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Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I right to think she is fobbing me off?
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 21 2021 at 20:16 by Greens RESPONDENTS: oldmainer LAST POST: Sep 22 2021 at 13:40

I met Sarah in a group dinner at the end of July. We were definitely flirting but there was no obvious physical contact. She went on holiday to Spain and her child got covid so she got stuck in Spain. I sent her a message...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMarried and emotionally attached to someone who is battling depression
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 18 2021 at 19:35 by RidingtheCoaster RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / oldmainer LAST POST: Aug 19 2021 at 20:43

I have a friend that I met about a year ago who lives several states away, but has reason to visit my area a few times a year. We interacted on social media here and there for six or seven months. Sometime in April, we began messaging almost everyday for hours. He shared some really intimate information about his past experiences and how they affected him including that he had several relations...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI don’t know what to do?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 1 2021 at 23:37 by Nightmare's Pain RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Aug 7 2021 at 13:06

I don’t know how to start off or even where to start. To state things simply, I believe I have severe depression, but I refuse to tell anyone. I like to believe I’m a good person, but whenever I do something nice for someone, it feels like they attack me or despise me afterwards. Most nights I feel like giving up and not waking in the morning, and I stay up until 3-4 AM. I sit at my desk chair...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryKnocked out by a girl
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 1 2021 at 17:37 by SteveWeaver RESPONDENTS: Checkmate15282 / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 2 2021 at 13:50

About 9 years ago a woman punched me. She only punched me once but she knocked me unconscious for 10-15 minutes. It was such a long time ago but I’m still struggling with it. How do I get over it? ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat should I do?
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 26 2021 at 02:57 by greenb3ar RESPONDENTS: carter / sonangela7 / oldmainer / arabella5 LAST POST: Jul 28 2021 at 12:39

this is a very long story, and im going to try my best to condense it. basically, around last winter i was applying to colleges in my home state (va). i got into the same university as my best friend (ill call her X) however, my brother in michigan told my mom and i that he was lonely and wanted us to come up with him- especially since he has children now. at first, i was a little hesitant. a...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryStrict Asian Dad
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 25 2021 at 08:00 by Anonymous 173626 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / arabella5 / sonangela7 / Letstalk121 LAST POST: Jul 30 2021 at 22:14

basically I have strict asian dad who has my location on however I was going out with my friends one night and I decided to do the stupidest thing and turn off my location cos I didn’t want him to get worried or check to see where I am.And he immediately got a notification and now he doesn’t trust me anymore and when he came to pick me up he’s so mad that he’s taking my phone for the whole...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAdvice on my mental health please?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 25 2021 at 00:12 by Riley1982 RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / arabella5 / sonangela7 LAST POST: Jul 30 2021 at 10:04

I have just turned 39 I moved back home recently (I am embarrassed about it) In the past when I was looking at places to move into my parents would scaremonger me or try to block it saying: you won’t cope you will lose your job renting is dead money etc. Then when I moved in with a mate it was you can’t trust him etc. Then with my ex it’s you can’t trust her etc. They only want me to l...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryOld situationship/friendship that was potentially abusive?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 22 2021 at 20:17 by lyricdiamond RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / arabella5 / sophiecan / sonangela7 LAST POST: Jul 29 2021 at 10:42

CW: SH, mental illness, potential emotional ab*se Ok I don’t know how long this is gonna be, so if it’s like an eternity I’m sorry. So I (M, 20) met this guy (M, 23) on tinder in about March of 2020. He was in another city and we really hit it off. We were talking about fun things we were gonna do when we met, sex, interests, hobbies, all that fun stuff. Then covid hit and we were stuck i...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryBestfrnds problem
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 19 2021 at 20:37 by Friend9829 RESPONDENTS: sonangela7 / carter / sophiecan LAST POST: Jul 26 2021 at 12:49

Yesterday i had sex with my best friend and now all i can think about is him we definitely have talked to each other but not on yesterday's sex....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categorySocial media challenge
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 15 2021 at 22:45 by broost RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / manalone / susiedqq / carter LAST POST: Jul 22 2021 at 13:40

Occasionally I have posted issues here and the advice has been excellent. I'm not sure this is actually a problem but it bothers me. A family member was in a romantic relationship for three years. This was a long distance relationship where they barely ever saw each other. They pretty much stopped seeing each other at the beginning of 2020. At some point in early March of 2021 the two had ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed some help to deal with a long standing problem
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 30 2021 at 21:19 by Justnotsure2121 RESPONDENTS: oldmainer / sophiecan LAST POST: Jul 26 2021 at 12:59

So you could describe this as a mental health sort of things as well. But anyway I’ve got something that I’ve never truly been able to deal with for a really long time and I need some help to do so. A little backstory: I am the one who is at fault for causing what I will get into to happen in the first place. Please understand this and know that I understand why thoughts/feelings weren’...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy inlaws cut me off and I'm sick over it
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 30 2021 at 19:51 by elenaitaly RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Jul 1 2021 at 14:51

HI all. thanks in advance for any replies..I have been married for over 20 years. We have 3 kids, and my youngest child, who is 19 years old, has severe autism. It's been a very difficult situation, and I've dealt with it mostly on my own..My husband and I both work, and he does help with my son as much as he can when he is home. My older kids have also been a blessing,and help with t...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy relationship with my dad
[1 POST] CREATED: May 23 2021 at 16:35 by Tulip RESPONDENTS: SilviaGirl LAST POST: May 25 2021 at 23:24

I have been finding my relationship with my dad frustrating for sometime now. My mom passed away when I was In my mid twenties and dad remarried some years later . He and his wife always made it clear, they would move back to her home country when my dad reached retirement age. They made the move early and now it feels like he cant be bothered with me anymore. I put all the effort into our ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy world is crumbling and I don't know what to do
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 15 2021 at 02:19 by 091110sredch RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: May 24 2021 at 03:26

I feel numb, empty. Today I found out that my grandfather molested my mother and aunt when they were 13. Until today I would have said he was a good man. He is a little overbearing, and talks down to just about everyone but not a horrible person by most standards. We are close, the whole family is. We do weekly dinners at my husband and I's house. My mom has never seemed to get along with...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAdvice needed, please help!
[7 POSTS] CREATED: May 6 2021 at 02:41 by Anonymous1 RESPONDENTS: lily31 / 786 LAST POST: May 6 2021 at 22:44

My daughter is about to turn 2 this June and I decided to book an outdoor pavillion for her bday party. I was able to book it on a Saturday but my hubby's brother's girlfriend's birthday is that day . Now before I booked the pavillion, I did have her in mind but I was thinking that since my daughter is younger, we can celebrate her during the day and if she wanted to do anything,...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFinding purpose
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 4 2021 at 04:23 by Traveler RESPONDENTS: 786 / ItsJustMe7 LAST POST: May 4 2021 at 23:58

im having trouble finding purpose in life. all the little things are piling up and i dont see the point in doing it all when i dont think i want to live much longer. advice is welcome...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI dont know what to do with my life anymore
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 23 2021 at 13:45 by loneley RESPONDENTS: 786 LAST POST: Apr 23 2021 at 17:05

I dont even know how to start, and my english isn't the best. This all started a year ago. I had a long term relationship with my boyfriend who I still currently live with. Things started to get different from me. I just didnt love him anymore, not like I used to. I didnt feel like doing sex or kiss him. So I open up with him and told him the truth. But we didnt broke up, because we decided...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy best friend is suicidal
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 18 2021 at 10:12 by qwertiop RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 19 2021 at 01:31

Hello, I'd like some advice on this situation please. My best friend is suicidal and he has the means to commit suicide (jumping off a building/bleeding out). He is a teenager and his parents are extremely abusive, but I can't call the police as they aren't citizens and he is afraid they'll get deported. He has been through a lot of other things, and his close friend had also k...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 11 2021 at 00:14 by Plummer21 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / tarantula / Aka / 2021Mona / 786 LAST POST: Apr 19 2021 at 16:32

For several months, I have been helping my neighbour with her personal problems, she has stated that she doesn't find me attractive sexualy, but yet she asks me to rub her back and feet and on more than one occasion she has asked me to perform oral sex on her or other things sexualy. Every time she climaxes, she grew up, cleans herself and states again she doesn't find me attractive ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy are my family putting pressure on me?
[16 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 10 2021 at 17:51 by Pinkberry RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / tarantula / Aka / Soulmate / 786 LAST POST: May 8 2021 at 14:39

Hello Everyone, I'm looking for some advice with regards to my grandparents. Ten years ago I cut contact with my parents and never looked back. I moved away from my hometown to a new area and started from scratch. I got a new job, made new friends and got together with partner, who my parents had previously disappoved of for silly supertisious reasons. None of it was easy but I&#...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryToo controlling
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 9 2021 at 15:06 by Ivy141 RESPONDENTS: Aka / SilviaGirl / susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 13 2021 at 22:36

Hey guys, I want to thank whoever reads this firstly. Second, I am a person with many flaws and have made many mistakes. Lastly, I am very confused on how to go about doing anything anymore. Questioning everything. I am 23. I am a mother to a 5 year old and I have been married for 9 years. For a long time all I wanted was a job. To feel worth something, making money made me feel some self wor...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryReject
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 9 2021 at 12:00 by Invizable RESPONDENTS: Aka / SilviaGirl LAST POST: Mar 11 2021 at 15:05

Hello everyone. This is my first time here and my first post. My issue is kind of weird, well I think it is. But my whole life I just can't make friends. I get along with people, I'm friendly and kind, but everytime a friendship seems to start, it ends just as quick. I mean, it's a life theme really. I'm also an only child so no siblings. No father, mom has passed. I can't...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI may have opened Pandora's box
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 21 2021 at 22:30 by Sapanas RESPONDENTS: Aka / susiedqq / Sunbeams LAST POST: Mar 9 2021 at 20:52

I have a problem that is rather layered but I will try and condense it. I developed a hobby of genealogy a year or so ago after doing a 23 and me DNA test. I found it to be fun tracing my roots and I was constantly talking with my significant other about what cool things I was finding out. He was raised by a single mom who hadn't maintained any family ties. His mother had left the father po...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI have nothing
[11 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 17 2021 at 03:53 by Aka RESPONDENTS: In God's Hands / Bluebird11 LAST POST: Feb 19 2021 at 20:06

I feel like I've lost everything. I never had that much to begin with, but it was enough because what I did have was amazing. But now. I feel like my marriage is pretty much broken. She doesn't listen to me anymore, constantly interrupts me when I am talking, and doesn't seem to really be considerate of anything that includes me. My pup died about 2 years ago, and she was pret...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I wrong or right?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 31 2021 at 12:57 by 555824761 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / MamaBear LAST POST: Feb 2 2021 at 19:39

Dear all, I would appreciate advise/opinion from all of you. I and she (Philippine Girl) fall in love 3 months back. I dont doubt her character but the problem is her online life on facebook and a game 8 ball pool. She have few friends on Facebook and few on pool game, they all send her love invitations almost every time they talk since many months. she show me sometimes, yesterday she show ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy can’t I just feel happy again?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 31 2021 at 09:56 by Lennonlover21 RESPONDENTS: Sunbeams / Latersgaters LAST POST: Feb 14 2021 at 18:23

Hi, Firstly, I’ve never done this before but I just feel like I need advice because my life has been so complicated and this is on my mind all the time. I’m now 36, divorced and mother of two sons ages 6 & 5. When I was 18 I met my first love who was 7 years older than me. He told me he wanted to move to Australia as he had been there on a years working holiday visa and felt lik...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWife after 14 years sends video feeds masturbating to ex
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 29 2021 at 19:34 by Cedrick37 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Jennifer01 LAST POST: Feb 3 2021 at 13:42

What should i do after 14 years my wife send sexual videos to the same guy she was messing with when we first got together. I caught her trying to call him 2 years after we got together now 14 years she does this again even worst. I just dont understand why now. I asked what im i doing wrong she says nothing. Does she love me? Do she care more for him? I need answers. She really broke my heart. We...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryNeeding sincere advice please
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 28 2021 at 21:37 by Mjay RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / MamaBear LAST POST: Feb 2 2021 at 19:52

I am having some concerns regarding my recent relationship. My fiance and I have been together for under a year. He has jumped into relationships in the past, I haven't since I was younger. When we first met we spent every weekend together and an hour or so during the week. He started pushing to move in together because of distance and his job. Against my better judgment I agreed. Now...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryParanoia
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 22 2021 at 13:17 by WARtard RESPONDENTS: Aka / Bluebird11 / Sunbeams LAST POST: Jan 23 2021 at 16:44

Hey man Just looking for advice on what I can do just in case my doctor doesn't put me on clapixol right away I'm paranoid and constantly here voices It feels like everything's against me Seems like I'm paying for things I did in my previous life Just because I was hit by a car and got my brain damaged when I was 5 Witch makes it more easier to get paranoi...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat should I do in this situation?
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 21 2021 at 07:10 by greenb3ar RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Feb 16 2021 at 13:43

for context, this takes place with me (17) and my friend (18) a few weeks ago during my winter break, she asked if she could come over. her home life isn't quite the best, and she often stays at my house for extended periods of time. although i was a bit hesitant (i planned to use winter break to relax from the stress of online school and both of my parents becoming ill with cancer, and th...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAbout to begin personal counselling
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 19 2021 at 14:56 by SThomas RESPONDENTS: Bluebird11 / AJM248 LAST POST: Jan 22 2021 at 22:29

I am looking to go into counselling for my mental health. I feel like what I am doing isn’t getting me anywhere and with lockdown I just can’t cope. Has anyone been through it before? ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it just a crush or am I obsessed?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 17 2021 at 20:45 by AstridIronside RESPONDENTS: Aka / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 18 2021 at 13:37

Hi, I work with this guy and I’ve been crushing on him for over a year now. Whenever I’m in work I need to find out whether he is there and I will wander around the building until I see him. I like watching him as he’s doing his job and I will try and find any excuse I can to talk to him. We do chat using social media occasionally and he has said previously that nothing will happen and I acc...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling all alone
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 10 2021 at 03:36 by Barlily RESPONDENTS: Aka / January / Brunettegirl / AJM248 LAST POST: Jan 22 2021 at 22:18

Im a quiet type of person. Now im trying to get out of that zone but it's not an easy thing to do. I don't have lots of friends. I feel like Im not easy to have friends because im not talkative. Im feeling all alone and im getting depressed. We have a group chat with my co-choir members, i celebrated my birthday but none of them greeted me on our group chat. Im just thinking maybe they w...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused by a girl
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 22 2020 at 23:52 by Daniel B RESPONDENTS: Aka / AJM248 LAST POST: Jan 22 2021 at 23:24

I’ve dated this girl for 5 years or so and before then we were absolute best friends and were always very close. We talked all the time all day every day. This fall we broke up mostly because work/life just pulled us apart and too many old arguments kept surfacing. I’m sure we each made mistakes and I’ve admitted mine. Trouble is, we’ve kept in touch and some days we will talk a bunch and ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryChristmas guilt
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 18 2020 at 23:48 by Sareta RESPONDENTS: Aka LAST POST: Dec 19 2020 at 11:26

Myself and my partner are living together and this Christmas we were invited by both sets of parents for Christmas Day. Last year we saw his mum and dad for the day. He put it on me to make the decisions. I thought we should go to my family as we went to his last year but I didn’t want to disappoint him as I know he wants to see his young nephews for the day (they were elsewhere last year). Now...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryEmotionally upset
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 29 2020 at 22:02 by Sham RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 30 2020 at 13:12

I am very emotional after finding out that my wife had been sexting an old boyfriend. I feel as if I am really losing it sometimes. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 10 2020 at 20:56 by joanne5057 (alias modified to protect identity) RESPONDENTS: Bluebird11 LAST POST: Nov 18 2020 at 20:30

I met A through online dating in Feb 2019, he was very intense and then he went cold very quickly, whilst on a break and never expecting to hear from him again, I slept with an ex. A and I got back together, but it was still not working! We ended badly, I told him about my ex and said a lot of nasty things! However a few months later I felt guilty and contacted him. We began a friendship and 5 m...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I being played
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 1 2020 at 14:08 by Greens RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Nov 3 2020 at 00:26

I am 53 dating a 47 year old Pam going very well until we are at an after party on Sunday she is drunk but announced she is leaving unless music changed. Very odd I thought and rude to hostess Charlotte She then says I am leaving and moves to kiss me. I did not like the unilateral way she decided to leave without me so I said " I am staying and withdrew my head" she interpreted this to m...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy am I having issues with my mother?
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 27 2020 at 04:05 by doctor2020 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 28 2020 at 21:49

My mom behaves in a very odd manner about things which are actually not such a big deal. Before I begin, my mom is a single mom and I am the eldest of 3 siblings (this should give some perspective to my question) I am 22, in my last semester of college and my mom still dictates that she wants me in bed by a certain time. My mom asks me to wake up early however I have tried and it is so very diffic...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryConfused as to why friends & family never show interest in my life
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 3 2020 at 16:55 by Bookworm RESPONDENTS: KLF / MISSSY2 / luvbirdsoldier LAST POST: Oct 13 2020 at 22:30

Hello, I'm new here and this is my first post. I'll just jump in. I have come to notice that my most of my friends and family members never ask me about myself, or my work, while I always make it a point to ask them about their lives, jobs, what's new, etc. They will, however, ask my husband all about his job and hobbies, should he happen to be with me, but most often they seem t...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWorry or not?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 2 2020 at 14:20 by KLF RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Oct 6 2020 at 08:09

I met my husband online 12 years ago when my first marriage was ending after 25 years. We fell head over heels for each other at the time I was 46 and he 52. His marriage ended badly over his wife’s alcoholism and mine from physical and mental abuse. I’m from the states he is from the U.K. our game plan after dating 5 years we would move back to the states after getting my dual citizenship . W...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAnxious and uncomfortable situation/friendship
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 15 2020 at 10:38 by notanusername RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / 8Twenty8 / MISSSY2 LAST POST: Sep 21 2020 at 13:26

Hello everyone. I'm in a situation where I don't know how to react. Only I met a guy who I fell in love with. Currently he doesn't want a relationship because of his past. So we're friends for now. That works out decently. I got to know his best friend who became my "best friend" too. I learned that she had feelings for him twice but it didn't go any further ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryToo focused on my 31 year old
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 13 2020 at 13:43 by MISSSY2 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Sep 15 2020 at 13:42

I recognize that I live my life and don't live my life based on the happiness of my youngest son. I keep myself isolated because he struggles to find a girlfriend. He started living with me when he had seizures 3 years ago because the person he was living with was afraid to witness that type of thing again...So he has been living in my basement. He has mental health issues...He had open he...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryPlease be nice in replies
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 12 2020 at 17:47 by Nick king RESPONDENTS: MISSSY2 / luvbirdsoldier LAST POST: Oct 13 2020 at 14:43

I found out 18 months ago that my good friend is not father of his oldest child.hes separated His cousin is the father.finding it very hard being his friend knowing this ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryLooking for advice
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 2 2020 at 23:28 by Katz1967 RESPONDENTS: MISSSY2 / Pais19 LAST POST: Sep 8 2020 at 02:51

Hi I'm just looking for advice on this oneI have been friends with this guy for a few years and after a short time I fell in love with him but I think it's one sided .sometimes I think he wants to be really involved but is afraid to say it.... early on in the friendship he would peck me on the cheek when we were parting company I spent one overnight with him in a hotel I'm so conf...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryRegret about past decisions
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 27 2020 at 23:20 by Paige1998 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Dost / nerdbrain LAST POST: Sep 1 2020 at 07:10

Lately I've been thinking a lot about past bad decisions I've made, and I don't know how to stop thinking about it or feeling guilty. For instance, I had this one friend, not close, but I knew him throughout high school. He didn't outright say it for a long time but I always knew he liked me. I was a very socially awkward person who wasn't good at talking about my feelings...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categorySaying sorry
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 10 2020 at 10:00 by Del RESPONDENTS: lily31 / January / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 21 2020 at 00:24

I have upset a close female friend (not a girlfriend) with some hurtful comments made in a text to her mum which her mum showed to her daughter. I am now mortified and distraught as this was out of character and sent in the heat of the moment and when I was in a bad place recently. I am going to send some flowers to her but should I just leave it at that and let time heal. Who should make the firs...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryGetting over someone you never had! CREATED: Jul 6 2020 at 15:49 by Starryeyed89

Advice please! I met a friend at work and became very quite a few years back. Although we no longer work together we have stayed in touch and have become even closer over the years. Although I don't consider myself to be gay I fell for them pretty much straight away but I put it down to just having a crush as they are such a fantastic person. The problem I'm having is that they are reall...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryParents can be toxic as well
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 1 2020 at 07:23 by ....- RESPONDENTS: Shezz / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Jul 15 2020 at 22:54

Everything I do can be better, when I really try they ignored me. When I don’t try I not good enough, I am lazy, Not responsible, disrespectful. It doesn’t matter how I do it I am a disappointment. She always bring the past to make me feel bad. She never think of the damage she does by bring past mistakes she thinks that I don’t go through shit. That i only focus on my phone. She can’t und...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryLong term family issues exploding CREATED: Jun 28 2020 at 15:32 by Katevo

Hi, so this is going to be a very lengthy explanation since this has been going on pretty much since I was born. I have never publicly shared these issues with anyone except for one person who I fully trust. Now though, it's really getting out of hand more than it ever has and I am honestly terrified of what might happen next and I need some outside views of what I should do. I apologize in...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDepression and misunderstanding
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 14 2020 at 01:38 by RollingSun RESPONDENTS: Silvarion LAST POST: Jun 17 2020 at 10:19

I am in my mid teens and have severe depression. I feel very sad, empty and trapped every day, for no reason. I am living with my mother and no one else, and I have friends but it's not like I can actually talk to them about these things. We are all fairly shallow together. I have tried multiple therapists, but they never worked for me. I could change the way I thought, but not the way I f...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryPartner with cyclothymia
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 6 2020 at 14:34 by ryanjames RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / mfb LAST POST: Jun 9 2020 at 21:03

I've been in a relationship with my partner for more than 4 months now, and it has been beyond amazing and has gone so much better than I could have ever imagined considering this is my first real relationship. During lockdown we lived together for many weeks and since leaving to live at home, he has been having an episode due to his cyclothymia. I've known he had the condition for a lon...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling like a terrible person and completely lost my sense of self
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 1 2020 at 18:50 by TheGoodandTheBad!! RESPONDENTS: Bluebird11 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 24 2020 at 13:02

Hi all, I'll try keep this brief but it might be lengthy. Thanks in advance for reading. I am basically i'm feeling like a terrible person. I'm racked with guilt, shame and disappointment in myself. I've always tried to be a decent person but just am feeling like my life has spiralled. I'm a female in my 30s living away from my home country. Over the past couple of year...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWife left, yet says she still loves me
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 27 2020 at 23:29 by Soutine RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 4 2020 at 01:09

My wife of has recently left me after a two year on and off again affair with a woman. I have always known she is bisexual, and in 30 years it has never been a problem and she has never cheated until now. When she left, when she got to the woman's house, she rang me in tears, saying she thought she had done the wrong thing, still loved me. She did the same for the next two days, then today no...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIs my husband gay
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 24 2020 at 23:03 by Bluebat RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Barbu / manalone LAST POST: May 25 2020 at 23:28

My husband is watching a lot of porn on his phone. Hs a secure browser app now. But i answered his phone last week and sw he had been watching gay/transgender/transvestite porn. We haven't been intimate since the birth of our 2nd child. I don't care if he is but i don't want to spend the rest of my life in celibacy because he wont come out. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categorySchool reunion
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 24 2020 at 07:27 by Christy RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 25 2020 at 10:03

Last year I went to a school reunion and met up with 4 girls I hadn't seen since leaving. We had a good time and kept in touch, agreeing to meet up again at some point. Another girl has now joined the group. She and I were very close from the age of 7 (besties!!) then around the age of 13 she dumped me in a particularly cruel way. She joined up with another girl in our class and started...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDo I respond?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 10 2020 at 12:07 by deedee123 RESPONDENTS: lily31 / January / susiedqq LAST POST: May 16 2020 at 00:10

My friendship of 20 years has always been toxic. We essentially grew up together, and therefore, know each other very well, like sisters. However, as I've gotten older, I've tried to break off this toxic relationship and I believe so has she. Though I dont care to get into why its toxic, I will say I find it difficult in times like these as she has just texted telling me her mother is in...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI am very much in love with my husband but my in-laws keep making lesbian jokes
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 4 2020 at 22:12 by carmenjones RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / lily31 LAST POST: May 5 2020 at 14:42

I've been happily married for the past 4 years and am very much in love with my husband. My in-laws are really bothering me with jokes and how they act around me. One of my sister in laws has been spreading rumours around my husband's family that I am a lesbian. Her and her husband have been making jokes about it all the time and it has been making me feel really uncomfortable. To top it...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIdk what to do
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 24 2020 at 01:04 by Lemonslice RESPONDENTS: Bluebird11 LAST POST: Apr 28 2020 at 21:19

In feb 2019 my significant other opened up about being sexually molested as a child when I caught them cheating via sexting.... life was great and we got married in vegas. Seriously it was amazing. Then it just fell off badly I caught them sexting another person who was close friends of ours and lied about it. Then it was opening up and admitting they had an std for 13 years. Then I turned into an...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIn-law issues
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 22 2020 at 12:50 by Krnnrg7217 RESPONDENTS: ZEDEBEE / susiedqq / brownshoes LAST POST: May 3 2020 at 13:08

My in laws will only refer to my husband and I’s house, to their “sons” house only. Even when they talk to me. They include both their daughter’s and boyfriend’s name, when they are referring to “their” house. We are married. Why is it only “his” house. It hurts my feelings and makes me feel inadequate. Why don’t I deserve to be included? I don’t refer to his in laws house a...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I stop missing my childhood?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 20 2020 at 14:58 by ZEDEBEE RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 25 2020 at 23:07

I am a 53 year old mum of 3 with a relatively happy life and a lot to be grateful for. And I really am grateful, so why do I keep missing my childhood, parents and childhood home so much. Every time I think about being a kid, my lovely home and parents it physically hurts inside and I cry. Every time. I took my youngest who is ten to my old neighbourhood park and saw an old school mate fro...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy am I so pathetic for my age?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 20 2020 at 10:02 by Mambo5 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 21 2020 at 16:48

Hey, well where do I begin? I'm nearly 40 year's old (female) and basically I have no backbone, I'm weak a people pleaser wanting to get along with people always wanting to help people torturing myself if I think someone doesn't like me I have always been shy and not much confidence ,as a kid at school I used to let the other kids steal off me and I'd never say anythi...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryLife anxiety
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 16 2020 at 23:54 by RollingSun RESPONDENTS: ZEDEBEE LAST POST: May 17 2020 at 01:18

I am in my mid teens and very, very anxious. I have severe clinical depression and worry constantly about my future. I can't help it. My friends are all growing up around me, unhindered by a constant barrage of self-destructing thoughts. I still hang out with them in school (when schools were open) but I never go to any of their houses anymore because of my social anxiety, and so I can't...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryBeing dragged under by a close friend but still want to help
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 13 2020 at 23:44 by RollingSun RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 15 2020 at 22:31

My friend and i are teens now and have known each other since kindergarten. She is the closest friend i have and i love her like a sister, but i have had severe depression the past several years and she is suicidal and relapses in self harm every few months. just recently we were walking across the street from each other and she casually told me she was six months pregnant and getting an abort...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it fair people accuse me of pretending to be nice?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 3 2020 at 12:07 by she_far RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / manalone LAST POST: Apr 5 2020 at 02:37

Hey, i'm new here, glad to meet whoever reading my post. I got an issue in which idk to whom i can speak to, so i guess this a better platform to share about it. Okay so, i just had a fight with somebody related to me, actually my close relative. We worked together at the same office, she recommended me as part timer and after working about 3 months i got permanent position, in which i'v...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryTorn between concern for a friend and anger at her betrayal of my trust
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 31 2020 at 17:35 by duckpalm822 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / manalone / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Apr 11 2020 at 14:07

Hi everyone, I could really use some external advice and perspective on something that's preoccupying my thoughts almost constantly - thanks in advance for reading! A good friend of mine started dating her current partner about 9 months ago. Things progressed very quickly, with her moving in after three months and talk of a baby starting soon after (she had been unhappily single for a long...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm beginning to suffer because of what he's doing
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 28 2020 at 15:47 by pathological RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / beck LAST POST: May 18 2020 at 01:10

My father is cheating on my mother. The night I accidentally discovered this through his texts, I had the worst panic attack of my life. I thought I was going to die. And it's only gotten worse. Whenever I'm around him, I never fail to feel sick to my stomach and irritable as all hell. Whenever he begins to yell or scream at me over little things or belittles me, not only am I filled wit...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categorySickening feeling in your stomach
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 28 2020 at 10:39 by Tiredoflife RESPONDENTS: Mittenkitten / JQActs4_13 LAST POST: Apr 22 2020 at 21:27

A coworker was recently telling me a story of how they had been scammed financially and that at the moment they realised, they became dizzy. This made me think of my own experience with being deceived and others that people have told me. I was thinking mainly of how people often describe similar physiological and emotional responses in the moment of finding out. I'd like to hear other p...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIn love with someone else other than my wife
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 24 2020 at 16:58 by Dog RESPONDENTS: manalone / 8Twenty8 / Rambo LAST POST: May 9 2020 at 17:46

Hi, I am 50yrs old and due to past problems with my wife, my feelings for her have numbed. For about 2 years now, I have been pretty obsessed with a young staff of mine. She is the most wonderful, sweet girl you can imagine and I love everything about her. From her actions, her laughter, her silliness and even her little snaggletooth. To make matters worse, she's a key staff and she...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryToxic family relationship
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 22 2020 at 22:56 by Louisville RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 25 2020 at 23:54

I have a toxic relationship with a close family member. Let’s call that person Rat. I have been verbally abused almost my entire life, a couple of times physically as well by this person to the point that I’m sick of it. I despise Rat. I hate Rat. But due to blood ties, I’m stuck with Rat. I need advice. I don’t know how to act around Rat, and the constant anger between me and Rat ar...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryBad daughter?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 20 2020 at 02:13 by Lostcazza20 RESPONDENTS: manalone / susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 22 2020 at 03:20

Hi all, First time posting here, and wanting opinions. I feel really silly posting but would like advice. So after 20 years of not seeing my alcoholic father, who abandoned me at 5 years old. I managed to track him down out of curiosity as a teenager. He was still an alcoholic and lets say it didnt end well again. Then, About 5 years ago i managed to find the strength to forgive him for his p...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI can't get over what I did two years ago
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 14 2020 at 00:13 by Sarah102 RESPONDENTS: Mittenkitten LAST POST: Apr 12 2020 at 08:20

So two years ago I cheated on my boyfriend with my best friends boyfriend, thats obviously a very simplified version and theres a whole load of factors and reasons I dont want to get it. But basically its been two years and I still feel broken from it. When it happened I lost everything and went into self destruct mode. Ive been to therapy and made peace with the girl since. Ive tried so hard to ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryLackluster of motivation and purpose after and during hard times in my life
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 29 2020 at 20:49 by rLoper RESPONDENTS: Louisville LAST POST: Mar 31 2020 at 12:24

06 September 2018 14:28, the last time I've been here. Actually that was for my only post, it was about the thing that set me in motion. First, I am going to explain my situation a bit better, it is probably going to be long so buckle up, I think you will find it interesting. September 2017, a quick description of me when I started the first year of high school, short, a LOT of acne, socia...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryOverreacting? Or right to cut her out of my life?
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 27 2020 at 20:56 by AshRaven RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Feb 28 2020 at 00:07

I've had this person in my life for a really long time. She's 3 years younger than me and if i'm being honest, I've used that fact as an excuse for the way should would treat me. She is dating my brother in law. I really wanted us to be friends because of how much I love my husband and brother in law's relationship with one another, i'm also close to my brother in ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy father is being horny on main CREATED: Feb 27 2020 at 06:24 by pathological

My father had a terrible childhood, and he has always talked about not being like his asshole father. Recently, however, I accidentally discovered messages between him and some woman that most definitely were sexual. My mom has always tried her best to take care of my family and does not deserve to be cheated on. I don't know what to do. I know the right thing to do is to tell my mom, but I&#...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 25 2020 at 00:45 by Seven RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Feb 25 2020 at 04:16

Long story short, I moved to a new small town and met a guy, both of us a bit damaged from previous relationships, and not exactly looking to get into anything. Somehow things ended up on the more serious side of things and we were seeing eachother for about 4 months and I believed him when he would tell me he didn't want to lose me, he could see a future with me, he wouldn't hurt me, le...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDesperately lonely and starting again at 35
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 15 2020 at 21:13 by startingagain35 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Feb 16 2020 at 03:28

Hi all Recently single, at 35, and feel like my prospect at having a family is running out very quickly. I’m also pretty traumatised from a VERY difficult five years or so which has featured betrayal, death of my favourite person and also a transition to freelancing for three years which I now realise is not helping as I spend so much time at my kitchen table (I’m now going inhouse part-...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFamily gatherings
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 25 2020 at 05:31 by Roserose RESPONDENTS: ucbc00 / PolyPocket / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 3 2020 at 05:21

I don't like funerals, the whole thing makes me uncomfortable. So when my uncle passed away I just didn't go. The following day my sister texted me asking why I wasn't there. Knowing she wouldn't be sympathetic I just told her I was working (I did later in the day) She replied that she took an hour off work and I should have done the same. She also said some of our cousins ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDon't want to lose contact over this
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 21 2020 at 13:18 by GemmaG RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Jan 22 2020 at 01:15

Recently my parents offered to take myself, my husband and our four year old daughter on holiday as a Christmas present. We were very thankful for the offer. Our daughter started at a school nursery after Christmas, having previously been in a private nursery. One big difference is that they close more frequently than the other nursery (they share the same holidays as the school) so we will no...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I tell my mother my news?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 18 2020 at 20:12 by Isobel RESPONDENTS: manalone / Skinnygirl2 / susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 17 2020 at 13:55

Hello, I came to this forum in May '19. My relationship with my mother had broken down for a second time in Oct '18 and I was 6 months into going No Contact. I was expecting to feel better, to feel relief that I no longer had to see her every 6 weeks but I wasn't. I was in despair, more anxious than ever and the guilt pulled at my heart strings everyday that she was going to miss o...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryStruggling with life
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 11 2020 at 12:43 by Senenter RESPONDENTS: ucbc00 / PolyPocket LAST POST: Feb 3 2020 at 11:50

Hi everyone, It is difficult for me to write this because i always try to put up a facade that nothing is wrong with me. But right now i just can't handle it anymore and i have to let it out. In September of last year i decided to start a new study since i wanted to get away from my dead end job. I went in with full confidence that i was going to make my first year and i wanted to give it...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I being unreasonable?
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 8 2020 at 19:27 by AHD RESPONDENTS: Balance / susiedqq / Kcostellox LAST POST: Jan 9 2020 at 23:27

Hi everyone, This is my first post on here, but I really could do with some unbiased advice. This afternoon I had a fairly big row with my mum, it’s not the first time we have argued about this particular topic and I’m really not sure how to handle this as she is telling me I am being unreasonable. This afternoon I was walking my dog, she is a rescue and I have been working for almost ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryParents don’t respect boundaries
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 3 2020 at 19:25 by Veronica0702 RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 4 2020 at 19:36

I’m in my mid 30s and until last year I was extremely close with my parents. I found out that my mom was hiding several crucial things from my brother and I for years which led me to lose my trust with her. I have since backed off completely and only communicate or see them a few times a month. Both my parents try to guilt into feeling bad and that I should just get over it. It makes me not what...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryGift gone bad?
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 30 2019 at 03:36 by Hoops55 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 30 2019 at 20:18

I have this coworker. I think we both like each other, no one has asked anyone out but we’ve seen each other outside work a couple times and I’d said as far as coworkers go, we’re close. A couple months ago he got a store gift card for his birthday from our company. He told me he didn’t go there and he’d never use it. I told him you can buy anything at that store and I’m there all the ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat to do next?
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 29 2019 at 20:50 by Catsoutthebagg RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 30 2019 at 20:25

How far would a person go to keep there partner from knowing about their child? Is there a such thing as a fake dna test? If you go to a third party location that takes cash can’t you pay the person to alter the results? No lab blood work or doctor was there so who would really know if you wasn’t truthful? ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI really need advice
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 23 2019 at 07:58 by Xcmm RESPONDENTS: Balance / HannaM LAST POST: Jan 3 2020 at 14:08

So its a long story but bear with me. About a month ago I woke up to sudden immediate health issues and been rushed around to several specialist and hospitals. And during that time I kept missing work and shortly I was fired because I was told if I acted fast they may be able to salvage it. And at the time my partner said that it was fine and to take off as much as I needed to and he didn't h...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryStuck in the middle of my feelings for a friend
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 10 2019 at 14:58 by rosanderke RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / bubblez2266 LAST POST: Dec 23 2019 at 01:58

I'm not sure there's any properly coherent way that I'll be able to explain this, so I'll just do so in bullet points: -I fell head over heels in love with this guy (I'll call him C) who my friends and I are almost certain felt the same. (~Early 2019) -I thought everything was going extremely well between us, even though I had to go away for 6 weeks or so (Jul 2019) ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryBF betrayed me with his ex steps on how to move forward
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 3 2019 at 13:34 by Skinnygirl2 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / carbootie LAST POST: Dec 5 2019 at 13:10

HI, My BF of 3 years, today confessed he's been seeing his EX behind my back I'm, I had sensed something was wrong; he would never admit anything was going on. Today I ended the relationship. I need advice on how to move on and deal with the "uncoupling" and all the emotions that go along with that. I'm hurt, sad, feeling of despair....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryUnhealthy relationship with my mother
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 25 2019 at 00:29 by summerlove RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Black LAST POST: Dec 1 2019 at 10:48

I am in my late 20's and have always struggled to have a close connecting relationships its my mother. I am the oldest child and our family has been through a lot like many others. I admit I am very stubborn and connect better with my father since she share the same qualities. However, my entire life I have never been able to tell my mother about personal (relationships, sexual life, serious ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFighting with a friend - am I wrong?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 23 2019 at 14:32 by Joe0062 RESPONDENTS: manalone LAST POST: Nov 24 2019 at 10:53

I'm writing now feeling mixed emotions after a fight with a friend a few weeks ago. This friend is difficult to say the least. Very emotional, sometimes aggressive verbally and sometimes talks with an air of what I feel is entitlement and likes to shout their opinion. We've had several fights in the past which have led to weeks of radio silence only to give it up. It feels like a cycl...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp, my dad treats me like a prisoner
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 23 2019 at 01:44 by sammyboi2000 RESPONDENTS: Bluebird11 / Checkmate15282 / susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 2 2019 at 13:37

Hi, my name is Sam, I am 13 years old and my parents filed a divorce about a year ago, I have to spend weekends, tuesdays, holidays, and school breaks with my dad. When the going back and fourth beetween my mom and dads house began, my dad was so mean. an example of this is that my mom had stayed at dads house because the wifi was down at her house, and she needed to use wifi overnight for her job...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryNo birthday present from my close friend?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 14 2019 at 17:27 by smolbean RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Checkmate15282 LAST POST: Nov 20 2019 at 00:10

Hi everyone :) This is my first post and it's about a problem with my friend that's got me a little upset. We've known each other for a few years but have only become really close within the last couple of years. We talk a lot everyday despite not living in the same city and I would definitely say we're close friends and could consider her a best friend. I know she also has...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling unable to move out and live my life
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 8 2019 at 02:08 by LollyPoppyStar RESPONDENTS: Balance / manalone / Checkmate15282 / susiedqq LAST POST: Nov 9 2019 at 13:27

Hi guys, Not sure where to post this but I need to get this off my chest. I have had the worst year of my life and unfortunately my mother has just passed away from a long battle with cancer. Although we knew it was going to happen nothing will ever prepare you for when it happens. I am understandably grieving but I feel so angry. I still live at home ( I’m 26) Let me explain why. My mum h...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWaiting for him
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 6 2019 at 17:49 by ha92 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soccer121 / HannaM LAST POST: Oct 9 2019 at 11:08

I had a crush on my brother's friend some 10 years ago.. I proposed him.. he is very close to my brother.. as I proposed him.. he told me that it will become a problem.. between me,him, and my brother..later we had no contact.. but my brother and his friends lied to me that he got married.. and showed me a pic.. it seems to me that it's jus a build up.. so I didn't disturb him at al...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I deal with the guilt of leaving parents when moving to other country ?
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 29 2019 at 11:52 by Reverse _Flash RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 18 2019 at 13:12

I am from Bangladesh. My father was 60 and my mother 38 when I was born. I have 2 elder sisters. My father is a very hard worker and still works at the age of 80 to keep the family going. My mother is a housewife. I am about to complete my undergraduate degree next year. I now have the opportunity to move to another country for my studies and eventually settle down. I have always hated livin...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryA confusion
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 27 2019 at 21:12 by Kathleen RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 27 2019 at 23:06

Hi. I have been single 4 years. I have worked on my personal growth and now want to move on and date but I don't seem to have much time or energy. Apart from that I have had some bad experiences in relationships including abuse and so I am wary and have trust issues. But I don't want to live out the rest of my life alone. I feel I have given myself enough time. Also I like someone a lot ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI can’t appreciate myself for who I am but I’d like to. But how?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 27 2019 at 00:39 by Vivian RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 27 2019 at 13:07

For awhile now, I’ve been showing numerous signs of depression and anxiety. I’ve stopped seeing the point in life, I don’t find joy in activities I used to love, I often think of suicide, etc. During this time, I’ve lost much self respect. I will do whatever it takes to make people around me happy even if it hurts me. I’ve started to do this daily. Doing such causes me a lot of pain ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWaiting for him
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 24 2019 at 04:32 by ha92 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / HannaM LAST POST: Sep 25 2019 at 16:02

I proposed a guy.. he liked me too... He was totally interested.. now after telling that I had depression n am taking medication.. he started ignoring me.. but I keep sending messages.. he doesn't seem to block me.. now what do I do? Wait or move on? He liked me..I understand him well n waiting for his reply.....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI don’t know what to do!?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 24 2019 at 02:50 by Quinn101 RESPONDENTS: IcarusWings / Skinnygirl2 LAST POST: Sep 26 2019 at 14:46

Hi, my biological father was never in my life growing up and seemed to have no desire to be. Last summer he contacted me asking to meet up I agreed and everything went well and he hasn’t contacted me since. I however have always wanted to meet his family but he was very hesitant about it when I brought it up in conversation when we met up which I understand it was the first we had seen each othe...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI’m not sure I believe love is real
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 22 2019 at 06:07 by Egg girl RESPONDENTS: IcarusWings LAST POST: Sep 25 2019 at 22:49

I don’t know if my family loves me, because everyone lashes out at each other so frequently. I’m also not sure if relationships can be any better than that either. I basically want some sort of testimony that love is real. Tell me when you knew you were loved or in love. Tell me what it feels like, and if it’s all it’s cracked up to be....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy grandmother passed away and my aunt is hiding in her house
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 12 2019 at 03:34 by Poughkeepsie RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Skinnygirl2 LAST POST: Sep 14 2019 at 15:59

My aunt has lived with my grandma for decades, but the last 16 years or so has become a complete shut-in (we suspect agoraphobia, but it's undiagnosed). Grandma provided for her even though she admitted she almost never came out of her room when Grandma was home. Grandma wouldn't admit there was a problem for a long time. My father (grandma's son, aunt's brother) was starting...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryThe horns of an emotional departure dilemma
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 8 2019 at 08:50 by Jabi RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / HannaM LAST POST: Sep 20 2019 at 12:25

In short. Very good friend about to move quite far away. I'm very in love with him, without him knowing anything - as far as I can tell. Actually, I have no idea if he has any idea, which is probably for the best, I must admit. I've no wish for him not to move away. It's potentially life-changing for him. I'm genuinely happy for and proud of him. I'm in a relationship w...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI’d like to date at least once before I loose all my teeth
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 3 2019 at 21:54 by Jay171717 RESPONDENTS: lily31 / GraceOlympic LAST POST: Sep 22 2019 at 16:09

I really need advice. I’m not attractive, not pretty. I’m kind of nice, but that’s it. I’m not saying this in an I-want-confirmation-that-I-am-pretty kind of way. I am actually truly not pretty. And I have zero self confidence. I grew up with tons of male friends but since starting university, I have not gotten close to any males and can’t even TRY to interact with them. I’m that gir...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryStudying abroad might have been a mistake
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 2 2019 at 22:41 by JJAnon RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 3 2019 at 22:13

First and foremost, I'm sorry if this comes across like an annoying first world problem, and if I seem at all ungrateful in regards to the opportunity that I have been presented with. I'd also like to preface this post by saying that I absolutely did not expect to go abroad and naively think that every waking moment would be fantastic. Earlier this year, I decided to apply to my unive...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryNosy neighbour?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 23 2019 at 08:32 by ALOHA1290 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 4 2019 at 07:42

I have a neighbor that is a woman who i would say since i have met she has been nice etc she sometimes comes over to mine to chat to my boyfriend i don't mind at all and i just stay in the room, while they're having conversations who is close to my boyfriend not close as in close close but she does come over here sometimes to give him food etc have convo , and talk if they see each other...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't know what to do
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 22 2019 at 10:49 by Curiously RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 21 2019 at 02:10

I'm sick of myself. Each day I wake up and hate how I look but here's the thing, people call me pretty. Down to strangers,my mom, sister and just about everyone and I don't see it! It's not some light insecurity, I promise, it makes me want to kill myself. Down to a bad angle or anything. It's on and off whether I think I'm pretty.One moment I feel like a goddess and ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I just a wimp CREATED: Aug 21 2019 at 15:31 by sissyboy

it all started four years ago when i was out with my girlfriend at a local bar when two girls walked over and took the table we were sitting at,at time we were talking to someone else. My girlfriend said look they stole our table ,go say something to them so i walked over and nicely said that our stuff was here and i felt that the table was still ours, well the one female stood up and said its the...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it weird to ask a girl you barely know if she wants to keep in touch?
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 19 2019 at 00:20 by ElectricDreams RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Aug 19 2019 at 13:29

Hi, this isn’t a big deal. Just something that has been bugging me. I went out with some friends the other night and met this girl. Now I don’t want to sound like a wet lettuce, I meet girls all the time, but for no reason I can place this one seemed special. Like massive attraction or something. We had a great night and exchanged numbers. I texted her the next day and it went back and forth ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy housemate comment
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 13 2019 at 16:37 by Cecily RESPONDENTS: Tallbean / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 18 2019 at 03:21

A year ago after graduating from college I moved into a house share after getting a job. I counted myself lucky as my female housemate was very friendly and welcoming. She took me under her wing knowing I didn't have any family or friends near by. She introduced me to her friends, and invited me on nights out. I showed her I was thankful for her support by keeping the house tidy, dea...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryTrying to understand
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 11 2019 at 11:36 by Voidwalker RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Johan24 LAST POST: Aug 18 2019 at 09:39

Hello Everyone. First things first. Id like to give you a summary of myself to give some context to the rest of the post. I'm a bachelor, 26 years of age. Stable job at a Liquor store (we are open 364 days a year), bought up to 20% shares in the business this year. At this time I can support myself easily, save and have some fun. I have a place to live and a car that is bought and payed fo...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIt's time to start my diary again
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 9 2019 at 00:13 by Joe RESPONDENTS: Davina LAST POST: Aug 9 2019 at 23:52

Hi, I'm Joe, for those of you who are curious about the title. I've posted here a couple of times a few years ago and it always ended up as a sort of diary, one that I used to get order in my train of thought. It helped me out quite a bit, especially when the diary started to become a conversation consisting of long thought out monologues as a response to one of you guys (the advantage o...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp
[1 POST] CREATED: Aug 4 2019 at 08:21 by Loyal and desprate RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 5 2019 at 00:59

My boyfriend went to prison for over 2 years... amazingly, I broke the stigma and remained loyal the whole time. I was working 60-70 Hrs a week and shaved my head, which, in the small town we were in at the time, constitutes you as a lesbian. So, it wasn't really hard at all. Well, now he's been home for a year, and suddenly he thinks I was cheating on him while he was in there... diggin...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDepressed and single
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 28 2019 at 11:04 by ha92 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 29 2019 at 08:01

I'm 27 yrs old.. I went into depression 8 years ago.. but still taking medications for it to not to return back..my parents have been searching for a groom for a long period of time..but whomever we approach they slide away after knowing about the medications.. I'm totally worrying a lot.. I feel helpless.. sometimes I get a feel as if I can be a spinster throughout my life.. but now for...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryExpecting too much?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 25 2019 at 15:48 by Neal RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Anes LAST POST: Jul 27 2019 at 01:50

I do a lot for my friends. I made hand made gifts for one of my friend's birthday. I made a really beautiful chart for another. Not only this, I am always ready to help them in any matter whatsoever. Now my birthday is approaching. Its this weekend and i know i should not be but i am being very anxious about the fact that have they planned something for my birthday? Because if they didn...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I sell my house
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 18 2019 at 08:03 by Sunny side up RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 18 2019 at 17:47

I’ve been living with my partner now for a year He’s moved here from Manchester sold his house and has bought our current home I’ve been renting mine out he won’t take any rent from me to help towards the bills I’m fully aware that this his his home which is fine The problem is - he wants me to sell my home and pay 20% off his mortgage with the equity then put me on the deeds to co...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryA stupid existenceua
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 13 2019 at 00:03 by justamiserableguy RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 3 2019 at 20:26

I have decided to come on this forum many months ago but I gave up quickly because I was too busy with my highschool life and I came back now due to my serious feelings if depression and anxiety. It’s going to be a long ride. If you feel bored please turn back. I don’t want to waste anybody’s time with my insecurities unless they identify themselves in my stiuation or want to put a good...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy life goals contradict each other! I'm depressed without each of them
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 10 2019 at 23:27 by GaiaGoddess RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 23 2019 at 11:37

My 2 biggest goals in life are completely opposite of each other and cannot exist at the same time. I have just realized this, and it makes sense now why I have been stuck and unhappy. Whenever I have one, I am unhappy because I don't have the other! But they are both equally important to me, so I don't know how to choose! I have been trying to find a way to have both of them but I haven...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy problem
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 10 2019 at 12:09 by ilovered RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 23 2019 at 11:37

Have you ever had a problem that you are afraid to tell your parents because you don't want to make them feel sad? I'm 16 and when you'll see me in personal, maybe you will mistook me for someone in her 20s or 30s. My problem is I look old for my age, as people say. You may be thinking "Nah she's overreacting" but even me, I am also confused why I am hurt when my clas...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed to get to the bottom of my own problems and depression
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 3 2019 at 23:31 by Lifegoeson RESPONDENTS: Hooo! / Soulmate LAST POST: Aug 6 2019 at 18:15

Hi all. I've never spoke about my issues to any one before, years of seeing councilors, I've physiqually can't get the words out .. however I have now discovered I am able to put my problems into writting. I'm just turned 32, I have my own property, good job, savings, and a newly loving partner.. say that to anyone and they will tell you that your on top of the world in a gr...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI’m wondering if my friends aren’t genuinely my friends
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 26 2019 at 00:30 by anxxious RESPONDENTS: Hooo! / susiedqq / lily31 LAST POST: Jul 2 2019 at 16:21

alright, i have 3 friends. every time i hang out with them, it’s really fun, even if it’s only with 1 or 2 of the friends. however, i really dislike thinking about spending time with them. it’s like taking a shower. i hate the thought of going out with them, but then i feel just fine once i'm there. i’ve always been a fourth wheel though. we’d always make jokes about me and my pe...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy weird situation when I like a girl
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 8 2019 at 22:00 by HenkPostmuts RESPONDENTS: Hooo! / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 23 2019 at 13:00

Hello guys, I live a happy life and I am a very optimistic person, but every time this happens I get depressed. When I see or meet a girl and I like her then my life gets a mess. Then I just get tired, depressed and obsessed with this girl so easily. I can’t stop thinking about her and I am a big overthinker so I get really tired about myself. When I forget this girl after a few weeks...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryToxic friend? Need advice
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 4 2019 at 14:36 by jwallace1783 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Tiredoflife LAST POST: Jun 5 2019 at 13:50

I need some advice from this community. This story can be very long, but in a nutshell I have a friend who historically I feel takes advantage of me. I have been friends with her for around 7 years and throughout that duration, I have found out stuff she has said about me behind my back, have witnessed firsthand nasty texts she has sent about me(she showed me by accidentally on her phone), and jus...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling rejected
[6 POSTS] CREATED: May 24 2019 at 21:59 by Donz RESPONDENTS: Hooo! / lily31 / wanderlust7 LAST POST: Jun 5 2019 at 22:32

I've been dating this guy for 3 months. Nothing too serious but we enjoy each other's company. Unfortunately his mother died 3 weeks ago and since then he hasn't been replying to my texts. I sent him a final text telling him I understood what he's going through but I felt sad and rejected and i want to offer him my support . He replied a day later saying hes sorry i feel that w...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do I make up for hiding my engagement from my best friends
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 20 2019 at 18:38 by Emoji7Unaware RESPONDENTS: lily31 / Hooo! LAST POST: May 24 2019 at 13:37

I've been best friends for more than a decade with two people from school (let's call them Jane and Lara). We've been single since about 5 years (all three of us) and have always spoken about taking the future slow. About 6 months ago, I started talking to a guy and got into a long distance relationship. Things really clicked (and I mean Really) and we started discussing about s...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryYou can't help everyone
[1 POST] CREATED: May 17 2019 at 01:59 by ImTooNice RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: May 19 2019 at 06:40

All I tend to do is help people, even when they dont want help. Because I care for them. But hes a grown man, hes going to have to figure it out on his own, right? Background: a guy I care about deeply is in trouble. And I always try to help him out. Ive given him money, helped his family out, I do everything for him. Well as much as I can. But he has to be the one to help himself. I basicall...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryBreakdown of my family
[1 POST] CREATED: May 16 2019 at 11:52 by Nikola RESPONDENTS: Hooo! LAST POST: May 24 2019 at 12:08

Really long post I’m sorry, but I have no other unexhausted outlets So I’m on here looking for some advice about something that’s been going on for a couple of years now, and escalated to a point where I don’t know what to do. Also wondering if anyone else has been in this position also and how they might have dealt with it. So for starters it’s about my relationship with my parents. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI think my marriage is beyond saving/repair...
[2 POSTS] CREATED: May 5 2019 at 22:13 by Mr. Priest RESPONDENTS: Altreal / susiedqq LAST POST: May 6 2019 at 13:30

Hello everyone. This is my first post (and, if the dynamic of this site proves to be positive/supportive enough, it may not be my last) and as titled; my marriage is on very, very weak ground and the fault for it being that way is mine and mine alone. The lady I married is someone I've known for better than 30 years. We were close friends all throughout high school and long after. Ther...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhen you allowed yourself to be the victim but people just see ugly things
[1 POST] CREATED: May 3 2019 at 06:36 by Pixie7519 RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: May 3 2019 at 12:32

My problem where to begin I have alot of childhood trauma and I never got away from putting myself in a victim stance and so anything I did trying to stick up for myself just went haywire I would go way passed sticking up for myself I had to hurt the other person and I am old I have made everyone I know dislike something about me and I talk to much because its a nervous tick at this point I was to...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling low and friendship issues
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 27 2019 at 17:04 by 2Emagine RESPONDENTS: Supersarah LAST POST: Apr 29 2019 at 14:44

Hi,. For about 15 years I had no friends. Not really by choice...just life I guess. Was feeling really lonely and for the last two years I have met new people and we are in touch quite often. During the 15 years, I also didn't celebrate my birthday...which is by principle fine with me because I am a Christian and don't really believe in celebrating birthdays (unless it's someone e...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryReally stressed
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 21 2019 at 20:04 by bassett RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Apr 26 2019 at 11:59

Iam 55 black male and married to my Irish wife for 20 years when i met my wife i had a daughter from a previous relationship and my wife already have a boy and girl. at the start our relationship was very rocky i was working full time and my wife stays home and look after the kids my up bringing without mother or father was miserable one father turns up in my life when i was 14 and he makes my lif...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow can I get rid of this jealous feeling, and stop feeling like a bad friend?
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 15 2019 at 00:01 by hunter.da.hammah RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 15 2019 at 01:17

I'm 16, 11th grade. OK, there's a girl I've liked since like 9th grade. I asked her out and she said no, so I was like "alright fine whatever, your loss". Then I see her with one of my good friends I've known long time (since like 1st grade), and got super jealous. For some reason I kept picturing him banging her after prom (and her moaning at him) whenever I'd s...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMessed up friendship
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 8 2019 at 15:36 by Neal RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Apr 10 2019 at 04:18

Hey! I dont know where to start ! Let me start by simply stating the problem. I have a very messed up friendship with the guy who is my 'best friend'. My friend ( i am gonna refer to him as peter since i am neal) and I are in the 4th semester of our college. Peter used to excel in studies till high school but lost his way somewhere and he barely managed to pass the first semes...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI am going mad behind the wrong person. Can't control myself
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 2 2019 at 13:49 by Reverse _Flash RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Apr 3 2019 at 20:41

8 months ago I became friends with this girl in college. I thought she was pretty cool and we had a lot of similarities. We became quite close and used to share details of our life. I was really having fun with spending time with her. (We had to do a project together so used to spend a lot of time together). She would constantly cry about all her problems in life and I was there to listen to all o...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryEmotionally and physically drained
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 30 2019 at 22:08 by 2Emagine RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Mar 31 2019 at 12:47

About 4 years ago I was living with my emotionally abusive mother (passive aggressive and I believe a covert narcissist). Things were intense between us and I was in no contact with my father for over 6 years up until my mother 'conveniently' arranged a reunion without my consent, which was incredibly stressful and I feel she disrespected me and disregarded my feelings and boundaries. Sh...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryBacking out of trip last minute
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 29 2019 at 11:37 by reggie RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 29 2019 at 11:55

I had plans to go away for a bachorelet party for my future sister in law. We were suppose to leave on 2 weeks. Well since we booked my husband was arrested for not paying taxes in the past when he owned a business. He was let out and has to go back to figure out a deal. But he could technically go to jail he cant agree to the terms they give him. Then my other sister in law the only other person ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryGot myself in a bit of a sticky situation
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 27 2019 at 09:33 by rhightthenfred RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 29 2019 at 06:58

Hi there everyone, I was wondering if anyone could help me. Basically, I have this friend who we should call A, who don't get me wrong, I love to death. I have known her basically all of my life (we went to Primary school together) but we have only really got close in the last couple of years. I would describe her as lovely, but also very, very controlling, and she get's stressed ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAdvice on a birthday present after not speaking
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 25 2019 at 06:16 by david273 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 25 2019 at 21:02

So I have a family where’s nothing ever seems to Ben simple. Since my 10th birthday in 2001, I lived with my dad and stepmam (until I move down to uni in 2011, and then dor a few month after leaving uni and getting my own place). I have two blood siblings, one half and one full, both through my real mam. Due to stuff that went on (while in her care and afterwards), I never spoke to my real mam, ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryNever met my grandparents
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 21 2019 at 22:31 by lost_soul RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 22 2019 at 00:38

So I have a bit of a long story but i will try to make it short. I was born in Korea and moved to the states with my parents and sister when I was nine years old. I was told all my grandparents were passed away before i was born. In my late 20's my parents blew up my world and told me that my dad's mother was still alive and in Korea. Now, what I knew was that my dad's f...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat is wrong with me?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 20 2019 at 08:41 by Altreal RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Mar 21 2019 at 22:37

This is probably going to be long-winded, but right now I have some issues again and I'm processing them and trying to figure out what the main points are. So I've posted on here over the last few years about some of my problems. In particular for this post, I've previously mentioned my depression, my difficult time with meeting women, and the single mother I dated last year. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIdk
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 9 2019 at 10:24 by Space RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Tranquility / Shrimpo LAST POST: Mar 10 2019 at 22:15

So, this is my first time doing something like this. I'm kind of scared honestly, getting all of this out into the open. I'll start off by saying that i'm 18 years old. I live with my mother (44) and my sister (17). There's no one i can talk to about this kind of stuff here, besides maybe one person but I don't see them enough to want to go into details. I don't know ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to deal with all these emotions?
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 5 2019 at 15:53 by Reverse _Flash RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Mar 7 2019 at 08:38

So there is this girl who I got to know around 6 months ago. We had to do a group project. She was in my class since last 2 years but we barely knew each other. So we became good friends during the project. I got to know her a lot. She would share her life problems with me and I would help her out. I would go out of my way to help her. I used to write her huge texts to help her about the situation...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI found out that I am pregnant
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 27 2019 at 03:10 by skwizhy11 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 28 2019 at 14:54

I’m encountering a stressful problem right now. Don’t know what to do! I am pregnant and I don’t know how to tell my mom. I know that she will get angry and might cry, I don’t want to hurt her. And to my boyfriend, he accepts my pregnancy, but he’s stressful too right now coz’ he don’t know how to get enough money to support my pregnancy. That’s our problem right now. We’re not e...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryOr so im told ........
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 24 2019 at 23:44 by Aaron RESPONDENTS: Supersarah LAST POST: Mar 8 2019 at 17:46

hello there , let me begin by saying that i’m just trying to off load a forever filling mind and i’m not trying to change the way you are in anyway , after all its my interaction with other people thats changed me. Its about problems i’ve experienced and i’m sure you have ,and if you find time to express them you should , i wanna tell you about one problem in particular but its a difficu...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryLeaving my emotionally dominating partner is proving harder than I thought
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 21 2019 at 12:39 by mr_johnso RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 21 2019 at 20:53

Hello all, I think this might be the first time i have used a forum of any kind or gone to seek advice from an online community, so hey here goes! I am a straight male and have been with my partner for about 2.5 years. I want to avoid making a character assassination as nobody is perfect and we all have our baggage. She is generous, kind and thoughtful, very socially outgoing/confident and d...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryPTSD
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 15 2019 at 05:20 by Young&CareFree95 RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 15 2019 at 21:18

I used to serve in the military went on operations in a combat zone, as a result suffered PTSD, severe depression, Anxiety OCD and a few other mental health problems as a result, attempted suicide when I first developed them problems, lost my job in the military because of it, got help now 4 years later I’m slipping back into serious problems with PTSD ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryCompletely lost and alone - how can I start over?
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 10 2019 at 07:49 by NowWhat RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 19 2019 at 22:40

Okay so I started to write this post and once I hit 1000 characters realized that probably nobody wants to hear all that. So here’s the short version. After 3 long term (7+ years) relationships that ended in my partner being unfaithful to me I realized that I am just a completely lost person. I am the type of guy that puts everything on hold for his woman and now that I have been cheated on a...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFamily problems
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 2 2019 at 07:10 by Roserose RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 3 2019 at 14:14

In 1998 I purchased my mothers house because I was living with her at the time, I've paid the insurance and taxes all these years. Over the years my brother came and went he would always come and stay at Mom's when he got evicted or got out of jail, he never paid for a thing and borrowed money which was never paid back. In 2015 Mom went into a nursing home and passed a year later. My ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFlashback of my partner's infidelity
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 27 2019 at 02:35 by Bluealgae RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / LiL'Lady LAST POST: Jan 30 2019 at 03:00

I was wondering to myself if I am the only one who experienced being deceived by my partner. We're married for 6 years, we have kids but in the mid years of our marriage my partner cheated me twice. I just recently knew that a one night stand happened between my partner with the unknown stranger. It really hurts than being caught with all the recorded flirting conversation with other person...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI feel like a fuck up
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 25 2019 at 17:16 by Jsmith724 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 1 2019 at 13:20

This has been a trying week. I totaled my car on Monday... in an accident that was my fault and issued a ticket (no one was hurt). I cannot find my title for the vehicle and insurance (my car got totaled 5 years ago) . My wife has said about 10 words to me since the accident. To cap my week off I made it to a final round of interviews for my dream job and did not get it. I feel like such a fuck up...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryGoing no contact with toxic mother
[41 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 24 2019 at 16:37 by Isobel RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Apr 14 2019 at 16:15

Hello I've posted once or twice on here before about my relationship with my mother. 3 months ago I cut all contact with her, after our last meeting didn't go well. I couldn't face seeing her every 6-8 weeks. It was for one day only, but it left me in termoil for days after, whilst she went home happy, thinking everything was ok. I have found it exstreamly infuriating t...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIn love with best friend while being married to hubby
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 18 2019 at 05:31 by Catcat RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 18 2019 at 15:53

My hubby and i have been married for the last 15 years together for 25,Recently he has been verbally abusive to me.Im feeling as though im not in love with him anymore.But i do care about him ive asked if he would go to counseling with me.Thats a plain no then he acts like its a joke.Personally im tired of it all on the other hand i have a best friend ive fallen back in love with ive known him for...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't want to go on holiday with my friend anymore but don't know how to tell
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 14 2019 at 17:43 by girlygo RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Jan 15 2019 at 10:24

About 4 months ago I agreed to go on a holiday for a week abroad with a group of friends. I say friends but really, one person is my friend who I've known for over 10 years and the other 4 are more acquaintances (2 are a couple). I've been 3 times abroad as a group before with my friend and different people. However over the last year I feel our friendship has drifted somewhat, mainly be...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm depressed and I need help
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 13 2019 at 20:42 by Wrong_feelings RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Geliomimusie / Casper_ LAST POST: Jan 26 2019 at 04:04

I'm sleepy but I can't sleep. I'm hungry but dont have an appetite. I'm crying but I dont know why. I'm laughing but I'm not happy. For a few months now, I have been experiencing these things and I dont really know whats happening to me. For a moment I'm goofy and laughing but whenever I'm alone, I cry and feel really really sad. I think I...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling resentment and frustration about a needy lying sibling
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 12 2019 at 16:04 by Sunflower RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 14 2019 at 19:15

I have a 51 yr old sister who has manipulated and lied her way thru my parent's bank account since we were teens. Sitting back and watching it has made me want to be as opposite as possible from her so I am very self sufficient and ask for nothing as it should be at the age of 49 and actually have been this way since my early teens. My parents are constantly rescuing her and dumping their sav...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryVery hurt and confused about a close friend’s sudden behaviour
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 9 2019 at 07:50 by Hurtandconfused RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 9 2019 at 14:13

I met J four years ago at work. We work in the same building with different companies. I kind of guessed he was attracted to me by the way he acted but he never said anything until about three years ago when we went out for drinks together. I’m wasn’t in the right frame of mind at that time, so I told him no. We did become good and close friends and he confided a lot of things to me and we wen...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIs this the right thing to do?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 8 2019 at 08:42 by sadtimesinmycar RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 9 2019 at 17:19

So recently my girlfriend broke up with me. The worst part has to be if her life wasn’t as bad as it is right now, it’s my belief, we would still be happily together. She has a lot on her plate right now, supporting both her and her mother on a $10per hour job, working full time, in an extremely social environment, all while she has terrible social anxiety that she doesn’t want to medicate. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryGirl from the past that I can't get out of my mind
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 29 2018 at 19:15 by Rikka RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Jan 2 2019 at 07:25

Hi everybody! I have a problem with myself and my emotions. It's all about one particular girl - She was my very first love and it was over 9 years ago. Our paths split up when we broke up (but we were friends tho) and later on I got in another relationship. Still, we were contacting and we were pretty good friends - she was a person that knew me better than anybody else in the world. We w...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAnxiety growing stronger, lonelyness getting too much
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 29 2018 at 00:00 by Fox RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Jan 2 2019 at 16:38

Hi all, first post here, hopefully someone can help me, or at least aid me in my journey... Okay so, I'm going to break my explanation down into smaller chunks to make my rant easier to follow. First up, my situation: 20YO Male, living in (very) small town, love technology and a few nerdy things here and there. Just finished college ~5/6 months ago, have 9-5 job as an IT technician....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI need help! I am destroying myself for a person
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 27 2018 at 16:20 by qwe1232 RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Dec 29 2018 at 15:26

This year has been a disaster. I have lost many family members. My cousin died in february. I had a friend who was very rude to me, she used me to get good grades, she used to say negative stuff to me such as if i am putting on makeup she would say you are looking like an aunty. She used to comment on everything. in january I stopped talking to her for 2 weeks but I immediately realised that what ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I wrong for what I am doing?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 27 2018 at 06:12 by AjiaLeigh RESPONDENTS: MamaBear / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Dec 29 2018 at 06:35

So I have this male friend and we just recently started talking online via social media and via text. He is my ex's old boss and we have been friends on FB for awhile (even while I was with my ex). I kept him updated on my ex during his deployment. Then we broke up and we talked about what went wrong and how he was rooting for us to get back together and make it work. We did and then a year l...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI feel lost
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 26 2018 at 19:45 by foxlayer RESPONDENTS: Altreal / susiedqq LAST POST: Jan 5 2019 at 20:03

I'm currently 16 years old and my life has not been forgiving, especially these past few months. Me, my parents and my brother have always been a dysfunctional family, I understand this is personal but just to clarify, my brother was born with a disorder I won't go into and it's ruined his entire life which has caused a chain reaction for us. My parents are constantly depressed and ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryObese and depressed - life falling apart
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 22 2018 at 22:08 by Dalia_dr RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 23 2018 at 05:14

I’m 23, turning 24 in a few months. I’m 1,62 weighing 78kg. Sad. But that has not always been the case. Flashback to when I was 17 and 50 kg back then. I was very happy with my body and full of confidence. I used to enjoy going out a lot, socialising, getting dressed in sexy clothes and feeling gorgeous. I used to take extreme care of what I ate. I was actually 42kg when I was 16 and very sk...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMental pain, not so depressed
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 22 2018 at 11:55 by Kenny RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / Papa LAST POST: Dec 26 2018 at 03:02

I have mental pain, sorrow, is just painful, starting thinking Dark. Worrying thinking about the future. I am not sick, just need support. Man 47...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow should I stop stalking my crush ?
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 19 2018 at 08:45 by Reverse _Flash RESPONDENTS: Altreal / MamaBear / Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 25 2018 at 05:58

Is it normal that I social-media stalk my crush ? She is a really good friend of mine but I have more feelings for her. Sometimes I stalk her on insta, I see what kind of posts he likes and try to conclude something or sometimes I see when is she online on whatsapp. And sometimes I get really mad and see which of her male friends are online at that time to try to figure out who is she talking to. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIn a state of shock. Not sure what to make of it.
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 14 2018 at 18:49 by Sparkle23 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Altreal LAST POST: Dec 17 2018 at 01:07

I need some advise, or even just a opinion. I was with someone for almost ten years. We broke up about three months ago. I haven't really had any closer. We don't have any kid's together, but we do have a dog , and i have plans to come and get him. The thing is, i have been heartbroken over him, and i never had any full closer. We have talked a few times over face book., and I had t...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeel like quitting...
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 14 2018 at 16:03 by done_with_life RESPONDENTS: Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 24 2018 at 11:29

Hi, I am a 21 year old girl. I was physically and mentally abused for 19 years of my life. Maybe because I was a annoying, loser kid. I had a lot of anger at my abusive parents. I agree they have helped me financially, paying for my education and I thank them for that (and the continuous taunts they provide me with, regarding the money they wasted). I did my mistakes too, getting average/less m...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAre there more like me? Mother died young, never got along with father's gf
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Dec 14 2018 at 13:50 by Unanchored RESPONDENTS: Altreal / susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Dec 24 2018 at 12:55

When I was 2, my mother died. Liver cancer. I was the oldest, with one baby brother who died shortly after being born. My father and I were together for some time after that, but when I was four, he got a new girlfriend. And it did not go well. In short, she didn't want me around. I never knew why, but I suspect she wanted my father all to herself. It led to a lot of arguments between them...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryBullying advice?
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 12 2018 at 23:31 by rhightthenfred RESPONDENTS: lily31 LAST POST: Dec 13 2018 at 09:40

Hiya everyone, I was looking for some advice. Basically, I am a University student in my 2nd year of university. I live with 3 other girls in my student house who I generally get on well with and there aren't that many arguments. I've lived with two of these girls before in my first year, and neither of them tend to, shall we say,hold back on their opinions. The other girl I haven�...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy unpleasant father in law
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 10 2018 at 22:28 by anon2121 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Dec 12 2018 at 17:46

This weekend I am supposed to be visiting my in-laws as an early Christmas (we're spending Christmas with my parents). MIL and FIL are divorced, and FIL gets very offended if we don't exactly spend the same amount of time with him as we do with MIL. But, he is a very unpleasant person to be around (MIL is delightful, and there's no way I'd ever go back to their village if it wa...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp with relationship
[1 POST] CREATED: Dec 2 2018 at 00:02 by Confused62174 RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Dec 6 2018 at 16:14

I am wondering if anyone can help me with some relationship advice? I am a lesbian and I have been with my wife for around 2 years. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHi Soulmate, remember me? CREATED: Nov 22 2018 at 23:13 by Nanana LAST POST: Nov 22 2018 at 23:30

Hi soulmate, It took me over 2 years to come back as you can see (just checked my thread from 2016-your msg was the last one except ofc the girl who started Posting about her Problem in my thread - Not trying to be an a*hole here-). Sorry for just disappearing on you. I wanted to give you an Update, thats only if you are interested,Well im going to Post it anyway :P (hope you are tho, y...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow do i do it
[1 POST] CREATED: Nov 14 2018 at 19:02 by beingme47 RESPONDENTS: MamaBear LAST POST: Nov 14 2018 at 21:02

sorry for no capitals my caps lock isn't working. i am a mother to two daughters and one son whom is disabled.i am a full time carer for my son so much of my time is looking after him. my two daughters have gone through a rough time with coping with this when young they are now 22 years old and 23 years old. they blame me for their depression and say they don't want to speak to me agai...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling guilty about cutting someone out of my life
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 12 2018 at 12:28 by Sre12 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soccer121 / Skinnygirl2 / Christy LAST POST: Nov 19 2018 at 16:02

I'm in such a dilemma. I was in a relationship with someone who had been my best friend for years. We were really close and I fell in love. However, about a year ago she ended it and I was heartbroken, but we remained friends. She's in a relationship now and is planning on having a baby soon. But she still wants me to go round and see her and still be friends, but I just feel weird ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categorySolo travel failure, how do I face my family?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Nov 5 2018 at 18:05 by Sasano RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Nov 7 2018 at 00:36

I arrived in Auckland a few days ago. This trip has been planned for around 9 months after I dropped out of year 13 for mental issues. I was supposed to get a job and a place to staY, and stay here for around 6 months to a year but on arriving at the hostel I knew I had made a huge mistake. I realised that I am nowhere near mentally ready to do this on my own and only did this trip to prove I wasn...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to handle this?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 16 2018 at 13:59 by Isobel RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Supersarah LAST POST: Oct 18 2018 at 14:32

Hello, This week my mother is traveling down to visit me and my baby. We have had an estranged relationship since my wedding, where she tried to control every aspect of it and was exstreamly horrible throughout. Not just me, my husband and other family members too. My husband and I stopped contact after my wedding for well over a year. Then I fell pregnant, I felt the decent thing to do was to...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy brother despises me
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 13 2018 at 14:15 by catty RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 16 2018 at 22:04

My brother is six years older than me and he acts like I don’t exist, I’m now 37 and can’t understand why he acts this way. He is now successfully influencing my parents and family so that everybody is mean to me. He thinks it’s the only way I’m going to ‘learn’ how hard life is. I think he holds some resentment regarding me and the way my parents treat me. He thinks my parents ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeelings too strong
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 12 2018 at 22:56 by ali312 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 18 2018 at 21:16

I've known this boy for a year last month and as soon as we met we just clicked. He became my best friend we spoke day and night and whenever I felt bad he was there. I had a few relationships through the year but I knew deep down that I always had feelings for him. we both finally admitted it and on march 7th we eventually got together.Three motnhs later we broke up amd it complelty ruined m...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryPlaying with feelings
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 11 2018 at 09:16 by andy420 RESPONDENTS: Supersarah LAST POST: Oct 19 2018 at 08:30

Hello well i have a problem i was dating my gf for one year and half we were together since april 2017 well last month we had a fight and we broke up and my bestfriend at that time started to hang out more with her then ussual so i asked my friends about and i find out that they are dating like since we broke up..but later when i became suicidal she said she will come back she said that she wants ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow to get out of a stressful household
[1 POST] CREATED: Oct 8 2018 at 09:16 by Anonymous79 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 9 2018 at 03:58

Hi, I have been having issues with my bfs family and he has been super stressed out by them and his work. We are both still living with our parents as my bfs job doesnt pay enough and I'm still in college. My bf hasn't had the best life. His biological father walked out as soon as he found out his mom was pregnant, then his mother married his current dad who was formally addicted to drug...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy brother in law is a compulsive liar and a psychopath. Help!
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 4 2018 at 19:31 by catty RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 12 2018 at 12:51

My brother in law is crazy and I need your kind advice on how to deal with him. Both my husband and his parents are in complete denial though, which means I am in a position where I need to see him every so often and socialize with him. The first night I met him, he punched my husband, who can't harm a fly, and his girlfriend tried to hit me when I tried to intervene. This was my first im...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDepressed and need a way out
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Oct 2 2018 at 16:43 by Saya RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / SinkingFeeling LAST POST: Oct 20 2018 at 04:27

Hi. So here's the thing. I am suffering from depression since 4 years. But what I don't understand is that sometimes I feel so happy and motivated. I feel like I wanna do something with my life. And then sometimes I feel the exact opposite. Like I want to just give up and I feel like my life has been ruined and scarred. Like I am worthless and I shouldn't waste my time here. I don&#...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryLiking a flatmate who doesn’t like me back
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 26 2018 at 06:19 by MM12 RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Oct 6 2018 at 12:39

Hi everyone, I’m new here and just really need to talk about my problem as I feel like I have no where else to go. I started university 3 weeks ago and had to move into the university’s on-campus residence. I have 5 other flatmates (4 boys and 1 girl). Sometime during the first week we all went out and I kissed the girl who is my flatmate and when we got back we kissed some but we had to di...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryProblems with myself keep piling up, and might need help sorting things out
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 23 2018 at 13:38 by Someonesomewhere RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / lily31 LAST POST: Sep 24 2018 at 14:47

Last 3 or so years have been emotion full. Joy, confusion and anger for most. My grades are falling. My anger has increased to that point i drink more than ever and use drugs(smoke green lady aka mariuana) to relax and not just beat someone up from anger. Problems started when i finished my school. My brother(now 17 i guess) me 18 rn. We drank. My friend had this girl. She now is 20. So my bro...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDeciding on what to do next with my life
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 21 2018 at 03:33 by Altreal RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 21 2018 at 12:35

Almost a decade ago I moved away from home and started a new life out of state. I had little interest in staying in my hometown, had no real friends there, and there wasn't much opportunity or much to do there. Initially I moved because I was dating someone from around here, but after that ended three years ago I continued to stay mostly for some independence and because I made some friends...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryEmotions
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 20 2018 at 23:13 by Angie1945 RESPONDENTS: Trying2BOptomistic LAST POST: Sep 22 2018 at 15:20

Hi guys right now I’m going through some hard situations and my emotions are every where. I try to explain to partner why I’m feeling a certain way but it just turns into us arguing and honestly makes me want to shut down. I honestly don’t know how to handle it anymore except to distant myself. ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm very upset that my ex girlfriend got pregnant by her new boyfriend
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 13 2018 at 18:52 by HEARorSEE RESPONDENTS: lily31 / Altreal LAST POST: Sep 14 2018 at 06:01

How do I deal with this pain? Me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up about 6 months ago. A month after we broke up, she started a new guy. After dating him for about 3 months, she got pregnant with his baby. It's been really painful for me. I get unsettled and frustrated whenever I see my ex girlfriend's photos on Facebook with her boyfriend and pictures of the ultrasound of their ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAfraid to talk to people I care about. Could really use some help here
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 8 2018 at 17:51 by Candy76 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Altreal LAST POST: Sep 9 2018 at 07:45

First i suffer from bad anxity. and right now, it is at about a 12. I feel i can't talk to anyone in my family about anything. and worst yet, i have found out, that pretty much i am on my own.. I have went through a very bad breakup, and have been at my daughters for the past few weeks. with no phone, and no way to contact anyone. I can't even express how i am even feeling. When everythi...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI’m only with my boyfriend so he doesn’t commit suicide
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 6 2018 at 22:12 by Vivian RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Soulmate LAST POST: Sep 9 2018 at 22:37

I’ve been with my boyrfriend for a few months now and I was so happy in the first few but now not so much. He is a very dependant person and so am I but I do not show that side for his sake. I struggle with anxiety and depression and this relationship has been negatively affecting it. I don’t share any of this with him because he gets upset and angry quite easily so if I’m sad he’ll blame ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryStrange question
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 6 2018 at 06:02 by Conner Anderson RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Altreal / lily31 LAST POST: Sep 14 2018 at 12:04

Ok, so I have some problems to work out. Fine. That happens. I was told to seek a therapist, but a buddy of mine made a strange but valid point. This is strange, but hear me out. Therapists are expensive. Extremely so. And I have serious issues giving money to someone so they will listen. So there is a alternative. Prostitutes are cheaper than therapists, by far. And there is definitely no rule th...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling like i am stuck, very anxious, not sure what to do
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 6 2018 at 00:26 by Candy76 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 15 2018 at 11:06

I have posted a few times on this. But feeling like i am wording things wrong. I suffer from major anxity issues. So i am going to break things down. and see if anyone may have some helpful advise. First the main thing, in less then week, i am suppoed to be going to my dad's . But i really don't feel that is going to be the best option. however i feel like i am not having a choice, and...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI feel like my twenty seven years on this earth have been a complete waste
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 5 2018 at 09:52 by Starry Night RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Sep 5 2018 at 12:33

My mom had passed in May of this year, and since then, everything is tumbling down. My job has cut hours drastically, and my brother got fired. My mom left no will, so it is in probate process. My youngest and eldest sister want nothing to do with the house, but from the day that my mom died, they took over everything. My mom was an animal hoarder, six cats and 3 dogs. My brother and I were tasked...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryRejected by a younger guy and made a total fool of myself
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 5 2018 at 04:08 by MlleWanderlust RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Altreal LAST POST: Sep 9 2018 at 08:10

32 F single just was introduced to a 25 m through colleagues. The guy just moved to this town and we were getting along well. Wewere almost always hanging out at eitjer of our olaces, cooking together, warching movoes, spending nights talking without ever getting intimate or close. Since He was looking for a part time job, I offered him one in our company though he had not joined officially. He ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy old friend got molested by her dad, I told and she tried to ruin my life as well
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 2 2018 at 11:15 by Susan RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Sep 3 2018 at 03:26

My best friend of 10 years told me her dad has been molesting her and she ran away, she told me this information when she was very vunerable and i comforted her. But I started to have nightmares about it everyday, even tho i promised i wouldnt tell anyone, I had to. So I told my friend who lives in a different state about this. Well that was a mistake because she ended up telling ppl I know and ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeel like i have made a big mistake.. Not sure what to do
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Sep 2 2018 at 02:53 by Candy76 RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Sep 6 2018 at 16:32

I am having a major anxity attack. Me and the man i was seeing broke up less then a week ago, after nine years of being together.. I had done everything for him, took care of him. He promised to always have my back no matter what. Then about a week ago, he told me he was seeing someone else, and that he was bringing her to the house, so he could do his thing with her. I could find somewhere to go,...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryEmotional abuse?
[1 POST] CREATED: Sep 1 2018 at 22:15 by Joseph13456 RESPONDENTS: Susan LAST POST: Sep 2 2018 at 11:20

Over the past 5 years, I’ve been affected by my fathers attitude towards me. He’s asked me to do simple habits, such as: Close the door after a shower, put the glasses outside of your room, etc. Which can be reasonable requests at times. However, his reaction when I forget (I’m at a certain level of Dyslexia which means I’m liable to get easily distracted/lose focus), is that if anger ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryRecent breakup. Everyone expects me to just be over it, should i say how i feel?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 29 2018 at 21:46 by Candy76 RESPONDENTS: CharleyAnn LAST POST: Aug 30 2018 at 17:59

Had been with the same man for over nine years. We have been through lot together. I can't go into everything here, as it would be to long a post, but it seemed he was very confused. We had been living together and he was wanting us to be friends, and was going to be bringing the other woman into the house to do his thing with. Right now am very hurt and upset, .. But i have a bigger problem...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I leave my marriage?
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 26 2018 at 05:58 by keepittogether RESPONDENTS: Amaze0707 / Alizen LAST POST: Sep 2 2018 at 03:36

So my husband is working away.. he puts no effort into talking to me or our daughter. I even paid for an apartment so we could all move there together and now a week from moving he has stopped talking to me. What kills me is that I have been with him through thick and thin and he has done horrible things to me.. He's lied, been verbally abusive and I'm still here... Is it time to leave? ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I his plaything how do I get over him
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 25 2018 at 21:39 by Smilinthrothepain RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 26 2018 at 03:15

So I’ve been friends with this guy for over a year and everyone thinks he’s my boyfriend, he’s not tho. Just last week when I told him I wanted to meet him outside of work he told me that he doesn’t want to commit to anything and declined. So I didn’t message him at all this week when I was on a break from work and he didn’t message me. We had lunch today and I wanted to talk to him th...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI am obsessed with my best friend and other people and its killing me
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 25 2018 at 10:30 by qwe1232 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 26 2018 at 00:32

I study in the best university in the country. I worked so hard to get here. I am alot of goals that I have to achieve. But since the past 7 months I have totally become an other person. I am uneasy with new people, I doubt myself, I get angry and all of my thinking is black and white. I will like or you can say "love" a person at one moment and the second they do something not according...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDepression and me
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 23 2018 at 18:03 by Nusair RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / bunnyhabit LAST POST: Aug 30 2018 at 22:24

I am nusair.I am 17 years old.I used to study in an institution where I had a good time.But in class 7,I started to do relationships.Please don't take me wrong.I was very immature back then.I had several relationships.For which now many from school students hates me.I have become lonely.3 months back I did a relationship.Now I love him a lot.He means the world to me.I want to spend my lifetim...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWondering if I need space from my mum
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 20 2018 at 11:33 by Isobel RESPONDENTS: MamaBear / susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 21 2018 at 13:26

Hello, I need some help. I'm fed up of feeling like this. My mother is coming to visit me and my baby soon, she comes round every 6-8 weeks for about five hours, then goes home again. We have an estranged relationship because shes very controlling and manipulative. Long story short, she was awful at my wedding, she tarnished the day for my hubby and I. We stopped talking after th...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryBreak up of 7 years, I think she has moved on but I am having trouble
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 16 2018 at 13:03 by Steve0 RESPONDENTS: Smilinthrothepain / MamaBear LAST POST: Aug 20 2018 at 18:14

Hey guys, my name is Steven. I met my ex back in 2010 and started dating in 2011. We were great for the first three years, but then she dropped out of college and I remained. I am not innocent. I lived the party life, and although I didn't sleep with anyone else while we were together (nor did I get intimate with them) I still made the mistake of choosing to hang with the guys over her. She h...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling underappreciated
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 16 2018 at 04:07 by Wendi RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / bunnyhabit / MamaBear LAST POST: Aug 20 2018 at 20:04

1. I work full time and I also do a lot of household chores. 2. There are some chores I don't do (organise the clothes) because I feel it's more important to do others (ensuring the clothes are clean in the first place). I'm tired after work too and I would like some chill time. 3. My husband asked me to organise them tonight. I said ok. He complained about the inconve...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAnxious and unfulfilled
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Aug 6 2018 at 23:45 by rLoper RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Aug 7 2018 at 21:05

Before anything,I would just want you to know how grateful I would be if you read all of this because it really is a big thing to me, thank you in advance! Hello, a few weeks ago I had a problem with my breakup and I though that the lack of love was the cause of my depression, lack of motivation and unfulfillment in general. The thing is that I listened to your advice and tried to be happy wi...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't know who I am
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 31 2018 at 13:54 by Maisie RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq / Altreal / Merci LAST POST: Aug 11 2018 at 01:16

Hello, I'm female, in my mid twenties. I came out of counselling recently, as it felt like I had done all the talking I could and I needed to move on with my life positively. It's been a few weeks but I still feel lost and depressed. So I'm turning here for some advice and to put things into prospective. I've been in and out of counselling since a teenager. I am an e...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryExperiencing anxiety because a friend
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 27 2018 at 20:49 by hhk8798 RESPONDENTS: lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 27 2018 at 23:52

2 weeks ago I posted my problem regarding my best friend. I stopped talking to her because she was rude to me, she belittled me, interrupted me and never ever accepted her mistakes, she told me that I use makeup and that she doesn’t but then asks me to put makeup on her face. But after a month I realized that I was not right, I said sorry to her but did not tell her exactly why I had stopped tal...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryRelationship troubles, don't feel comfortable telling anybody but need advice
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 24 2018 at 10:18 by Amandacee RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 24 2018 at 20:40

So in October of 2017, my best friend died and it made me pretty depressed and I broke up with my boyfriend because I went through a "I wanna live my life to the fullest and be a hoe phase" it lasted like a month then my ex and I agreed to be friends with benefits because i was unsure of my feelings for him, so then decided to run away and enlist in the marines. (As months went by we wer...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDepressed and reaching out
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 20 2018 at 11:51 by Saya RESPONDENTS: Shauna LAST POST: Jul 20 2018 at 13:12

Okay, 4 years ago I left all my friends because I had to shit to another place due to my dad's work. The new place was very different from the one I was used to. In my new school, everyone hated me because I was from a different city and I was different from all of them. The teachers would scold and embaress me whenever they could, all the students made fun of me. I hated that place. Afte...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI can't handle it anymore... I am dying
[1 POST] CREATED: Jul 20 2018 at 06:58 by Avaix RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 22 2018 at 01:53

I am a boy 18 years old.I have a problem which you can think as weird. When I was 11 years old.I was very depressed.My parents were quarrelling everyday. One day,I asked my little brother(7 yrs) to show his private parts and we touched each other genitals.We also played doctor patient game. After 2 or 3 months,we were caught by our father.Since then we stopped doing this. But after that we wer...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI am depressed and can't find enjoyment
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 19 2018 at 00:45 by rLoper RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Jul 19 2018 at 14:17

Well it all started when I broke up with my gf. I am supposed to move to another country and even tho we knew eachother for only a few months we got together nicely. Her best friend kept telling me for months how she couldn't stop thinking about how will I leave and it wasn't any easier to me, that is when I started falling into depression. I became boring and I spoke less to peopl...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDepressed because of my best friend
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Jul 17 2018 at 21:35 by hhk8798 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / lily31 / Kira LAST POST: Jul 30 2018 at 11:57

So at the end of dec 2017, I stopped talking to my best friend because she used to complain alot, she was sullen and very rude to me. She doesn't give a chance to other people to explain themselves and never accepts her mistakes. So I thought my silent treatment is going to work. But sadly it didn't. I am a very sensitive person. So in mid january 2018, I realised that what i was doing w...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFriendship advice
[1 POST] CREATED: Jun 28 2018 at 22:14 by Gnu RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit LAST POST: Jun 29 2018 at 03:44

I share a flat with two roommates. I was good friends with one of them before and I knew the other slightly before moving in. My friend, and now roommate, has a huge need for spending time alone. Before I moved in we saw each other once or twice a week at most but the time we spent together was good quality time. Since I moved in we see each other while eating dinner and such but the quality t...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMixed signals
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Jun 26 2018 at 17:29 by carrottop RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / susiedqq LAST POST: Jun 27 2018 at 14:30

I had a relationship about 15 years ago with a man I will call John. We were both married at the time and it ended when I was the one that ended it. 15 years later I looked him up on facebook a few months ago and was shocked what I saw. He is now in a relationship and has been for about 3 years. The woman resembles me and he has posted so many pictures and comments that are related to me. I know...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryUnhappy housemate
[4 POSTS] CREATED: May 31 2018 at 20:33 by Amister RESPONDENTS: NewLife12345 / susiedqq / Merci LAST POST: Jun 29 2018 at 20:11

Hello, 2 months ago my ex boyfriend broke up with me after not long moving in together. I wanted to stay where we lived but needed to get a housemate to help cover the rent. I ended up renting the room out to a girl, around my age, who seemed nice enough. On the day she came to view the house, she came along with her parents, who asked me lots of questions about myself, to the point it felt li...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy is being an adult so hard?
[11 POSTS] CREATED: May 20 2018 at 19:13 by Wrong_feelings RESPONDENTS: Used / susiedqq / NewLife12345 LAST POST: May 27 2018 at 13:35

When I was in highschool, I was feeling really lost because I didn't know what I wanted to do in life or what course I wanted in college. Graduation was only a few months away. My classmates already knew what they wanted so I was feeling more pressured. Fastforward to years later, I graduated college with a bachelor's degree in IT. Contrary to my highschool graduation, I knew what I...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhich brother is the dad?? Please help with DNA results
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 20 2018 at 02:48 by StarGlitter RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: May 20 2018 at 15:38

I'm hoping that someone can help me with this issue. I'm embarrassed with this but here goes.. Okay...my daughter's father passed away several years ago. I decided to finally have a DNA test done on her and her dad's brother. They call it an Avuncular test. Well...the results came back with his brother looking more like the father. The relatedness index was over 1,000. They sha...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI feel like my small group leader dislikes me
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 17 2018 at 00:07 by ashlash12 RESPONDENTS: NewLife12345 / susiedqq / MamaBear LAST POST: May 22 2018 at 19:41

I feel like my small group leader dislikes me when I saw her at church last sunday and said hi she just waved and said good morning in reply to me saying hi instead of saying hi back. What does that mean when someone says good morning in reply to me saying hi? Also after service I walked towards her but she just left. Also at the end of small group when the taxi comes early and people are socia...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI always think everyone dislikes me
[3 POSTS] CREATED: May 7 2018 at 19:58 by Cae_TP RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Steven Bradford LAST POST: May 12 2018 at 10:54

Hello, I'm Cae from Egypt. I'm 16 years old. Let me talk a bit about myself and to give you more of an idea at the problem I'm having. Ever since I was a young child (around at 5 years old), I always have a thought that I wasn't a boy. It would come up to me in my dreams and I would love it. As if, my life would be thrice as better if I was born as a girl. I would see girls in...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHow a yeast infection destroyed me within hours
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 27 2018 at 17:37 by leafbracer RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / NewLife12345 / skinnygirl LAST POST: May 5 2018 at 16:22

On a weird subject as it may appear to some, but a very serious struggle for me at this point of my life. So yesterday I got on a treatment for a yeast infection I got probably 1-1.5 weeks ago. Let's be clear about one thing. I had no idea yeast infections even existed. I was not familiar with the symptoms, and I had no idea of how annoying and disgusting they could be (in my opinion). I ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIs it nice to be nice?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 26 2018 at 20:53 by Royal baby RESPONDENTS: Just_helping / NewLife12345 LAST POST: Apr 28 2018 at 17:20

I consider myself to be a very caring person , I often stick up for someone, never try and judge anyone, be patient, listen, I not blowing my own trumpet it's just how I am, trouble is I asked myself a while back does anyone ever show me kindness, care etc and to be honest it was a no I don't seem to have friends or colleagues who tend to be the way I am, so am I asking for people or exp...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryFeeling very left out of my friendship group
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 26 2018 at 17:52 by Royal baby RESPONDENTS: NewLife12345 / SmartOpinion / susiedqq / Steven Bradford LAST POST: May 13 2018 at 04:06

Myself and 2 other ladies have been good friends for a long time we have been through a lot together over the years , illnesses, breavement family problems has been very much something we have helped one and other through. It's been myself recently that has had the struggle I've got severe depression and anxiety I'm feeling sad that one of my friends now doesn't seem to ha...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed advice to plan ahead
[1 POST] CREATED: Apr 13 2018 at 11:32 by Robin3073 RESPONDENTS: NewLife12345 LAST POST: Apr 14 2018 at 15:25

What do I make of this? There is this man in my gym who secretly looks at me daily while working out; he also tries to use a machine near me. Although he knows quite a few people but he doesn’t speak to anyone or even look at anyone. I spoke to him about his workout about 3 days ago he was very sweet and interested. Post that we have merely greeted each other but not exchanged another word.he ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAm I bipolar?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 13 2018 at 06:30 by Sarahliz RESPONDENTS: Hextall / NewLife12345 LAST POST: Apr 14 2018 at 15:36

I would go and ask a professional about this but I simply don't have the funds for that kind of thing. I don't know what's up with me in all honesty. I can go into complete fits of absolute misery and self hatred and then come back feeling fine within a few hours. Sometimes I don't experience this at all. I'll have times where I'll go a whole day feeling normal or a w...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryAccused of staring
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 6 2018 at 07:11 by Hermione granger RESPONDENTS: NewLife12345 / Hextall LAST POST: Apr 7 2018 at 23:18

I get accused of staring whichever/where ever way I look SO I now have to walk constantly looking down to prove I'm not staring they won't leave me alone they make loud nasty comments about it to one of the main ones being were going to try get her mental health looked into Also they accuse me of being a grass because I reported bullying years ago at school still get heaps of rubbish ov...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI don't know what to do anymore
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Apr 2 2018 at 03:54 by magicman RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / NewLife12345 / Zoom / coffee cup LAST POST: Apr 4 2018 at 20:00

I'm starting this thread because I need some advice from someone that sees my current situation from a different point of view, cause' I'm stuck. I'm 18 years old and I still have one more year of highschool and I'm just lost. Please hear me out. So, a quick rundown of all that's happened in my life leading up to this point. After I was born, I had an accident(I wa...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryImmense permanent stress from upset parents
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 31 2018 at 10:09 by kon RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / NewLife12345 LAST POST: Mar 31 2018 at 15:17

In a Family of 3. Myself & my Parents. We're Asians. I am 35, parent's are at 60+. The Issue: My mom especially (dad simply agrees to her to benefit his agendas)has been unhappy with my work from Day 1 (2010), and spends daily moments either a) crying about how she can never retire b) how I am causing her to slog c) They will alwsys need to take care of me. I have been self-e...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryReally need some fuckin help
[7 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 29 2018 at 23:37 by that1chick RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / NewLife12345 / susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 30 2018 at 18:35

I have been with my now boyfriend for almost 2 years. I met him on a dating app for your phone(Tinder). Literally days before I came across his dating profile I ended a relationship with a guy i was with for about 7 months. It was a hellish relationship, i was physically abused, It reached the point I got him arrested. When I started talking to my now boyfriend I told him about what I had went thr...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI like sitting on a girl's lap
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 23 2018 at 13:56 by poppysun RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / bunnyhabit / LadyLucifer / Hextall LAST POST: Mar 27 2018 at 05:48

I like to sit on a girl's lap and cuddle. This is only because I like physical affection and I don't have any sexual motives behind it. But I am concerned that it sometimes sends out wrong signals if I express this desire directly. Please don't judge me. This just harmless desire not with the intention to hurt anyone. Any suggestions to express this desire without appearing creepy a...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryA whole lotta mess
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 22 2018 at 09:10 by ohmyfodays RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / NewLife12345 LAST POST: Mar 29 2018 at 13:44

Hi all, I'm just going to jump right in. I've been feeling down about a number of things in my life. normally i can be positive and look past them but sometimes it just gets to me. i think it'll be easier if i just list the problems. things like: - i've been unemployed for some time and i'm struggling to find work - i get anxious about lots of things e.g. i'm doi...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryIn love with my best friend..
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 20 2018 at 06:15 by Rabin RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Merci LAST POST: Mar 23 2018 at 06:27

Hi All, hope all is going good. Need little advise from everyone here coz I am in a mess. I am in love with this girl who happens to be my best friend from past 12 years and now she is my roommate. I was so stupid and blind in her love that I agreed to move with her hoping that she will also fall for me but i was wrong. Also let me tell you she already know that I like her from the beginning. Also...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI can’t let her go, even though I know it’s for the best
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 19 2018 at 07:39 by Tigers44 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / magicman LAST POST: Apr 2 2018 at 20:54

Well the title gives you a brief overview of my situation... I want to put my situation out for the world to see it and let the anonymity of the internet protect me. I figure sharing it with others is the first step in healing this wound. For the sake of everyone staying nameless, let’s call her A (first letter in her name). So I first starting talking to A when I was a freshman in high ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI'm invested
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 16 2018 at 02:27 by Alwaysimproving86 RESPONDENTS: bunnyhabit / Hextall LAST POST: Mar 16 2018 at 09:04

I’m in need of help, advice, or stories of people who have been through this situation or have more of a better understanding than I do. My girlfriend has ADD, Anxiety and depression. Long story short I’m beginning to lose my patience and I’m overwhelmed on what I should do as far as some things. I’ve done research on how these affect her and how I can understand. I do understand and want ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryDisappointing friend
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 14 2018 at 21:07 by shlomi4446 RESPONDENTS: Altreal / susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 15 2018 at 15:43

I have a friend which is also a co-worker and we sit together in the office. We always have been good friends and liked to talk with each other. The problem started because she is very cynical and cold. I can tell her something nice and she answer with some very annoying and cynical words and tone, like you are idiot you said something. She makes you feel very bad for nothing. She also did things ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryA pain too deep to understand
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 9 2018 at 06:01 by Superwoman678 RESPONDENTS: Isobel LAST POST: Mar 10 2018 at 13:13

I am a survivor of sexual assualt many years ago. Recently a family member has told me that her step father tried to do something in that nature to her. I know how hurtful it can be for some one not to believe you when you confide in some one about something like this, however, her story is just not adding up and she has lied to me several times before... So being the nice person I am she is curre...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWorried about my sister
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 6 2018 at 16:58 by Emmajm RESPONDENTS: MrGold LAST POST: Mar 8 2018 at 06:13

My dad and older sister were having an argument one day and my dad let it slip that she's self harming. My sister was very angry with my dad because me and my nan heard him and she went back to her university when she was meant to stay at my nans house for longer. I dont get on with my sister at all, shes never nice to me but I'm now worried shes at her university hurting her self and sh...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryMy boyfriend is moving to another country
[5 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 5 2018 at 15:23 by Amister RESPONDENTS: MamaBear / lily31 / susiedqq LAST POST: Mar 14 2018 at 22:51

About a year ago, my boyfriends dad announced he is moving emergrating to Australia, at the time of being told my boyfriend was unhappy but grew to accept this news. In the meantime we moved into an apartment together and have been enjoying living together for almost a year. His dad is now emergrating in the next few weeks. My boyfriend has always intended on going to stay with his dad in ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI have been evicted from a friendship group
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Mar 5 2018 at 09:56 by Isobel RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Mar 6 2018 at 12:35

Hello all, Last year when I was pregnant, my husband and I decided to do a baby course. It was a real good opportunity for me to make new friends as we moved to a new area. I was so pleased when everyone in the small group, seemed lovely. There was five couple in total. We talked about our fears and shared our worries of birth and I felt the course was really benifical to me. I'm a fairl...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI need help
[1 POST] CREATED: Mar 3 2018 at 11:42 by mahassine miho RESPONDENTS: MrGold LAST POST: Mar 9 2018 at 02:20

i feel really lost. i'm constantly looking for others to give me love that i don't give to myself. i don't trust myself, i doubt without stopping. sometimes i fake my behaviours just to hide my emotions and my feelings. i'm really tired of myself, i need help. i always have a lot of pain and fear of not being loved. i can't live with that anymore.i would like to be like ot...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHaving trust issues and she saying I’m controling
[3 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 27 2018 at 17:54 by Thehatedboyfriend RESPONDENTS: Topcat1538 / MamaBear / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Mar 4 2018 at 12:59

Well main problem is I feel we don’t feel the same as before. I try to change for her and do things and I feel I get no love or anything back ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryHelp
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 27 2018 at 09:18 by djames94 RESPONDENTS: Richard B / Merci LAST POST: Mar 2 2018 at 04:11

Just feel lonely bf in prison and doesn't really want him.... ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed advice
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 26 2018 at 07:21 by kristinW RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Nature19115 LAST POST: Mar 3 2018 at 14:54

I'm 31 years old and have been married for 6 and a half years. My husband recently got a no contact order on him but might be coming home soon. I don't have a job right now and he cut me off financially. I'm worried he's going to try and kick me out of the house....

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryI think I have depression but its on and off?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 21 2018 at 00:11 by Navi.0045 RESPONDENTS: Bailey / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Feb 25 2018 at 01:26

I am 13. I think I have depression but I don't really know. I have times where I am very depressed and don't care about myself at all. I would cry at night, it the morning, when I got home from school etc. I would also feel suicidal and once I actually fantasized about my suicide. I would feel like this for about 1-2 weeks. My longest was about 3 weeks. Then, it would go away for weeks, ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryNeed help with college friends and dealing with emotions
[8 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 12 2018 at 21:21 by erikaech RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / 8Twenty8 LAST POST: Feb 19 2018 at 14:24

I am an 18 yr old college student, and I moved across the country for school. I have only made two good friends here. We were really close last semester, but this semester I feel like they have started to judge me indirectly. They are religious and constantly judge girls who sleep around, and I am not religious so I guess I've had more sexual experiences. Some days I feel like they're in...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryShould I tell them?
[4 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 9 2018 at 11:44 by Isobel RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Tulowitz LAST POST: Feb 16 2018 at 15:36

Hello, For a while now I have been wondering what to do with some information I have been given by both my parents on two separate occassions. A bit of background might help. My parents got divorced ten years ago, even though they have moved on with new partners and now live in different countries they are still bitter towards one another. For the last very three years, my relationship ...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryComplicated apology
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 6 2018 at 00:45 by Pink tiger RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 7 2018 at 18:37

A friend of mine had a party 3 months ago. I was quite drunk and a couple of days later my friend told me that a male friend of hers had been to visit saying that I had upset him at the party by something I had said but assured my friend that he was concerned that I wasn't t my usual self. Mortified I tried to phone this guy to apologise but couldn't get through so I sent an apology text...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhat to do?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 3 2018 at 03:15 by ariananicole919 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Merci LAST POST: Feb 8 2018 at 04:53

I'm posting this question in hopes that I could just get some advice. I'm in my first year of college and I live in a dorm, in the beginning of the school year I started dating a friend from high school. Everything was great but during our relationship I think I came to the realization that I was just dating him because I was lonely. We broke up about a week ago (mainly due to the fa...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryProm
[6 POSTS] CREATED: Feb 1 2018 at 17:36 by sdhfkjdkfh37249823 RESPONDENTS: susiedqq / Tulowitz / Soulmate LAST POST: Feb 2 2018 at 21:59

My bestfriend is taking the girl i love to prom. i feel bad what should i do...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryPossessive and obsessive wife
[1 POST] CREATED: Feb 1 2018 at 13:57 by Norr RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 1 2018 at 17:59

I have been married for almost 2 years to my wife, however even before we got married she started showing this side of her which she said would get better after getting married. But now, it’s only gotten worse, every day I am being accused of cheating and flirting with other women. It’s getting to the point where it’s driving me insane and thinking of leaving her. I have never cheated on her...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryReunion with an old pen pal leads to mixed messages
[1 POST] CREATED: Jan 27 2018 at 22:54 by MiniMaestro RESPONDENTS: Altreal LAST POST: Jan 30 2018 at 00:18

Hi everyone, I’ve got a cute story to share, which unfortunately ends up with me being annoyed and confused. I’m in England and nearly 20 years ago I had an American pen pal (anyone else remember MSN messenger? ;-)) and a few months ago I received an email from her, totally out of the blue. She’s living in London now and after a few days of txting each other we meet up. Very exciting! L...

Emotional advice forum category advice forum categoryWhy do I feel always rejected?
[2 POSTS] CREATED: Jan 25 2018 at 04:29 by bodie RESPONDENTS: susiedqq LAST POST: Feb 1 2018 at 18:19

I know many come with problems such as mine, but I feel like this is how my entire life will end like. There is someone I truly care for, and I thought he felt the same. We did have a small falling out before our Christmas break, but I guess that was the wrong move because now he won't even acknowledge me. Now, I know I am a bit complicated, but did that seem fair? To me, I thought he was...