we’ve been living together the sex has gotten less and less frequent. We’ve discussed it and fought about it. He...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNot wearing a bra is my mom right
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 25 2019 at 15:08 by Laar RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Dragonsfire / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 28 2019 at 14:31

Hi I joined here because it seems like a good place to ask this. I just wanted some thoughts please and advice if I've done anything wrong. The other day I was at home doing not much and we have had trades men working on the walls inside the house for a few days because of some water problems we had To try to make a big story short, I'm sure I'm like most women and when I'm at home I don't w...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySex life terrible... Feeling unsatisfied but partner seems unbothered
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 24 2019 at 07:33 by Jaded RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / sirfire LAST POST: Mar 26 2019 at 00:16

My partner and I have been together almost 4 years and we have a great relationship. But I have always felt like the sex has been just OK, sometimes he doesn’t even turn me on anymore. I’ve tried dropping small hints here and there and I’ve never really liked the way he kisses and never been able to tell him. For the past couple of years I have been thinking about the guy I was sleeping ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMasturbated in weird place at 14? Need advice?
[10 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 15 2019 at 22:59 by Yams94 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq / Skinnygirl2 LAST POST: Feb 21 2019 at 13:43

-When I was 14 in 2008, bet my buddy that I could masturbate in class with nobody noticing, we thought it was hilarious (obviously extremely stupid looking back, never did anything like that before or after), I tried and couldn't really do it then stopped. -We didn't think it was a big deal, we were joking about it a year later, and an upperclassman overheard us. -He started spreading it, ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryGF’s one night stand is going viral
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 14 2019 at 12:38 by chipsy RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Feb 16 2019 at 04:24

So the background of this story is that basically, me and my partner found a video on the internet of her making out with someone without her knowledge from before our relationship. The video goes for about half a minute and they didn't notice anyone filming because they were extremely drunk at the time. She remembered that on the same night, they had sex in the same place of filming. She is n...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy navel was licked out, but I didn't want it!
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 23 2019 at 19:50 by justagirl RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 25 2019 at 15:22

Sorry for my bad english! So, I'm a 21 years old girl, and at a party, a random guy found me alone in the backyard toilet, he pushed me down, and stuck his tongue into my navel, licked it, and slapped few times my underbelly, grabbed the fat on my belly, so that was a classic female/male physical strength situation, and this is really annoying!!!!!!!!!!!!! ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryKnocking my confidence
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 11 2019 at 19:17 by rinna RESPONDENTS: Altreal / Scopes LAST POST: Jan 18 2019 at 05:33

Been married 22 years. I am 48 he is 54. I thought sex was fine between us but the other night my husband said it was ok. he said he was talking about himself and it wasn't me. he had his prostrate taken out 2 years ago and as to use a pump which takes about 10 minutes for him to use. I have never really adventurous in the bedroom but I always made sure he got his pleasure even if I wasn't in the ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWere I the only wrong do-er?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 9 2019 at 12:18 by Incorrect RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 10 2019 at 06:34

Explicit!! I need external advice or input, are you ready for a lot of reading? My wife and i are married for just over 3 years with a beautiful daughter just short of that. I am almost 40 and she almost 30 years of age, neither of us have ever been players and only interested in long term relationships. We got married post-expecting witch is to this day my 2 greatest accomplishments, be...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHusband wants open relationship... again
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 4 2019 at 02:55 by TYG518 RESPONDENTS: Skinnygirl2 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 4 2019 at 16:39

Been with hubby 12 yrs, have 2 kids and most of the time we are great. We have settled into new routines because he got a new job 6 months ago and we both work different shifts ( we have since before my kids). He convinced me to have an open relationship before, about 7 years ago. Seeing as I was the only person he had sex with, I thought it would be ok to let him explore. We laid down rules, an...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy sons girlfriend is having sex with my adopted son ?
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 23 2018 at 15:26 by Mammalady RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Dec 23 2018 at 17:11

What should I do?...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySelfish because I want SEX
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 27 2018 at 19:31 by Angeltiger RESPONDENTS: Jase / Soulmate / susiedqq / Altreal LAST POST: Nov 29 2018 at 22:35

I have been married for 3 years. My husband works out of state 5-6 days a week. I stay home. My husband has chronic shoulder pain, and deals with pain everyday. His Dr has advised that his last option is shoulder surgery, which he refuses to have done. Lately my husband is suffering from ED, and has told me pills like Viagra can cause blindness so he wont take them. We havent had sex in 6 months...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryFoot fetish causing relationship issues
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 17 2018 at 15:56 by Yhl32 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 22 2018 at 15:33

I wrongly place a high importance on how pretty a woman's feet and toes are, especially if the toenails are nicely shaped and are grown a bit longer than the toes. My girlfriend of 18months has pretty feet but cuts her toenails so short, like 3mm shorter than the toe itself, I just can't look at her toes without feeling turned off to the point of feeling sick so have to ignore them. My prev...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy mom found my condoms
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 13 2018 at 18:18 by SlimInTrouble RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Lovesnow LAST POST: Dec 3 2018 at 08:32

hey i'm almost 19yo and i have a muslim mom today she walked in my room with an angry expression and told me that she found condoms in my drawer so i got a little confused and didn't know what to answer i just said that i didn't want to talk about that with her she was clearly frisking my stuff and i didn't like that i think that some things are just personal and that privacy matters wel...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryYear in marriage
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 4 2018 at 16:23 by Freonie33 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Christina8323 LAST POST: Nov 8 2018 at 21:32

Hello! I`ve been married for year now and something is really wrong. After we got married, something changed in our relationship and especially in our sex life. I mean when i see good looking guy or have dreams about them, i know i want sex and it`s not like i don`t want it at all. But when my husband touches me or wants sex, i`m pushing him away. I can`t imagine me having sex with him anymore...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryCan we go from swinger's to being only us again?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 16 2018 at 04:19 by Broken30 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Supersarah LAST POST: Oct 18 2018 at 14:14

I have been married to my true love for 20 years and together 30. I love this man with all my heart and I don't want to loose him. After being married for a few years we got into the swinger's lifestyle. It took me a bit to be OK with it because I didn't understand why my husband said he wanted to watch me with other men. We have been swinger's for about 10 years or so now and I want to stop and j...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryLost, what can I do???
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 14 2018 at 19:41 by 70sgirl RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 15 2018 at 21:49

I am new here and hope I can find help. I have been married for over 30 yrs. our love life over the past almost 18 yrs has been rather poor. I now understand this is because my husband has chossen porn over me and our life together. I am not over weight and I work out, people have told me I am very pretty or beautiful, I feel ugly and fat as my husband no longer has sex with me. We have tal...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWorried about my cravings
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 1 2018 at 14:30 by cryptic_cravings RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 4 2018 at 11:28

Hello, I've been looking for somewhere to discuss my problems and found this site today. Unfortunately I wrote my life story and then it didn't publish, so I'll start again and be brief. I am a 35, happily married woman, two children. Normal family life except that before getting married I was a bit wild and liked to be used. It left me with a craving that returns occasionally, to be humiliated...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNewlywed and struggling
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 8 2018 at 04:39 by newlywed1017 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 9 2018 at 01:48

oh man so everyone please hold your judgements because i know that not everyone would be as hopeful for love as i am but...heres the back story. weve been dating for 3 years, 1 year was amazing! Best boyfriend ever. We did everything right. He was a perfect gentleman. He still opens my door to this day in fact. But the 2 following years were hell. Verbally abusive and physically but we were bo...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI think my marrage is dead
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 7 2018 at 09:29 by Worriedhusband RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 8 2018 at 18:44

I have been married to my wife for 15 years. We have been together for 20 years. In the first 7/8 years she was very jealous person and I lost touch with most of my friends. We have 3 kids together now 17/13/11. 14 years ago I found out she was having an affair we haven’t been married a year. But we worked on it. Then one of my friends told me that they had sex after a night out in an alleyway o...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend sex chatting online
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 4 2018 at 18:51 by Occean RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 5 2018 at 10:30

Hi I have been with my bf 3 yrs. He has not worked since he was 21 he now 40. I work to keep roof over his head. He was arrested for sex chatting with a 14 yr old he thought was 21. He was chatting while I was at work. I feel betrayed this man has become selfish in bed doesn't touch or try and please me sexually.Ots one way street. I had one night stand with a guy who came onto me.He mafe me...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy husband withholds affection and sex
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 1 2018 at 10:38 by Denisa RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / Alizen LAST POST: Sep 2 2018 at 03:58

My husband has been withholding affection and sex from me since we have been married, we didn't live together prior. It seems To come and go in clusters. He had debt and business is failing. He seems to have an active interest in porn so when he is upset or feeling like to punish me (I suppose) he will withhold affection and intimacy and use porn. We go for few weeks without intimacy. I would ide...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy attraction to breast implants is upsetting my relationship
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 21 2018 at 23:11 by MissJP RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Aug 22 2018 at 06:55

I have been in a relationship for almost a year with my girlfriend and we enjoy a good sexual relationship and both love each other very much. We decided last weekend to spend the whole two days (or as much as was practical), in bed, make love as much as possible and experiment with RP. All was going well until my girlfriend suggested that maybe we should watch pornography together as a precursor ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to know if you boyfriend is sexually attracted to you anymore
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 14 2018 at 19:10 by Junebug94 RESPONDENTS: IcarusWings LAST POST: Aug 15 2018 at 02:10

Me and my bf live together. Here for the past 9 months, we hardly have sex anymore. I am always the one initiating sex first. He always says I am too tired,I am hurting,etc. I wake up to him almost every single night masturbating beside me. He tries to make sure I am asleep first before he starts. I had a conversation with him about it and he says I am crazy. That is lie when I know it isnt. I ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship for 5 years
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 10 2018 at 04:26 by WhatToDoNow2015 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / LoriMcDaniel LAST POST: Aug 21 2018 at 07:10

Barely any sex, 99% of the time I'm initiating it, he's totally closed off, doesn't want to talk about it...I've been going to counselling, to a psychologist, have spoken to many friends and still the same problem occurs. He has many good qualities but this is driving me mental. Please help. Is it worth ending the relationship?...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySex vs Making Love
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 8 2018 at 06:56 by ssss RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 8 2018 at 21:49

The past two long-term boyfriends that I've had never made love to me.. they only ever wanted to have rough sex. My idea of making love is intimacy, looking into each other's eyes, going slowly, telling each other how much you mean to them and it's an outlet to express the way you feel towards someone. Am I wrong about this? How does making love feel like? Or does making love just have the same me...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMasturbation addiction
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 5 2018 at 17:40 by Lovish RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jul 6 2018 at 05:14

I've doing a lot of handjob during last 12 years. Now it becomes an addiction. My body feel weakness. Please help to get out from here to my life....

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryAnxiety and insecurities ruining my relationship
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 27 2018 at 11:33 by Crazylove7 RESPONDENTS: lily31 / bunnyhabit / susiedqq / Qellie LAST POST: Jul 27 2018 at 12:11

So for about 6 years I’ve neglected my partner. Not because I don’t love him, I guess other things in life took priority, a lot of traumatic times, illness, family issues etc. I’ve always been pretty confident and a very in control person. Since funding a lot of porn I’m his history I completely lost it. Yeh I was going through his phone. I’ve had an overwhelming feeling that I need to ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBeing used for sex in a healthy, committed relationship?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 21 2018 at 04:51 by Used RESPONDENTS: Mabel / MamaBear / susiedqq / NewLife12345 LAST POST: May 26 2018 at 14:21

My boyfriend of 2 years just told me that our lovemaking last night was for his enjoyment only. He said he used me for sex. He thinks I should be flattered that he chose to have sex with me rather than to masturbate. Typically, he is a very good lover and is concerned about my enjoyment and pleasure during sex. He says it is completely normal in a committed relationship for him to want to use me...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryStupid in love
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 29 2018 at 02:36 by Lynnthomas21 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / NewLife12345 LAST POST: May 2 2018 at 13:14

First here is a little back story on how me and my son father met. We met a year ago and he was living in one state and me in another and I would travel to see him twice a month for the weekend. Everything was good until I found out I was pregnant and that he was trying to rekindle some feelings for his ex-girlfriend. I was hurt by this but at the same time I had to deal with the consequences of m...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryPanic attacks and guilt about fake cumming
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 5 2018 at 00:16 by Natalia2000 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 5 2018 at 03:41

I have been with my bf for 5 months and we are very in love, are with each other almost 24/7 and dream about spending our whole lives together. I cannot cum from sex at all i have only ever been able to cum if its by myself. However i have fake cummed for my bf everytime we have had sex sometimes even more than once per session. I really enjoy our sex it doesnt bother me that i cant cum there i...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryFiance accused of cheating but claims he does not remember
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 22 2018 at 02:09 by Bianca RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / MamaBear LAST POST: Mar 23 2018 at 18:33

My fiancé of 5 years and a few of our friends went out one night. There was alcohol and drugs involved. My friend stayed at our place on the couch. She contacted me the next night saying my partner came into the lounge and had sex with her. When I first spoke to him about it he was like "no way" and that he would not do something like that, ever. She is mentally unstable however I still don't...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNewlyweds minus the intimacy
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 4 2018 at 05:49 by KenzMar RESPONDENTS: D.D / MamaBear / bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 14 2018 at 23:44

My husband and I have been married for 7 months, and we have been "intimate" less than 20 times. I have talked to him about this twice, and he keeps saying that it will change, but it hasn't yet... I am over weight and have never thought that I was very pretty, but I believe him when he says he loves me. But at the same time, when we go weeks on end without being together it makes me feel awful an...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryDoes having a serious health problem mean I can't have a normal relationship?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 17 2017 at 08:33 by carlosorjp RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 22 2017 at 18:54

I have suffered from GI/"gut" problems for over 25 years now. I've learned--mostly through trial and error--how to manage it with diet and supplements...well, mostly manage it. I'm not 100% free of issues now, but I've eliminated most of them. The trouble is, I've been through two dysfunctional marriages and now I'm unhappy in my current relationship. And I've recently begun to wonder if maybe...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy the f**k is he doing this to me
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 2 2017 at 09:10 by Patron767 RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Dec 2 2017 at 22:12

So I was hooking up with this guy for a few months during the summer. He said he liked me but he was weird about dating and we never discussed it. I left cause the job was seasonal. I found another seasonal job for the winter and it turns out he works here too. We were away from each other for a month. We never really texted, he never answered my snaps, so I forgot about it. Turns out he now has a...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryPlease put my mind at rest
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 2 2017 at 13:26 by SFABB RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 2 2017 at 15:15

I am engaged to someone I have been with for 5 years. Early on in our relationship, I had a one night stand with someone else after a night out, something I feel very shameful of. I messaged the woman afterwards on facebook to apologise and let her know that I couldn't see her again as I was seeing someone else. I have since never heard from her other than a reply at the time abusing me for che...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI need help with my paranoid mind
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 27 2017 at 17:43 by loopyfrank RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Oct 28 2017 at 22:46

I found out in July that my husband of 24 years had been on a 'site' chatting with a woman and paying a lot of money for this pleasure! we are both in our mid 40's and life has been tough and i guess this had shown as all the intimacy had gone from our marriage. I confronted him and he admitted what had been going on. I read some of the messages and became upset as he had tried to get this person ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryTalked for two months, met for the first time & it was amazing & then nothing
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 25 2017 at 00:07 by Alygirl173 RESPONDENTS: Silvarion LAST POST: Oct 27 2017 at 17:16

We talked for two months over text this summer, typical ig DM and the snap chatted and then started texting... I didn’t even like him at first not even a little I just wanted the attention honestly because I had broken up with a bf of almost two years a couple months before. Eventually he became sweeter and he had somewhat of a douchebag vibe but it was so obvious we were emotionally and sexu...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryGirl pregnant!!
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 16 2017 at 15:05 by imgonnadie91 RESPONDENTS: Mingliao / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 16 2017 at 17:51

Ok so my friend and his girlfriend have been dating for almost a year and they are saving it for marriage. Well me and his girlfriend have been doing some stuff in bed and she just texted me saying she took a pregnancy test and it came positive and i am the only one she has had sex with in over a year. My friend is gonna kill me when he finds out what should i do?...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryCheating
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 13 2017 at 18:13 by PatrickM1955 RESPONDENTS: Just another guy LAST POST: Oct 14 2017 at 03:54

I was having a night out with my lover. We both had a fair bit to drink and she was particularly drunk. She picked up a man in a bar and went up to his bedroom to have unprotected sex. This was in front of me and she refused my pleas not to. I forced my way into the bedroom with them and pleaded with her again. She told me to **** off which I did. As I was leaving she was naked and giving th...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryAnyone felt lonely in their marriage??? Ugly & unwanted???
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 10 2017 at 23:27 by Vv89 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 11 2017 at 21:44

I’m a 27 yr old female been married to my husband 31 yr old, for almost 5 years. His job sent him to the police academy in July. We’ve been happily married since day 1, in August I started feeling lonely more than ever, I understood he was busy with the police academy work and the studying he had to do, but on his free time all he did was get on his phone instead of talking to me or the kids...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySearching for help so I don't ruin this wonderful thing
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 11 2017 at 12:52 by 80allaround RESPONDENTS: TRULUV LAST POST: Sep 11 2017 at 18:07

I have never really reached out like this before but I am with this amazing guy who deserves so much more than me and the least I can do for him is to try. We have been together for some years and we recently hit a bump in the road and it is all my fault. I started gaining weight about two years ago. Wasn't really bad at first but in the last year I just really blew up. Things were happening over ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs my girlfriend manipulating and lying to me?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 15 2017 at 07:16 by troubleinparadise RESPONDENTS: Altreal / susiedqq / Silvarion / leslierae784 LAST POST: Aug 6 2017 at 01:27

Relationship of 7 years, when we first met she said some quite strange things. Mainly around how great her ex was in bed and that it never got boring but that he treated her like garbage. Sex between us has always been unsatisfying to me, she is never really interested and will make up all kinds of excuses. I have spoken to her about this on multiple occasions over the years. Usually she ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryFascinated about female feet / footwear
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 14 2017 at 13:08 by Problemsafoot RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 14 2017 at 15:18

I have the urge to stare at womens feet or shoes and fantasize about tasting or smelling their feet or licking their shoes....i realize that there are many other guys with the same problem... but nobody would admit it to anyone. If i me a girl and we hooked up id be happy to worship their feet instead of sex... is this oďd and is their actualy any women who'd enjoy that style of attention ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm not sure if its considered cheating
[12 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 2 2017 at 21:41 by ShamefulGirlfriend RESPONDENTS: Floorguy / dadyethan / Soulmate / Scopes / Silvarion / sarah Nagy LAST POST: Aug 16 2017 at 02:29

My boyfriend and I have been going through a hard patch. he has been having problems with this job and that's fine I'm very supportive I can financially take care of the both of us. I try to keep him motivated to still try even though things aren't great, but recently I have reconnected with an old friend of mine. We haven't met up and I don't plan on doing it, But long story short we have been se...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIssue with my male roommate
[1 POST] CREATED: May 27 2017 at 18:01 by Foreverwalkalone RESPONDENTS: Nick0016 LAST POST: May 31 2017 at 04:26

My roommate and i moved in together a few months ago. Hes a great guy, knows how to have fun and hes so nice. Ive had a small crush on him for a minute... The problem is hes reserved and vague and never gives you a proper answer to anything... One night we were playing craps with the neighbor who is a bisexual man in a relationship. We finished a bottle of whisky and various truths came out whi...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy would my husband rather masturbate than have sex?
[5 POSTS] CREATED: May 24 2017 at 16:55 by Parkscore88 RESPONDENTS: manalone / bunnyhabit / whoami / skinnygirl LAST POST: Jun 11 2017 at 11:29

We've been married for 8 years, have 2 kids and both work full time. For the last 5(or so) years our sex life has been a roller coaster. Either I'm with a high libido or he is. But never at the same time. More recently, over the past year I've woke to him masterbating beside me in bed. At one point I confronted him and I think he was embarrassed. He denied doing the action, and he didn't do it f...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp! Sister and bestie trouble
[1 POST] CREATED: May 18 2017 at 23:05 by TheRef21 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 22 2017 at 13:43

Hey all! Need help! Found my sister and best friend were chatting on Facebook. To cut a long story short he is 17 and she 15. They were trying to get me to have him round for a couple of days then push me out the way so they could go and gave sex! What should I do?! Help!!!...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySexless marriage due to mental and more
[1 POST] CREATED: May 17 2017 at 22:15 by Kayne RESPONDENTS: BLCKBUTRFLY LAST POST: May 18 2017 at 00:24

We've been together 15yrs, married for 11yrs. It has been nothing short of a nightmare. It was only until a few years ago, through one of our many violent arguments (nothing is ever physical, although words can hurt), that I found out why she was even interested with me: I could provide her with a stable home - but that is for a different topic. Yes I have a gold digger. Due to mental issues (b...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm in a sexless marriage
[5 POSTS] CREATED: May 17 2017 at 06:32 by Poppy Seed RESPONDENTS: singlemom / Kayne / BLCKBUTRFLY / susiedqq / bunnyhabit LAST POST: May 24 2017 at 03:32

First of all, I love my husband very much and I can't imagine my life without him. We've been together for 4 years before we got married 9 months a go. We had premarital sex with each other in the first 2 months of our new relationship. We were both in our mid 20's and both were virgin at the time. Our first time wasn't that great since we were both freaked out by the blood and I was panicking...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryAdvice needed please
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 20 2017 at 17:52 by anon_woman73 RESPONDENTS: DanielleShauvaun / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 27 2017 at 13:37

Hello, I just need a little advice before I trundle off to my doctor for the umpteenth time in the last 4 months, I may aswell live there lately. I apologise if some details are a bit gruesome. My husband walked out on me in November, I blamed myself as he didn't give reasons, just said he wasn't happy. The sex wasn't that great or indeed that much, but he never made me feel wanted etc. I k...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIntimacy issues vs desire
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 16 2017 at 03:54 by Ollyollyoxen13 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Hotchix / progressive.house LAST POST: Apr 19 2017 at 13:18

My wife and I have been married for over a year now and have yet to have sex. She is a virgin I am not. She has some medical issues, back and knees. She was raised very conservatively and chose to wait till marriage for sex which contrary to my upbringing because of my feelings for her I respected. When we were dating we were physical with kissing, petting, and limited oral. Since we said our ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIndecent proposal? Where do we go from here?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 7 2017 at 05:07 by Uplatewithqs RESPONDENTS: trinabelle85 / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 8 2017 at 18:27

Hello Everyone, I suppose I should give some background before asking my question. I'm in a relationship with a wonderful guy, we're both in our late twenties and have been together over two years. This evening we were having a discussion about something inconsequential, and I mentioned how I go on the internet for comfort/attention when I feel lonely or down. He said that I should talk to him ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryDeacon doing the dirty
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 1 2017 at 23:14 by Kev-N RESPONDENTS: Dodo / susiedqq / Trauma Queen LAST POST: Apr 5 2017 at 22:30

There is a Deacon in our Presbyterian church, who filed for divorce. After the Deacon filed for divorce, the Deacon began having an affair. Their divorce is not final. Thus, they are still married. I do not believe this follows Presbyterian code of conduct. Should the Deacon step-down? Should this issue be presented in a Session Meeting for review, and removal of the Deacon? ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs my husband gay?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 7 2017 at 20:41 by FrustratedWife RESPONDENTS: SilviaGirl / susiedqq / alsosusan2 LAST POST: Mar 20 2017 at 06:57

I am a newlywed. My husband and I have been married for less than a year and I just found out that he has been using household items including vegetables to masturbate with analy. He has pretty much lied to me our entire marriage about other women, working, online dating websites, porn, and now this. He lies about everything but I love him and he recently wanted to show me he has "changed" and has...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNo clue for twenty years
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 15 2017 at 15:07 by BenThar RESPONDENTS: Candygirl / Unumoetse LAST POST: Mar 24 2017 at 11:49

My wife told me last week that having sex with me presented problems for her and always has. It stunned me into emotional unconsciousness. Her problems: I'm too large in girth, I last too long, and I stay hard after. I always thought I was average as far as sexual things are concerned. None of my partners said otherwise. I make a point of a lot of foreplay and lube, natural or purchased. N...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHigh sex drive
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 2 2017 at 16:35 by Invisible man RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 2 2017 at 21:41

I'm so sick of thinking about sex all the time. I feel it stops me from enjoying my wife and feeling proper love...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHave a wonderful wife but still thinking about cheating
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 30 2016 at 22:40 by artificial23 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 1 2017 at 19:58

I'm married to a wonderful woman. She is very sweet, beautiful, intelligent, and we are very passionate about each other. We met eight years ago and fell in love. It was the first real relationship for both of us (although we both had opportunities in the past). We communicate very good with each other, have a lot of common interests, and are happy with our sex life. The problem is that although I...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySexual dysfunction
[37 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 29 2016 at 05:28 by Irina RESPONDENTS: Scopes / Soulmate / susiedqq / nez / Saffron / Wesley40 / OnTheRoad / WinterSun / harry888 / alsosusan2 LAST POST: Feb 13 2017 at 08:27

Thankyou for taking the time and reading my story. I need to share this unique situation I find myself in. I am married for the last 8 years. Married in 2009. Husband has sexual problems. He has erectile dis function. Cannot keep it hard. We could not consummate our marriage for good 6 years of our marriage. The little sex we've had is using Viagra but even that doesn't help much. He is a great gu...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryDutch girl who takes risks
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 24 2016 at 12:19 by muhren RESPONDENTS: mavi LAST POST: Dec 25 2016 at 14:15

Hello I hope people can help me. I am a good looking Dutch girl aged 38 and whilst I really want to settle down and have a family I am addicted to casual risky sex. My addiction has cost me lots of relationships in the past but the buzz is too strong. I need to know why I behave like this and how I can stop ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I doing right thing???
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 12 2016 at 21:09 by Hingmang RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / OnTheRoad / artificial23 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 2 2017 at 01:47

It's been 11 years we have been married and we are in long distance relationship due our profession. We have two kids from our marriage who stay with me. Our marriage was good till recently....when my husband started having chat with me and we started having sex on chat I mean virtually. Initially I did because I thought it's different and what's wrong in trying out new things. But eventually I re...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryControl of sex in my marriage?
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 1 2016 at 03:52 by Hopeless1 RESPONDENTS: harry888 / OnTheRoad / Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 8 2016 at 17:59

Hey everyone this is my first time doing something like this. I just don't know where else I can let off some frustration. It's a long story and I need some help. I was married a year ago. My husband and I had always had a great sex life up until we got married. It then slowly started to fade out. A few months into our marriage I found out he had been watching a lot of porn. So naturally I address...

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[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 30 2016 at 23:56 by astravan RESPONDENTS: Annigirl23 / Bmac LAST POST: Dec 2 2016 at 07:34

I love my gf to bits but she very rarly gives me any loving only when she wants it which is approx twice a month if im lucky, its always on her terms and its a routine same every time, ive noticed when in bed and she thinks im asleep she masturbates every night and at least 3 times min i ve confronted her and she denies it, it makes me horny but frustrated i dont no how much more i can handle w...

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[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 29 2016 at 08:51 by EmptyViking RESPONDENTS: Annigirl23 / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 29 2016 at 14:18

I'm newly married and after 5 months it is a sexless marriage. Why do women complain that they do everything for the man? Maybe they should try being emotionally available and not play so many games. Everyone needs that intimacy but men seem to be the whipping post for every problem in the world. I must be missing something. But I have accepted there is no sex but for how long will this l...

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[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 25 2016 at 21:06 by Greenree420 RESPONDENTS: Scopes LAST POST: Dec 1 2016 at 21:54

My bf of 4 years... And he is selfish in the bedroom.. he always expects me to go above and beyond... And I do I want to please him... He never takes time to work on me... It sux... Sex sucks.. im left high and dry every single time.... I have toys... But I feel unimportant...

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[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 8 2016 at 07:54 by Bella1990 RESPONDENTS: harry888 / OnTheRoad / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 10 2016 at 18:46

I'm 26 and he's 37, we dated one year and quickly got married after that. He rushed me into marriage and having kids with him even though I wanted to wait. He was head over heels for me, we would have sex daily before the kids. He even used to give me oral... after I had kids with him our sex life went completely down hill. And I'm not one of those wives who's let themselves go. I go to the gym an...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI must be weird
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 6 2016 at 16:26 by Brett39 RESPONDENTS: Scopes / OnTheRoad LAST POST: Nov 7 2016 at 23:30

Hello. I have a strange obsession for many years and I'm not sure this is the place to discuss this but I have a unhealthy fantasy of my wife sleeping with other men! She doesn't like it and I can't say I blame her to be honest she hasn't ever done it and doesn't want to. I love her and want to stop thinking about it. Am I going mad? I feel ashamed of myself....

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryTroubles, then more CREATED: Oct 28 2016 at 11:59 by CalebAwesome9 LAST POST: Oct 28 2016 at 12:08

OK so for a while now I have had troubles going to Sleep, it is not a medical thing it's something I devoloped when I was younger. This doesn't help esspecially at school when we have to do like 20 test but the other problem is My Dad and Mum seperated many years ago and I live with my Dad, so like any other normal person he looks for a Girlfriend, he is up to his 3rd Girlfriend as I can remember ...

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[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 23 2016 at 21:54 by Deepak remo RESPONDENTS: Lvh30 LAST POST: Oct 24 2016 at 14:30

Hi , this is remo, i am going mad with this sex drive, i touched my sister while she was sleeping, i lost my love, please help me how to solve...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat he wants, what I am, who we are
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 17 2016 at 15:18 by LittleMsSensitive RESPONDENTS: lonelyheart32 LAST POST: Oct 18 2016 at 15:22

The following revelation is not really a revelation at all, in the whole scheme of human thought, but for me, I know for sure now a thing I have hoped wasn't true. People, specifically the men who have come and gone from my life, think I'm great until shit gets real and they have to see me for who I am, as opposed to what they thought I was, hoped I was, glorified me to be. Hence, "little miss ...

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[5 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 13 2016 at 12:39 by connected2easyjet RESPONDENTS: lily31 / manalone / Soulmate / Scopes / harry888 LAST POST: Oct 15 2016 at 15:43

I was out with my best girlfriend a couple of nights ago and we met a group of men in the bar where we were drinking. At first it was just friendly banter but after an hour or so one of the guys was trying to gauge if there was an interest in his friend. They were all great guys but I wasn't really interested as I have a long time boyfriend of 5 years. I politely told him that I wasn't interest...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHis ex wife - past problems affecting things now
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 22 2016 at 10:10 by heavenlychoirs RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 22 2016 at 12:57

Hi, I don't know if anyone can help me this is troubling me a bit. I am in a new relationship of 4 months with an older man 18 years older than me. He is divorced 10 years ago but was married for 14 years to a sociopathic sadistic golddigger that took everything left him on the street homeless and caused him to have a nervous breakdown. She lied to him all the way through as she was ciphoning ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI am chatting and flirting with men online
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 2 2016 at 19:38 by Littlesnit RESPONDENTS: Scopes / MamaBear LAST POST: Sep 3 2016 at 17:57

I ask my husband to have sex today. We haven'the had any relations in 2 years. I am feeling rejected and even though I am chatting online and partaking in sex talk, I want a physical relation. I am 12 years younger and need some attention. Husband always talks like he wants sex but usually says not today....

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryFirst cousin once removed... I think I love her
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 26 2016 at 00:33 by Ark RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / The Truth LAST POST: Aug 27 2016 at 07:15

Quick background: From ages 1-16 we were always together at family functions. We were close but never sexual. She asked me to be her escort at her graduation and I happily accepted, It was a wonderful night. I was her "date" she was beautiful and as we were both attractive, we "fit" in (whatever that means as I look back on this event). At 17 years of age an incident occurred between us. We wer...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryThree years together; one child together; she has two more kids living with us
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 22 2016 at 20:17 by blazer RESPONDENTS: The Truth / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 24 2016 at 14:51

Been living with my now fiancé for three years we have a beautiful 10-month-old baby boy together also we have her two boys ages six and four living with us full-time they call me dad. Which I excepted open arms from the day I met them. I got to say I wouldn't change anything in the world they are awesome I love kids and I make me happy. This last 10 months is been a really long and hard for ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNo new ideas! What else could we try out?
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 15 2016 at 00:28 by Vivien RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 15 2016 at 15:50

My boyfriend really enjoys to try out new things in bed, but at the moment I'm just clueless what else we could try out. We did already: -bondage -submissive/dominant games -role plays -vibrators/toys -using mirrors -wearing any kind of lingerie -Involving food -doing it outside at different places -All positions you can imagine that don't instantly break your spinal cord -Watching us ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy did he do that?
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 6 2016 at 13:06 by Nanini2504 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 6 2016 at 14:46

Hello, so this is the thing and I would be gratefull if you, guys could tell me from your point of view. I've been seeing this guy for 7 months maybe, just sex. Sometimes we go out and chat. He works in other citt so he is here like 4 days in a months and when he is here we see each other everyday (sex). To be clear, I don't have any feeling for him, I'm not attached, I am just curious what did ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryCan a mom be a woman / lover?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 1 2016 at 18:41 by MilwaukeeMike RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Mina0693 LAST POST: Aug 8 2016 at 03:30

The woman I want to marry had a daughter when she was 40. I started dating her when her daughter was 10. ( I am a 57 y.o. 2x divorced man with a 36 Y.O. daughter) She has done a wonderful job in raising her. The daughter is #1 in her class and as teenagers go, she is pretty respectful. Anyway, my question is this. I think my fiance has forgotten how to be my lover. I think she has forgotten...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWife rejects me constantly
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 25 2016 at 02:19 by Ksd RESPONDENTS: manalone / luvbird / susiedqq / anne66 / Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 31 2016 at 13:32

So I work hard, as does my wife. I try hard to get her everything and to provide for the family. I book weekend trips, try to do something different often. I work long hours, often getting home at 8 or 9pm if not later. Career wise I am doing great, as is she. I would like to know if I am being unreasonable.... My wife NEVER wants sex. If I touch her, I can feel her wince. I'm no stud, I am often ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category38 year old virgin
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 24 2016 at 09:02 by Chuck427 RESPONDENTS: Ninalola / Bball32 / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 25 2016 at 13:28

I am 38 years old, I have never had sex and I have never had a girlfriend. I've tried going out to clubs, I've tried online dating, but women never choose me. I don't want to be single and I would like an abundant sex life. ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp!! I can't sleep my girlfriend is too fit!!
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 19 2016 at 12:56 by Buddy RESPONDENTS: Dancelot / Noveske LAST POST: Jul 21 2016 at 02:21

Hi I'm a 35year old male and my girlfriend is 26. She is the most beautiful person inside and out that I have ever met and we connect of a level that I never thought imaginable. We are both each other's true love and I for one have never loved before. I have never really enjoyed sex with anyone before, I've only ever done it because as a man that's what you are meant to do. But since meeting my gi...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNo passion in my relationship advice greatful
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 10 2016 at 22:48 by Daniel2016 RESPONDENTS: Ninalola / manalone / Steph777555 LAST POST: Jul 11 2016 at 08:07

Hi all, First of all thanks for taking the time to read this! I have spent 7 amazing years with the most amazing person. My soon to be wife Vanessa. I love her with every ounce of my life she is an amazing mother to our two kids and so supportive. However I just never get any effective from her and if I give her any sexual attention she just shrugs it off there isn't anything there no Lus...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryProblems in the bedroom...
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 10 2016 at 16:47 by Thea RESPONDENTS: Ninalola LAST POST: Jul 10 2016 at 23:04

My partner and I have been in a relationship now for 2 years we met online and hit it off straight away, suppose love at first sight? During our late night conversations the topic of sex popped up and we realised we had the same sort of feelings towards it, neither of us really liked it. I must point out that my partner and I are a lesbian couple we had only ever slept with 1 girl each and a few m...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryAbortion !!! Please help
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 1 2016 at 09:46 by alexjohnson RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / KittenJoe / Elvina / luvbird LAST POST: Jul 18 2016 at 16:19

Hi Friends, I have a GF, and before some time we did protected intercourse, but I don't know she got pregnant... Now we want to terminate that pregnancy. Is there any way to for it... We are avoiding surgery.. Please help.......

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryFiguring out how to have a sex life with husband after having three kids
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 24 2016 at 06:09 by dobb RESPONDENTS: ProblemSurfer LAST POST: Jun 25 2016 at 15:53

I've been with the same guy for 16 yrs and we have three children and at the beginning of relationship we was having sex 5 to 7 times a day! I got pregnant with our first child 2 months later. we had hard times but got back together and things was looking up. We had issues which I may talk about if I feel comfortable later on and I got pregnant with 2 child 4 years later and at the time my husband...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy boyfriend of 1.5 years wants bjs but rarely wants sex
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 22 2016 at 19:41 by annab_2010 RESPONDENTS: Raye LAST POST: Jun 23 2016 at 05:51

I have made it clear from the beginning that sex is important to me. About 3 months after we started dating his desire for intercourse started to decline we would still have sex about once a week and I was ok with that because we still cuddled and spent a lot of quality time together and he still made me feel desired, but we started having sex less and less and we as a couple were starting to...

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[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 22 2016 at 11:46 by Unclecreepy93 RESPONDENTS: c123 / CCC LAST POST: Jun 22 2016 at 14:20

Ok idk how to start but were we go I'm 23 years old I've been with my girlfriend for ten years.she is 29 years old for the past 6 years I have started to have a drug problem meth,pills,anything with speed she ask way I started using and she hates that I use the reason I started was I'm unhappy with my life our sex life is out the window has been for 8 years and all we do is fight over everthing I ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs ‘cheating’ a good idea to save our marriage?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 20 2016 at 16:53 by Brother RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jun 21 2016 at 00:37

I'm a newly married man and I love my wife very dearly, but we have a big problem coming to bed. She has less sexual appetite (desire), she’s always ‘not ready’ (dry) for sex which makes it harder for both of us to enjoy. So, most of the time we use lubricants which seems to be our only option as for now. Also this has been a long term problem since we met 4 years before getting married th...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNew partner
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 14 2016 at 08:53 by jordxm RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 14 2016 at 12:41

hi! i'm currently dating a girl for a few months now and we are taking it to the next level. the only problem is that i had a girlfriend for 4year and i kinda discovered everything with her.. with my new girlfriend i can't even find her g-spot. i feel really stupid and it's making me insecure... what do i do?...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI gained 130lbs while pregnant
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 10 2016 at 01:40 by NurseCaitlin RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / CraZyMe / Arice / Soulmate / Cookie2 LAST POST: Jun 22 2016 at 00:19

I took ritalin/adderall my entire life but stopped last year because my husband and I wanted a baby. I got pregnant almost immediately after. My metabolism was shot from the amphetamines. The weight packed on so fast. I was eating very little and still gaining tons of weight (40lbs). After 5 months the MD put me on bedrest, during 4 months of bedrest I gained 90lbs. I was so depressed and as...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMeet a older man online just for sex?
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 8 2016 at 20:36 by miranzoe RESPONDENTS: warhorse / Bear0161 / thedynamicsofsoul / susiedqq / mercy LAST POST: Jun 15 2016 at 11:33

Hi, i'm a 16y/o girl. I want to lose my virginity as soon as possible, because all my friends have lost it already. But i have very low selfesteem, and have never had a boyfriend... So i wanna lose it soon as possible, and i've sexcamed this guy i found on omegle. He told me he lived not far away from me so maybe we could meet up and do it uknow? But the problem is he's 45 and i feel kind of dis...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBeing irrationally jealous over sex in my head
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 8 2016 at 17:09 by warhorse RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 9 2016 at 13:40

My partner and I have been together for a couple of years now, but at the time being we are not living in the same country. Before dating me, my partner was in a long-term relationship with person A, whom I knew, as before dating, my partner and I were friends. Eventually, when we started dating, we also started having sex, and all of a sudden I found myself being awfully jealous over practically ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category7 years the last time we do love make...
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 4 2016 at 05:04 by Dhes87 RESPONDENTS: Roseman / Soulmate / trytoguess LAST POST: Jun 4 2016 at 21:29

Good evening/morning everyone. Where do I start? Well me and my husband is married now for 7 years and 3 mos. And my husband is older than me. When I get pregnant to my beautiful baby girl. me and my husband never had sex probably like, since I was 3 months pregnant. We talked before and he told me That its him. The problem is him. I want another baby again. And since I get pregnant before(7 years...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy boyfriend never wants to have sex
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 31 2016 at 16:53 by Polarbearsateme RESPONDENTS: Needinganswers / lismarie / trytoguess LAST POST: Jun 3 2016 at 09:19

So my boyfriend NEVER wants to have sex! Or touch me. Or anything physical. I've heard so many excuses and I've tried to explain that it's really creating a distance between us now. I've tried to figure out if it's because we had a baby, if he still has feelings for his ex but I just can't figure it out. We have been together for 2 years, with a short break after our son was born. I suffered wi...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBirth control - his turn and 8 years later... still no vasectomy
[1 POST] CREATED: May 25 2016 at 18:44 by Numby Mommy RESPONDENTS: lila LAST POST: May 26 2016 at 09:46

Before we even had children, I was the one who took care of the birth control. We agreed that after we had our 2nd child, husband would go and have the vasectomy (V). After our 2nd child was 6 months old and still no V, I went ahead and had an IUD put in, which was a 5 year plan. Done. Five years passed. Still asking him to get the V done, but would hear "I'll do it in the spring." "I'll take ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryEffects of medicine
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 10 2016 at 21:45 by Georgiikay RESPONDENTS: Mercy_Help / SECULARHAZE77 / susiedqq LAST POST: May 12 2016 at 18:21

Ok. So I've never done anything like this before but I'm too embarrassed to go to anyone I know. For about 7 years I was on antidepressants and anxiety medication. It's been a full year since I've been off them and I'm so proud of myself. But recently I've been told of a side effect of the medicine I used to rely on. No one informed me that as a side effects of the antidepressants is a sexual di...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryDoes he want me?
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 29 2016 at 10:36 by Myth RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 6 2016 at 13:29

I met and married my husband quickly. I love him completely and everything would be perfect except he doesn't seem to want me sexually. He has had lovers in the past before me, a few I know as we live in small town. And when we met I thought his reluctance to sex was due to illness, he has thyroid problems however am now thinking its me. He turns me on immensely and has no problem respondi...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySexually incompatible and feeling trapped
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 28 2016 at 19:53 by banananana RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 30 2016 at 01:30

I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years, we got together in the first month of uni and have had a very intense relationship, having the same group of friends and living together in our first year. Over the last couple years he has been bringing to light the fact our libidos are so mismatched. He would like to have sex at least 3 times a week whereas I only once a week. It is an issu...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryDoes not having sex until 20 make me less of a sexual person
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 21 2016 at 21:41 by Cubbiefink706 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 22 2016 at 13:24

Okay I am right now 30 and I have been with the same girl for 10 years we are married and everything is good we are both a modern couple as in we don't really want the house in the suburbs or kids we are happy with an apartment in a busy city. Now I meet my wife when I was 18 in college and her first year of college she had numerous sexual partners all of which were casual sexual partners such as ...

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[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 8 2016 at 16:11 by NiceGuy217 RESPONDENTS: Changling / skinnygirl LAST POST: Apr 9 2016 at 14:05

My wife and I have been married for 12+ years and have one child together, and our love life, in my opinion is very lacking. Sure I can get oral when I ask/beg for it, but she never seems to want anything, she rarely if ever initiates any encounters, unless she feels guilty from a discussion or argument early in the day/week. I can acknowledge that I may have a more active sex drive than her, bu...

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[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 5 2016 at 12:24 by brucewayne RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl / PJVL9 / penny_gray LAST POST: Apr 12 2016 at 06:53

Ok been with my current gf a year all good i love her n wont cheat on her, but i have a sexual thoughts about interacial sex (white women blackmen) i used to watch interacial porn alot behind my previous gfs back i then relised i was more happy pleasing myself than to have sex with her n we eventually broke up i then cut off from watching porn all together it has been about 18 months now since i l...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy do men watch porn?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 2 2016 at 01:14 by Fromtheblock RESPONDENTS: StarlingCity / browneyes117 LAST POST: Apr 6 2016 at 18:06

My husband and I have been together for 10 years. The last two years our sex life has kinda dwindled. I have to admit I was creeping on his computer and found a bunch of porn sites that he has been watching. It seems that every time I leave the house he is playing with himself. I'm concerned because he seems to not be interested in me anymore even though he says he loves me. How can I approac...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHusband can't climax
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 20 2016 at 15:06 by Dotdotspace RESPONDENTS: Altreal / susiedqq / skinnygirl LAST POST: Mar 22 2016 at 14:33

My husband and I have been married for nearly two years and together for over 4. T To sum things up as best as I can, he has always had problems climaxing during sex, even before we were together. I'm bi and we have had other women joins us before but recently was the first time he had sex with someone else and he climaxed with her. As you can all imagine, makes you feel pretty bad. 4 ye...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to find the love of your life
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 17 2016 at 18:36 by Saraggg RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 17 2016 at 20:15

I met a guy at a bar, at first I didn't really think much of him I just thought he was alright. Then we ended up playing pool and he was really into astrology just like me so we hit it off. After playing pool and getting retardedly drunk. He started making out with me and we decided to go back to his place. We eneded up having sex three times. Ya three times haha. I was thinking in my head oh my ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryTired of being married to a roommate
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 16 2016 at 17:30 by rommel RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 17 2016 at 20:20

My wife and I have been married for over 20 years. Our sex life has not ever been very good and in my opinion we are both to blame for that. We have both had affairs (me-emotional; her-emotional & ???). Mine was many years ago, hers may or may not still be happening. He is an old friend from high school, married, and lives a few hours away. Over the last 3 years, I've suspected their relation...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMale gynaecologist? Boyfriend will not allow it!
[11 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 9 2016 at 20:11 by suedonim RESPONDENTS: VegasGuy / susiedqq / Soulmate / Altreal LAST POST: Mar 16 2016 at 18:36

Hi, I have a gynae problem that requires I see a gynaecologist. My Dr has told me I need an operation. My boyfriend has told me that if I see a male gynaecologist our relationship is over. He sees it almost like cheating. I saw a female Dr this morning and the examination was extremely painful (hence the need for an operation) and he can't bring himself to look at me. He is making me feel asha...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMarriage needs help
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 7 2016 at 18:33 by Merched-cymru RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul / BeagleMom LAST POST: Mar 9 2016 at 15:56

Been with my husband for 23 years married for the last 6 years, but our sex life for the last 6 year has been non existent and has even gone to sleeping in the other room as he says does not want to disturb me. He's a good provider and I don't have to ask for anything but miss someone just wanting me and showing me affection. There is a age gap of 16 years and wonder if this ok is not helping....

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI can't have sex with my girlfriend, and it's very frustrating
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 6 2016 at 14:23 by JonasD RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul / susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 6 2016 at 23:42

I'm really desperate to get some help, so thank you! To give you some context, I'm 25 yo and have never been in a serious relationship. Even more odd, I have never been liked by the same person that I like (and viceversa). That ended about 5 months ago, when I met this amazing girl... Literally, the girl I've been dreaming of for so long, and now she's my girlfriend. Due to the fact that she's...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI never would, but I am tempted to cheat
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 27 2016 at 03:12 by Justneedtovent RESPONDENTS: Gaustant / thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Feb 27 2016 at 17:09

I have a lot of history to go through. If you read it all, thank you. If not, I totally get it. I have been married now for almost 5 years. My wife and I were friends for a long time before starting to date and we were married very quickly. Our first time together was on our wedding night. It was my first time period. My wife had some experience, but that didn't bother me and still doesn't, rea...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBDSM and piercing
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 26 2016 at 17:57 by Gaustant RESPONDENTS: Justneedtovent / thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Feb 27 2016 at 21:47

Now that I have your attention, sorry this is so long. Let’s start off by saying I am a 46 year old male I am in my 3rd marriage my wife is 42 years old and she is in her 3rd marriage. My first marriage(4years age difference) ended because I was accused of cheating, I wasn’t ( but I think she was) My second marriage (10 years age difference)ended because she cheated on me. I have a high sex ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI said no but then yes happened
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 17 2016 at 01:37 by codependentlady RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / skinnygirl LAST POST: Feb 18 2016 at 19:10

I have been married for 27 years. My spouse has always tried to pressure me into having anal sex. I have always said no. No way. A couple of weeks ago we were partying together at home. I was drinking tequila. Got Super drunk. So much so that I was in that state of mind where you are in and out of knowing what is going on. The next day he told me that we had anal sex. Right at that instant...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy mind is obsessed with sex
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 15 2016 at 20:57 by TundrazZ RESPONDENTS: I get it / PJVL9 / Bball32 LAST POST: Feb 23 2016 at 00:35

Like seriously, its really getting out of control. When I was younger i just thought it was normal, but now I am 21 and it's just getting worse. Im a complete virgin, raised in a Christian home, and I can not understand why I am like this. I can't even walk by a pretty girl without thinking about how her vagina would feel on me, how it would look, or taste. Its fucking eating me alive because, im ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryThere's blood on my bed!?
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 13 2016 at 15:38 by Vega RESPONDENTS: Krabi LAST POST: Feb 13 2016 at 15:58

I'm 14 years old ,and my sister's 26 and she also has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend can't pay his rent, so he's staying over at our house until he finds a job. So it's 10 o'clock and I'm going to my bedroom, but it was locked. And I can just hear my sister moaning. I knocked the door and wait for about 5 minutes, then they walked out of my room, pretende like nothing ever happen. Now my bed is cov...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWhich birth control pill should I take?
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 12 2016 at 10:47 by sofiaalex RESPONDENTS: TILES LAST POST: Feb 13 2016 at 21:04

What is the best birth control pill that i should take ??please suggest ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySex addiction and PTSD
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 31 2016 at 05:32 by McBeelah RESPONDENTS: Carl Smith / thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Feb 3 2016 at 13:12

I suffered a lot of trauma in my life. One of the side effects has been using sex as a band aid. I have no idea how many guys I have slept with. Triple digits for sure. I finally meet a great guy, but he has no experience with mental illness, and doesn't believe in sex without being a couple. Well we are unable to be together for lots of reasons. So now I feel sick when I think about sleeping with...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryAn embarrassing event from a long time ago that has been secret but need to tell
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 30 2016 at 02:02 by MrsWrite RESPONDENTS: problemtolerance / skinnygirl / PJVL9 LAST POST: Feb 3 2016 at 00:31

I am a middle aged woman now in my 40's. This happened a long time ago when I was in my mid-20's. I have always been embarrassed about what happened so hopefully getting it off my chest will get it out of my mind. I have never even told my best friend. It bothers me every time I think about it and I still think about it all the time. I showed up to an appointment at my hair solon. My stylist wa...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryThis sexual problem I'm having is starting to ruin my life..?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 27 2016 at 17:53 by Bball32 RESPONDENTS: moody_one LAST POST: Jan 30 2016 at 12:59

Hey guys, I'm a twenty year old male and I have this huge problem that is destroying my self-esteem. It may seem like a gag question, but this is a serious issue of mine and I don't feel comfortable talking to anyone else about it so I'm turning to this forum in hopes of some answers... To keep it short, I can't seem to get an erection ONLY when its time for intercourse. Its been this wa...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs my girlfriend pregnant?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 18 2016 at 21:52 by Glasgow123 RESPONDENTS: TILES / Altreal LAST POST: Jan 19 2016 at 07:29

Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time at the weekend, I didn't ejaculate inside of her and I pulled out way before I even felt like ejaculating, but we didn't use a condom and she had already made me ejaculate about an hour beforehand, I am worried about the chances of her getting pregnant from precum carrying sperm to her vagina, please reply as fast as possible, thanks...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWife searching for advice to help her husband get his sex drive back
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 13 2016 at 18:31 by Kidness RESPONDENTS: rohanshah LAST POST: Jan 13 2016 at 19:13

Hi! I am a brandspanking new member! I came across this site by searching for somewhere to get advice and support for my current problem. First, let me introduce myself and then I will explain what has been going on. I am a 23 year old mother of a one and a half month old baby girl! My husband and 27 and we have been married for three years, and will be together for five years this coming July...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWant watch wife has sex with stranger!
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 13 2016 at 18:22 by akguy RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 13 2016 at 18:38

We been married 30 years we married young . I got bladder cancer and can only give her oral and playing with her , she really doesnt like vibrators so we gave them up. Its been since 2005 since had a man inside her. She been a good wife been with thru good and bad i just wish i could find the right guy and place so she could be pleased for once. Does anyone have any ideas or thoughts ? She has nee...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy husbands anxiety toward sex
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 10 2016 at 03:26 by 2014bri RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl / T777 LAST POST: Jan 10 2016 at 16:48

Hello, I am not sure if I will be able to find any advice on here but I really think I just need to talk about it,more than anything. I don't have anyone I am comfortable talking about sex with. Anyways, I am 26 and my husband and I have been married for a year and a half but been together and loved together for 6.5 years. Over the past few years sex has become more and more rare but I know that h...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryCan our marriage be saved?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 3 2016 at 20:34 by Cantlosemymarriage RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jan 4 2016 at 02:09

Hi well first time at this but hay if you don't try you won't know right?! My husband and I have been together for 9years married for 1.5years. This is not a new problem but probably the most meaningful. He has no sex drive or interest in me. I try my best but admittedly this makes me so down and unglued that I honestly have depression from it which doesn't help my mood although when it comes t...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMen are suppose to want their wives right?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 3 2016 at 16:10 by Acknai RESPONDENTS: Cantlosemymarriage / manalone LAST POST: Jan 4 2016 at 01:53

For me, what it breaks down to is that my husband of 11 years is content with sex once a month and it's usually because I remind him. I don't remember the last time he initiated or the last time he made me feel sexy or attractive. We have discussed this many times over and he swears its not me. He just got tested for testostereone and it is low so once he gets that treated hopefully it will help. ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryA sexless marriage
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 31 2015 at 21:05 by froggerken RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: Jan 1 2016 at 16:26

I am a 60 year old male who has been married for 39 years to the same woman. She is a very caring and devoted wife and mother. We have worked side by side in different businesses for the last 16 years, 24/7. In that time we have both worked very hard and continuosly tired physically and emotionally. We love each other very much but I am finding that sex and passion has gone. My wife especially d...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI want sex he doesn't seem interested (long post)
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 31 2015 at 02:00 by mrs.thompson RESPONDENTS: BeautifullyMe / skinnygirl LAST POST: Jan 1 2016 at 20:56

Hello here is my problem. I have been with my boyfriend for a year 4 months, i love him so much and iam super attracted to him. When we met he wanted to have sex with me regularly. Now we have had sex once or twice in like 4 or 5 months. Iam very self conscious i have always been because im sorry if this is too much information but i have black pigmentation in between my legs i hate it it is so ug...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryDepression, sex and my relationship
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 21 2015 at 17:51 by Lizzy1990 RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Dec 21 2015 at 19:47

Lowdown- Time together - 1 year and a half Mental health - bipolar (myself) PTSD (partner) Children - 4 year old to his X wife I have no children Work - Work together in 2 businesses I suffer from depression and am struggling so much with this relationship, any relationship really. Partly because I can't stand how my partner is with his child, he is very spoilt and as he is a part time dad ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryTalk dirty to me
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 9 2015 at 04:33 by Communicator RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul / susiedqq / SootheSayer LAST POST: Dec 15 2015 at 16:07

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. We have good sex but I want great sex. The biggest issue I have is he is quiet as a mouse during sex, I mean SILENT!! No,moans. groans, nothing. Even afterwards if I make a comment that it was really good many times he doesn't even respond. I have repeatedly talked to him about this. He said he likes it when I express what I'm feeling during ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryShe lost her sex drive, I'm losing my mind
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 3 2015 at 17:28 by satchmo RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: Dec 8 2015 at 07:28

My girlfriend of 3+ years has zero sex drive for at least the last 18 months. Understandably, she has undergone some shifts in her life, with a career change and potentially hormonal shifts caused by going off birth control and anxiety medication. However, these shifts were set into motion over a year ago (except the career change), and the sex drive has not returned. Meanwhile, all other thin...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryOne night stand?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 1 2015 at 14:54 by hippieluv RESPONDENTS: rasperrr LAST POST: Dec 4 2015 at 16:42

I am from the US and took a weekend trip to Niagara Falls with my mother. I was staying at this hotel and went outside with my mother. Two people staying in the room next to us came outside the same time we were; a guy and his mom. They asked what we were up to in Niagara Falls; told them we were tourists going to see the falls. They talked about how they were staying there for a nearby concert. N...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryUnprotected sex
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 22 2015 at 06:28 by anon24 RESPONDENTS: deody / skinnygirl / genuineMe / susiedqq / Soulmate / Poolchamp / Empathy36 LAST POST: Nov 30 2015 at 01:28

I probably dont need to use this website, but I really need to ask someone. I am 14 years old and me and my boyfriend had sex, unprotected sex. It was only for 5 minutes maybe, if that. I just ended my period, it was the day after I ended my period we had sex. He said he cummed inside but then he said was joking.. but im not sure if he really was. This was the third time I've had sex now, not sure...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryVery painful sex
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 21 2015 at 20:57 by Anonymous526 RESPONDENTS: Finn121 / skinnygirl / sanny111 LAST POST: Dec 4 2015 at 04:35

My husband and I have been married for three weeks... We love each other very much, but I'm frustrated. I was a virgin when we got married, and he had only had sex once, a few years ago. I'm still a virgin. We've tried so many times, but it's so painful for me when he tries to penetrate that we haven't been able to go all the way. A book I read suggested using lube if it's painful but that didn't...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryDon't know what to do
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 19 2015 at 06:41 by sexyguy1987 RESPONDENTS: thedynamicsofsoul LAST POST: Nov 20 2015 at 04:03

I have a wonderful girlfriend with me now. However, these few months, I have been facing difficulty of erection. So I feel down about this. Recently, I met a girl online. She is a Filipina escort. That reminds of my Filipina ex. However, my intention is find confidence on the bed. I hope by doing making love with that escort, I will be able to perform better sex with my current girlfriend....

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI can't help but feel insecure. What can I do to understand this better?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 31 2015 at 07:30 by AreaLoxes RESPONDENTS: Bambolera / JHC91 / skinnygirl LAST POST: Nov 26 2015 at 13:22

We've been together for 9 years. He is the father of my son and takes care of me. But lately, more and more he has been drawing away from me. Whenever we fight he goes straight to watching porn or signing up to meeting up for sex sites. When we've been intimate it seems he can't sleep with me without drinking. He has also admitted to me that he finds a couple of his college classmates attractive. ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend feels he doesn't satisfy me
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 30 2015 at 23:19 by chudleigh RESPONDENTS: Bambolera / R3d / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 31 2015 at 18:08

I'm in a very happy relationship with my now long distance boyfriend, we've been together over a year but moved away 4 months ago. Its all going fine, when we see each other (about once a month) he doesn't last as long in bed as when we lived close to each other. He still satisfies me and I'm very happy but he feels he isn't making me happy. I try to tell him how amazing it feels ect.. but he stil...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBig mistake
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 30 2015 at 18:44 by Stephanie32 RESPONDENTS: scorpionandfox LAST POST: Nov 1 2015 at 19:27

So I'm in my mid 20s & this guy, who is aged mid 40s, was good friends with my mum. She has told me he has tried it on with her & very flirty & touchy feely. A few weeks ago mum told him I was going through a bit of a bad time so he started visiting me for coffee & company. As time went on I noticed he became quite touchly feely with me, first it was hugs, then back rubs. I'm naturally shy & was a...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNot being able to stop lusting over other people, while being in a relationship
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 30 2015 at 17:38 by wulfdca RESPONDENTS: moody_one / Missjoni / jooney16 LAST POST: Nov 2 2015 at 05:48

Hello everyone, I am over 18 years old male and I am having a problem of lusting over other people, even though I am in a relationship. I am also masturbating too much (~once a day) and I really think it's enough and I want to stop.I try my best, but bad thoughts always come to my head. I watch a video, look a movie or even a commercial, walking a street, just basically nearly at every opportunity...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI rarely get orgasms
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 26 2015 at 20:46 by Naz987 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 26 2015 at 21:34

Hi,I've been married for a few years, my husband and I have very bumpy relationships. However, this post is about our sex life. Our sex life is pretty good, we have sex about 5 times a week and he tries really hard to give me pleasure. He gave me an orgasm last night by oral sex and it was amazing. And sometimes I get an orgasm by playing with myself while having sex. But it's very rare. Are there...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs hypnosis really able to control your mind?
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 18 2015 at 03:20 by Barry RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 19 2015 at 12:13

I was dating Brittany for about 8 months. She said that she could hypnotize people and get them to do embarrassing things. I really did not believe her. So she said that she would hypnotize me. I don't think it did anything because I really do not remember anything happening during the hypnosis. Brittany broke up with me a week after that and I suddenly started experiencing really strange a...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryStaying in my relationship for my kid
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 11 2015 at 22:44 by Dyslexic88 RESPONDENTS: PJVL9 / !!! LAST POST: Oct 14 2015 at 19:30

Feel like the only reason keeping me with my partner is my child ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI belive my bf wants to be a sissy boy
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 7 2015 at 14:54 by Devilskin RESPONDENTS: LivingLost95 / manalone / Soulmate LAST POST: Oct 8 2015 at 00:26

A few months ago I caught my bf on online chat sites and profile sex sites. Add I looked what he was looking into it was mostly transsexual and gay sites. He's swears he's not gay so in thinking maybe he just might be a sissy boy. I'm a very open and understanding person, and also bi sexual. So if he's bi I can totally understand, but he won't be open with me about his sexuality. How can I ge...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm pregnant and terrified
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 13 2015 at 01:38 by Agirlwithproblems RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl LAST POST: Sep 13 2015 at 03:55

I'm a teenager, and I am hiding this from my parents. I'm super scared because I'm afraid I am going to lose there insurance and if I do I don't know what I am going to do!!! I have no job and no money the dad said he would help but I'm so scared! ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't know what to do anymore
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 22 2015 at 03:40 by mrs.martin RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / somesunnyday / IHeartPsychosis / clement LAST POST: Aug 28 2015 at 10:56

I have been with my husband for 11 years and married for just over a year. He has been on antidepressants for 3 years now and he can't have sex anymore. maybe once every 3-4 months if he really tries. We weren't even "together " on the night we got married. I love him very much but as a woman I have needs. I don't bring it up to him because I don't want him to feel bad, he says he wants to stop ta...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMarriage, minimal sex, major age difference...
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 9 2015 at 01:13 by ramsey RESPONDENTS: Mynickname / BearinBlue / Knot2loud / susiedqq / SilviaGirl / Altreal / clement LAST POST: Aug 28 2015 at 10:12

my husband is almost 26 years older than me. I'm in my mid 20's. We have been together since I was 18 for 8 years so far. Married for 5 1/2 of the 8 years. He was only the second person I've been with. 2nd person I had sex with. Right before we got married he started having issues with getting erections. I thought that it was just because of stress. Well he has had issues our whole marriage. I hav...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat was I thinking
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 29 2015 at 17:27 by notsolonelyloner RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / PJVL9 LAST POST: Jul 29 2015 at 23:11

okay so a few weeks ago I lost my virginity. It wasn't to my boyfriend because I don't have one, but I was very disappointed with myself for doing that. But anyways after that things changed like I started talking to guys easier and I had way more guy friend. So this morning my mom woke me up and told me to give her my phone I was so nervous because im not allowed to talk to boys and date. But I g...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend is always to tired from working all day!
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 29 2015 at 05:11 by Ashleyy RESPONDENTS: Knot2loud / Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 29 2015 at 18:40

So sick of always feeling rejected when it comes to sex or unsatisfied when it does happen for the two PATHETIC minutes that it does! It's always he is too tired from working all day and blah blah blah but even the days he's off its the same exact thing . Other than sex things are ok with us other than I wish he would spend more time verses doing all kinds of yard work and than complain of being t...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy wife admitted to performing oral sex on another man. Now what?
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 25 2015 at 04:30 by mikek RESPONDENTS: skinnygirl / Soulmate / Knot2loud / susiedqq / Ladyblue / CockIt LAST POST: Aug 10 2015 at 11:30

My name is Jack!Me and my wife have been married for 15 years.Honestly,I can't believe she did that.My wife is a manicurist.She works at a beauty salon which near our apartment.Recently,she's been inviting her "girlfriends" over for a cup of coffee.They used to gather at cafes or just elsewhere but since they were here I thought I'd take advantage of that and overhear their conversation.I merely w...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryExtremely ugly; What to do?
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 21 2015 at 00:12 by lys RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jul 21 2015 at 12:38

I'm a 46 year old woman and have had 4 intimate relationships, but a recent breakdown of the last one makes me wonder if it is possible that I could actually be attractive to anyone at all. I always hoped that even those of us who were on the lower end of attractiveness could find someone somewhere, and a lot of advice out there suggests that no one is really beyond hope. But I'm doubting that. ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriends ex messed up his sex drive
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 20 2015 at 10:17 by cat77 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 20 2015 at 14:09

I have started seeing my boyfriend a few months ago. And when it has come to us having sex he cant manage it. We have talked about it and he also finds it hard to be intimate. He says that this has happened with everyone since his ex split up with him over 3 years ago. He says he really want me and we get really close to doing it then when he can't he gets really mad with himself. What can I do t...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryInexperienced
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 15 2015 at 18:59 by lizbarba RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 16 2015 at 13:36

My boyfriend and I come from similar backgrounds. My parents are very traditional and bealive that a women should loose her virginity to her husband. My boyfriends family is very Christian and bealive that a men and women should stay pure till marriage. But of course me and him are from a new generation...iam 19 he is 18 so it's nothing illegal or out of this world to feel sexual attraction betwee...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryGirlfriend won't do anything sexual that she did with her ex's CREATED: Jul 14 2015 at 09:55 by Nick26 LAST POST: Jul 14 2015 at 14:33

My girlfriend of almost 3 years wont do anything with me that she did with her ex's sexually she rarely even makes out with me only pecks. I only get missionary and if I don't cum within a minute of her, I don't get too. It's putting a big strain on our relationship. I was a virgin before we got together and we have talked about it. She said she is scared to do anything but I know it's not that, s...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryStruggling to give my husband what he needs
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 27 2015 at 02:31 by Suzanne34 RESPONDENTS: WinterSun / sillyme LAST POST: Jun 28 2015 at 20:57

I'm not sure how much I am allowed to put in this forum so I'll keep it as brief as possible.I did ask this elsewhere online but people thought bad of my husband which was never my intention. I have been with my husband for 11 years, due to abuse I suffered as a child it was long time before we had a sexual relationship. it took a lot of fighting between usfyor me to realize that I was allowing my...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBurning it down
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 14 2015 at 01:22 by fivefingers RESPONDENTS: Sunshinelove / TechieKid LAST POST: Jun 16 2015 at 19:07

Ok so my girlfriend had a rough day and she asked me to rub her back, with icy hot. ok so I did no problem. We, as in I got excited and started going for it, completely forgetting about the icy hot, apparently she did too. We started doing it and somehow I must of touched her vajayjay and she said oh hell no STOP!!! lol... as soon as she said stop my dick was on fire!!! She jumped...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryCan, but don't want to? - now its up to you 18yrs marriage going
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 25 2015 at 19:08 by x1705 RESPONDENTS: Ms.lady / SmilesUpsideDown LAST POST: May 27 2015 at 02:45

ugh. i'm new here. i've been searching for some way for support/understanding. here goes. (short version). Been married 18yrs. love of my Life. (not High School "sweethearts") we met in College. she "use to, but now, "doesn't want to.", but alas, "says she does." sex. is a wonderful way to communicate passion between 2 people. i'll cut to the chase here: she use to be a lot of 'fun...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI slept with my friends ex's twice
[7 POSTS] CREATED: May 25 2015 at 01:05 by needsomeadvice123 RESPONDENTS: SmilesUpsideDown / ghosthacker / flower0131 LAST POST: Jul 3 2015 at 12:25

Hello, I am a 21 year old girl. About half a year ago I got really drunk and slept with my friends ex. At that time they were broken up for about 2 years, but they always kept in contact and even slept together sometimes. First of all, the guy was a dick to my friend but she was always too blind to see it. He would manipulate her and sleep with other girls while they were still texting (not ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMasturbation problem and porn problem, please help me!
[5 POSTS] CREATED: May 22 2015 at 20:30 by Hazem RESPONDENTS: moody_one / Sassenach / rasperrr LAST POST: May 26 2015 at 12:15

Hello My sisters and my Brothers .. i am 16 years old guys and i have Masturbation problem whean i was 14 untill this moment. i tried too many ways too stop it ! and i have stopped it for 3 monthes and i stopped it for 2 weeks last months because a good guy helpped a liitle bit with it. I'm actully a muslim and in our reliegon the FAP AND PORN IS HARAM! haram means (it ISNT ALLOWED) and i do...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy overly religious, very sheltered and very conservative mother found my vibrator
[1 POST] CREATED: May 12 2015 at 06:15 by Fangarai RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: May 12 2015 at 10:20

So, a little background story about me. I am basically, a goody two shoes who as far as my mother is concerned, has no sexual desires what so ever. I am the golden child with the straight A's, a hefty college resume, and the perfect straight child who will only date after obtaining a college degree and 100% under the lord. Needless to say she was wrong on a few things. One: I have very sexua...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySexual confusion and lacking communication
[1 POST] CREATED: May 8 2015 at 04:44 by EBdiver RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 8 2015 at 13:20

I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half. At the beginning of the relationship he seemed extremely sexually attracted to me and constantly wanted sex. He was also seemed fairly intimate. Then after about 4 months, he didn't seem interested anymore. Anywhere from 4 to 6 weeks would go by and he wouldn't want to even act sexual. We talked and he said he just didn't have a ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category16 and Pregnant
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 21 2015 at 03:49 by amandapope1211 RESPONDENTS: Violette / WinterSun / PinkDemi / alwayslast LAST POST: May 10 2015 at 03:18

I'm currently 16 and pregnant. I thought I could hide it for awhile until my gynecologist, who I went to without telling my mom, and she told me I'm having not one not two but three children. That's right...triplets. Just my luck. But that's not even the real kicker. The real kicker is that this is a result of me, a straight A student, being convinced to go to a party, having my drink spiked, and...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend atching sex scenes/nudity in films
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 10 2015 at 00:08 by squishyxo RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 10 2015 at 01:53

Hey, not quite sure where to start with this as I feel it is quite complicated, but I appreciate whoever takes the time to read this and gives advice. I am 22 years old, my boyfriend is 30. We have been together for nearly 7 months now. We have an amazing connection, He makes me really happy and we really enjoy the time we spend together. We plan to have a future together and really can't wait....

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySex with friend
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 31 2015 at 13:24 by shobhit RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 31 2015 at 13:54

HII, My name is shobhit (kalpanik naam) and I am here putting my story in front of you, I am 28 years male living in indore and it is the story when I was studing in 12 th class. I wish to continue it in Hindi so that every one can read and understand it easily.. its my real story.. Garmiyo ki chhuttiya thi or mai apne mama ke yaha ghoomne gya hua tha, ek din mere mama ke ghar mai or meri sister...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMarried swinger in open relationship issues....
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 27 2015 at 21:08 by sgc RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 30 2015 at 17:28

I have been friends with this guy for a while. I am divorced and he is a married swinger in an open relationship. We hooked up for a while last year which ended unexpectedly and he was out of the 'lifestyle'. We have continued being close friends and he was helping me with a project last weekend. We always flirt so I didn't read anything into his flirting. Then, he texted me this week how I missed...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySexless Relationship
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 26 2015 at 12:20 by RP41 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / !!! LAST POST: Mar 27 2015 at 02:51

Please ... Advice needed. Been in a relationship for almost 7 years. Not married to him. I'm divorced. Had rough patches with my boyfriend. He broke up with me. I dated another man. Slept with him. 3 months later we got back together. At first sex was normal. Then it stopped. A year later he broke up with me again. This time he slept with two women THAT I know of. We got back together 3 months lat...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryAs soon as we got married he seemed be disinterested in sex with me
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 18 2015 at 17:55 by Rivergirl RESPONDENTS: Peace / !!! / susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 28 2015 at 01:07

We have only been married a little over a year and a half.b4 we got married we dated for 2 years.in that 2 years our sex life was amazing,sexy,exciting and some times a little daring.about a month into marriage he started struggling with ''ED.'' we went for months and barely had sex at all .I cried and few times ,so he just quit even approaching me at all.I made him go get checked.He is in cialis ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySexual harassment
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 17 2015 at 12:37 by LuckLesbian RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 17 2015 at 13:33

My girlfriend has this boss who is constantly sexually harassing her and its taking everything in me not to beat this guy senseless. She is afraid of losing her job if she lashes at him for it. And I'm not aloud to say anything either but it doesn't seem fair. The restaurant she works for has 2 lawsuits filed against them for the same reason. My girl doesn't wanna go that route. She just wants to ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI want him so bad
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 16 2015 at 05:55 by cocoakisses RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 16 2015 at 16:51

So my best friend wanted to hang out with this guy she likes and he was bringing a friend along and she asked me to come as well. We went to the movies and hung out afterwards. The friend he brought along was so hot. I am so attracted to him and during the time we were hanging out, he danced with me and made me laugh so much which just made me like him even more. Eventually, my friend and I had to...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryApparently I cum a lot ?
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 3 2015 at 21:52 by Jw5082 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 3 2015 at 23:16

Right, so I've been with my girlfriend for 5 weeks now and yesterday she came down on me, She gave me a hand job, and said afterwards that I cum a lot, is this supposed to be a good thing? I know she's had ex's and I guess i cum more than them? Someone please tell meh if this is a good thing? Ps she's my first ever girlfriend (I'm 13 she's 14) Thanks Jw Also I don't want none of them old ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm not a sex addict!
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 2 2015 at 10:17 by LuckLesbian RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 2 2015 at 17:27

So my girlfriend and I have been dating 3 months and official for 2. We have a good relationship and both feel very in love. I have never felt like this about anyone and I am enjoying how real the feelings are. My concern however is the sex, its not really there. Our average is once every 2-3 weeks...now my girlfriend works a 9-5 as do I. She also has a 4 year old four days aweek . I do not but tr...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMarried but alone
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 25 2015 at 05:40 by NCblu RESPONDENTS: purplekitty LAST POST: Feb 25 2015 at 21:31

Married but very much alone. Just looking for some online companionship, someone to chat with whether it is just listening and encouraging one another or whether it involves some online adult fun or some of both. ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryJust found out that she is pregnant
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 20 2015 at 07:14 by Lostman RESPONDENTS: Jocelyn707 / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 20 2015 at 18:11

I just found out tonight that a girl I hooked up with is pregnant from me. We never dated, we never even had anything serious. We hooked up twice and then we went our separate ways. She told me today that she is pregnant. I do not know what to do. I just recently started dating a girl that truly makes me happy. I haven't been this happy in a long time and now I feel this just messes everything up....

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySexually frustrated with boyfriend.
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 19 2015 at 18:23 by naturalleaf RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Jocelyn707 LAST POST: Feb 20 2015 at 03:58

I'm in a commited relationship with a man of whom I love dearly, I wouldn't trade him for any other man nor woman but our sex life is horrible. In March it'll be a year into our relationship and the past 6 months are so I've notice how inexperienced he was compared to me( which wasn't problem),we've talked about the issue numerous of times on what things turn me on, how to do it, etc and with all...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryEx insisting on physical relationship
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 18 2015 at 21:10 by lovingperson RESPONDENTS: Jocelyn707 LAST POST: Feb 19 2015 at 16:44

I have only had one relationship before marriage, which was very serious for both of us. Unfortunately it didn't work out because of other people in our lives. Anyways he is married now and so am I. I have children and is leading a fairly happy life. I have been married for 6 years. However me and my husband are not very intimate after our kids- too tired and irritated at the end of the day. My ex...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs 14 one nigh stands to many ??
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 16 2015 at 10:01 by Cat24 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / itsmekatie LAST POST: Feb 16 2015 at 15:22

I have had 20 sexual encounters with lost of men. 14 one night stands and 5 very short relationships. I am married now and my past is coursing problems because i lied. he said everyone has a past but the lies are present. my friend say 20 people is ok but they have not told their partners/ husbands the true figure. they said its ok to lie because its in the past. So, why lie if its OK to s...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy doesn't my fiance want to have sex with me anymore?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 15 2015 at 21:04 by Jocelyn707 RESPONDENTS: tuckerinwaiting / Zac / Soulmate / Lixi LAST POST: Jan 15 2016 at 05:16

So my fiancé and I have been together for two years, engaged for 7 months, and we are very happy socially. It is me who is not happy sexually. We are both almost 30 years old. The first 3 months of our relationship, we had an amazing sex life. Then it changed from him wanting it everyday, to only a couple of times per week. When I finally said something about it, he would say he was tired. He do...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy girlfriend wants crazy, spontaneous sex, but I lack the confidence
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 8 2015 at 10:41 by NiceIce RESPONDENTS: Jasmine87 LAST POST: Feb 10 2015 at 01:30

I'm in a relationship with a nice young lady who I constantly think about. I'm not attracted all that much to anyone but her. She's very experienced and I'm not at all. She just told me that when it comes to sex, she doesn't really want to "make love" she wants to all out f**k. She wants it rough and spontaneous. I'm not all that manly or dominant, I'm slightly overweight and pretty weak so this r...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySexless Relationship
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 3 2015 at 22:21 by ebonieboo68 RESPONDENTS: unnamed / Shivangi LAST POST: Feb 4 2015 at 14:47

I really need help. I hope I'm not being too graphic. Well here goes, my mom passed almost 3 years ago. While at her funeral, I ran into my high school sweetheart. (we've talked throughout the years) Well we started talking more regularly and from that we started to date. I really think I just needed someone to take my mind off losing my mom. Anyway, I was having the time of my life. It was...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend won't have sex??
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 26 2015 at 20:20 by Feefee200 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / Arekkusu12 LAST POST: Feb 6 2015 at 05:35

My boyfriend of 4 months and me have had sex once in the past 5 weeks. He had been hospitalised a couple of times due to inflammation round his heart and was diagnosed with a condition called pericarditis, which can last for up to 6 months, and causes his heart to race and is very painful for him.The problem is that he says he has no interest in sex the now or for a long time as he still feels I'l...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum category18 yo male never had sex.It's becoming a problem I think about it always.
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 25 2015 at 18:06 by floydian RESPONDENTS: unnamed / Heythere LAST POST: Jan 26 2015 at 13:15

I'm a presentable male,1.85 m 74 KGs and quite clever (IQ=138) I have friends and all this stuff but my love life doesn't seem to be that good... Ok so on years 15-18 I was deeply in love with a girl -nothing happened between us- and I was always thinking about her. for these years I would spend ~2 hours a day (sometimes it was 0 hours,sometimes maybe 5 ) just lying on bed and thinking about her. ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNo sex life and drive
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 21 2015 at 16:36 by LOST54 RESPONDENTS: Violette / Zelina LAST POST: Jan 24 2015 at 13:44

okay so Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 years... things were always great between us great communication,sex was great! it was the perfect relationship. A little about my self, I have always found sex awkward and strange and not quite sure why. I was sexually assaulted a few times many years ago which he knows about. I have talked to a therapist about those said issues. Recently we hit a bump in ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryPorn addiction
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 20 2015 at 06:50 by sugarcube RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / lc2 / Violette / moody_one / Not an ant LAST POST: Jan 27 2015 at 12:49

Hi, I've been with my fiance for ten years now, we've had our ups and downs but otherwise we're incredibly strong. There has been one issue that used to be a really really big problem for me. He has a porn addiction. He used to keep Clip outs of women in his wallet, no photo of me I'll tell you that. I'd constantly find women's names written on paper So he could Google them later for more con...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend wants to be celibate
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 19 2015 at 20:27 by Blue_woman RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / moody_one / Arekkusu12 LAST POST: Feb 6 2015 at 05:37

My boyfriend and I have dated for 3 years. Our sex life has always been pleasing and compatible. Lately he's been having trouble with erectile dysfunction. He wants me to get him through it, but I've tried everything and can't help him much. He won't take pills because he is worried about side effects. He won't get checked out by a doctor to rule out an infection. We don't freely discuss the...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryRevenge sex
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 19 2015 at 08:08 by anonymous1051752 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Violette / Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 3 2015 at 23:30

I've just recently gotten out of my longest lasting relationship and truthfully i still have frelings for him but at the same time i started texting him and he told me about this sexy girl he met at some car event he went to and they took some pictures and they kissed. And i know it sounds like im just some clingy girl who cant take a hint but we hadn't even been broken up for 24 hours. Am i wrong...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWife always wears tight pants but seems its not for me!
[14 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 15 2015 at 02:20 by Worriedhubby RESPONDENTS: ThomasFoolery / Violette / susiedqq / moody_one / Smuglerz / real1234 LAST POST: Sep 21 2015 at 08:51

Ok the wife and I have been married 10 years and have two kids. She is a beautiful petite woman and I tell her so all the time. The problem is it seems she wants guys looking or hitting on her by the way she dresses! She always wears these tight pants like skinny jeans or tunic type. I notice she even walks different than when it's just us. These pants leave little to the imagination and while she...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryUh-Oh...Embarrassing
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 12 2015 at 03:39 by JDaniels RESPONDENTS: Toohapp65 / susiedqq / purplekitty LAST POST: Jan 12 2015 at 22:31

So last night I went out with some friends and met this really great guy. Hes so handsome and we really hit it off and we end up going back to his place. Me and my girlfriend and him and his buddy hungout for awhile then eventually we all went to bed. Me and this guy had sex about 6 times last night. Once I went to the bathroom I learned that I was bleeding. Once I got back to the bedroom I totall...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryMy violent sexual desires
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 8 2015 at 17:48 by daveguy50 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / unnamed LAST POST: Jan 9 2015 at 07:23

I just want to share this because I am so confused right now. A young boy of 5 years deriving joy from seeing a lady get stabbed to death in a movie seems odd doesn't it. I didn't understand why I felt that way then. It was just the same feeling I felt when my dad bought me a new game console or when I had good grades in class. Growing up was a bit awkward because I was always asking myself l...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryInternet porn and chat rooms
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 8 2015 at 12:34 by Becki84 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Rach28 LAST POST: Jan 9 2015 at 06:38

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 15 months and things are going well and the sex is great. From day one I've known that he watches porn when given the chance, usually while his kids are napping. Just recently I've discovered that he is flirting with girls on game sites through private messages and now I have also discovered that he has a Mingles.com account. I know what goes on in...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNewly Wed and Sex Issues
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 7 2015 at 22:47 by Livib RESPONDENTS: purplekitty / susiedqq / moody_one / SUGAR MAGNOLIA LAST POST: Jan 12 2015 at 00:21

My husband and I got married 5 months ago. We're both young 20s. From day one sex has been an unpleasant experience for me and I avoid it as much as I can which is causing relationship strain. I have been trying to communicate this to him without hurting his feelings but I just don't like it. Besides the fact that I very rarely have the desire, when he does try to engage in intimate acts with me ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryNo girlfriend
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 6 2015 at 18:37 by dalton99 RESPONDENTS: Maxipoo / Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 6 2015 at 18:59

I'm a 23 years old male currently in college. In high school I had 2 brief relationships. At 20 years old, I was still a virgin and I was so frustrated that I paid a prostitute to have sex. Till now, I feel terrible about this. I want a steady relationship but no girls seem interested and attracted to me. What should I do?...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryCan't stop watching pornography
[10 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 6 2015 at 15:45 by Not an ant RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / purplekitty / Maxipoo / LadyInfamous LAST POST: Jan 7 2015 at 13:12

Well it was never my choice to start watching. when I was about 11 I was introduced to it by my older cousin, I immediately wanted to watch more I couldn't though so for time i never saw any of it again. Until we where over at a friends where he showed us again where i felt so guilty i tried to stop but slowly i started masturbating more and looking at lustful images and slowly got into agian and...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryUnexpected feedback
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 6 2015 at 05:58 by Artemorticia RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Jan 6 2015 at 13:23

Okay so I found a tin of old notes I had written back and forth with friends from jr high and high school. Eleven years ago. I was fourteen and I had the hots for this guy. He went to another school district and came to my district to visit his mother and his septet father. I don't know how the crush happened but it did and I really liked him a lot. He was just so different than other guys. He w...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryLoss of sex drive
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 30 2014 at 20:34 by tweekie RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / TVOR LAST POST: Jan 1 2015 at 22:21

Help!!!!! I have been in a relationship with my partner for 12 years. I never had a huge sex drive in the begining & have zero drive now. I have too point out that it has nothing to do with my partner i love him with all my heart. I have no idea as to why i dont have a sex drive i can assume it could have something to do with having 4 children (no regrets!!!) I find sex excruciatingly painful whic...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIs she just not into me?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 30 2014 at 19:12 by LuckLesbian RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Dancer55 / TVOR LAST POST: Jan 1 2015 at 22:26

So I recently made things official with my girlfriend. We have been dating for over a month and now are exclusive. Last night was the first time we had sex, well I did atleast. She made me orgasm 4x but when it came to her turn she wasn't about it. I don't understand why this is, but its really bothering me today. I felt so connected to her and today I feel like miles apart. We both feel like each...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to tell older guy i like him
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 29 2014 at 02:29 by breeeezzzyy RESPONDENTS: Beach Girl LAST POST: Dec 29 2014 at 22:00

I am afraid to just come out and tell him because I do not want to get rejected. He is way older than me but i am attracted to older men. (20+ age difference) I had a random dream about him and now I really want to see if there is anything there... We have talked maybe twice before, and he has been over to my house.. he is my little sisters, bestfriends dad. if that makes since. I dont want to...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryThat's all he is interested in.
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 26 2014 at 23:06 by JoLeigh53 RESPONDENTS: Gwendo LAST POST: Dec 29 2014 at 15:36

I have been dating a man for six years. I moved in with him a year and a half ago and I thought it was going to progress to the next step. But now that I lived there, I am realizing that his idea and my idea of a long lasting relationship are very different. I am 61 y.o. and he is 51. All he talks about is sex. We cannot have a conversation without him making sexual innuendos about everyone and ev...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySwinging
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 10 2014 at 19:19 by pattie RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / 1Jean LAST POST: Dec 10 2014 at 22:08

My partner and I have been together for 12 years now. Very early in our relationship he suggested we go swinging. I really did not want to do it, the thought made me feel physically sick. Despite this he pushed and pushed me until I agreed. I cried on my way to meet them and poured loads of alcohol down my throat. I did what he asked, it was awful, the worst experience of my life. I said I wo...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryOnly attract married men
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 9 2014 at 12:52 by BoBo RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 9 2014 at 16:08

Hi there. I am a 40 year woman old and i'm told very good lucking. I appear to have everything although I do struggle financially - everything was bought during the good times. When I was 20 I started a relationship with a man 10 years older than me. He was in a relationship. We are no longer together but are best friends for life although sometimes I think he has an expectation of me which ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryIt's a prof thing
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 7 2014 at 03:01 by Strangeland RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 7 2014 at 17:00

Hi everyone! I'm a 23-year-old female student at a university in Michigan. I got a new prof this year for one of my courses, a guy in his mid-30s I became interested in over the last couple months. When I would sit in his lecture in the front row he would keep looking at me for a longer period of time and I would return his glances but rather expressionless. You know, not like smiling or anyth...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryBoyfriend has little to no sex drive...
[12 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 6 2014 at 08:24 by arieschick420 RESPONDENTS: Shivangi / susiedqq / Daydreamer247 LAST POST: Dec 11 2014 at 15:31

My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 12 years. He is 30 and I am 33. We don't live together due to financial issues and family obligations but he does visit every Thurs.-Sun. He is supportive, trustworthy, and a good dad to my 12 yr. old daughter. At times it can be hard to find common-ground as we have different interests and there is difficulty trying to agree on things to do o...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWife is growing distant and seespecially little priority with sex
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 5 2014 at 18:40 by RanGuy RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / jdb1 LAST POST: Dec 6 2014 at 17:21

After 26 years, I can only recall the first 6 as happy and active in our sex likfe. After kids, my wife saw little need for sex and then only to placate me. I feel a great sense of rejection and am at a loss for what to do. It seems almost every xmas we fight about it. She is happy with things and doesn't understand my need for more. It is often just a few times a month. Her idea of flirting a...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWhats wrong with me
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 4 2014 at 00:36 by Dizzy85 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 4 2014 at 21:26

I honestly don't know what to do. I have verbally shared my fantasy with my partner of having a another female in the bedroom with us. We tend to party once in awhile and have included a female friend of mine and we got a bit friendly ( nothing happened sexually) . But my partner found out that she is bi sexual and seems to think she has a bit of a crush on me .Since then he asks about her and sh...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I bi, and if so how do I tell my girlfriend
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 28 2014 at 22:31 by Blisteze RESPONDENTS: Shivangi / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 29 2014 at 15:16

im not sure if im bi and just need someone's help and guidence because im scared....

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 25 2014 at 01:28 by alice21 RESPONDENTS: Shivangi / arieschick420 LAST POST: Dec 6 2014 at 08:41

hey there, imwondering if anyone can give me some advice, basically my boyfriend is trying to start a photography business and he has an account on a site called suicide girls not sure if your aware but its basically a site for alternative models etc. he has met this girl that he apparently wants to work with (which im fine with) however he now speaks to her pretty much every day which is beginnin...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I choose to do what I know is right or compromise to make him happy?
[11 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 23 2014 at 22:18 by Anastacia RESPONDENTS: Soulmate / troubledsoul / Cathy / fiona2505 LAST POST: Nov 25 2014 at 16:34

I'm 19 and my bf is 22.We're together for a little over a year now. We fit perfect together and hardly ever argued, he even changed some of his old habits because of me. We texted for like a year and during that time when we talked about sex I kinda gave him the idea I was okay with doing it anytime with him. Now that we're seeing each other, I went by his house when he's alone and we made out a c...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySex
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 18 2014 at 21:03 by hurtenough RESPONDENTS: (Maxx) LAST POST: Nov 18 2014 at 22:09

Okay last time I had sex was when I was 15 and now I'm 20. My vagina was a reborn again virgin basically. A few weeks ago I started having sex again and it's so painful and I just can't handle it. It's not enjoyable for me or my partner and he complains and I feel bad and I just want a solution to this and want to know how can the pain be ease or what can be put on it or etc...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categorySex
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 12 2014 at 10:01 by love22 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 20 2014 at 18:39

My man looked at me in the eyes and ask me or said I have been having sex with someone else and he asked me like 2 time in a role and all of them I respond no and he told me to tell the truth and I said no I have not slept with any one else and asked me ic i love him i said yes strength away after I said yes he told me he is coming and asked me if he could come inside me and I responded yes aga...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryFriends with benefits
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 6 2014 at 20:58 by gcgnv33 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / PeerListener LAST POST: Nov 9 2014 at 00:42

Hi Guys, I've slept with this guy a couple times after drunk nights out, I see him sober quite a lot, we're not good friends but we get on fairly well. He's a bit older and more mature then me and I'm not really keen on anything serious, but I do have needs and I don't want to only ever have sex when I'm drunk, so I thought with him, it would kind of be the perfect situation to do a "friends with ...

S-e-x advice forum category advice forum categoryWas I wrong to stop sex entirely?
[9 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 5 2014 at 03:26 by Brian3rd RESPONDENTS: Everlasting / Cathy / susiedqq / Kibop LAST POST: Nov 10 2014 at 11:38

I have been dating a woman for several months now. She has been the first woman I've dated since my wife passed, which was years ago. She is younger than I am, and was a virgin when I first met her. We slowly became intimate, and she did tell me the first time hurt. Not as much as she expected, but it hurt. However, it still hurt her the second time we fully had intercourse. We have tried again a ...